Brandy Source

I'm thinking about giving it up.

I feel like everything I do, me and my friends are drinking.  We went to this painting class the other night, and there was a bar..... When I go bowling, there's a waitress bringing drinks..... When I go out to eat, I'm ordering drinks.

Like, can I do anything without alcohol?
I stepped out earlier for my friend's birthday, and the alcohol had me feeling like shit when I got home.  I had to sleep it off just now.

Are there people that don't drink at all on here?  Do you enjoy yourself in social settings like parties, clubs and gatherings without drinking?

I only drink like 2 or 3 times a yr

never had a drink in my life

Never had any interest

i literally only drink on New Years

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2017, 09:04:52 PM
I only drink like 2 or 3 times a yr

Damn.

I want to be like this.  I legit see how alcoholism starts.  Because lately, I find myself drinking everywhere.  All people my age do is drink! LOL.

I will drink every now & then. I don't really care for the taste of alcohol too much.

Weed >>>>>

I rarely drink

Prolly about 3 times a year.. and every time it's others begging me to do so
I just don't get the excitement behind it..
And I get extremely aggressive and overtly dominant

Wow.

Ya'll got me feeling like I need to attend an AA meeting.

Damn.

How often do u drink?

Stop going out

You'll stop drinking
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Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

Quote from: each1teach1 on April 05, 2017, 09:10:58 PM
Stop going out

You'll stop drinking
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That too.

But this wine habit.  :loose2when:

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:09:23 PM
I rarely drink

Prolly about 3 times a year.. and every time it's others begging me to do so
I just don't get the excitement behind it..
And I get extremely aggressive and overtly dominant

:heythere:

Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:13:37 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:14:48 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:09:23 PM
I rarely drink

Prolly about 3 times a year.. and every time it's others begging me to do so
I just don't get the excitement behind it..
And I get extremely aggressive and overtly dominant

:heythere:

Was told by someone in Vegas that the sex felt like rape ...
He loved it
:jarvwhereru:

Oh wait...are we counting wine? :diddraispoot:

I don't drink.  I like being sober. :letsmessfag:

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:15:49 PM

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:14:48 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:09:23 PM
I rarely drink

Prolly about 3 times a year.. and every time it's others begging me to do so
I just don't get the excitement behind it..
And I get extremely aggressive and overtly dominant

:heythere:

Was told by someone in Vegas that the sex felt like rape ...
He loved it
:jarvwhereru:

Can I pour you another drink sir? :ATLcameo:

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:16:04 PM
Oh wait...are we counting wine? :diddraispoot:

Isn't that an alcholic beverage? So damn dumb

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:16:04 PM
Oh wait...are we counting wine? :diddraispoot:

xczzzzzzccc Is it Juice?  :everythingok:

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Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:13:37 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

I wish I could lie and tell you Yes.  But no.  Life is literally perfect lately.  I had some stressful shit going on with my job which took its toll on me.  I don't think that contributed to the alcohol overall, though. 

I think it's just a bad habit I need to kick.  After the way I felt earlier, I'm ready to stop. 

Ya'll actually are giving me motivation.

Do you enjoy yourself in social settings where others are drinking?

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:16:04 PM
Oh wait...are we counting wine? :diddraispoot:

Dddddddddddddd

Boy, yes.

I never drink

But that's not uncommon.  I have a friend that comes home after work and cracks open a bottle of wine every other day. Like, very kerry Washington in scandal. I don't enjoy wine n shit like that to just be drinking everyday.  Champagne is good tho

If you think you need to stop or feel like you can't have fun without it, you probably do need to at least scale it back.

O n i totally look down on ppl who do

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Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:09:23 PM
I rarely drink

Prolly about 3 times a year.. and every time it's others begging me to do so
I just don't get the excitement behind it..
And I get extremely aggressive and overtly dominant

:heythere:

Was told by someone in Vegas that the sex felt like rape ...
He loved it
:jarvwhereru:

Can I pour you another drink sir? :ATLcameo:

CBBNCNNNNNNMMM

Dark liquor plea'  :enchantress:

did you make this thread to hurt me? :stressed:

Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2017, 09:16:53 PM

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 09:16:04 PM
Oh wait...are we counting wine? :diddraispoot:

Isn't that an alcholic beverage? So damn dumb

Faggot, I'm gonna fuck you up with this empty Pinot bottle as soon as I polish it off.

