Ok so I'm a proud west African but I do have a racially ambiguous look and often people just assume I'm middle eastern which they don't put in the category "black". I am indeed middle eastern but in my every day life I'd rather identify as black/African. So here is the catch 22, many hot men are just not into the thought of messing with somebody "black". Is it ok to do a lil bit of smudging to get some trade? Have you done it?
I literally get asked sometimes "are you black?!" And I'm like "I mean you have seen me" what do you ask me for. I won't look different if I say yes or no.
Gurs chime in.
Have you ever passed for another race and went with it for some D?
You look black to me.
That's not the topic bro. It can go both ways to some I need to hide that I'm Arabs. Like Israelis, I usually tell them I'm just Euro white and Nigerian. But they will go and act like I said "Algerian"
You look black
To you! But to some I don't. Can you read?
You look Black hon
Lmao it can go both ways lmaoooooo
I can read
You lie to men about being mixed because they're not into black so you can get some dick
And I wouldn't put it past you as well because you said 'I don't consider myself black' at one point
Sounds disgraceful to me
Sis I don't lie. I "pass". I AM black, I AM mixed and I AM middle Eastern. Sometimes it is more convenient to highlight one aspect over the others. Around Israeli families I focus on being western and black. But with some menzes I just go with Palestinian. Just like I switch from west African accent to American accent depending the context.
soot bby
Quote from: Black Cristal on September 21, 2015, 04:51:10 PM
Maybe it's the relaxed hair, sis.
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Maybe, I'm not saying it's a bad thing but I wonder if someone else had such experiences.
Who lied?
You said you didn't consider yourself black :dead:
So basically.
You lie to men about not black so you can get some racist dick and your asking of anyone else does the same?
:cheerup:
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jayd' stop bein fckin mean
bitch
Y'all didn't get that?
Or is it just me
:shannonsmissing: :damselindistress:
Quote from: Dorobucci on September 21, 2015, 05:00:53 PM
So basically.
You lie to men about not black so you can get some racist dick and your asking of anyone else does the same?
Well in a nutshell. Except I don't lie I just go with the flow or accentuate other truths. And what do I care if I'm not trying to date the person. I mean I'm gone be Chinese for u if you got the right look.
im mix
Quote from: Dorobucci on September 21, 2015, 04:52:02 PM
You lie to men about being mixed because they're not into black so you can get some dick
nffdfjxkxnznmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
what in the rachel faglezal fuck
Did squid delete his comment?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 21, 2015, 05:07:14 PM
Quote from: Dorobucci on September 21, 2015, 04:52:02 PM
You lie to men about being mixed because they're not into black so you can get some dick
nffdfjxkxnznmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
what in the rachel faglezal fuck
:plzstop:
Ddssssss
Malcolm looks mixed for sure
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No. Granted if you did have a look that was ethnically ambitious. Denying a piece of my identity for some random hookup is trash imo.
Not Rachel Faglezal, I've HAD it with y'all :plzstop:
v
You look black luv but I see what you're trying to do with this thread :kii: messy self
Quote from: iman on September 21, 2015, 05:53:52 PM
v
You look black luv but I see what you're trying to do with this thread :kii: messy self
sssssssssss
I didn't know if anybody else caught it
I was screaming :kii: :kii:
Quote from: Kurama on September 21, 2015, 05:49:48 PM
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No. Granted if you did have a look that was ethnically ambitious. Denying a piece of my identity for some random hookup is trash imo.
ok?
Where's your self worth in all this
Quote from: Bentley! on September 21, 2015, 05:56:32 PM
Quote from: iman on September 21, 2015, 05:53:52 PM
v
You look black luv but I see what you're trying to do with this thread :kii: messy self
sssssssssss
I didn't know if anybody else caught it
I was screaming :kii: :kii:
:hmph:
Quote from: Cartier on September 21, 2015, 05:50:04 PM
Not Rachel Faglezal, I've HAD it with y'all :plzstop:
"If I did"... Plea'
ssss
Luv you bby
Where the fuck is Malcolm Music season 3? :uhh:
Wat the fuck is happening :omgwatshappening:
Season 5 is on the way luv. Season 4 had Grammy winners Macy Gray, Mario Winans stopping by as well as Syleena Johnson, and Jessie Ware.
