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Title: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 12:46:25 PM
Not even sure what "good" means tbh.

I guess like approaching someone, letting them know you're interested?

Flirting?

Are you aggressive? Are you passive? Do you prefer a cat & mouse mess?
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 14, 2017, 12:48:12 PM
i love dating
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 12:49:02 PM
Quote from: stillpretti. on April 14, 2017, 12:47:45 PM
I've learned that I have walls up when it comes to men.

That a good or bad thing (if either)? I think most ppl do tbh.
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: 🦚 on April 14, 2017, 12:51:02 PM
I want to be the conquerer ...so if I like you and want you I'm going to aggressively pursue. 

But when it's the other way around I get bored. I'm just hardly ever amused.

I do like a mutual tea...where it's just clicks and your bouncing off each others energy.

I got the latter going on right now
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Real on April 14, 2017, 12:52:36 PM
Nope. Horribe actually
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Real on April 14, 2017, 12:56:00 PM
Oh I didn't read the whole question. I'm good with the approaching and expressing interest. Don't really flirt too much, kinda just go for it.

It's the shit that comes after that I'm not good with :melmel:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 12:57:23 PM
Quote from: Sleigh It Right on April 14, 2017, 12:51:02 PM
I want to be the conquerer ...so if I like you and want you I'm going to aggressively pursue. 


Kinda envious of folks who can do this. Takes a certain level of confidence and vibe.  :'(
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 12:59:23 PM
Quote from: stillpretti. on April 14, 2017, 12:53:42 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 12:49:02 PM
Quote from: stillpretti. on April 14, 2017, 12:47:45 PM
I've learned that I have walls up when it comes to men.

That a good or bad thing (if either)? I think most ppl do tbh.
I think I have a more severe case. The guy I'm talking to just happens to like R&B , black sitcoms and mess but I immediately took it to "oh hes tryna be Black getting on my nerves :plea: why u tryna impress me  :uhh: " sdssdsdsdsd

all that mess going on in my head and he's just being himself :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:

I'm a bit extra and dramatic at times. I'm slowly learning how to realize when i'm at the point of dramatics, and reeling myself back in.

dfdffffg

Hi my name is Jerome

Are you trying to appeal to my inner black pant' :fuming:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Cartierline on April 14, 2017, 01:00:46 PM
I'm good at flirting if I'm really into the person.

I like a cat and mouse mess, don't like when the other person is too eager tbh.
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:01:10 PM
Quote from: Real on April 14, 2017, 12:56:00 PM
Oh I didn't read the whole question. I'm good with the approaching and expressing interest. Don't really flirt too much, kinda just go for it.

It's the shit that comes after that I'm not good with :melmel:

V

Im completely opposite. I suck and flirting or approaching anyone. I seldom do. So I just wait for folks and if we build a relationship then that's when its smooth sailing for me. 
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:04:39 PM
Hell naw.
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:27:20 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:04:39 PM
Hell naw.

:unsure:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:28:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:27:20 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:04:39 PM
Hell naw.

:unsure:

Well I answered your question hun
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:29:59 PM
Quote from: stillpretti. on April 14, 2017, 01:29:19 PM
y r u gettin' buck

You ain't seen BUCK
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:30:43 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:28:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:27:20 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:04:39 PM
Hell naw.

:unsure:

Well I answered your question hun

Scott, I was curious because I would have thought the opposite looking at you.

Chill.
:calmdownsis:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:32:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:30:43 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:28:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:27:20 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:04:39 PM
Hell naw.

:unsure:

Well I answered your question hun

Scott, I was curious because I would have thought the opposite looking at you.

Chill.
:calmdownsis:

I wasn't getting buck with you  :dead:

Why do y'all always assume the worst in me  :stressed:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:39:21 PM
It's just so hard to tell these days bavi  :stressed:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:40:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:39:21 PM
It's just so hard to tell these days bavi  :stressed:

But I love you.  :'(

Still mad we didn't get to hang when I was in Chicago last year. My cousin ruined it  :fuming:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:59:54 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:40:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:39:21 PM
It's just so hard to tell these days bavi  :stressed:

But I love you.  :'(

Still mad we didn't get to hang when I was in Chicago last year. My cousin ruined it  :fuming:

:wub: :wub: :wub:


When the hell are you coming back!? :fuming:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 02:13:03 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:59:54 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 14, 2017, 01:40:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 01:39:21 PM
It's just so hard to tell these days bavi  :stressed:

But I love you.  :'(

Still mad we didn't get to hang when I was in Chicago last year. My cousin ruined it  :fuming:

:wub: :wub: :wub:


When the hell are you coming back!? :fuming:

Probably this summer like last time. That's what I'm aiming for.
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Kurama on April 14, 2017, 02:36:11 PM
Festival season


perf
:welllol:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Navyman on April 14, 2017, 02:39:15 PM
Quote from: Real on April 14, 2017, 12:56:00 PM
Oh I didn't read the whole question. I'm good with the approaching and expressing interest. Don't really flirt too much, kinda just go for it.

It's the shit that comes after that I'm not good with :melmel:

!!!!!!! Pretty sure I just love the infactuation phase, the getting to knkw someone part. After that I be ready to run for the hills especially with men.
:melmel:
Title: Re: Are yall good at dating?
Post by: Harlem on April 14, 2017, 04:54:06 PM
Dating now is so weird to me cuz niggaz love complementing me and tryna fuck and b like my nigga fall back unless I find u cute  :ohwow: