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I thought this was an interesting "theory" I guess you can call it. Are u good with apologizing when you're in the wrong? Did ur parents?
I guess maybe some of them felt like "ch, in the parent, he's the child. Fuck I look like apologizing"? :dead: but idk
My mom is a softy so she definitely would apologize for pretty much whatever, and my dad was similar in his own way but he was more of the just act like nothing happened type more than anything :dead:
My dad is like this and so am I to an extent. I'll argue I'm right for a few days then apologize after awhile lol
Partially. My mom will apologize but she'll never admit that she's in the wrong. I think most parents hit a certain age and start to believe they know everything.
I have never heard my mother say the word "sorry" in my 25 years of life :dead:
I doubt my father has heard her say it too :dead: :kii:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:49:23 AM
Partially. My mom will apologize but she'll never admit that she's in the wrong. I think most parents hit a certain age and start to believe they know everything.
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Quote from: MASTER MOST HIGH DIVINE SAINT on July 11, 2017, 07:51:25 AM
I have never heard my mother say the word "sorry" in my 25 years of life :dead:
I doubt my father has heard her say it too :dead: :kii:
My mother will say some shit like "I'm sorry you took it that way..."
Bitch that's not an apology :uhh:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:53:03 AM
Quote from: MASTER MOST HIGH DIVINE SAINT on July 11, 2017, 07:51:25 AM
I have never heard my mother say the word "sorry" in my 25 years of life :dead:
I doubt my father has heard her say it too :dead: :kii:
My mother will say some shit like "I'm sorry you took it that way..."
Bitch that's not an apology :uhh:
ggggggggggggggggggggggggg
Mine would just look at you like your asking for money
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:49:23 AM
Partially. My mom will apologize but she'll never admit that she's in the wrong. I think most parents hit a certain age and start to believe they know everything.
dsddffff my dad does the "I'm sorry if YOU felt ..." bullshit ass apology :dead: "if you think"
Tf is "if" ccvvvv im literally shoving the receipts in ur face, dummy.
:melmel:
Omg yummy >>><<<
Fkcmmcmcmv
She's really hard headed and stubborn, and it's kinda sad because now my sisters have started acting just like her and I can't deal.
It's like being apolgetic for them is showing weakness :dead:
You can't be a rude bitch all your life ^o)
This is why I hate when brag about being petty.
There's nothing cute about refusing to express your emotions like an adult and doing some underhanded shit instead.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:57:33 AM
This is why I hate when brag about being petty.
There's nothing cute about refusing to express your emotions like an adult and doing some underhanded shit instead.
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That game is for 6 year olds, not grown adults. :dead:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:57:33 AM
This is why I hate when brag about being petty.
There's nothing cute about refusing to express your emotions like an adult and doing some underhanded shit instead.
right :dead: if I see that word one more time, I'm gonna scream. It's overused, and often misused in the first place ssddd dumb fags
Quote from: 1RIG on July 11, 2017, 08:00:13 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:57:33 AM
This is why I hate when brag about being petty.
There's nothing cute about refusing to express your emotions like an adult and doing some underhanded shit instead.
right :dead: if I see that word one more time, I'm gonna scream. It's overused, and often misused in the first place ssddd dumb fags
fvgffrgtrb
!Im so petty yaawwl!! lmaoo" :udontlookok:
Ncncnncncnvn I definitely agree, sometimes that just isn't necessary depending on our relationship or dynamic.
If ur the type to just stick with the same mess and it becomes a pattern, why would I even bother? n
My father never apologized for anything ever. He just can't do it.
Apologies do sooo much for me. That's why I give them easily and I'm not too proud about it. It lets the person know you don't put yourself above them and that they are not crazy for feeling some kinda way.
Ppl that say sorry>>>>>
Yea i think alot of people "move on" but im not like that at all. I can't have an issue with someone and gloss over it. As a matter of fact, i cant even hardly talk to someone if i have an issue with them because I can't speak around things or ignore a situation if i feel some kinda way. So if we had some sorta problem, i probably won't speak until its squared away
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
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I don't think my parents have ever apologized to me for anything :dead:
I'm trying not to be like that though. I try to apologize to people if I know I'm in the wrong.
My parents spoiled me so it's hard for me to apologize. I do, however, feel very bad when I do something bad to someone else
Quote from: REMY on July 11, 2017, 08:15:02 AM
Apologies do sooo much for me. That's why I give them easily and I'm not too proud about it. It lets the person know you don't put yourself above them and that they are not crazy for feeling some kinda way.
Ppl that say sorry>>>>>
wait king
:stressed:
Yea I don't hold on to things. I can't do it
Quote from: 1RIG on July 11, 2017, 08:38:23 AM
Quote from: REMY on July 11, 2017, 08:15:02 AM
Apologies do sooo much for me. That's why I give them easily and I'm not too proud about it. It lets the person know you don't put yourself above them and that they are not crazy for feeling some kinda way.
Ppl that say sorry>>>>>
wait king
:stressed:
Yea I don't hold on to things. I can't do it
It's soooo soothing when a person ya feel some kinda way about just gives you a lil apology mess. It gives you that closure.
:stressed:
This is so true, my mom is never wrong and never apologizes.
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on July 11, 2017, 08:20:02 AM
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.
I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.
Quote from: Drais. on July 11, 2017, 09:14:58 AM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on July 11, 2017, 08:20:02 AM
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.
I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.
ya sorr', you're always wrong LMAO
my parents apologize if they know they're wrong and I guess that's why I have no problem doing it either
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 11, 2017, 07:53:03 AM
Quote from: MASTER MOST HIGH DIVINE SAINT on July 11, 2017, 07:51:25 AM
I have never heard my mother say the word "sorry" in my 25 years of life :dead:
I doubt my father has heard her say it too :dead: :kii:
My mother will say some shit like "I'm sorry you took it that way..."