I know many Turks who will pretend to be Spanish/Italian to pick up girls.
Quote from: Miranda on September 21, 2015, 06:05:28 PM
Season 5 is on the way luv. Season 4 had Grammy winners Macy Gray, Mario Winans stopping by as well as Syleena Johnson, and Jessie Ware.
Girl call up Tweet and quit playing. She was JUST over there, she has a biggerGerman fan base than those others
I agree you do give middle eastern tea, Malcolm
If I popped a turbin on ur head you'd fit right in.
But being racially ambiguous means that you keep people guessing
Could he be white? Black? Nooooo he's Hispanic! Look at his lips....definitely Egyptian!!!
It means You could be anything. Not that they assume you're one thing which contradicts who u really are.
Wait...... Mack's not middle eastern?
:dead:
Girl What are you?
He's African with European heritage from wat I recall
But he doesn't look black to me. He looks straight out of Iran or something lol
Oh wait
Just re read ur post.
So you are middle eastern. Makes sense.
Quote from: Bentley! on September 21, 2015, 05:56:32 PM
Quote from: iman on September 21, 2015, 05:53:52 PM
v
You look black luv but I see what you're trying to do with this thread :kii: messy self
sssssssssss
I didn't know if anybody else caught it
I was screaming :kii: :kii:
i didn't.
Go on?
:omgwatshappening:
u still a nigger....the only diff is...you'd be a house nigger if we were still on the plantation
:everythingok:
I swear , so many of us have adopted that white man's way of thinking.
Sad part is that those who have adopted it, swear up and down that they're activists of some sort. (generally speaking, not you CJ)
"You just a nigger no matter what."
No , he's not just a nigger. We're a very complex and beautiful people with many origins and backgrounds.
Nnnn today someone asked if I was Yemenite. Nnn
Quote from: STARSTRUKK on September 21, 2015, 10:26:29 PM
u still a nigger....the only diff is...you'd be a house nigger if we were still on the plantation
There is no slavery in my ancestry. So I'd be either some Igbo tribe member mess or a Palestinian refugee.
:omgwatshappening:
And why are you going with how whites in America would view me? They have a one drop rule.
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
I swear , so many of us have adopted that white man's way of thinking.
Sad part is that those who have adopted it, swear up and down that they're activists of some sort. (generally speaking, not you CJ)
"You just a nigger no matter what."
No , he's not just a nigger. We're a very complex and beautiful people with many origins and backgrounds.
Yes! Emphasis on "just", I won't my nigger my membership at all, but I might step into another club too.
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
I swear , so many of us have adopted that white man's way of thinking.
Sad part is that those who have adopted it, swear up and down that they're activists of some sort. (generally speaking, not you CJ)
"You just a nigger no matter what."
No , he's not just a nigger. We're a very complex and beautiful people with many origins and backgrounds.
I think what CJ was saying - in the crudest way possible - is that if the KKK were running Mal down with pitch forks they wouldn't pause and think "but he's light skinned!! " :kii:
But I think y'all are goibg in cause its Malcolm and he's annoying. Lol. He does look Black but could pass for Arabic, especially now that his hair is straightened.
If those hoes don't stop asking me if my hair is natural or not...
"oh yea you're black but not really black but you're still black"
Bitch did I say otherwise?
Like PLEASE... Now it's like I have to apologize cause I'm mixed.
Dont be mad cause my blood is mixed with african blood but with chinese and white blood as well.
"Oh you're just light cause you avoid the sun"
Bitch u been avoiding the sun for months and you're still CHOCOLATE. Give me a motherfucking explanation now...
I aint hiding shit...
My last name is Chinese... so many gorls are shocked when they hear my name and see a tall ass nigger. Yea, you wanted to see Mei Ying raise his hand... NA bitch! It's ME!
(http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m02k8xiTph1qdpzo8o1_r1_250.gif)
"oh he was adopted... aint no way"... BITCH the reason why my cakes are sitting a bit FLAT is another clue.
dddddd
That dick sure ain't Chinese, I tell you THAT.
(http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m02k8xiTph1qdpzo8o1_r1_250.gif)
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
No , he's not just a nigger.
im sorry but S;D;;DD;DSDDDFCV
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 06:29:45 AM
That dick sure ain't Chinese, I tell you THAT.
(http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m02k8xiTph1qdpzo8o1_r1_250.gif)
d'fc
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Yea its pretty pathetic.
To change adjust, modify, smooth over anything about urself for a hookup is simply self degrading and show a lack of self worth (hence I never said self hate)
To lay up with someone who wouldnt lay up with you if they knew all of you is just stupid.
Oh plea' we adjust every day of our life. Blacks are just so SENSITIVE, nobody woulda said shit if I don't accentuate my Arabic or white side.
This is a bit edgy.
We switch up accents, clothing, etc to accommodate the environment. It's the principle of fitness.
And Malcolm does look middle eastern to me.
But if he told me he was African American I would believe him.
And it's not in general but for a casual mess. I want to pick up a hot guy I tell him
what he wants to hear.
A gigolo / seduction mess out. Not pathetic self hate.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 08:18:18 AM
Yea its pretty pathetic.
To change adjust, modify, smooth over anything about urself for a hookup is simply self degrading and show a lack of self worth (hence I never said self hate)
To lay up with someone who wouldnt lay up with you if they knew all of you is just stupid.
Nobody knows "all of you". And that is what sweet talk/flirting is about. You highlight features they like.
is everything a fucking joke on here :everythingok:
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?
In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.
Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.
Quote from: MrMoon on September 22, 2015, 06:17:02 AM
If those hoes don't stop asking me if my hair is natural or not...
"oh yea you're black but not really black but you're still black"
Bitch did I say otherwise?
Like PLEASE... Now it's like I have to apologize cause I'm mixed.
Dont be mad cause my blood is mixed with african blood but with chinese and white blood as well.
"Oh you're just light cause you avoid the sun"
Bitch u been avoiding the sun for months and you're still CHOCOLATE. Give me a motherfucking explanation now...
o[jiph8ug79fy;68tdo57r
:everythingok:
Some people ignorantly believe all black people should have kinky hair.
if it's not kinky, that simply means you chemically altered it. to them
especially if you have a darker complexion.
you've always had BEAUTIFUL, thick hair .
i remember when u were sporting the big Afro....it was so cute :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
:stressed: :stressed:
now u simply went for a different style which is more sleek.
people don't realize how versatile hair can be.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 09:18:44 AM
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?
In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.
Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.
It's not dumb, it's running game.
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 08:50:25 AM
Oh plea' we adjust every day of our life. Blacks are just so SENSITIVE, nobody woulda said shit if I don't accentuate my Arabic or white side.
blacks are not senistive
What kind of reaction did you think you were going to get asking a black board?
If you were Asian and asked this on a Asian board
You'd probably garner the same response
And I think it is the opposite. To a real friend / real life contact u will break down my tea in full correctness. But for a sexual mess, I'll claim fckn Bahamas if I get the cakes.
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is
that something they'd care about....is the question.
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:23:04 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 09:18:44 AM
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?
In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.
Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.
It's not dumb, it's running game.
Why is race part of the game :shannonsmissing:
If it's that serious aint no game to play! :ack:
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
That's what I wanna fckn know? It could be just an undertone subconscious mess. But to me it's the other way round. No race will make u less attractive but if a dude says he is Colombian of morrocan even if he looks the same he will gain some hotness points.
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 04:28:45 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
I swear , so many of us have adopted that white man's way of thinking.
Sad part is that those who have adopted it, swear up and down that they're activists of some sort. (generally speaking, not you CJ)
"You just a nigger no matter what."
No , he's not just a nigger. We're a very complex and beautiful people with many origins and backgrounds.
Yes! Emphasis on "just", I won't my nigger my membership at all, but I might step into another club too.
:wub:
Yes bvy, be proud of ALL of you. If it's your TRUTH and your HERITAGE, claim it as you see fit.
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:29:16 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
That's what I wanna fckn know? It could be just an undertone subconscious mess. But to me it's the other way round. No race will make u less attractive but if a dude says he is Colombian of morrocan even if he looks the same he will gain some hotness points.
not for me
But i know that's how some people think.
I think to some it's about what comes with their perception of "black". I'm not gone lie a nig that is Indian but says he is Iraqi and could pass, I might find him sexier. It's subconscious.
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
No , he's not just a nigger.
sdrfgfkgjgkvmnvmcmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
damn this just made me tear up a bit
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
After we are done or I get to know them
Better and I start talking about black things or singers. Often they are lime: "you really like black shit don't you?!" And in like sis maybe because I AM? Nnn
Or I start talking about my family and then they are like, so wait you are also black? You're hot but I'm usually not into that as much.
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 08:57:57 AM
A gigolo / seduction mess out.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
Some people will question your heritage if they see something a bit different about you.
This is especially true for black people....people have this perception of us, and what we should always look like.....so if they see a light skinned black man with green eyes, they cannot help but wonder what is he mixed with.
It's only a few who have the guts to ask you.
Traci Ellis Ross actually spoke on this as well. One of her colleagues had European facial features, but clearly was black. A white person asked him what he was mixed with, and he replied, "Slavery."
sdsd sd sdsd
My mouth DROPPED :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
get em! :cheerup:
the kii is that he hit them with shade AND fucking education :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: 9 times out of 10, that's where it actually came from
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:34:56 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
After we are done or I get to know them
Better and I start talking about black things or singers. Often they are lime: "you really like black shit don't you?!" And in like sis maybe because I AM? Nnn
Or I start talking about my family and then they are like, so wait you are also black? You're hot but I'm usually not into that as much.
you shouldn't be with someone like that. :uhh:
Ssddd no matter how cute.
Like Hun you just fckn got ur life from this black self. Maybe you should dip into more chocolate and get acquainted.
But then again if you look like heaven I couldn't care less at the moment believe what u want Adonis.
:stressed:
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:34:56 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
After we are done or I get to know them
Better and I start talking about black things or singers. Often they are lime: "you really like black shit don't you?!" And in like sis maybe because I AM? Nnn
Or I start talking about my family and then they are like, so wait you are also black? You're hot but I'm usually not into that as much.
Thats sounds so......draining
Next time just get your bags and go! I mean, If that's how your conversations are going.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 22, 2015, 09:34:02 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
No , he's not just a nigger.
sdrfgfkgjgkvmnvmcmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
damn this just made me tear up a bit
wtf :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:37:00 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
Some people will question your heritage if they see something a bit different about you.
This is especially true for black people....people have this perception of us, and what we should always look like.....so if they see a light skinned black man with green eyes, they cannot help but wonder what is he mixed with.
It's only a few who have the guts to ask you.
Traci Ellis Ross actually spoke on this as well. One of her colleagues had European facial features, but clearly was black. A white person asked him what he was mixed with, and he replied, "Slavery."
sdsd sd sdsd
My mouth DROPPED :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
get em! :cheerup:
the kii is that he hit them with shade AND fucking education :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: 9 times out of 10, that's where it actually came from
i don't think it's black people asking Mal this stuff.
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:39:08 AM
Like Hun you just fckn got ur life from this black self. Maybe you should dip into more chocolate and get acquainted.
And again if you look like heaven I couldn't care less at the moments believe what u want Adonis.
:stressed:
fag wheres your self respect
Tell them you're black and let them know they fcking loved it.
:hmph:
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:40:04 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:37:00 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
Some people will question your heritage if they see something a bit different about you.
This is especially true for black people....people have this perception of us, and what we should always look like.....so if they see a light skinned black man with green eyes, they cannot help but wonder what is he mixed with.
It's only a few who have the guts to ask you.
Traci Ellis Ross actually spoke on this as well. One of her colleagues had European facial features, but clearly was black. A white person asked him what he was mixed with, and he replied, "Slavery."
sdsd sd sdsd
My mouth DROPPED :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
get em! :cheerup:
the kii is that he hit them with shade AND fucking education :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: 9 times out of 10, that's where it actually came from
i don't think it's black people asking Mal this stuff.
I didn't say it's black people who are asking
I said it's especially TRUE for black people, that they are questioned....because OTHER races have a perception of what we should all look like.....what color skin we should have, what grade of hair we should have, what color eyes we should have.....
within our community we know better though, and can better discern by looking at our own people what the situation might be. I can clearly look at someone and tell that they are mulatto, automatically. the very light skin, facial features, the kinky/curly hair.....
people outside of our gates don't know our vast variations
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:38:56 AM
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:34:56 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:29:09 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.
Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.
Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is
Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:
You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:
I'd be turned off.
After we are done or I get to know them
Better and I start talking about black things or singers. Often they are lime: "you really like black shit don't you?!" And in like sis maybe because I AM? Nnn
Or I start talking about my family and then they are like, so wait you are also black? You're hot but I'm usually not into that as much.
you shouldn't be with someone like that. :uhh:
Ssddd no matter how cute.
But have you SEEN them. In talking CHISELED abs, big arms, a face to die for, 9 inch dick, olive/brown skin, black curly hair. :stressed:
I would never date them. But nnn I'm gonna mess.
And it's really maybe 20-30% that have those tendencies , a good 30% just messages me FOR my blackness (jungle fever/size queens).
But mostly it is irrelevant, just not for some. And you might as well get it when the getting is gewd.
I wanna stand up and give a black pride mess then I remember the dick and face and I'm like fuck it!
Not seeing you agains anyway.
:cheerup:
Ddssssssss
No i tend to go for black guys, and no one questions my race so this hasn't been an issue for me
But do what you do if it's just fun. But don't let anyone disrespect you.
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:48:40 AM
Ddssssssss
No i tend to go for black guys, and no one questions my race so this hasn't been an issue for me
But do what you do if it's just fun. But don't let anyone disrespect you.
That's true. I kinda like how ya thinks.
Real smart and stuff.
:heyddy:
Quote from: Ralf on September 22, 2015, 08:56:07 AM
And Malcolm does look middle eastern to me.
But if he told me he was African American I would believe him.
!!!!
And if middle eastern is part of his heritage, then I don't see a problem in claiming it
what you choose to identify yourself as is solely to your discretion, as long as it's in line with your truth.
Better than the people walking around claiming this and that without any type of family research done to substantiate their
stories.
That to me is when it becomes a little ignorant and unhealthy.
Even if you heard these stories from your family, do your due diligence to know for yourself. People lie (knowingly or not)
It is convenient I can highlight and switch back and forth and U don't have to lie or make up intricate scenarios.
Nnn
:supluv:
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:57:09 AM
It is convenient I can highlight and switch back and forth and U don't have to lie or make up intricate scenarios.
Nnn
:supluv:
nnnn
have ur fun bvy. just be safe out there. thats what is most important.
:usureuok:
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Yeah I'm more concerned w/ looks. I guess being blk/brazil/irish/ 3/4 ramen noodle sounds good on paper but who cares if you're ugly? :receipts:
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:31:02 AM
I think to some it's about what comes with their perception of "black". I'm not gone lie a nig that is Indian but says he is Iraqi and could pass, I might find him sexier. It's subconscious.
:uhh:
This fuckin thread :plzstop:
Quote from: Dorobucci on September 21, 2015, 04:52:02 PM
I can read
You lie to men about being mixed because they're not into black so you can get some dick
And I wouldn't put it past you as well because you said 'I don't consider myself black' at one point
Sounds disgraceful to me
jesus christ...go easy bby :dead: :dead: :dead:
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on September 22, 2015, 12:06:46 PM
Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:31:02 AM
I think to some it's about what comes with their perception of "black". I'm not gone lie a nig that is Indian but says he is Iraqi and could pass, I might find him sexier. It's subconscious.
:uhh:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Yeah many blacks won't claim you. When my father and I had a discussion and he went, but you are not really black you don't know.
:hmph:
N
I only claim black. I only mention my white side when people see my mom. Every now and then people will ask me if I'm mixed. Like this dude asked me the other day was I afro-arab. I got a real kick out of that. But other than that, nope. Identify as black on all forms of registration as well.
I'm im here screaming
A Cack is a Cack.
As long as it's healthy and clean.
I could give a fuck what race or ethnicity.
Quote from: Ralf on September 22, 2015, 09:52:31 PM
A Cack is a Cack.
As long as it's healthy and clean.
I could give a fuck what race or ethnicity.
And long...
africa >>>>>
that is all! hehe :cheerup: