When you're in the wrong?
:stressed:
Always
But then again, I'm rarely ever wrong. LOLZ
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Quote from: Trey on March 03, 2018, 02:27:37 AM
But then again, I'm rarely ever wrong. LOLZ
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this whole post was :letsmessfag:
Quote from: Trey on March 03, 2018, 02:27:37 AM
But then again, I'm rarely ever wrong. LOLZ
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I always apologize even when I?m not wrong.
Quote from: ???? on March 03, 2018, 01:34:58 AM
When you're in the wrong?
:stressed:
ONLY then.
if I know I'm right, I'll gladly cut someone off and never speak to them again :letsmessfag:
If I have something to gain. If not, I don?t see the point..
All the time !!!!!
Yes when I'm in the wrong.
Saying sorry is easy for me usually.
Even if I feel I was in the right or justified in my actions, I still apologize if I feel that I've done something wrong or out of my character.
Yes even if it takes me a day or so
Took a long time to get to that space
And it def shows a level of maturity
And I love to shock a GORL when I apologize and I?m not wrong
The desire to always be right def diminishes with age for me
Yeah
I'm sorry, dvy
[youtube autoplay=1 start=65 end=90]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TP7FTdx-ywA[/youtube]
I'm never wrong
Sometimes it's the simplest things that can make life so much more pleasant and repair relationships.
Listening is crucial. Communication is important overall. I've improved relationships with people very close to me simply by listening to what they feel, why they feel that way and taking all of that into consideration whenever I interact with them.
A little bit goes soooooo far. Crazy how just paying close attention to just a couple details, things that are SUPER easy to address/fix , can make a world of a difference. It's all about taking a step back, putting your pride and ego to the side and realizing what's more important.
Who wants a bunch of negative energy in their space 24/7? Or negative energy interfering with a relationship when it can be easily addressed? It's just not worth it. We're only given a certain amount of time here above the ground. Why spend it in negativity and nonsense.
When I feel like I need to.
Quote from: M'Baku on March 03, 2018, 11:16:10 AM
Yes even if it takes me a day or so
Took a long time to get to that space
And it def shows a level of maturity
And I love to shock a GORL when I apologize and I?m not wrong
The desire to always be right def diminishes with age for me
!!!!
This. "Being right" all the time eventually gets tiresome. I want peace morseo than that.
But when u apologize too much ppl will stomp on u
Quote from: jtwoeleven on March 03, 2018, 11:55:28 AM
Quote from: M'Baku on March 03, 2018, 11:16:10 AM
Yes even if it takes me a day or so
Took a long time to get to that space
And it def shows a level of maturity
And I love to shock a GORL when I apologize and I?m not wrong
The desire to always be right def diminishes with age for me
!!!!
This. "Being right" all the time eventually gets tiresome. I want peace morseo than that.
Quote from: jtwoeleven on March 03, 2018, 11:55:28 AM
Quote from: M'Baku on March 03, 2018, 11:16:10 AM
Yes even if it takes me a day or so
Took a long time to get to that space
And it def shows a level of maturity
And I love to shock a GORL when I apologize and I?m not wrong
The desire to always be right def diminishes with age for me
!!!!
This. "Being right" all the time eventually gets tiresome. I want peace morseo than that.
yes!!
Def weighs on you and your relationships with other humans
yes :woohoo:
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Yup
even when I'm in the right, just to keep the peace.
Quote from: Vibrant on March 03, 2018, 12:47:27 PM
Yup
even when I'm in the right, just to keep the peace.
c
fuck off you annoying stupid bitch
You need to apologize for that.
No, you need to, for that spelling.
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf2foFOFwom/
Quote from: Vibrant on March 03, 2018, 12:50:53 PM
No, you need to, for that spelling.
BDBDDBCCHCFHHFFFFFFFGGGG
Commere King.
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Quote from: BowDown on March 03, 2018, 12:52:35 PM
Quote from: Vibrant on March 03, 2018, 12:50:53 PM
No, you need to, for that spelling.
BDBDDBCCHCFHHFFFFFFFGGGG
Commere King.
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jjjjjjj come here you annoying bitch :'( :'( :'(
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on March 03, 2018, 10:02:28 AM
I always apologize even when I?m not wrong.
You gotta get out of that Jay, demand more for yourself. I used to do the same thing, and it subliminally sends out signals with the universe that you can be walked on.
I used to apologize way too much, accepting responsibility where the other person should've accepted it because I was afraid of losing them. Thank God for growth.
Quote from: MelMel on March 03, 2018, 02:39:05 AM
Quote from: Trey on March 03, 2018, 02:27:37 AM
But then again, I'm rarely ever wrong. LOLZ
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perfect self!
:letsmessfag:
Didnt wanna say it, but YEA
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I have no problem apologizing if I'm wrong.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 03, 2018, 11:20:28 AM
Yeah
I'm sorry, dvy
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:gorlonfire:
Quote from: Tonkaman on March 03, 2018, 01:17:30 PM
I used to apologize way too much, accepting responsibility where the other person should've accepted it because I was afraid of losing them. Thank God for growth.
Interesting take.
There's definitely variations to specific experiences.
No
It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho
Fuck apologies
Stand in your mess as long as you don?t do things with malicious intend.
hhhhhhh are you 13?
Quote from: hai on yew. on March 03, 2018, 09:55:39 AM
Quote from: Trey on March 03, 2018, 02:27:37 AM
But then again, I'm rarely ever wrong. LOLZ
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:gotchafag:
Quote from: CerSl?i Lannister on March 03, 2018, 03:58:13 PM
Fuck apologies
Stand in your mess as long as you don?t do things with malicious intend.
Well if there's a need to apologize, chances are you did or said something with malicious intent.
sdsd
So you agree with a few of us in here. :woohoo:
I only apologize for the WAY I say things
If I?m not sorry i ain?t gonna fckn say it
Actually I apologize to my mom if I hurt her feelings bc I dont mean to do that
Quote from: Vibrant on March 03, 2018, 12:49:04 PM
fuck off you annoying stupid bitch
cccvvvvvvvgffffff
Quote from: Wild Bitch on March 03, 2018, 03:53:35 PM
No
It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho
And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.
Quote from: Tonkaman on March 03, 2018, 04:44:41 PM
Quote from: Wild Bitch on March 03, 2018, 03:53:35 PM
No
It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho
And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.
He fucks his male cousins and uncles, you think he cares about morals?
Quote from: hai on yew. on March 03, 2018, 04:31:36 PM
Quote from: CerSl?i Lannister on March 03, 2018, 03:58:13 PM
Fuck apologies
Stand in your mess as long as you don?t do things with malicious intend.
Well if there's a need to apologize, chances are you did or said something with malicious intent.
sdsd
So you agree with a few of us in here. :woohoo:
No, because we live in a society where you can?t do shit without somebody being offended. Fuck people and their feelings.
Let?s not act like people don?t apologize with alternative motives. Being the bigger person! Dead it before it becomes a thing! Divert the attention!
Apologies are useless. If you can?t stand by a decision you make or are contemplating...don?t fucking do it.
Quote from: Vibrant on March 03, 2018, 04:47:21 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on March 03, 2018, 04:44:41 PM
Quote from: Wild Bitch on March 03, 2018, 03:53:35 PM
No
It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho
And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.
He fucks his male cousins and uncles, you think he cares about morals?
Makes sense now.
I get it Sle, but why did you include the "as long as you don't do things with malicious intent" part if apologies are useless and you shouldn't look back?
Standing in your mess is just that. Wrong or right.
I made up the phrase "stand in your mess" and sometimes it's definitely called for. But there are times that it may be worth taking a step back and evaluating things a bit.
Quote from: Nine on March 03, 2018, 12:51:13 PM
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf2foFOFwom/
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
But I do agree that some people are more about the whole "event" of an apology than the actual results it can provide.
It's usually painfully obvious when someone's doing something simply to make themselves look better or "bigger" than others, and when someone is being honest and transparent as possible.
Anytime someone leads their apology with "Imma be the bigger person and....", they might as well just stop talking to me because that's an insult. I'm the smaller person in this situation? You can't apologize to me by insulting me first. :plzstop:
The foundation of a genuine apology is accountability - and accountability is something that can not only be useful in friendships, but business relationships as well. You should never be too big to admit your fault, own it, make no excuses for it, and keep it moving. Don't wait on an apology from the other person, or a pat on the back for the gesture. You shouldn't expect a cookie for something you should be doing as an adult anyway.
