I have a group of people at my job (most are cool) who keep hounding me about going out for drinks after work. Another one invited me to her birthday party she's having next month.
:udontlookok:
I'm flattered but the whole being buddy buddy thing outside of work has never really been my style.
It is cool here and there but some people dont know boundaries. This girl would call me every fucking night right after work to bitch about this dude she let smash on occasion but didnt want ha. He was a club promoter, so we would all get in the mess for free but she was always their to cock block. I just enjoyed the free drinks.
Absolutely not unless we were already friends.
Never have.
Every time it comes up I always give
:udontlookok:
Only DL men because they will keep their mouth shut.
Nah not really. I've gotten drinks with 2-3 people. It's only because they get it and we dislike the same people.
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:09:09 PM
I have a group of people at my job (most are cool) who keep hounding me about going out for drinks after work. Another one invited me to her birthday party she's having next month.
:udontlookok:
I'm flattered but the whole being buddy buddy thing outside of work has never really been my style.
When I like them, yeah.
But like Big said, boundaries are important.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
bn
:uhh:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
ggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhk
once I leave the building, it's an IDKher from me
Quote from: Kurama on February 14, 2017, 04:16:40 PM
Nah not really. I've gotten drinks with 2-3 people. It's only because they get it and we dislike the same people.
!!! I love to drag another coworker over lunch or some mess but once it's time to clock owt, ya kinda don't exist to me lol!
Quote from: Nine on February 14, 2017, 04:20:34 PM
When I like them, yeah.
But like Big said, boundaries are important.
!!!
It depends on the chemistry. I've met some of my closest friends at work.
Only with the young Black professionals. But it's a once a quarter thing.
Only if they are black tbh
We have company sponsored happy hours sometimes and I may go to one of those but other than that.
No.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
WHAT THE FUCK
Don't think I'd ever be that desperate tbh.
:hmph:
Only if one of them is leaving the company and we go out for goodbye drinks.
Apart from that no, I don't even add them on social media.
Quote from: BowDown on February 14, 2017, 04:45:52 PM
Don't think I'd ever be that desperate tbh.
:hmph:
I wouldnt say its desperate :dead:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:23:54 PM
Quote from: Kurama on February 14, 2017, 04:16:40 PM
Nah not really. I've gotten drinks with 2-3 people. It's only because they get it and we dislike the same people.
!!! I love to drag another coworker over lunch or some mess but once it's time to clock owt, ya kinda don't exist to me lol!
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 14, 2017, 04:54:10 PM
Only if one of them is leaving the company and we go out for goodbye drinks.
Apart from that no, I don't even add them on social media.
I dont even go to the office parties tbh. I started a new job and they require u to go because they'll cancel half the work day and having it so they KNOW that people will be there. Like someone else said, I'll sit with work friends and chuckle but as soon as ive shown my face enough, I kinda hit the door
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 14, 2017, 04:57:25 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 14, 2017, 04:54:10 PM
Only if one of them is leaving the company and we go out for goodbye drinks.
Apart from that no, I don't even add them on social media.
I dont even go to the office parties tbh. I started a new job and they require u to go because they'll cancel half the work day and having it so they KNOW that people will be there. Like someone else said, I'll sit with work friends and chuckle but as soon as ive shown my face enough, I kinda hit the door
nnfdkfn
how do you require someone to go to a party? :uhh: that's not in my job description
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 04:58:17 PM
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
n
I'm sick of this foul mouth bitch
luv u
:sistas:
bitch
:plea:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 05:01:38 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 14, 2017, 04:57:25 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 14, 2017, 04:54:10 PM
Only if one of them is leaving the company and we go out for goodbye drinks.
Apart from that no, I don't even add them on social media.
I dont even go to the office parties tbh. I started a new job and they require u to go because they'll cancel half the work day and having it so they KNOW that people will be there. Like someone else said, I'll sit with work friends and chuckle but as soon as ive shown my face enough, I kinda hit the door
nnfdkfn
how do you require someone to go to a party? :uhh: that's not in my job description
sdsdsddssdsddsdsds!!!!!!!!!
The first xmas I went to my boss like woooooo half day, going home LOLZ!
He was like :whogonbook:
ggg
Im sorry but I love the company parties. Free drinks & food and I still get to ignore everyone.
:blessed:
No, not after what happened at our department Christmas party. smh I was looking like :udontlookok: the entire time. I've kept my worklife and personal life separate after that.
Quote from: tustunnugee. on February 14, 2017, 04:30:56 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
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With one yes .. We go out and party .. We even went to San francisco last year.
I don't hang out with straight ppl or lesbians from my job though
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
:-o That's rude as fuck.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 04:18:49 PM
I'm sorry but I just don't see myself hanging out with these people.
A girl I work with had a house fire about a month ago and lost damn near everything. We were talking about the snowstorm and some other bitch said "at least you don't have to worry about shoveling any snow hahaha..."
:rudone:
drffddddffffffgg
hell no
dnt hang wit inferiors
I've made 3 lifelong friends from work
But the moment you become their superior things change
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 04:58:17 PM
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
!!!!
You better damn believe it
:overit:
Don't fall for that mess. My cast for my last play was lookin at me sideways cuz I never showed up to their little group mess. All they do is talk shit about other people ch
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 06:43:49 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 04:58:17 PM
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
!!!!
You better damn believe it
:overit:
Don't fall for that mess. My cast for my last play was lookin at me sideways cuz I never showed up to their little group mess. All they do is talk shit about other people ch
CcCCCVCCCXCCV
Yeah no
I don't like people like that at ALL unless it's bsource lol
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 14, 2017, 05:11:19 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 05:01:38 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 14, 2017, 04:57:25 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 14, 2017, 04:54:10 PM
Only if one of them is leaving the company and we go out for goodbye drinks.
