I read that going alone is best if you want to meet new people or potential boo thangs. Something about guys being less scared to approach since they won't have an audience if you reject them etc. Still that sounds sooo scary, like you would have to be a natural born social butterfly to pull it off imo. Have you ever gone to the club alone?
I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance
I love the club
The lights, the outfits, the rush of getting ready and not knowing what the night will bring
Ack!
When I first started going out I thought I needed a group of people but all they wanted to do was perch on the wall and couldn't dance
Quote from: Cho-Ku on June 23, 2017, 02:10:19 AM
I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance
I love the club
The lights, the outfits, the rush of getting ready and not knowing what the night will bring
Ack!
When I first started going out I thought I needed a group of people but all they wanted to do was perch on the wall and couldn't dance
I guess its easier if you're a regular and know a bunch of people already. I went for the first time last week and it seemed like everyone was in a clique. I would have been miserable if I went alone and had to dance by myself :stressed:
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I mean.... I did it when I first moved to NYC. That's how I made my first set of friends. It was a day/rooftop party though. Idk if I could do an actual "night" club by myself. That's kinda awkward. Day parties are more social and a great way to meet people (with some form of substance).
Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.
Quote from: Cho-Ku on June 23, 2017, 02:10:19 AM
I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance
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Yea.... And I think that's why I often prefer just going to straight clubs. I always say what I'm looking for, I'm not gonna find in the damn club. I'm just trying to dance and get drunk like MelMel.
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I hardly go out to gay bars/clubs these days. I've gone to gay clubs alone many times but not to meet anyone. I go to enjoy myself and have a good time.
I'd probably go now that I've gotten used to being more social.
But I gotta move from the HELL im in now.
Quote from: Kordei Jauregui. on June 23, 2017, 07:51:37 AM
Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.
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Are yall all extroverts??
Quote from: Same Ol' G on June 23, 2017, 09:55:30 AM
Quote from: Kordei Jauregui. on June 23, 2017, 07:51:37 AM
Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.
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Quote from: AlmondEyes on June 23, 2017, 01:57:07 AM
I read that going alone is best if you want to meet new people or potential boo thangs. Something about guys being less scared to approach since they won't have an audience if you reject them etc. Still that sounds sooo scary, like you would have to be a natural born social butterfly to pull it off imo. Have you ever gone to the club alone?
Im the furthest thing from a natural born social butterfly, but my very first visit to one was alone :plzstop: . I had fun, too.
Quote from: Here4Ghan on June 23, 2017, 02:02:41 AM
V wtf y'all think these faggs do every weekend
go with their friends
but I went to a gay sports bar by myself once, it was a much older crowd and I was just perched watching the game ignoring anybody that was trying to hit or look at me. Wasn't my type of crowd but that was like a step 1 for me to get more comfortable.
A damn club... idk I'd probably be a the bar the whole time.
never been to one.
Nope
i was in Paris by myself last summer and went to a gay club.
best experience ever. The first hour and a half no one would talk to me and I was like :hmph:
Also, I don't speak French. But I forced myself to stay there and eventually met this cool British dude and we partied till 5:00 a.m.
Sometimes you have to take yourself out of your comfort zone to experience the best things.
Tried it. Fuck those fags.
:fuming:
Quote from: Kurama on June 23, 2017, 05:17:14 PM
Tried it. Fuck those fags.
:fuming:
you should go to one with me. We'd have so much fun.
Quote from: Kordei Jauregui. on June 23, 2017, 05:19:56 PM
Quote from: Kurama on June 23, 2017, 05:17:14 PM
Tried it. Fuck those fags.
:fuming:
you should go to one with me. We'd have so much fun.
I agree. When we linking?
I think for me, it's the environment. I NEVER have a good time at a gay club here. EVER.
But when I went to Houston and went to Bayou City, I had a wonderful time.
When I step on the dance floor it just seems people start moving a BIT more
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Quote from: AlmondEyes on June 23, 2017, 02:55:35 PM
Are yall all extroverts??
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I honestly don't know what the fuck I am anymore. :dead: but if you're in a new city, don't know anybody, and don't wanna sit up in the fucking crib, you'll eventually get the fuck out and meet people. :dead: Nobody knows you, wtf is there to be scared of?
Probably not
Went to Bulldogs in Atlanta with my homeboy a few months ago. He went to the dancefloor and I kinda perched around the club. I got groped like 20 times.
Clubs are the pits
Quote from: Nine on June 24, 2017, 04:07:36 PM
Clubs are the pits
so lemme know what we bout to do tonight then sis? Cuz I don't plan on laying up on this couch watching old Bey videos.
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