Quote from: hai on yew. on March 03, 2018, 05:10:48 PM
I get it Sle, but why did you include the "as long as you don't do things with malicious intent" part if apologies are useless and you shouldn't look back?
Standing in your mess is just that. Wrong or right.
I made up the phrase "stand in your mess" and sometimes it's definitely called for. But there are times that it may be worth taking a step back and evaluating things a bit.
I had to include it as I can?t soeak on how the rest of you girls are and I don?t need nothing I said to be quoted for future references where it doesn?t apply.
I.E. I don?t sit and plot on ppl, I honestly don?t care enough to be consumed with anyone I don?t fuck with IRL. So I can?t picture a scenario where I feel I have to apologize to anyone. Not at this stage in life.
When I refer to stand in your mess (which I have been using long before I knew you) as of late it pertains to all the professional victims who always feel they?ve been wronged. I.E. I was in the grocery store the other day and this guy told these women ?it must be this busy in here today because of how hot you two are? ...these women thought nothing of it until this short dyke cut wearing ugly soccermom interjected herself and made this whole me too thing ...now was he wrong or was that bitch who wasn?t part of the conversation a dramatic cunt?
When have you used stand in your mess here before I did, luv? lol
If you track the first time it was used on here I'm certain I'd be the first one saying it here.
Try it out.
And feeling no need to apologize says nothing about what stage you're at in life IMO. It just says you do or say things and don't feel a need to apologize for them.
Nothing "wrong" with that, though.
I never said it was on here (hence the before I knew you part)
:ohhey:
Getting spicy
tangy too :woohoo:
Quote from: hai on yew. on March 03, 2018, 05:21:45 PM
But I do agree that some people are more about the whole "event" of an apology than the actual results it can provide.
It's usually painfully obvious when someone's doing something simply to make themselves look better or "bigger" than others, and when someone is being honest and transparent as possible.
Anytime someone leads their apology with "Imma be the bigger person and....", they might as well just stop talking to me because that's an insult. I'm the smaller person in this situation? You can't apologize to me by insulting me first. :plzstop:
The foundation of a genuine apology is accountability - and accountability is something that can not only be useful in friendships, but business relationships as well. You should never be too big to admit your fault, own it, make no excuses for it, and keep it moving. Don't wait on an apology from the other person, or a pat on the back for the gesture. You shouldn't expect a cookie for something you should be doing as an adult anyway.
!!!!!
:dead:
Yeah, but it takes me a few days to do so.
Quote from: ???? on March 04, 2018, 12:03:01 AM
Quote from: hai on yew. on March 03, 2018, 05:21:45 PM
But I do agree that some people are more about the whole "event" of an apology than the actual results it can provide.
It's usually painfully obvious when someone's doing something simply to make themselves look better or "bigger" than others, and when someone is being honest and transparent as possible.
Anytime someone leads their apology with "Imma be the bigger person and....", they might as well just stop talking to me because that's an insult. I'm the smaller person in this situation? You can't apologize to me by insulting me first. :plzstop:
The foundation of a genuine apology is accountability - and accountability is something that can not only be useful in friendships, but business relationships as well. You should never be too big to admit your fault, own it, make no excuses for it, and keep it moving. Don't wait on an apology from the other person, or a pat on the back for the gesture. You shouldn't expect a cookie for something you should be doing as an adult anyway.
!!!!!
:dead:
:cheerup:
Lemme announce how great I am for apologizing first! Then we'll get to me taking accountability, etc.If a gesture is that grand/humble it should speak for itself.
Quote from: Scott. on March 04, 2018, 12:14:13 AM
Yeah, but it takes me a few days to do so.
:kii:
I love you.
It is important for you to know what you are apologizing for, exactly?
I tend to have to know WHAT I'm apologizing for... and WHY (mainly for myself and others, for peace), too.
And when people apologize to me, I accept it but I don't fuck with them again right away. It takes me some time to absorb it all.
Quote from: ???? on March 04, 2018, 12:15:30 AM
Quote from: Scott. on March 04, 2018, 12:14:13 AM
Yeah, but it takes me a few days to do so.
:kii:
I love you.
