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Title: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 09:33:20 PM
I know a lot of us blacks give a slight  " :plea:  :overit: " when mixed people begin talking about how tough it is growing up with racial ambiguity.....

oh! struggle! must be hard! :overit:

But it makes sense to me. There's a sense of power in knowing which community you belong to without a doubt. We know we're black. Our skin is dark. Even lighter skinned blacks usually have African features. In other words, you can tell they're a light skinned black person. LOL.

But to go without really fitting in with any crowd at all, I'd imagine that can be hard. Does anyone see what I am saying?
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 09:34:00 PM
And let me clarify, I feel bad for people who STRUGGLE with their racial ambiguity. Not all of them as a whole. Before I get tugged a bit. :dead:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 10:07:20 PM
well u bitches have not an ounce of sympathy :usureuok:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Plank on October 19, 2015, 10:10:00 PM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Nine on October 19, 2015, 10:11:08 PM
I didn't even wanna post in here cause I don't want the sympathy but we do have it so hard

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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Stewie on October 19, 2015, 10:11:15 PM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 10:12:08 PM
Quote from: 9九 on October 19, 2015, 10:11:08 PM
I didn't even wanna post in here cause I don't want the sympathy but we do have it so hard

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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Stewie on October 19, 2015, 10:14:46 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 19, 2015, 10:10:00 PM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 19, 2015, 10:24:24 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 19, 2015, 09:33:20 PM
I know a lot of us blacks give a slight  " :plea:  :overit: " when mixed people begin talking about how tough it is growing up with racial ambiguity.....

oh! struggle! must be hard! :overit:

But it makes sense to me. There's a sense of power in knowing which community you belong to without a doubt. We know we're black. Our skin is dark. Even lighter skinned blacks usually have African features. In other words, you can tell they're a light skinned black person. LOL.

But to go without really fitting in with any crowd at all, I'd imagine that can be hard. Does anyone see what I am saying?
No, I think people like Paula Abdul, Rita Ora, and Nicole Scherzinger have it easy. They have the ability to blend into different circles without any questions asked. They're allowed to just be the "American's " that Raven-Symone wants access to. Seems like they're free from carrying the baggage of racial stereotypes
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Sinpool on October 19, 2015, 10:25:40 PM
f

Rita is white.
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: throwintheTAL on October 19, 2015, 10:28:49 PM
Nicole Sherziburger stays on ryan seacrest crying about not being relatable
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 10:33:05 PM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 19, 2015, 10:24:24 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 19, 2015, 09:33:20 PM
I know a lot of us blacks give a slight  " :plea:  :overit: " when mixed people begin talking about how tough it is growing up with racial ambiguity.....

oh! struggle! must be hard! :overit:

But it makes sense to me. There's a sense of power in knowing which community you belong to without a doubt. We know we're black. Our skin is dark. Even lighter skinned blacks usually have African features. In other words, you can tell they're a light skinned black person. LOL.

But to go without really fitting in with any crowd at all, I'd imagine that can be hard. Does anyone see what I am saying?
No, I think people like Paula Abdul, Rita Ora, and Nicole Scherzinger have it easy. They have the ability to blend into different circles without any questions asked. They're allowed to just be the "American's " that Raven-Symone wants access to. Seems like they're free from carrying the baggage of racial stereotypes
I never addressed how "easy" they have it on the pedestal that society places them on; this thread is more in regard to the feelings many of them may face when trying to fit in, especially during childhood. I've heard countless stories of ambiguous looking people who faced shade from both sides of the family (not fitting in with their white side, not quite accepted by the black side, etc).
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: BranLover on October 19, 2015, 10:35:04 PM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 19, 2015, 10:36:32 PM
is everything a god damn fucking joke on here :usureuok:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: BAPHOMET. on October 19, 2015, 10:39:03 PM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 19, 2015, 10:40:57 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 19, 2015, 10:33:05 PM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 19, 2015, 10:24:24 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 19, 2015, 09:33:20 PM
I know a lot of us blacks give a slight  " :plea:  :overit: " when mixed people begin talking about how tough it is growing up with racial ambiguity.....

oh! struggle! must be hard! :overit:

But it makes sense to me. There's a sense of power in knowing which community you belong to without a doubt. We know we're black. Our skin is dark. Even lighter skinned blacks usually have African features. In other words, you can tell they're a light skinned black person. LOL.

But to go without really fitting in with any crowd at all, I'd imagine that can be hard. Does anyone see what I am saying?
No, I think people like Paula Abdul, Rita Ora, and Nicole Scherzinger have it easy. They have the ability to blend into different circles without any questions asked. They're allowed to just be the "American's " that Raven-Symone wants access to. Seems like they're free from carrying the baggage of racial stereotypes
I never addressed how "easy" they have it on the pedestal that society places them on; this thread is more in regard to the feelings many of them may face when trying to fit in, especially during childhood. I've heard countless stories of ambiguous looking people who faced shade from both sides of the family (not fitting in with their white side, not quite accepted by the black side, etc).
Yeah I guess it's similar to the LGBT "struggle". For years I thought queer people were the only minority group who didn't come from a family who were just like them, which subtract's an empathetic support system, however,  Now I can add Muggles to that list.
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Miranda on October 20, 2015, 02:41:41 AM
Don't be lol. I never struggled.
Just because you are racially ambiguous doesn't mean, you can't blend in.
:raycharles2urmess:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: iman on October 20, 2015, 05:03:29 AM
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and what's the other half?
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 05:04:23 AM
Stupid
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: iman on October 20, 2015, 05:06:39 AM
Quote from: Miranda on October 20, 2015, 02:41:41 AM
Don't be lol. I never struggled.
Just because you are racially ambiguous doesn't mean, you can't blend in.
:raycharles2urmess:

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racially ambiguous means you can't blend in tho :ohwow: people are asking where you're from and your ethnicity all the time.

you look black tbh
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 05:07:15 AM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 05:07:40 AM
'Oh but!' 'As for me!' 'Haha well I..!'

Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: iman on October 20, 2015, 05:08:46 AM
:plzstop: :kii:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Miranda on October 20, 2015, 05:14:21 AM
People are confused about my race every time. But when I tell them I'm Arab I get no questions asked, when I tell them I'm black the same.

They are not sure if I'm "black" but when I say I am they accept me as black / believe me (for the most part).
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Gilgamesh. on October 20, 2015, 05:25:40 AM
 :shannonsmissing: it's too early...
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 20, 2015, 06:02:26 AM
Malcolm you have a Middle Eastern look to you. Which is why no one questions you when you say Arab.
If I were to put a turban on you, you'd fit right in.
Racial ambiguity means that your look is unable to be placed into one slot by anyone.

It means that by appearance -- you could be white. maybe Hispanic. Possibly light skinned black.
Ambiguity means that ANY race could look at you and identify with your appearance.

Especially whites. Which is why ambiguous looking people are seen as having it "easy".
for their ability to perch next to Josh and Becky and remain undetected.
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: iman on October 20, 2015, 06:07:42 AM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on October 20, 2015, 06:14:59 AM
If its visible ur ambiguus then u just go with what looks the most likee y
The real ambiguous ones dont say shit and blend in wit whites or blacks

Case solved the unhave the real ones who arent what they look and screamin they are something they dont look like
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Miranda on October 20, 2015, 06:21:13 AM
Well I am no white looking red bone. lolz
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Young on October 20, 2015, 06:24:55 AM
Get my man out ya sig bby
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 20, 2015, 06:29:08 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on October 20, 2015, 06:14:59 AM
If its visible ur ambiguus then u just go with what looks the most likee y
The real ambiguous ones dont say shit and blend in wit whites or blacks

!!!
Which is why they are envied by many sometimes. Once their true ethnicity is discovered
Especially in such a racially driven country as America. It is seen as an advantage in many arenas.
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: yummy on October 20, 2015, 07:02:05 AM
Quote from: Miranda on October 20, 2015, 02:41:41 AM
Don't be lol. I never struggled.
Just because you are racially ambiguous doesn't mean, you can't blend in.
:raycharles2urmess:

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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on October 20, 2015, 09:01:26 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
No I didn't. I called Azealia Banks an "angry n***** b****." Why is it okay for other members to use this language and not me?
:nowgorl:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on October 20, 2015, 09:03:44 AM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 20, 2015, 09:04:40 AM
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 09:10:22 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:01:26 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
No I didn't. I called Azealia Banks an "angry n***** b****." Why is it okay for other members to use this language and not me?
:nowgorl:
if you felt it's ok why bleep out the words
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on October 20, 2015, 09:11:37 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 09:10:22 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:01:26 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
No I didn't. I called Azealia Banks an "angry n***** b****." Why is it okay for other members to use this language and not me?
:nowgorl:
if you felt it's ok why bleep out the words
Cause I got banned the last time I used them.

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on October 20, 2015, 09:15:37 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:11:37 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 09:10:22 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:01:26 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
No I didn't. I called Azealia Banks an "angry n***** b****." Why is it okay for other members to use this language and not me?
:nowgorl:
if you felt it's ok why bleep out the words
Cause I got banned the last time I used them.

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
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Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Herb. on October 20, 2015, 09:20:46 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:11:37 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 09:10:22 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:01:26 AM
Quote from: RED on October 20, 2015, 05:01:30 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 19, 2015, 10:51:07 PM
Blacks can be really rude tbqfh.
:overit:
you called one of us a 'soot nigger bitch' not too long ago
Keep that half Italian heritage in check bitch
No I didn't. I called Azealia Banks an "angry n***** b****." Why is it okay for other members to use this language and not me?
:nowgorl:
if you felt it's ok why bleep out the words
Cause I got banned the last time I used them.

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
:plea:
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: AIDS! on October 20, 2015, 09:28:55 AM
Hhhhhh I can't
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on October 20, 2015, 09:39:17 AM
I kinda feel like people with racial ambiguity have it the worst sometimes because they receive discrimination from basically everyone.
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: RekeRig on October 20, 2015, 09:40:43 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:39:17 AM
I kinda feel like people with racial ambiguity have it the worst sometimes because they receive discrimination from basically everyone.
idk about anything being worse than straight up BLACK in America, but no reason to compare
Title: Re: I feel bad for people who are racially ambiguous.
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on October 20, 2015, 09:45:27 AM
Quote from: RIG on October 20, 2015, 09:40:43 AM
Quote from: BowDown on October 20, 2015, 09:39:17 AM
I kinda feel like people with racial ambiguity have it the worst sometimes because they receive discrimination from basically everyone.
idk about anything being worse than straight up BLACK in America, but no reason to compare
I said "sometimes" because I feel like at times, not all of the time, it's worse because there are racist undertones coming from whites, blacks, etc.