:fuming:

Quote from: MelMel on April 05, 2017, 09:21:01 PM
did you make this thread to hurt me? :stressed:

Hopefully

:feelinmyself:

Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2017, 09:18:58 PM
But that's not uncommon.  I have a friend that comes home after work and cracks open a bottle of wine every other day. Like, very kerry Washington in scandal. I don't enjoy wine n shit like that to just be drinking everyday.  Champagne is good tho

That's EXACTLY me. It's becoming a lifestyle thing.  Funny thing is, I picked it up from my closest friend.  I'm always trying wines and holding a fucking glass in the evening. 

I'm over it.  And I think it's becoming an addiction.

Quote from: ssw4919 on April 05, 2017, 09:19:14 PM
If you think you need to stop or feel like you can't have fun without it, you probably do need to at least scale it back.

The fact that I have anxiety about how I'll be able to cope in a social setting like a club or party without liquor lets me know I need to scale back.  I can't even imagine having a lot of fun while I'm out without a buzz. LOL.

Sad. But that's where I'm at right now.

Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:24:17 PM

Quote from: ssw4919 on April 05, 2017, 09:19:14 PM
If you think you need to stop or feel like you can't have fun without it, you probably do need to at least scale it back.

The fact that I have anxiety about how I'll be able to cope in a social setting like a club or party without liquor lets me know I need to scale back.  I can't even imagine having a lot of fun while I'm out without a buzz. LOL.

Sad. But that's where I'm at right now.

Yea, ur a drunk

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Quote from: MelMel on April 05, 2017, 09:21:01 PM
did you make this thread to hurt me? :stressed:

Hopefully

:feelinmyself:

fag , why I oughta!
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Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2017, 09:25:20 PM

Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:24:17 PM

Quote from: ssw4919 on April 05, 2017, 09:19:14 PM
If you think you need to stop or feel like you can't have fun without it, you probably do need to at least scale it back.

The fact that I have anxiety about how I'll be able to cope in a social setting like a club or party without liquor lets me know I need to scale back.  I can't even imagine having a lot of fun while I'm out without a buzz. LOL.

Sad. But that's where I'm at right now.

Yea, ur a drunk

:guys:

idk

i had a sip of sum mess wen i was 21 jus to dabble n YUCK
alcohol make my tummy turn

i onl' drink water

m

As craz' as BSource is and everyone is sober 24/7.

all these fucking PRUDES

Quote from: MelMel on April 05, 2017, 09:32:41 PM
all these fucking PRUDES

Hey twins!

Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:33:38 PM

Quote from: MelMel on April 05, 2017, 09:32:41 PM
all these fucking PRUDES

Hey twins!

hey!!!!!

listen sis, drink all you damn want! the hell! ch

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I don't go out a LOT so I don't mind drinking when I do, but I definitely don't like the after effect feeling

Definitely prefer wine these days

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 05, 2017, 09:29:43 PM
Socially. And barely even that.
My best friend makes it a point to monitor my alcohol consumption when I'm around her cuz she knows it makes me sleepy and I'll poop the party.  :plzstop: :plzstop:

But it's fun getting drunk. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i just get sleepy instead of crunk and loose.

and its bad for ur skin. moisture vaccuum

It's make me sleepy too

:kii: :kii:

Plus it's a bunch of empty calories.

I'll drink like once a month or so. I'm not that big on it tbh.

I don't drink much but I drink when I go to a party mess or hang out with friends.

I'm in college so that will probably end when I graduate.

Quote from: Nine on April 05, 2017, 09:42:24 PM

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 05, 2017, 09:29:43 PM
Socially. And barely even that.
My best friend makes it a point to monitor my alcohol consumption when I'm around her cuz she knows it makes me sleepy and I'll poop the party.  :plzstop: :plzstop:

But it's fun getting drunk. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i just get sleepy instead of crunk and loose.

and its bad for ur skin. moisture vaccuum

It's make me sleepy too

:kii: :kii:

Plus it's a bunch of empty calories.

I'll drink like once a month or so. I'm not that big on it tbh.

The other reason i don't drink

:stressed: my Auntie died of alcoholism and cigarettes

I will never

But I think ur far from an alcoholic. Just sounds like u wanna cut back because you've noticed how it makes u feel

I feel like true alcoholics aren't really aware that they even are, or even close to that ssssss they drink that shit like water

I never wanna be an alcoholic though.