:dead:
I'm just being honest. I'm very stubborn (Aquarian all the way), so when I know I'm wrong I don't even care at that moment, but a few days later after thinking it through, I'll apologize.
Quote from: southside vicious. (don't get it twisted) on March 03, 2018, 11:11:07 AM
Even if I feel I was in the right or justified in my actions, I still apologize if I feel that I've done something wrong or out of my character.
Taking responsibility or at least attempting to understand the other person and their point of view, is very important IMO. I can?t do the hard headed stubborn mess
Quote from: 1RIG on March 04, 2018, 01:52:27 AM
Taking responsibility or at least attempting to understand the other person and their point of view, is very important IMO. I can?t do the hard headed stubborn mess
Oh hush
I gotta story ...
So yawl know I?ve been really laid back lately, not really wanting to be in mess, more so just typing, usually on the go. I?m on a whole spiritual path. It?s wonderful.
But ... I went to a girl here ... in private, didn?t publicize it. I didn?t tell anyone else here. And mind you, a lot of girls told me, ?look don?t even try to be nice to her, she?s a lost cause?
But I was trying to do what I felt was the correct thing to do.
So I says to this girl .... look, we?ve interacted for years, there?s no deep beef.
We don?t have agree, but I can guarantee yo, we will be able to respectfully disagree!
Boom, bam. Short and straight to the point.
And I said .... sista .. never again can we do the foolishness of disagreeing in a malicious manner ..... in public!
So time passes, I?m ... of my word. Cause I really don?t like misunderstandings n mess.
And this next part isn?t shocking
The first opportunity this girl gets, she tries to cover up the entire convo, and go back to ?oh I?m being picked at! You just wanna get into it!? and proceeded to lie and make another member feel she was attacked. And this other member wasn?t able to pull the receipts of her being attacked either. It was a complete shit show.
And for me .... I really can?t do, catty sissies and messy punks. I refuse to.
What I?m saying is ... you have to be careful, who you extend genuine kindness to.
Because see, not every phagg even loves themselves to conduct themselves in a proper manner. Some girls are so used to being th brunt of the joke ... that they make themselves into a fckn clown
And see ... this sista here was so ready to get ?INTO IT? ... that she forgot that convo.
At times ... ppl are ugly on the outside and inside. So be weary of petty phagg s like that. Thank you for your time.
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omf
Thought we were done, Bent.
Seems like you're the one who needs to "move on".
It was clear you wanted to argue with me today.
I wasn't addressing you, and you found a need to cape for Hugo when no one was even attacking him.
And I know how you look so I won't even bother to address a conversation about looks with you.
Now are we finally done? Or is there more.
Cuz I coulda swore we "moved on" earlier today. I'm good. U good?
somebody pull th Receipts or me attacking this phagg
Because ?assuming? somebody ?wanted? to argue with you. That?s absolutely assinine and quite frankly ... stupid.
But see you?re a really weak phaggit Afro
You were so ready to be ?attacked?
And I see you?re upset I let the true tea be known
But what pisses me off, is your mothafckn fat ass was gonna sit and there and use Ray without him knowing th tea.
Phaggits like you need to come with a warning label
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So I'm gonna assume you haven't moved on.
Here's the thing - I have. I don't care and I'm done with it.
You requested my attention, you got it. Enjoy your Monday night. And get the hell over it.
Quote from: p.i.m.p. on March 05, 2018, 07:19:38 PM
Now are we finally done? Or is there more.
Cuz I coulda swore we "moved on" earlier today. I'm good. U good?
sssssssssss
?Oh close th curtains! I?m good!?
Bitch you weren?t good when you were calling me a bully
You weren?t good when you wanted to get into it.
The jig is up. Fake self
Just know I got your number, ya fat ass hussy
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Glock deflee need to apologize to me.
Quote from: p.i.m.p. on March 05, 2018, 07:26:22 PM
So I'm gonna assume you haven't moved on.
Here's the thing - I have. I don't care and I'm done with it.
You requested my attention, you got it. Enjoy your Monday night. And get the hell over it.
ssssssss
and you?re in here on MY cue
So we?ll be done when I?m finished phaggit!
Stop asking and sit back
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bent
i thought you were above the mess?
what is this?
