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Title: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 10:45:22 PM
As everyone know I was born, raised and now I'm living as an adult in Mississippi. I used to always say that I'll never leave, but it's like the older i get, I have more of a desire to leave here. As much as I love my home, I feel l've outgrown this place. I never thought I'd say that  :'(
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Kurama on June 07, 2017, 10:49:57 PM
Outgrowing a place is a testament to your growth, it's definitely a good thing!
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 10:53:48 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 07, 2017, 10:49:57 PM
Outgrowing a place is a testament to your growth, it's definitely a good thing!

I always said that I would go back to college and finish my degree and leave, but I feel like I should leave before that  :dead: But it's hard for me because I don't want to be leave my friends and family, especially my youngest brother. That's my heart.

But I know it would probably be good for ME if I did leave.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Rxxf on June 07, 2017, 10:54:07 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 07, 2017, 10:49:57 PM
Outgrowing a place is a testament to your growth, it's definitely a good thing!
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GRAND on June 07, 2017, 10:54:20 PM
I don't wanna stay in the same place for more than 5 years dddsd
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 10:56:26 PM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on June 07, 2017, 10:54:20 PM
I don't wanna stay in the same place for more than 5 years dddsd
:dead: I've been here for all 28 years of my life and this is really all I know. The more I travel and go see other places, the more I want to leave. :dead:
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on June 07, 2017, 10:57:19 PM
Gorl get up owt there memphis is nice
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:02:29 PM
Don't wanna go to Memphis lol
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:32:12 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe

I never wanted to go up North.

Probably Texas or Georgia
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:41:25 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:32:12 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe

I never wanted to go up North.

Probably Texas or Georgia
as much as I hate Houston that could be good for u.
Or Dallas
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:45:23 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:41:25 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:32:12 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe

I never wanted to go up North.

Probably Texas or Georgia
as much as I hate Houston that could be good for u.
Or Dallas

I love Houston a lot. That's where I really wanna go.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:45:53 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:45:23 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:41:25 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:32:12 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe

I never wanted to go up North.

Probably Texas or Georgia
as much as I hate Houston that could be good for u.
Or Dallas

I love Houston a lot. That's where I really wanna go.
make it happen then bro
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:47:39 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:45:53 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:45:23 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:41:25 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 07, 2017, 11:32:12 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:30:48 PM
where would u move?
i feel like atlanta would be smart because its cheap..
and then after that.. move up north...
but to jump from mississippi to up north wouldnt be smart..

atlanta gives u an idea of a faster pace and up beat vibe

I never wanted to go up North.

Probably Texas or Georgia
as much as I hate Houston that could be good for u.
Or Dallas

I love Houston a lot. That's where I really wanna go.
make it happen then bro

I'm visiting Dallas soon. So I wanna see what that's like too.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Heated🔥 on June 07, 2017, 11:53:18 PM
Move to a big city like NYC.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:54:59 PM
Quote from: Mary Jane on June 07, 2017, 11:53:18 PM
Move to a big city like NYC.
thats too much of a leap from Mississippi
Not good advice at all
Unless he has family there that he can depend on
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 12:01:19 AM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:54:59 PM
Quote from: Mary Jane on June 07, 2017, 11:53:18 PM
Move to a big city like NYC.
thats too much of a leap from Mississippi
Not good advice at all
Unless he has family there that he can depend on

I have absolutely NO family in New York
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Heated🔥 on June 08, 2017, 12:04:24 AM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:54:59 PM
Quote from: Mary Jane on June 07, 2017, 11:53:18 PM
Move to a big city like NYC.
thats too much of a leap from Mississippi
Not good advice at all
Unless he has family there that he can depend on
true cause chileeee these bills.
But I just thought it'd be completely different from what he's used to.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: GLOCK on June 08, 2017, 12:07:35 AM
Quote from: Mary Jane on June 08, 2017, 12:04:24 AM
Quote from: GLOCK on June 07, 2017, 11:54:59 PM
Quote from: Mary Jane on June 07, 2017, 11:53:18 PM
Move to a big city like NYC.
thats too much of a leap from Mississippi
Not good advice at all
Unless he has family there that he can depend on
true cause chileeee these bills.
But I just thought it'd be completely different from what he's used to.
yeah that's a good idea for someone in D.C., chicago or la
But to move from the country to that expensive ass place sheesh

Scotty would be back home before the month ends
Like anyone from the Deep South
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on June 08, 2017, 12:19:22 AM
don't come to NYC unless you want roomates and you got coin

A lot of people in my new job have to migrate to the city from the south before July 2 and all these motherfuckers are shacking up in groups of four and struggling to find mess and a part time job.

