Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
It depends on the type of jealousy though. Peer? Relationships? Career?
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
Quote from: BowDown on October 18, 2015, 03:48:09 PM
It depends on the type of jealousy though. Peer? Relationships? Career?
No specification. We're addressing the emotion itself.
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
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Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:51:12 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
BBBBBNBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBNnbbbbnnbbbb
:omgwatshappening:
I'm sorry but you put it PERFECTLY. :stressed: For me, at least. This is exactly how I feel.
I've come to understand and enjoy the jealously sometimes in my relationship.
Not that we're cheating on each other. But like when I may get a lil jealous that he's spending a lot of time with his friends or vice versa, or any other minor thing. Its not a "jealous" that would make me go off the handles just a little feeling I feel. I enjoy it now because its nothing but love. :stressed:
Career jealously? I dunno. Once I get out of college and start to work up my field. I'll see.
and I've never been jealous of a single person in my life. If I ever feel like I want something, It just makes me want to work harder for whatever it is I want. :helloimangie:
Quote from: Baphomet. on October 18, 2015, 03:58:38 PM
I've come to understand and enjoy the jealously sometimes in my relationship.
Not that we're cheating on each other. But like when I may get a lil jealous that he's spending a lot of time with his friends or vice versa, or any other minor thing. Its not a "jealous" that would make me go off the handles just a little feeling I feel. I enjoy it now because its nothing but love. :stressed:
Career jealously? I dunno. Once I get out of college and start to work up my field. I'll see.
and I've never been jealous of a single person in my life. If I ever feel like I want something, It just makes me want to work harder for whatever it is I want. :helloimangie:
I see what you mean. But you say that you've never been jealous of anyone in your life, but just admitted that there's jealousy when your boyfriend's friends get more of his time than you'd want them to. That's jealousy towards an individual.
I think that more people would be open to expressing these moments as they are, if jealousy wasn't such a publicly shamed emotion: "Haters!" "Bye Felicia!", etc. ...these terms all make it a very negative thing just to have a very human emotion.
But as Que said, it's all about how you HANDLE these emotions. This makes the difference between a human and a "hater". Someone is branded a "hater" when they've chosen to handle their jealousy in a negative, harmful way.
It's weird because I've never been jealous of anything or anyone in my entire life. I've always known that there are people out there who are better than I am in a lot of different aspects of life. I just strive to work hard for whatever opportunity I want in life, whether it's financial or personal. If you want to be somewhere in life, I've always believe if you work hard, you can achieve it no matter what circumstances or obstacles come your way. I just do the best that I can as a person and live my life according to what I can do.
The few times I've experienced it, i didn't know how to handle it because I've always told myself I'm the best Antonio i can be
So when it happened i got angry ncncnccn
And of course it was within a relationship
Quote from: Jay. on October 18, 2015, 04:06:06 PM
It's weird because I've never been jealous of anything or anyone in my entire life. I've always known that there are people out there who are better than I am in a lot of different aspects of life. I just strive to work hard for whatever opportunity I want in life, whether it's financial or personal. If you want to be somewhere in life, I've always believe if you work hard, you can achieve it no matter what circumstances or obstacles come your way. I just do the best that I can as a person and live my life according to what I can do.
So in all of your years of living, including childhood, you've never experienced the emotion of envy?
I've never been jealous to the point that it fucks with me. Like if I see a girl that's pretty i'll be like "wow that fucking gorgeous bitch" & then I move on with my day & forget about it moments later tbh
:letsmessfag:
Quote from: Kaeli. on October 18, 2015, 04:13:37 PM
I've never been jealous to the point that it fucks with me. Like if I see a girl that's pretty i'll be like "wow that fucking gorgeous bitch" & then I move on with my day & forget about it moments later tbh
:letsmessfag:
Good job. :wub:
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
To me jealousy is such a useless emotion, even tho it's natural. It is really a green-eyed monster used for destruction (Othello) :dead:
I count my blessings and keep it moving :ohwow:
Quote from: SUPREME on October 18, 2015, 04:07:55 PM
The few times I've experienced it, i didn't know how to handle it because I've always told myself I'm the best Antonio i can be
So when it happened i got angry ncncnccn
And of course it was within a relationship
waitt
Quote from: stillyaleader on October 18, 2015, 04:17:20 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
To me jealousy is such a useless emotion, even tho it's natural. It is really a green-eyed monster used for destruction (Othello) :dead:
I count my blessings and keep it moving :ohwow:
Good job lil sis. :wub: I agree.
Remembering how wonderful and blessed you are is a perfect antidote for these moments.
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 04:18:44 PM
Quote from: stillyaleader on October 18, 2015, 04:17:20 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
To me jealousy is such a useless emotion, even tho it's natural. It is really a green-eyed monster used for destruction (Othello) :dead:
I count my blessings and keep it moving :ohwow:
Good job lil sis. :wub: I agree.
Remembering how wonderful and blessed you are is a perfect antidote for these moments.
:blush:
Let it fuel me. it should really just be turned into motivation, depending on what we're talking about. In terms of relationships, I just get quiet, keep to myself even more and become a little cold/short. I'm not argumentative or confrontational, but you'll know I'm pissed or upset
Quote from: RIG on October 18, 2015, 04:22:46 PM
Let it fuel me. it should really just be turned into motivation, depending on what we're talking about. In terms of relationships, I just get quiet, keep to myself even more and become a little cold/short. I'm not argumentative or confrontational, but you'll know I'm pissed or upset
you're passive aggressi'. like me. lolz :supluv: I get the same way when I feel some type of way, if I feel hurt more so. Not jealous.
I handle envy pretty much the same way as everyone's stated in here, including you. Turning it into motivation is a fabulously productive way to make something out of nothing.
Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
Quote from: NexTae on October 18, 2015, 05:02:21 PM
Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
:stressed:
ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.
I don't know how I would handle it in a relationship now. I imagine the same way I do in any other instance.
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Quote from: SUPREME on October 18, 2015, 04:07:55 PM
The few times I've experienced it, i didn't know how to handle it because I've always told myself I'm the best Antonio i can be
So when it happened i got angry ncncnccn
And of course it was within a relationship
waitt
why do you think I'm called ton fag
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:04:01 PM
Quote from: NexTae on October 18, 2015, 05:02:21 PM
Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
:stressed:
ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.
Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.
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Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
:stressed:
ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.
Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.
Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. :wub: Not in a bad way. I know what you mean. We don't know their struggle. So why continue to envy their success.
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Quote from: NexTae on October 18, 2015, 05:02:21 PM
Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
:stressed:
ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.
Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.
Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. :wub: Not in a bad way.
I know you didn't mean it in a bad way and I love how you just put this. :wub:
Quote from: NexTae on October 18, 2015, 05:11:14 PM
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Quote from: NexTae on October 18, 2015, 05:02:21 PM
Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.
:stressed:
ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.
Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.
Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. :wub: Not in a bad way.
I know you didn't mean it in a bad way and I love how you just put this. :wub:
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Relationship jealousy is a big pne for me career and material things not so much
But :(
I've never been jealous....of anything. But naturally it's ok to be jealous in a relationship....I think people are afraid of losing something naturally so yea jealously is normal
So in all of your life, even as a child, you've never been jealous of anything? That's amazing.
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 04:54:20 PM
Quote from: RIG on October 18, 2015, 04:22:46 PM
Let it fuel me. it should really just be turned into motivation, depending on what we're talking about. In terms of relationships, I just get quiet, keep to myself even more and become a little cold/short. I'm not argumentative or confrontational, but you'll know I'm pissed or upset
you're passive aggressi'. like me. lolz :supluv: I get the same way when I feel some type of way, if I feel hurt more so. Not jealous.
I handle envy pretty much the same way as everyone's stated in here, including you. Turning it into motivation is a fabulously productive way to make something out of nothing.
!!!! Dfddddd
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:51:47 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:51:12 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
BBBBBNBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBNnbbbbnnbbbb
:omgwatshappening:
I'm sorry but you put it PERFECTLY. :stressed: For me, at least. This is exactly how I feel.
I think it's important to let your emotions flow..never try to hide or suppress them. We all get jealous..like you said its natural. As I get older I'm learning that you don't have to be sort of a puppet to how you are feeling. Some days I'm good at it..some days I'm not.
And I'm very sensitive so it's VERY hard. I hide it well.
envy is great mot'vation mess for me
i aint been feelin it lately tho...guess cuz ive reach a point where im happ' 'bout ev'thing in my life n wit myself
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:37:58 PM
So in all of your life, even as a child, you've never been jealous of anything? That's amazing.
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Quote from: Vix on October 18, 2015, 05:36:41 PM
I've never been jealous....of anything. But naturally it's ok to be jealous in a relationship....I think people are afraid of losing something naturally so yea jealously is normal
me n u in tha sames boat
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
This may sound weird but I never process that someone is being jealous or intentionally malicious until it becomes blatantly obvious and in my face :dead: Even if I find out someone is talking shit I'm always like "oh :ohwow: " I can't bring myself to give a fuck and that's just the honest truth. I have a habit of avoiding confrontation so I walk away from situations and even people just to avoid that energy.
If a guy is jealous, I avoid them cause super jealous guys tend to be controlling and I can't deal with that type of stuff. If it's a girl, I just don't say shit lolz cause they're clearly jealous due to insecurity so I just watch them fume. :ohwow: I dealt with that a lot in high school fjjjj
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:40:23 PM
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Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:51:12 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
BBBBBNBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBNnbbbbnnbbbb
:omgwatshappening:
I'm sorry but you put it PERFECTLY. :stressed: For me, at least. This is exactly how I feel.
I think it's important to let your emotions flow..never try to hide or suppress them. We all get jealous..like you said its natural. As I get older I'm learning that you don't have to be sort of a puppet to how you are feeling. Some days I'm good at it..some days I'm not.
Right.
We publicly shame jealousy and envy all the time, when many of us have those emotions. It's to the point where some will not admit to even having one instance of jealousy in their entire being on Earth. :plzstop: It's because we fear being labeled a "hater"; many of us would enjoy being perceived as the opposite. Someone who is consistently confident, never has downtime, never wishes they had more, or not even in the slightest bit envy those who do: in other words -- perfect.
It's hard for many of us to step outside of that box, because in the age of social media, and filters, and relationship statuses, we're taught to be that perfect person. To have the flawless skin, to have the amazing life, to have the perfect "bae" . We are somehow taught to be or portray the person who is envied. So for us to even admit that sometimes we're on the opposite side of the fence, it's not appetizing.
Quote from: TheNextLew on October 18, 2015, 05:26:28 PM
Relationship jealousy is a big pne for me career and material things not so much
But :(
smmsmm; !!!!
Yeah in a 'ship I don't handle it so well
:mmywheresddy:
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:47:19 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:40:23 PM
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Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
BBBBBNBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBNnbbbbnnbbbb
:omgwatshappening:
I'm sorry but you put it PERFECTLY. :stressed: For me, at least. This is exactly how I feel.
I think it's important to let your emotions flow..never try to hide or suppress them. We all get jealous..like you said its natural. As I get older I'm learning that you don't have to be sort of a puppet to how you are feeling. Some days I'm good at it..some days I'm not.
Right.
We publicly shame jealousy and envy all the time, when many of us have those emotions. It's to the point where some will not admit to even having one instance of jealousy in their entire being on Earth. :plzstop: It's because we fear being labeled a "hater"; many of us would enjoy being perceived as the opposite. Someone who is consistently confident, never has downtime, never wishes they had more, or not even in the slightest bit envy those who do: in other words -- perfect.
It's hard for many of us to step outside of that box, because in the age of social media, and filters, and relationship statuses, we're taught to be that perfect person. To have the flawless skin, to have the amazing life, to have the perfect "bae" . We are somehow taught to be or portray the person who is envied. So for us to even admit that sometimes we're on the opposite side of the fence, it's not appetizing.
whew!! If y'all don't preach on today
:stressed:
Quote from: iman on October 18, 2015, 05:46:36 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
This may sound weird but I never process that someone is being jealous or intentionally malicious until it becomes blatantly obvious and in my face :dead: Even if I find out someone is talking shit I'm always like "oh :ohwow:
ssdddddddddddd !!!!!!
But after that my passive aggressive switch will turn right the fuck on and it's war. I'll shade you downe so it can give u a reason to say something to me then That'll give me a reason to blow up on you :ohwow:
fff I mean, I think that the people who say all the time that they're never jealous most likely are but I don't doubt that there are people who never are jealous. Personally speaking, I'm not a jealous person cause I'm comfortable with myself and what I have and can offer.
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Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:40:23 PM
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Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 03:48:20 PM
Just put my best foot forward. I'm learning not to let my emotions control my actions
Fucking fabulous. Flawless.
BBBBBNBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBNnbbbbnnbbbb
:omgwatshappening:
I'm sorry but you put it PERFECTLY. :stressed: For me, at least. This is exactly how I feel.