My Uncle was one and it's sad because I've never known him to be anything other than an alcoholic so I don't know what he was like before that.

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 05, 2017, 09:51:55 PM

Quote from: Nine on April 05, 2017, 09:42:24 PM

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 05, 2017, 09:29:43 PM
Socially. And barely even that.
My best friend makes it a point to monitor my alcohol consumption when I'm around her cuz she knows it makes me sleepy and I'll poop the party.  :plzstop: :plzstop:

But it's fun getting drunk. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i just get sleepy instead of crunk and loose.

and its bad for ur skin. moisture vaccuum

It's make me sleepy too

:kii: :kii:

Plus it's a bunch of empty calories.

I'll drink like once a month or so. I'm not that big on it tbh.

i thought i was the only one. :plzstop: :plzstop:

At one point I had some Alize perched in my fridge to have a small glass at night before i went to bed
it really relaxed me. literally just a few sips.

but i was like wait... alize every night.....isn't this alcoholism :diddraispoot:

ummm, no
:ummwhat:

Quote from: RIGS on April 05, 2017, 09:49:45 PM
But I think ur far from an alcoholic. Just sounds like u wanna cut back because you've noticed how it makes u feel

I feel like true alcoholics aren't really aware that they even are, or even close to that ssssss they drink that shit like water

Thank you, bby!

This thread had me looking at myself in the mirror like  :guys: Fag, has it come to this?

I have to say I'm shocked at the responses.  Mostly everyone in their late 20's-early 30's drinks around me.  Weird to see so many people that don't drink.

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Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

I wish I could lie and tell you Yes.  But no.  Life is literally perfect lately.  I had some stressful shit going on with my job which took its toll on me.  I don't think that contributed to the alcohol overall, though. 

I think it's just a bad habit I need to kick.  After the way I felt earlier, I'm ready to stop. 

Ya'll actually are giving me motivation.

Do you enjoy yourself in social settings where others are drinking?

i do
Because I'm a really chill pers'
But I will say everyone always makes a bit of a topic and it annoys me
Drink ur livers damaged Huns.. stop worrying about me tbh
I just never really needed anything 'tra to be the life of the party or to enjoy myself .. and again alcohol makes my dick rise so I really don't do it...
I don't find myself judging drunks tho..
Have fun. It just ain't for me, ya know?

When I'm on vacation or traveling I drink basically everyday, in my regular life every two months.

yawl don't sip on something every other day?
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but thats good, don't drink at all if you can
maybe some wine every now and then

I had to do a liver detox around the middle of Jan that made me stay off of alcohol for now

I've cheated but I plan to have a life with alot less alcohol in the future

So we're really counting wine guys? :uhh:

Yes you damn wino

Drinking is only fun when it's with someone who enjoys it as well

Never drink just to drink

It's that damn bad? :guys:

Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on April 05, 2017, 10:51:18 PM
but thats good, don't drink at all if you can
maybe some wine every now and then

I had to do a liver detox around the middle of Jan that made me stay off of alcohol for now

I've cheated but I plan to have a life with alot less alcohol in the future

Bent, give me more details about this liver detox.

I love a detox mess.  What made you do that?

Quote from: Bougi?. on April 05, 2017, 11:16:25 PM
It's that damn bad? :guys:

:kii:

Twins.  :uhh:

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Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:14:53 PM

Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:13:37 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

I wish I could lie and tell you Yes.  But no.  Life is literally perfect lately.  I had some stressful shit going on with my job which took its toll on me.  I don't think that contributed to the alcohol overall, though. 

I think it's just a bad habit I need to kick.  After the way I felt earlier, I'm ready to stop. 

Ya'll actually are giving me motivation.

Do you enjoy yourself in social settings where others are drinking?

i do
Because I'm a really chill pers'
But I will say everyone always makes a bit of a topic and it annoys me
Drink ur livers damaged Huns.. stop worrying about me tbh
I just never really needed anything 'tra to be the life of the party or to enjoy myself .. and again alcohol makes my dick rise so I really don't do it...
I don't find myself judging drunks tho..
Have fun. It just ain't for me, ya know?

Aw, Glock I love this.

Because that's exactly how people are.  Acting like the damn world is ending because you don't drink. I can see that being the same for me now that I'm deciding to cut it out altogether.

I'm not saying I won't drink forever, but I want to do it on special occasion.  Like maybe my birthday or holidays. 

I need to start enjoying nightlife social experiences without a slight buzz.  It'll be hard, but I'm going to do it.