Bitch that's not an apology :uhh:
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I hate those fake ass, backhanded apologies. It sounds just like "if I hurt your feelings/you, I'm sorry".
Tch, YES I was hurt and I DID take offense. These statements do not admit fault, it's conditional. This should be corrected.
! j211
I'll apologize if I was wrong. And sometimes my mouth is the reason for a lot of my issues.
But sometimes it's hard to accept an apology from those hurt me tho
Im almost never wrong so i don't apologize much but i have no problem issuing an apology if it's warranted
Apologizing is a mixed bag for me tbh. I hate admitting I'm wrong, but I'll do it if it needs to be done.
:19k:
Yeah I agree completely. Luckily me and my mom have gotten to a place where she can admit being wrong or apologize for things, still takes some convincing though.
I think a few folks hit the nail on the head for me. People see apologies or admitting fault as being weak. Same as they do emotions. It's about power also. If someone can admit that they're wrong, they simultaneously admit that the other person was right (giving them the upper hand).
I really wish people didn't think like this, but I think that hinders folks from owning their shit too.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 11, 2017, 08:18:46 AM
Yea i think alot of people "move on" but im not like that at all. I can't have an issue with someone and gloss over it. As a matter of fact, i cant even hardly talk to someone if i have an issue with them because I can't speak around things or ignore a situation if i feel some kinda way. So if we had some sorta problem, i probably won't speak until its squared away
!!!! Let's get the mess out
Oh and I only really apologize to folks that are reciprocal or mature enough to not see everything as a wrong vs right type of thing.
There are some things I would like to apologize for to my former best friend but he's obstinate and he will never want to admit the harm he caused our relationship
:fuming:
it is sorta disgusting how hard it is for people to apologize
Quote from: Kurama on July 11, 2017, 11:33:23 AM
Oh and I only really apologize to folks that are reciprocal or mature enough to not see everything as a wrong vs right type of thing.
There are some things I would like to apologize for to my former best friend but he's obstinate and he will never want to admit the harm he caused our relationship
:fuming:
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Apologies are a two way street, I hate it when people use it throw it back in your face or use it to score points.
Quote from: GLOW on July 11, 2017, 11:34:22 AM
it is sorta disgusting how hard it is for people to apologize
yh very
Nah, i don't apologize based on other people. That whole apologies are for you thing is very true. U can't let other people dictate how u carry urself. If i feel bad for sumn i did, I'll apologize. U don't apologize with the hopes to get one in return. I'll own what i did and then i can move on from it and feel satisfied
My mother just moved on for the most part. She apologizes sometimes, but never for the shit I want her to.
Then I again I don't really apologize to her much but I will to other people.
Quote from: KhoiZan on July 11, 2017, 11:42:01 AM
I think it's safe to bet that at least 50 -60% of apologies are fake bbbbbb
r u a statistician
ssddsddddddddssss
Yh most apologies are probably bullshit.
Honestly if you're someone that has to apologizes for shit all the time you need to start looking in the mirror and figuring out wtf is wrong with you.
I apologize when I'm wrong or even when I feel like I might have hurt someone's feelings when it wasn't my intent.
If I said what I said then it is what the fuck it is.
Moving on to me means I will live on like you don't exist. I don't do the back and forth.
Quote from: Drais. on July 11, 2017, 09:14:58 AM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on July 11, 2017, 08:20:02 AM
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.
I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.
shut up babe
Quote from: Kurama on July 11, 2017, 11:30:04 AM
Yeah I agree completely. Luckily me and my mom have gotten to a place where she can admit being wrong or apologize for things, still takes some convincing though.
I think a few folks hit the nail on the head for me. People see apologies or admitting fault as being weak. Same as they do emotions. It's about power also. If someone can admit that they're wrong, they simultaneously admit that the other person was right (giving them the upper hand).
I really wish people didn't think like this, but I think that hinders folks from owning their shit too.
:loose2when:
Quote from: KhoiZan on July 11, 2017, 08:03:43 AM
Sometimes it's just best to move forward, anyway.
I just got over some mess with my coworker, I think I vented here a bit about it. She stepped out of line and forgot that we were colleagues, not boss/employee. She got put back in her place, and I could tell she was angry about it for weeks but I honestly didn't care. BUT, it was affecting our WORK relationship. That's what concerned me.
We recently started being nice/cordial again, and for the sake of better TEAMWORK I am glad that we did. Part of me was like, maybe I should apologize for the misunderstanding we had, etc. But then I was like , for what? :plzstop: She stepped out of line, got out of pocket, and had to be checked. What is there to apologize about? We good.
And everything's still fine. :woohoo:
With or without some Oprah moment
chile thats how it is kinda with my immediate supervisor
work related she gets checked on her laziness and bs
she doesn't like me but
outside of work related stuff we are really cool
but we dont hang out or anything after work its just we clash alot on work related topics
but i have 2 other more knowledgeable and caring supervisors i can bring stuff too so my immediate supervisor is kind of a non factor
Quote from: 1RIG on July 11, 2017, 12:14:19 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 11, 2017, 09:14:58 AM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on July 11, 2017, 08:20:02 AM
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.
I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.
shut up babe
!
Lew go away
Quote from: 1RIG on July 11, 2017, 12:14:19 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 11, 2017, 09:14:58 AM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on July 11, 2017, 08:20:02 AM
My family apologizes
I don't though often, because I'm never wrong
I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.
I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.
shut up babe
!!
Fck this fag
Quote from: Drais. on July 11, 2017, 12:12:51 PM
Yh most apologies are probably bullshit.
Guess Ill keep mine then, dyke :uhh: