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Title: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:47:42 AM
Like how does this affect you and why does it concern you?

It always starts with "can I as you something? don't get OFFENDED but...."

I personally never felt the need to do this to anyone. It ain't my damn business  :hmph:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:49:12 AM
someone ask you that hon?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:51:10 AM
are you really fem?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:51:38 AM
Quote from: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:49:12 AM
someone ask you that hon?

Yes....like bitch get the fuck out my face.

im only asking cuz I don't know your sexuality

How does this affect YOUR life ?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:51:48 AM
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don't think they would be asking if he was
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:52:22 AM
Quote from: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:51:10 AM
are you really fem?

I'm just me  :cheerup:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:54:19 AM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:51:38 AM
Quote from: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:49:12 AM
someone ask you that hon?
im only asking cuz I don't know your sexuality
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she's NOSY!

was she ummm ...  :young: ?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:57:36 AM
Quote from: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:54:19 AM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:51:38 AM
Quote from: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 10:49:12 AM
someone ask you that hon?
im only asking cuz I don't know your sexuality
d

dddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

she's NOSY!

was she ummm ...  :young: ?


!!!
Like bitch
The next question was so you've never dated a guy? Someone told me you dated Jimi

I'm just like  :ohwow: no I'm straight as an arrow

My thing is if I feel the need to tell you or if I'm that comfortable with you I will. Idk who gave you the audacity to even ask me that. Yes bitch now I am offended
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:57:45 AM
bb

maybe the person wants to fuck you and just wants to know..why is it so offensive

Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:59:09 AM
Quote from: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:57:45 AM
bb

maybe the person wants to fuck you and just wants to know..why is it so offensive

Cuz it ain't your fuckin business. I'm not asking her of her sexuality nor do I care
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 11:01:08 AM
mmm

i think the person you're speaking off is just annoying iN GENERAL....you're not really offended by the question itself.. its the person its coming from.

Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:04:02 AM
Quote from: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 11:01:08 AM
mmm

i think the person you're speaking off is just annoying iN GENERAL....you're not really offended by the question itself.. its the person its coming from.

That's not even it honestly. She's cool but I mean we ain't that cool where I feel the need to share my personal life with her whether I was straight or not. I've just never been the person to have my business out there like that. If I'm comfortable with you I don't mind at all. Don't feel the need to pry into my private life  :19k:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BigDawg on July 01, 2015, 11:04:30 AM
Nosy ass bitch

If we not fuckin hoe..,then it dont mattuh? What is your sexuality bitch? Amphibian? GTFOH ya skank

Ugh Hug,.,I would have cussed ha OWT
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:04:55 AM
Then try to back it up with what you heard. Won't get not confirmation from me!  :cheerup:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:06:20 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 01, 2015, 11:04:30 AM
Nosy ass bitch

If we not fuckin hoe..,then it dont mattuh? What is your sexuality bitch? Amphibian? GTFOH ya skank

Ugh Hug,.,I would have cussed ha OWT

!!!

I was like the nerves of this heffa. I just never understood why people
Do that
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Admin on July 01, 2015, 11:06:33 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 01, 2015, 11:04:30 AM
Nosy ass bitch

If we not fuckin hoe..,then it dont mattuh? What is your sexuality bitch? Amphibian? GTFOH ya skank

Ugh Hug,.,I would have cussed ha OWT
:dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BRockaBaby on July 01, 2015, 11:09:34 AM
I mean some people ask because they want to make sure they don't offend you with certain things they may say. I personally don't mind if people ask, especially if it's in a way of wanting to be considerate and respectful in conversation.

For example if I'm around my hetero guy friends, they know I'm gay so when they begin talking about girls and pussy, they know not to ask me any questions pertaining to that. Instead they include me in the convo with things more pertaining to gay sex like "dude is it the same with guys?" or "i hate when chicks XXX. do guys do that shit to during sex?"

Now sometimes people are asking just to be nosey but I find most times in my life, when asked it's so they know how to carry conversation with me and refrain from saying something that may be offensive. I had a friend that used to use the word "FAG" religiously. LIke it was just a normal part of her convo before she and I began to get close. When we finally talked seriously, she asked me do I have a girlfriend or boyfriend. I told her no I don't have a boyfriend, obviously making it known i'm gay. Since then, she doesn't use the word around me and actually apologized for using it so vulgarly.

Don't take it so personal.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BigDawg on July 01, 2015, 11:10:06 AM
Because they think they know, what they really dont know.  If they get that piece of your life they think they got you pegged.

Lol I'll tell you my sexuality,if you tell me what your social security number is
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:16:50 AM
If takes a lot to offend me. Im only offended by words like "fag" if it came from my family honestly. She was just being nosy.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 01, 2015, 11:17:26 AM
Yea, that's rude. Fuck ha.
:hmph:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Zankou. on July 01, 2015, 11:18:12 AM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on July 01, 2015, 11:09:34 AM
Don't take it so personal.

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Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:21:15 AM
I just never go around asking ppl their sexuality. Never understood it cuz it's not adding anything to my life.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hatsumomo on July 01, 2015, 11:47:40 AM
I asked a guy once if he worked out and he said " are you gay " ? I didn't think that was too flirty but whatever .
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:51:51 AM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on July 01, 2015, 11:47:40 AM
I asked a guy once if he worked out and he said " are you gay " ? I didn't think that was too flirty but whatever .


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Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: OhHey on July 01, 2015, 12:27:20 PM
It's always the ugly lonely ones who wants confirmation of ones
sexuality (I.E my former friend). Like gor' regardless
you're bumming for rides, dropped out of college and
struggling for shelter. Meanwhile I'm just living.

:cheerup:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: pCj on July 01, 2015, 04:16:53 PM
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I don't really see the problem here. Are you out?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 04:19:43 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:47:42 AM
Like how does this affect you and why does it concern you?

It always starts with "can I as you something? don't get OFFENDED but...."

I personally never felt the need to do this to anyone. It ain't my damn business  :hmph:
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Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 04:19:51 PM
ur a faggot.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 01, 2015, 04:26:58 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:52:22 AM
Quote from: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:51:10 AM
are you really fem?

I'm just me  :cheerup:

n

That means yeah lls
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 04:28:25 PM
Quote from: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 01, 2015, 04:26:58 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:52:22 AM
Quote from: Stewie on July 01, 2015, 10:51:10 AM
are you really fem?

I'm just me  :cheerup:

n

That means yeah lls
marg  :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Bulldagger on July 01, 2015, 04:51:54 PM
I remember I was shopping at this sneaker store called R Sole wearing a , "Legalize it" shirt and these black kids were snickering when I walked in. At the time, I didn't know why.  When I left out of the store, they were all standing around, and the leader of the clique stopped me and asked, "Are you gay? They said you are because you're wearing that shirt." I just looked at him like  :whogonbook: and continued to my car. So fucking nosy these people.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Nine on July 01, 2015, 04:54:57 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Treasure on July 01, 2015, 04:59:10 PM
tha guys i talk to
i nev' ask wen we firs chill cuz most of 'em b ins'cure
but afta i put 'em to sleep n they wake up

we talk a bit lols....they a b quick to tell me they bi or gay but dnt want ppl knowin
my current beau dnt give a fck tho
he jus not bout to go 'round wavin gay flags n shit lols!
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 01, 2015, 05:07:26 PM
It's more weird than it is rude.
But I have no problem saying im gay.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 01, 2015, 05:18:52 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 01, 2015, 04:59:10 PM
tha guys i talk to
i nev' ask wen we firs chill cuz most of 'em b ins'cure
but afta i put 'em to sleep n they wake up

we talk a bit lols....they a b quick to tell me they bi or gay but dnt want ppl knowin
my current beau dnt give a fck tho
he jus not bout to go 'round wavin gay flags n shit lols!

n
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: SUPREME on July 01, 2015, 08:48:30 PM
nmmmmmmmmmmmm

people are just curious about things they dont understand

whats funnier is when people dont understand you have NO attraction to females

'what... how? whew, you crazy lozl' FAG, DO YOU LIKE DICK?
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 08:56:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on July 01, 2015, 08:48:30 PM
nmmmmmmmmmmmm

people are just curious about things they dont understand

whats funnier is when people dont understand you have NO attraction to females

'what... how? whew, you crazy lozl' FAG, DO YOU LIKE DICK?
I can't lie, I often questioned how a woman could have no attraction to men. Like, r u sure ? not even a tinsy lolz :ohwow:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: SUPREME on July 01, 2015, 08:58:39 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 08:56:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on July 01, 2015, 08:48:30 PM
nmmmmmmmmmmmm

people are just curious about things they dont understand

whats funnier is when people dont understand you have NO attraction to females

'what... how? whew, you crazy lozl' FAG, DO YOU LIKE DICK?
I can't lie, I often questioned how a woman could have no attraction to men. Like, r u sure ? not even a tinsy lolz :ohwow:

STUDS are usually DISGUSTED by dick

:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:07:10 PM
Conversations like that aren't ok at work, IMO.  keep wondering and guessing dummies

n

people just want something to talk about during breaks and downtime
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:08:16 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:07:10 PM
Conversations like that aren't ok at work, IMO.  keep wondering and guessing dummies

n

people just want something to talk about during breaks and downtime
someone messing with my king?   :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:17:06 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:08:16 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:07:10 PM
Conversations like that aren't ok at work, IMO.  keep wondering and guessing dummies

n

people just want something to talk about during breaks and downtime
someone messing with my king?   :diddraispoot:
vvvvc just some MESS from my previous job

they were so curious

:ohwow:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:19:10 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:17:06 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:08:16 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:07:10 PM
Conversations like that aren't ok at work, IMO.  keep wondering and guessing dummies

n

people just want something to talk about during breaks and downtime
someone messing with my king?   :diddraispoot:
vvvvc just some MESS from my previous job

they were so curious

:ohwow:
thats cuz ur so cayute  :justabit:

no one cares when ur busted lolz

gay ..straight...questioning....don't give a fuck! lmao! :cheerup:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 01, 2015, 09:20:56 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 08:56:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on July 01, 2015, 08:48:30 PM
nmmmmmmmmmmmm

people are just curious about things they dont understand

whats funnier is when people dont understand you have NO attraction to females

'what... how? whew, you crazy lozl' FAG, DO YOU LIKE DICK?
I can't lie, I often questioned how a woman could have no attraction to men. Like, r u sure ? not even a tinsy lolz :ohwow:

I don't believe anyone cannot like the male form 100%.
Its just.. woo.  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:40:24 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:19:10 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:17:06 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 09:08:16 PM
Quote from: RekeRig on July 01, 2015, 09:07:10 PM
Conversations like that aren't ok at work, IMO.  keep wondering and guessing dummies

n

people just want something to talk about during breaks and downtime
someone messing with my king?   :diddraispoot:
vvvvc just some MESS from my previous job

they were so curious

:ohwow:
thats cuz ur so cayute  :justabit:

no one cares when ur busted lolz

gay ..straight...questioning....don't give a fuck! lmao! :cheerup:
vcccvv   :blush:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:43:04 PM
herb u u sucked a dick before a bottle little baby fag
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 10:48:34 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:43:04 PM
herb u u sucked a dick before a bottle little baby fag
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0QoVTlrlq66  :nowgorl:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Dee on July 01, 2015, 10:53:40 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 10:48:34 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:43:04 PM
herb u u sucked a dick before a bottle little baby fag
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0QoVTlrlq66  :nowgorl:

sfsfsfsffssffsddsdddd
You came out SWINGING  :plzstop: "beetch FUCK YEW!"
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Sinpool on July 01, 2015, 10:54:55 PM
I think it's messy to do it at work

but in general I don't think there's really nything wrong with it. I think most people who are gay are more uncomfortable with it because of the stigma against being gay. Because if you ask a straight he'll just be upfront I like PUSSY, but ask a gay and it's "Oh labels, Im not a soup can!."

But I get why its uncomfortable.
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 11:06:28 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 10:48:34 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:43:04 PM
herb u u sucked a dick before a bottle little baby fag
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0QoVTlrlq66  :nowgorl:


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Boomz on July 01, 2015, 11:07:24 PM
Quote from: D.E.E on July 01, 2015, 10:53:40 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 01, 2015, 10:48:34 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 01, 2015, 10:43:04 PM
herb u u sucked a dick before a bottle little baby fag
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0QoVTlrlq66  :nowgorl:

sfsfsfsffssffsddsdddd
You came out SWINGING  :plzstop: "beetch FUCK YEW!"

xxxxffffffffffffffffffa
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Scott. on July 02, 2015, 12:01:33 AM
You're a faggot, fag!
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Cade on July 04, 2015, 03:02:47 PM
I think its RUDE as fuck. Cause 90% of the time it comes from a woman and its like bitch how does that affect YOU!?
And if it comes from a guy then its even worst cause that just means they want you to be gay but don't know how to say it
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Stewie on July 04, 2015, 03:11:05 PM
Quote from: Emma Frost on July 01, 2015, 10:54:55 PM
I think it's messy to do it at work

but in general I don't think there's really nything wrong with it. I think most people who are gay are more uncomfortable with it because of the stigma against being gay. Because if you ask a straight he'll just be upfront I like PUSSY, but ask a gay and it's "Oh labels, Im not a soup can!."

But I get why its uncomfortable.

hit the nail on the head

Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 03:37:11 PM
Why is it anyone else's business who you are fuckin, that is so personal...like damn do you wanna know what color my shit is too?...mint green...lima bean green...terra ma sue brown
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 04, 2015, 03:43:21 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 03:37:11 PM
Why is it anyone else's business who you are fuckin, that is so personal...like damn do you wanna know what color my shit is too?...mint green...lima bean green...terra ma sue brown
:udontlookok:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 03:52:29 PM
Quote from: Cade on July 04, 2015, 03:02:47 PM
I think its RUDE as fuck. Cause 90% of the time it comes from a woman and its like bitch how does that affect YOU!?
And if it comes from a guy then its even worst cause that just means they want you to be gay but don't know how to say it

!!!!!
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 04, 2015, 03:54:45 PM
n
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 04:03:56 PM
Quote from: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 04, 2015, 03:54:45 PM
n

Marg sis...you've been shading me lately...everything okay? :stressed:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: yummy on July 04, 2015, 04:06:47 PM
am mean, I think it can be quite presumptuous at times but if you're a homo and see no shame in it...
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 04:11:21 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 04, 2015, 03:43:21 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 03:37:11 PM
Why is it anyone else's business who you are fuckin, that is so personal...like damn do you wanna know what color my shit is too?...mint green...lima bean green...terra ma sue brown
:udontlookok:

Waddup

(http://i.imgur.com/nRIU3KA.gif?1)
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 04:14:08 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 04:11:21 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 04, 2015, 03:43:21 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 04, 2015, 03:37:11 PM
Why is it anyone else's business who you are fuckin, that is so personal...like damn do you wanna know what color my shit is too?...mint green...lima bean green...terra ma sue brown
:udontlookok:

Waddup

(http://i.imgur.com/nRIU3KA.gif?1)

Smsksksjsjsb
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Herb. on July 04, 2015, 04:40:59 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 04:03:56 PM
Quote from: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 04, 2015, 03:54:45 PM
n

Marg sis...you've been shading me lately...everything okay? :stressed:
bitch ur trash.

told u once i shitlist u, its kinda a ripple effect. lolz  :supluv:
Title: Re: Why do people feel it's okay to ask ones sexuality?
Post by: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 04:56:33 PM
Quote from: Herb. on July 04, 2015, 04:40:59 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 04, 2015, 04:03:56 PM
Quote from: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on July 04, 2015, 03:54:45 PM
n

Marg sis...you've been shading me lately...everything okay? :stressed:
bitch ur trash.

told u once i shitlist u, its kinda a ripple effect. lolz  :supluv:

ripple some soap on a wash cloth and beat that fuckin back faggot.