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Quote from: Blond?. on April 05, 2017, 09:13:37 PM

Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

I wish I could lie and tell you Yes.  But no.  Life is literally perfect lately.  I had some stressful shit going on with my job which took its toll on me.  I don't think that contributed to the alcohol overall, though. 

I think it's just a bad habit I need to kick.  After the way I felt earlier, I'm ready to stop. 

Ya'll actually are giving me motivation.

Do you enjoy yourself in social settings where others are drinking?

i do
Because I'm a really chill pers'
But I will say everyone always makes a bit of a topic and it annoys me
Drink ur livers damaged Huns.. stop worrying about me tbh
I just never really needed anything 'tra to be the life of the party or to enjoy myself .. and again alcohol makes my dick rise so I really don't do it...
I don't find myself judging drunks tho..
Have fun. It just ain't for me, ya know?

Aw, Glock I love this.

Because that's exactly how people are.  Acting like the damn world is ending because you don't drink. I can see that being the same for me now that I'm deciding to cut it out altogether.

I'm not saying I won't drink forever, but I want to do it on special occasion.  Like maybe my birthday or holidays. 

I need to start enjoying nightlife social experiences without a slight buzz.  It'll be hard, but I'm going to do it.

you can do it bae
You're gonna have fun either damn way
Good music and good company...
I'm sure everyone's gonna be watching a bit  :ohwow:

Unfortunately for work I attend events like 4-5 times a month and depending on the venue it's rude to say no. I do try to keep it to one glass or go for something light like a G&T ...I know that won't even get me slightly buzzed, but I'll still look "social"

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Quote from: G SPOT on April 05, 2017, 09:10:35 PM
How often do u drink?

I'm gonna keep it real.  A lot.  But it's wine and stuff.  I started getting into wines when I watch my shows. And then that turned into me liking champagne

And then when I go out, I like Patron.  So, I'm probably drinking 3-4 times a week.  But mostly on the weekend.

I don't drink a lot of hard liquor, and I'm not getting "drunk", but I feel like I'm drinking way too much lately.

r u going thru something? A breakup possibly..
Usually drinking habits storm owta nowhere due to lovelives or work

I wish I could lie and tell you Yes.  But no.  Life is literally perfect lately.  I had some stressful shit going on with my job which took its toll on me.  I don't think that contributed to the alcohol overall, though. 

I think it's just a bad habit I need to kick.  After the way I felt earlier, I'm ready to stop. 

Ya'll actually are giving me motivation.

Do you enjoy yourself in social settings where others are drinking?

i do
Because I'm a really chill pers'
But I will say everyone always makes a bit of a topic and it annoys me
Drink ur livers damaged Huns.. stop worrying about me tbh
I just never really needed anything 'tra to be the life of the party or to enjoy myself .. and again alcohol makes my dick rise so I really don't do it...
I don't find myself judging drunks tho..
Have fun. It just ain't for me, ya know?

Aw, Glock I love this.

Because that's exactly how people are.  Acting like the damn world is ending because you don't drink. I can see that being the same for me now that I'm deciding to cut it out altogether.

I'm not saying I won't drink forever, but I want to do it on special occasion.  Like maybe my birthday or holidays. 

I need to start enjoying nightlife social experiences without a slight buzz.  It'll be hard, but I'm going to do it.

you can do it bae
You're gonna have fun either damn way
Good music and good company...
I'm sure everyone's gonna be watching a bit  :ohwow:

Thanks for the 'pport, King.

Quote from: Nine on April 05, 2017, 09:42:24 PM

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 05, 2017, 09:29:43 PM
Socially. And barely even that.
My best friend makes it a point to monitor my alcohol consumption when I'm around her cuz she knows it makes me sleepy and I'll poop the party.  :plzstop: :plzstop:

But it's fun getting drunk. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i just get sleepy instead of crunk and loose.

and its bad for ur skin. moisture vaccuum

It's make me sleepy too

:kii: :kii:

Plus it's a bunch of empty calories.

I'll drink like once a month or so. I'm not that big on it tbh.

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on April 05, 2017, 10:53:41 PM
So we're really counting wine guys? :uhh:

s

It balances and works out for me because I've never been a party/club person. So when I actually do go out to have fun at a bar or lounge somewhere I can indulge and not feel guilty because it will be some weeks until it happens again.

And I can't believe I'm about to be 27 omf