im tryna move somewhere down near miss'soon nnn
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Real on June 08, 2017, 01:16:22 AM
Do it Scotty
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Rxxf on June 08, 2017, 01:32:08 AM
It would be nice for you to finish school or vocational training, then branch off.
You'd have more leverage.
But I'd def recommend you moving on.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: b7 on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: MelMel on June 08, 2017, 01:35:14 AM
Jameesha, if you got to go, you got to go!
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on June 08, 2017, 01:48:03 AM
I really want to move back to vermont it was nice and peacefull
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 01:56:11 AM
Mississippi?
:ummwhat:
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:14 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 01:56:11 AM
Mississippi?
:ummwhat:
Shut the hell up 🙄
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Yeah I still wanna be in the south for real. But I think I'm outgrowing Mississippi
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 01:59:53 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:14 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 01:56:11 AM
Mississippi?
:ummwhat:
Shut the hell up 🙄
Sorry luv but get the hell out of there.. FAST!!
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 02:00:31 AM
I'm jk tho, is it a small town where everyone knows everyone?
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:08:34 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:00:31 AM
I'm jk tho, is it a small town where everyone knows everyone?

EVERYONE knows everyone.

1 high school, 3 middle schools and 3 elementary schools
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 02:14:17 AM
Uhhh, that's so scary to me but don't you think you'll get homesick since you're from such a small environment? And would you want to go somewhere where you already know someone or would you go completely alone?
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:16:39 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:14:17 AM
Uhhh, that's so scary to me but don't you think you'll get homesick since you're from such a small environment? And would you want to go somewhere where you already know someone or would you go completely alone?
That's partly why I'm undecided because I know I'll miss it tremendously.

I have friends that live in Houston and Dallas. My cousin recently left Mississippi and moved to Atlanta. So the places I'm thinking of, I won't be alone
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: b7 on June 08, 2017, 02:24:58 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Yeah I still wanna be in the south for real. But I think I'm outgrowing Mississippi
u got this bae  :blush:

Take ur time but maybe start putting the moves in place to get outta there. Any places you'd wanna go? Honestly, I'm not even joking but Nashville slays and charlotte seems nice as well. I got a lot of cousins there
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 02:28:02 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:16:39 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:14:17 AM
Uhhh, that's so scary to me but don't you think you'll get homesick since you're from such a small environment? And would you want to go somewhere where you already know someone or would you go completely alone?
That's partly why I'm undecided because I know I'll miss it tremendously.

I have friends that live in Houston and Dallas. My cousin recently left Mississippi and moved to Atlanta. So the places I'm thinking of, I won't be alone
You think you can do a gradual move like over a period of a few weeks? If not now then when?
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on June 08, 2017, 02:28:32 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 02:24:58 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Yeah I still wanna be in the south for real. But I think I'm outgrowing Mississippi
u got this bae  :blush:

Take ur time but maybe start putting the moves in place to get outta there. Any places you'd wanna go? Honestly, I'm not even joking but Nashville slays and charlotte seems nice as well. I got a lot of cousins there
Nashville is pretty fckn awesome!! I never would've imagined.. :uhh:
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:29:33 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 02:24:58 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Yeah I still wanna be in the south for real. But I think I'm outgrowing Mississippi
u got this bae  :blush:

Take ur time but maybe start putting the moves in place to get outta there. Any places you'd wanna go? Honestly, I'm not even joking but Nashville slays and charlotte seems nice as well. I got a lot of cousins there

I heard a lot about Nashville.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:31:28 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:28:02 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 02:16:39 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:14:17 AM
Uhhh, that's so scary to me but don't you think you'll get homesick since you're from such a small environment? And would you want to go somewhere where you already know someone or would you go completely alone?
That's partly why I'm undecided because I know I'll miss it tremendously.

I have friends that live in Houston and Dallas. My cousin recently left Mississippi and moved to Atlanta. So the places I'm thinking of, I won't be alone
You think you can do a gradual move like over a period of a few weeks? If not now then when?

Uh no. My mother just started back working about 3 weeks ago after 11 months of being unemployed due to her injury, so I was taking care of her and my brother financially.

I wanna save up and do that. I can't afford to just up and leave right now when I'm just now starting back focusing on me.
Title: Re: Just doing some thinking
Post by: b7 on June 08, 2017, 06:18:23 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 08, 2017, 02:28:32 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 02:24:58 AM
Quote from: Scott. on June 08, 2017, 01:58:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2017, 01:33:32 AM
Aw that's normal.  Maybe you just need a break/vacation of some kind first

See how reenergized you feel, cuz sometimes a permanent change of scenery isn't needed. BUT if you make that move and start fresh, that's great too.

Maybe stay down south but just move outta ur area so it isn't TOO drastic of a change, unless you feel that's what you need.
Yeah I still wanna be in the south for real. But I think I'm outgrowing Mississippi
u got this bae  :blush:

Take ur time but maybe start putting the moves in place to get outta there. Any places you'd wanna go? Honestly, I'm not even joking but Nashville slays and charlotte seems nice as well. I got a lot of cousins there
Nashville is pretty fckn awesome!! I never would've imagined.. :uhh:
fdffggggggg I was SHOCKED