I think it's important to let your emotions flow..never try to hide or suppress them. We all get jealous..like you said its natural. As I get older I'm learning that you don't have to be sort of a puppet to how you are feeling. Some days I'm good at it..some days I'm not.
Right.
We publicly shame jealousy and envy all the time, when many of us have those emotions. It's to the point where some will not admit to even having one instance of jealousy in their entire being on Earth. :plzstop: It's because we fear being labeled a "hater"; many of us would enjoy being perceived as the opposite. Someone who is consistently confident, never has downtime, never wishes they had more, or not even in the slightest bit envy those who do: in other words -- perfect.
It's hard for many of us to step outside of that box, because in the age of social media, and filters, and relationship statuses, we're taught to be that perfect person. To have the flawless skin, to have the amazing life, to have the perfect "bae" . We are somehow taught to be or portray the person who is envied. So for us to even admit that sometimes we're on the opposite side of the fence, it's not appetizing.
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I think there's a difference between instances of jealousy and being a "jealous person". Some people may be confusing that in the thread.
I always find it strange when i find out someone doesn't like me though (not on here bbvvvv)
But I've learned your confidence can be off putting to insecure people. And i don't even flaunt it.
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:43:55 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:37:58 PM
So in all of your life, even as a child, you've never been jealous of anything? That's amazing.
sdsfddddddffffffdddddff
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: SUPREME on October 18, 2015, 06:02:07 PM
I always find it strange when i find out someone doesn't like me though (not on here bbvvvv)
But I've learned your confidence can be off putting to insecure people. And i don't even flaunt it.
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Quote from: iman on October 18, 2015, 05:46:36 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 03:44:42 PM
Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).
But here's my question. How do you handle it?
This may sound weird but I never process that someone is being jealous or intentionally malicious until it becomes blatantly obvious and in my face :dead: Even if I find out someone is talking shit I'm always like "oh :ohwow: " I can't bring myself to give a fuck and that's just the honest truth. I have a habit of avoiding confrontation so I walk away from situations and even people just to avoid that energy.
If a guy is jealous, I avoid them cause super jealous guys tend to be controlling and I can't deal with that type of stuff. If it's a girl, I just don't say shit lolz cause they're clearly jealous due to insecurity so I just watch them fume. :ohwow: I dealt with that a lot in high school fjjjj
the red part >>><<<
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 06:02:47 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:43:55 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:37:58 PM
So in all of your life, even as a child, you've never been jealous of anything? That's amazing.
sdsfddddddffffffdddddff
:omgwatshappening:
i hate when ppl say that. It's such a CROCK.
Do you guys see how I simply asked how an emotion is handled, not if you've actually experienced the emotion or not, but some of us felt a need to come in solely to proclaim that we've never had one instance of envy in our lives? That's what I mean.
Not saying anyone is right or wrong, just circling back to one of my points.
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Quote from: SUPREME on October 18, 2015, 06:02:07 PM
I always find it strange when i find out someone doesn't like me though (not on here bbvvvv)
But I've learned your confidence can be off putting to insecure people. And i don't even flaunt it.
f
NZNZNXNZNZ
JEALOUS fag?
:ohwow:
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 06:05:17 PM
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Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2015, 05:43:55 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 05:37:58 PM
So in all of your life, even as a child, you've never been jealous of anything? That's amazing.
sdsfddddddffffffdddddff
:omgwatshappening:
i when ppl say that. It's such a CROCK.
sddddddddddddddddddddddd
I'm sure everyone has been jealous at some point. maybe some in here are referring to now in their adult lives.
nope
ive nev' been jealous of an'one
its true
We are all wonderfully and uniquely made. I'm learning to be fine and happy the way I am. ❤️
We must realize jealously is something we were made to feel because of what society says someone "should have" or "should look like" . No one is born jealous. I don't believe it to be a natural emotion. It's learned. We must learn to let go of that emotion.
It isn't healthy.
I admire those who love themselves completely.
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2015, 06:12:49 PM
We are all wonderfully and uniquely made. I'm learning to be fine and happy the way I am. ❤️
We must realize jealously is something we were made to feel because of what society says someone "should have" or "should look like" . No one is born jealous. I don't believe it to be a natural emotion. It's learned. We must learn to let go of that emotion.
It isn't healthy.
I admire those who love themselves completely.
I love this!!!
There are so many types of jealousy that could arise in life. I feel as if some of us are picking and choosing which ones to focus on. Some professional, some aesthetic, etc. Jealousy is just as human as sadness, anger or happiness. And just as those emotions, different occasions or settings can bring different degrees or variations of envy.
Again, this circles back to how the emotion has gained such a bad rep (Understandably so). It's all about how we manage EVERY emotion. I just happened to pick one.
Jealousy in a relationship is a waste of time. Find somebody else to control with your insecurities cause it damn sure won't be me, faggot.
As far as me being jealous of someone else...I stopped giving those kinds of thoughts any attention a while ago. I'm not aligning my success with someone else's and I'm not in any contest.
I'm just kinda staying in my lane :jetbeauty:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 18, 2015, 06:19:21 PM
Jealousy in a relationship is a waste of time. Find somebody else to control with your insecurities cause it damn sure won't be me, faggot.
As far as me being jealous of someone else...I stopped giving those kinds of thoughts any attention a while ago. I'm not aligning my success with someone else's and I'm not in any contest.
I'm just kinda staying in my lane :jetbeauty:
:wub: :supluv:
So you dodge past them and keep it moving.
Very much : (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7qz1xc6Jr1r1okmxo2_250.gif)
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 18, 2015, 06:19:21 PM
Jealousy in a relationship is a waste of time. Find somebody else to control with your insecurities cause it damn sure won't be me, faggot.
As far as me being jealous of someone else...I stopped giving those kinds of thoughts any attention a while ago. I'm not aligning my success with someone else's and I'm not in any contest.
I'm just kinda staying in my lane :jetbeauty:
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znmmmmmm
ya know I had to come fuck witcha...
did bert really pee on that girl?
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Quote from: Young on October 18, 2015, 06:12:49 PM
We are all wonderfully and uniquely made. I'm learning to be fine and happy the way I am. ❤️
We must realize jealously is something we were made to feel because of what society says someone "should have" or "should look like" . No one is born jealous. I don't believe it to be a natural emotion. It's learned. We must learn to let go of that emotion.
It isn't healthy.
I admire those who love themselves completely.
I can't agree that jealousy is learned.
For instance:
Sibling rivalry, which is very common, results from degrees of jealousy and competition. We are not taught by our parents to compete against one another. However, there is an innate want of acceptance by those who have bore and raised us. When we feel that's in danger, or a sibling is getting more of that (even though many times its not even the case), we feel envy. As humans.
Well yeah i nean look at mel hes so hell bent on creating this perfect online guy to the point where ok now its just kinda delusional all because he doesnt want to be judged for the way he looks
But at the end of the day u gotaa deal with it
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 18, 2015, 06:23:57 PM
znmmmmmm
ya know I had to come fuck witcha...
did chris really beat that girl rihanna?
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:howfestive:
cv
fuck ya hun
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 18, 2015, 06:23:57 PM
znmmmmmm
ya know I had to come fuck witcha...
did bert really pee on that girl?
(http://i.imgur.com/HuGCrP7.gif)
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i jus gotta dis'gree wit 'fro
cuz jealousy is not in me
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tranny, you jealous of the real womuhs
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Quote from: Herbie on October 18, 2015, 06:18:50 PM
There are so many types of jealousy that could arise in life. I feel as if some of us are picking and choosing which ones to focus on. Some professional, some aesthetic, etc. Jealousy is just as human as sadness, anger or happiness. And just as those emotions, different occasions or settings can bring different degrees or variations of envy.
Again, this circles back to how the emotion has gained such a bad rep (Understandably so). It's all about how we manage EVERY emotion. I just happened to pick one.
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Quote from: iman on October 18, 2015, 06:38:29 PM
tranny, you jealous of the real womuhs
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gurl..fckin pl-..forreal.....but come n help me put this tampon in my boot' hole
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Quote from: Plankesha on October 18, 2015, 06:41:08 PM
Quote from: iman on October 18, 2015, 06:38:29 PM
tranny, you jealous of the real womuhs
(http://i.imgur.com/HuGCrP7.gif)
gurl..fckin pl-..forreal.....but come n help me put this tampon in my boot' hole
(http://i.imgur.com/HuGCrP7.gif)
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Quote from: Stewie on October 18, 2015, 07:26:14 PM
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SDDDDDSSSDDDDSSSDDDSDD
Quote from: Stewie on October 18, 2015, 07:26:14 PM
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