If you're really...genuinely attracted to someone, and the conversations are going very well, but in the back of your mind you can't help but noticing that they are very well off....is it something to feel bad about?
Well I shouldn't say "feel bad", but is it something that you just shouldn't do? I think as humans its natural for us to be impressed when we see people who appear to be a lot more "well-off" than we are.
If you were already very attracted to this person before you even noticed it, is it even worth beating yourself up about when you actually do take notice? Like..what does the fact that you're even thinking about it SAY about you as a person???
Quote from: KhoiZan on July 03, 2017, 02:34:02 PM
If you're really...genuinely attracted to someone, and the conversations are going very well, but in the back of your mind you can't help but noticing that they are very well off....is it something to feel bad about?
Well I shouldn't say "feel bad", but is it something that you just shouldn't do? I think as humans its natural for us to be impressed when we see people who appear to be a lot more "well-off" than we are.
If you were already very attracted to this person before you even noticed it, is it even worth beating yourself up about when you actually do take notice? Like..what does the fact that you're even thinking about it SAY about you as a person???
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Let me know when you wrap this up, hon. I'd like to spend the day pulling at Nicki's K-Mart collection.
I'm not seeing the issue if the attraction was already there before you noticed anything.
Quote from: KhoiZan on July 03, 2017, 02:40:52 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 03, 2017, 02:37:42 PM
I'm not seeing the issue if the attraction was already there before you noticed anything.
That's how I feel. I just needed that confirmation I guess.
Thank u :stressed: I can stop beating myself up now.
I just don't like gay men (or men period ) who aren't independent so for me to even be thinking about that mess.. Independence is one part of "manhood" that I actually love. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
But even if the attraction wasn't there until after you noticed it I still wouldn't see the problem.
You SHOULD be attracted to someone like that.
Um
No
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In fact I've been inspired by the well off fags I've met over time
I was trying to get like THEM
Brb
If u don't fucking bask in this MESS..
It should be in the back of your mind..
Security >>>
Having someone that u don't have worry about their card declining while owt and thangs >>
Just enjoy the fucking moment and if he wants to SPLURGE...
Let em!
Ha ha
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Quote from: KhoiZan on July 03, 2017, 04:01:09 PM
Quote from: G! on July 03, 2017, 03:53:40 PM
If u don't fucking bask in this MESS..
It should be in the back of your mind..
Security >>>
Having someone that u don't have worry about their card declining while owt and thangs >>
Just enjoy the fucking moment and if he wants to SPLURGE...
Let em!
Ha ha
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i just felt like a real BIRD for a split second .
but mess. long as im not quitting my job or giving up my apartment on some bogus fairytale shit. lets mess lolz
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EX ACK! LY!
Having your own >
But spending someone ELSE'S >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
and it just can't be debated ha ha ha
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There's no reason to feel bad tbh. :omgwatshappening: If you feel bad it says more about how you feel about yourself like you don't think you're worthy of dating someone well off? I say, just enjoy the moment and go for it.
Should I turn on 'Gifted' girls?
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