:ohwow:
oh I'm above the mess
but when somebody is constantly running around playing victim
and trying to paint this negative narrative about me
all because they can't take when somebody doesn't agree with them
I'm not above correcting they ass
and that gives me every right to dig my foot into they ass
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Another spicy thread huh?
:young:
Quote from: Scott. on March 04, 2018, 03:20:57 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on March 04, 2018, 01:52:27 AM
Taking responsibility or at least attempting to understand the other person and their point of view, is very important IMO. I can?t do the hard headed stubborn mess
Oh hush
that wasn?t a shot at you babe. I know u didn?t think so, but i just wanna be clear sddds
I honesty hadn?t read the thread beyond page 2 before posting
What happened in here ??
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on March 05, 2018, 07:12:58 PM
I gotta story ...
So yawl know I?ve been really laid back lately, not really wanting to be in mess, more so just typing, usually on the go. I?m on a whole spiritual path. It?s wonderful.
But ... I went to a girl here ... in private, didn?t publicize it. I didn?t tell anyone else here. And mind you, a lot of girls told me, ?look don?t even try to be nice to her, she?s a lost cause?
But I was trying to do what I felt was the correct thing to do.
So I says to this girl .... look, we?ve interacted for years, there?s no deep beef.
We don?t have agree, but I can guarantee yo, we will be able to respectfully disagree!
Boom, bam. Short and straight to the point.
And I said .... sista .. never again can we do the foolishness of disagreeing in a malicious manner ..... in public!
So time passes, I?m ... of my word. Cause I really don?t like misunderstandings n mess.
And this next part isn?t shocking
The first opportunity this girl gets, she tries to cover up the entire convo, and go back to ?oh I?m being picked at! You just wanna get into it!? and proceeded to lie and make another member feel she was attacked. And this other member wasn?t able to pull the receipts of her being attacked either. It was a complete shit show.
And for me .... I really can?t do, catty sissies and messy punks. I refuse to.
What I?m saying is ... you have to be careful, who you extend genuine kindness to.
Because see, not every phagg even loves themselves to conduct themselves in a proper manner. Some girls are so used to being th brunt of the joke ... that they make themselves into a fckn clown
And see ... this sista here was so ready to get ?INTO IT? ... that she forgot that convo.
At times ... ppl are ugly on the outside and inside. So be weary of petty phagg s like that. Thank you for your time.
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I missed this post :kii:
I'm crying
This novel
I know it's about Ken without reading cccccccccccc
Depends who it is and our relationship
Quote from: 1RIG on March 06, 2018, 04:58:28 AM
Quote from: Scott. on March 04, 2018, 03:20:57 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on March 04, 2018, 01:52:27 AM
Taking responsibility or at least attempting to understand the other person and their point of view, is very important IMO. I can?t do the hard headed stubborn mess
Oh hush
that wasn?t a shot at you babe. I know u didn?t think so, but i just wanna be clear sddds
I honesty hadn?t read the thread beyond page 2 before posting
oh i know it wasn?t. I just know that I?m stubborn af lol
Yeah, I don't have the energy for silent treatment and "grudges". Just say sorry and move on.
I just had an incident with one of my supervisors at my job and I know I was not wrong. He clearly overreacted and went from 0-100.... And I?m not apologizing for standing up for myself.
:sobusyjetsetter:
People apologize all the time but turn around and do the same shit they just apologized to you for so I don't see the point.
Actions > Words
I try to correct myself when I've wronged someone and actively make change instead of approaching them with some Hallmark words of sorrow mess.
It's crazy how most people have to be coddled. They're so easily offended.
Quote from: hai class. on March 03, 2018, 11:23:48 AM
Sometimes it's the simplest things that can make life so much more pleasant and repair relationships.
Listening is crucial. Communication is important overall. I've improved relationships with people very close to me simply by listening to what they feel, why they feel that way and taking all of that into consideration whenever I interact with them.
A little bit goes soooooo far. Crazy how just paying close attention to just a couple details, things that are SUPER easy to address/fix , can make a world of a difference. It's all about taking a step back, putting your pride and ego to the side and realizing what's more important.
Who wants a bunch of negative energy in their space 24/7? Or negative energy interfering with a relationship when it can be easily addressed? It's just not worth it. We're only given a certain amount of time here above the ground. Why spend it in negativity and nonsense.
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on March 06, 2018, 07:27:53 AM
I know it's about Ken without reading cccccccccccc
It's all from that "Tiffanys a coon" thread.
I had my point of view on the situation and he said, "Afro, but I remember a time you told us that the way Black people were acting in front of Whites in your office made you uncomfortable".
I never said that. I said there was one woman in my office who had conversations with ME that made me feel uncomfortable, on a person-to-person level. Never mentioned that she acts a ghetto fool or like a jester for people. I don't work with Black people like that.
If anything I'm always complaining about how the WHITE people conduct themselves. With their use of Ebonics, tryna be down and mess.
So I took offense to him saying that, told him to shut the fuck up, told him to check the tapes before he decides to roll them, and corrected what he said. If he's in is feelings about that oh fucking well.
He has yet to even acknowledge that this all stems from him saying something that wasn't even true about me. Fuck him.
let's be crystal clear, and read every word of this GIRL
FCK you! :dead:
get the story correct.
you always feel like somebody is trying to "argue with" or "attack" you
stop being a fckn victim your whole life, you are not that important
you do the exact same thing to 3 other members here, usually ppl that don't tolerate your mess
you were SUPER quick to go into that thread attacking Hugo, tryna make him feel dumb for HIS viewpoint, just because you like Tiffany
So I clocked it and told the accurate story of your past "new blackness"'
and you continued to LIE and mislead Ray into thinking I attacked you, (and I'll deal with Ray privately)
but you conveniently left out the part that I had already made peace with you AND laid out a template for how you should react in the event we ever disagreed again?
you're a fake ass sissy/punk, period.
now you're mad that I revealed to everyone how fake you actually are
cause you were "oh yes! I agree! don't have time to argue"
yet as soon as you get in the thread "bent let's get into it! you wanna get into it huh!"
you're honestly a big ball of foolishness. acknowledge that and run me my apology dummy
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Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 10:12:32 AM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on March 06, 2018, 07:27:53 AM
I know it's about Ken without reading cccccccccccc
It's all from that "Tiffanys a coon" thread.
and you like Tiffany, for now (just like Nicki) that's what it all boils down to :dead:
and never ask me if I wanna get "into" it again
cause bby, if I wanted to get into it, trust me you would've already been pushed to create one of your "leaving the board" threads
you caused all this
you were being fake
so you apologize to me
period
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Guys
Nice.
So what's next Bent?
A story about me losing my job? References to an incomplete app? Let me know.
Cuz I said what I said. Check the tapes before you roll them. :ATLcameo:
you have a blessed day Afro!
Don't say what you don't mean.
Buh bye hun.
s
girl ain't nobody worried about you and your usual foolishness
be blessed!
:blessed:
Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 11:15:09 AM
Don't say what you don't mean.
Buh bye hun.
My crown won't fit on your bum ass curlfront
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on March 06, 2018, 11:17:50 AM
s
girl ain't nobody worried about you and your usual foolishness
be blessed!
:blessed:
Then you should have left it where we left off yesterday.
I honestly thought we just had a bit of a moment and left it alone.
And "moved on" as per your recommendation. So the mess being typed later in the evening confused me.
Let's just keep it moving. Like wtf.
Quote from: Andrais. on March 06, 2018, 11:19:01 AM
Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 11:15:09 AM
Don't say what you don't mean.
Buh bye hun.
My crown won't fit on your bum ass curlfront
sdfffffffffffffffffsd
ill murder u today hun
Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 11:21:51 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on March 06, 2018, 11:17:50 AM
s
girl ain't nobody worried about you and your usual foolishness
be blessed!
:blessed:
Then you should have left it where we left off yesterday.
I honestly thought we just had a bit of a moment and left it alone.
And "moved on" as per your recommendation. So the mess being typed later in the evening confused me.
Let's just keep it moving. Like wtf.
s
you keep trying to skip over the convo we had
just like when you deleted the board, I came back from break, and you beefed with me, then tried to lie like I was provoking you :dead:
this is a repeating cycle of yours :dead:
anyways, I'm above petty foolishness.
you enjoying your day?!
I am ... very busy and productive so far! be blessed!
I'm not skipping over anything.
I apologized to you for hitting well below the belt. Period.
So if that's the conversation you want me to reference, yeah we had it. And as you can see, I'm restraining myself from hitting you below the belt in here regardless of everything you're typing about me. So I meant what I said in this conversation.
Now what else is up?
:woohoo:
I'm trying to be civil as possible but Bent is fucking trying it. Keep typing doe.
Slut
sdddddddd
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Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 11:40:24 AM
:woohoo:
I'm trying to be civil as possible but Bent is fucking trying it. Keep typing doe.
s
I beg your fckn pardon?
:ummwhat:
You're way out of line. But whatever makes you feel better, by all means. You keep bringing up that conversation but the entire point of it was me saying I felt bad for saying certain things to you.
And I'm not going to repeat them to you. So just keep typing and saying whatever you'd like.
If you're incorrect about something I said again, I will CHECK you again with no hesitation. No need for me to really dig in deep, take strolls down memory lane to previous boards and talk about how you look in order to get my point across to you. You were wrong and I corrected you.
Now let's move on.
Lord this lying phagg keeps dangling these nasty permed curls in my face
please help me not to black owt and yank them outta her skull
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I have no more to say to you. We can keep it moving now.
Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 12:29:09 PM
You're way out of line.
You're mad because I brought up your "new blackness"
it's probably because this whole new Rosa Parks act you've taken on isn't entirely believable anyways.
and honestly .... I couldn't care less.
I said what I said, get over it.
:gotchafag:
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Quote from: HUGO on March 06, 2018, 08:47:18 AM
I just had an incident with one of my supervisors at my job and I know I was not wrong. He clearly overreacted and went from 0-100.... And I?m not apologizing for standing up for myself.
:sobusyjetsetter:
Lash him!
Quote from: Andrais. on March 06, 2018, 08:54:37 AM
People apologize all the time but turn around and do the same shit they just apologized to you for so I don't see the point.
Actions > Words
I try to correct myself when I've wronged someone and actively make change instead of approaching them with some Hallmark words of sorrow mess.
It's crazy how most people have to be coddled. They're so easily offended.
I think doing both is vital. Verbally making the apology... and Actively honoring the apology. Good point.
Quote from: Scott. on March 06, 2018, 08:40:38 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on March 06, 2018, 04:58:28 AM
Quote from: Scott. on March 04, 2018, 03:20:57 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on March 04, 2018, 01:52:27 AM
Taking responsibility or at least attempting to understand the other person and their point of view, is very important IMO. I can?t do the hard headed stubborn mess
Oh hush
that wasn?t a shot at you babe. I know u didn?t think so, but i just wanna be clear sddds
I honesty hadn?t read the thread beyond page 2 before posting
oh i know it wasn?t. I just know that I?m stubborn af lol
ffggggghh we can fight about it
:fuming:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 06, 2018, 08:44:47 AM
Yeah, I don't have the energy for silent treatment and "grudges". Just say sorry and move on.
!!!! Bothers the shit out of me
Especially if you mean something to me or did at one point
The silent treatment is literally the most childish and petty shit.
Ugh.
Quote from: 1RIG on March 06, 2018, 06:22:50 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 06, 2018, 08:44:47 AM
Yeah, I don't have the energy for silent treatment and "grudges". Just say sorry and move on.
!!!! Bothers the shit out of me
Especially if you mean something to me or did at one point
It's horrible for me cause I'm stubborn. Like I said, I'll apologize to you (after I cool down and realize what I did) but then if a person apologizes to me for wronging me, I'll accept but it takes me a minute to fuck with you and I even confuse myself and be like, "Did I forgive them?" :dead:
Quote from: Scott. on March 06, 2018, 07:12:25 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on March 06, 2018, 06:22:50 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 06, 2018, 08:44:47 AM
Yeah, I don't have the energy for silent treatment and "grudges". Just say sorry and move on.
!!!! Bothers the shit out of me
Especially if you mean something to me or did at one point
It's horrible for me cause I'm stubborn. Like I said, I'll apologize to you (after I cool down and realize what I did) but then if a person apologizes to me for wronging me, I'll accept but it takes me a minute to fuck with you and I even confuse myself and be like, "Did I forgive them?" :dead:
ndndnfnnfnf not you forgetting :kii:
I totally get what you mean tho