Apart from that no, I don't even add them on social media.
I dont even go to the office parties tbh. I started a new job and they require u to go because they'll cancel half the work day and having it so they KNOW that people will be there. Like someone else said, I'll sit with work friends and chuckle but as soon as ive shown my face enough, I kinda hit the door
nnfdkfn
how do you require someone to go to a party? :uhh: that's not in my job description
sdsdsddssdsddsdsds!!!!!!!!!
The first xmas I went to my boss like woooooo half day, going home LOLZ!
He was like :whogonbook:
SDSSDDDFffff
I became close friends with my coworker at my old job.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on February 14, 2017, 06:45:36 PM
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 06:43:49 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 04:58:17 PM
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
!!!!
You better damn believe it
:overit:
Don't fall for that mess. My cast for my last play was lookin at me sideways cuz I never showed up to their little group mess. All they do is talk shit about other people ch
CcCCCVCCCXCCV
Yeah no
I don't like people like that at ALL unless it's bsource lol
sssddddddddd
Dragging each other in public insteads >>
:blessed:
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on February 14, 2017, 07:19:48 PM
I was messaging one of my old managers though. He sent me pics and videos of him beating his dick.
He was like, "your turn" and I just kiii'd and stopped messaging.
:uhh:
Mess. I had an old manager try and suck me up DURING work hours
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 07:20:55 PM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on February 14, 2017, 07:19:48 PM
I was messaging one of my old managers though. He sent me pics and videos of him beating his dick.
He was like, "your turn" and I just kiii'd and stopped messaging.
:uhh:
Mess. I had an old manager try and suck me up DURING work hours
omf not some sloppy toppy behind the copy machine
I caught an old supervisor on Grindr. What shocked me more than finding him on there was that he was a strict bottom.
Ddddccc
Tarig is a fckin mess
Boy you let him so why the outrage?
First thing I do is BLOCK all potential co-workers ppl in close proximity to my work place just to be sure.
:young:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 07:25:31 PM
I caught an old supervisor on Grindr. What shocked me more than finding him on there was that he was a strict bottom.
MMMMMMMM
my married coworker tried to talk to me on there :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
i screenshotted the mess just in case i had to blackmail him
still have them too :ohwow:
I'm screaming
Well everyone in my old workplace was gay, and made it their business to let others know they were, so I didn't need a grindr mess
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 07:25:36 PM
Ddddccc
Tarig is a fckin mess
Boy you let him so why the outrage?
fedfffffffffgg true but STILL
Don't
assume im gay. that's just rude LMAO!!!
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 07:35:21 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 07:25:36 PM
Ddddccc
Tarig is a fckin mess
Boy you let him so why the outrage?
fedfffffffffgg true but STILL
Don't assume im gay. that's just rude LMAO!!!
:guys:
Yeah depends on the people it takes me a while to get to know people. But we go out together and have things at each other's homes for different events. It took me a year to even consider going though.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on February 14, 2017, 07:31:35 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on February 14, 2017, 07:25:31 PM
I caught an old supervisor on Grindr. What shocked me more than finding him on there was that he was a strict bottom.
MMMMMMMM
my married coworker tried to talk to me on there :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
i screenshotted the mess just in case i had to blackmail him
still have them too :ohwow:
sdsssss
:ohwow:
I've been at my new job for about 8 months now and I've RECENTLY become really friendly with two of my co-workers. I'm going on a hot air balloon ride with them for my birthday in may. :dead:
If ur cool and we click then I don't see the problem.
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 07:35:21 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 07:25:36 PM
Ddddccc
Tarig is a fckin mess
Boy you let him so why the outrage?
fedfffffffffgg true but STILL
Don't assume im gay. that's just rude LMAO!!!
Nnnnnnnn
You let your manager suck u off
:kii:
Quote from: شيطان on February 15, 2017, 05:44:25 AM
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 07:35:21 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 07:25:36 PM
Ddddccc
Tarig is a fckin mess
Boy you let him so why the outrage?
fedfffffffffgg true but STILL
Don't assume im gay. that's just rude LMAO!!!
Nnnnnnnn
You let your manager suck u off
:kii:
SDDDSDDDDDD
nah
I have three very good friends at work. We do go out on occasion.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on February 14, 2017, 06:43:09 PM
I've made 3 lifelong friends from work
But the moment you become their superior things change
n
my colleagues are all pretty cool but part of me thinks they're nice to me because I'm a manager :plzstop:
Only 3 other people. Love them dearly :stressed:
Nope
I dunno It depends on your dynamic at work do you see each other often or do you work closely with each other
i think its best to MEL it for awhile
Yes. And I no longer with them and we are still friends
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on February 14, 2017, 06:45:36 PM
Quote from: RIGS on February 14, 2017, 06:43:49 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on February 14, 2017, 04:58:17 PM
Honestly I don't even gossip at work. You wanna tell me how Crystal doesn't do her work? I will just nod and smile
'haha you so crazeee. Enjoy your lunch!'
people are sneaky! Before ya know it she'll go back to Crystal saying 'Brandon was talking about you'
!!!!
You better damn believe it
:overit:
Don't fall for that mess. My cast for my last play was lookin at me sideways cuz I never showed up to their little group mess. All they do is talk shit about other people ch
CcCCCVCCCXCCV
Yeah no
I don't like people like that at ALL unless it's bsource lol
omf what
I love a light gossip mess
I won't tell them my personal business but i love hearing about others :wellheythere:
Maybe I'm just a friendly person. I mean, if you're cool, we can hang.