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Title: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: realbrandyfan on March 04, 2018, 06:09:54 AM
Did it work out? Or Otherwise?

What did you learn?
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: CHOKE on March 04, 2018, 06:36:38 AM
I think every fag has

Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: HUGO on March 04, 2018, 07:30:04 AM
Ugh yes!
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: HUGO on March 04, 2018, 07:54:48 AM
A white man?
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Cartierline on March 04, 2018, 08:16:37 AM
Not love, but I've crushed on a few straight guys.

It faded away when I got to know them more though.
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: FlowerBomb on March 04, 2018, 08:17:35 AM
Quote from: Cartier on March 04, 2018, 08:16:37 AM
Not love, but I've crushed on a few straight guys.

It faded away when I got to know them more though.
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Straight guys are....corny?
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Stewie on March 04, 2018, 09:18:08 AM
Quote from: Vibrant on March 04, 2018, 08:17:35 AM
Quote from: Cartier on March 04, 2018, 08:16:37 AM
Not love, but I've crushed on a few straight guys.

It faded away when I got to know them more though.
!!!
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Straight guys are....corny?

!!!! Very
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Hatsumomo on March 04, 2018, 09:58:06 AM
Yes it happens but then once you've had enough pain in your dealings with them it becomes surprisingly easy to never want to develop feelings for them again.
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Navyman on March 04, 2018, 11:17:06 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on March 04, 2018, 09:58:06 AM
Yes it happens but then once you've had enough pain in your dealings with them it becomes surprisingly easy to never want to develop feelings for them again.
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Navyman on March 04, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
Yup, agreed. Would never do that to myself again. That's why I like when y'all actually post gay men in those threads, I don't even crush on Straight guys lie that anymore. I need to at least know I got a chance.
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: ya rock muh world. on March 04, 2018, 11:36:54 AM
Quote from: HUGO on March 04, 2018, 07:54:48 AM
A white man?
:diddraispoot:
Theo actually grew up around a lot of White people so it's understandable.

This is why I say you never know why people are attracted to others and how they ended up with them.

Not everyone ends up with a non-POC because they adjusted the filters on Grindr.
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Post by: saltybitch on March 04, 2018, 11:40:04 AM
Yes a few
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: realbrandyfan on March 04, 2018, 12:00:39 PM
Had any of them liked you back but we?re afeaid to make the move to express his feelings?

Did any of them tried to reach out to you on a constant basis when you try to distance yourself?
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: ya rock muh world. on March 04, 2018, 12:13:23 PM
Yeah when I went outside of London to the outer parts of England I was like wow.

I felt like such an outsider. Didn't really feel "safe". I never felt that way before because I mean I grew up in the hood and I live in the most diverse city in America.

I'm amazed you did it, but that's all you knew so you probably didn't really "feel" it.
But it wasn't fun feeling that way. Being the only person of color on a block or the only two POC (myself and a friend) in a restaurant, etc.

It creeped me the fuck out.

Doesn't help that British people are like WHITE WHITE. :plzstop:
Icy blue eyes,blond hair. They're not even the softer/more exotic looking white you'd get in Spain or something.
Felt like I was in the middle of a fucking civil rights movie - at the point where segregation had just ended.  :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: fresh on March 04, 2018, 01:19:38 PM
I fell in love with a curious str8.

we dated for 2 years, while he had a fianc? that I didn't know about. that mess was intense too. but his fianc? found out and it was some mess. she texted, tweeted, and socially stocked and attacked me. I was so committed to "not outing him" that I didn't respond to her attacks.

he told her some bogus lie, and got her to relax. now they're married, and I'm blocked. lol
idgaf tho.
:plea:
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: realbrandyfan on March 04, 2018, 01:24:26 PM
Well, this guy was Hispanic and he has a good heart. He made me feel like gold..that I haven?t felt in a while. In a way, I felt like guinea pig when it came ?hanging? out with a gay guy. Everyone saw that it may be more there but he tried his best to keep it covered up like he didn?t feel more. So, I guess that would mean I could get thrown under the bus without even knowing it. Should I be worried? I do really care about him but at the same time I don?t want look stupid and I want to protect myself. I always thinking about him. I?m doing my best to avoid him...when he calls I don?t answer.
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Post by: Gekkouga on March 04, 2018, 03:01:25 PM
No, although there was this fine arab boy in college and the chemistry we had was so fucking insane :gorlonfire:
Later on we had the opportunity to "amicably" sleep together but I refused cause I knew it would turn into some sickening mess and we were good friends so I didn't want to ruin that.

Straights are fine to look at but stay the fuck away. If you get too close you see how immature, filthy, ignorant, and homophobic they truly are and the whole fantasy is ruined :ohwow:
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: 🦚 on March 04, 2018, 03:21:01 PM
Y?all turn everything into a drama.

Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: Nine on March 04, 2018, 03:22:43 PM
Quote from: Wild Bitch on March 04, 2018, 06:36:38 AM
I think every fag has
!!!

It's kinda like a gay right of passage
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: GRAND on March 04, 2018, 03:24:16 PM
Yeah these straight guy stories always end in a positive note <3
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: realbrandyfan on March 04, 2018, 07:42:34 PM
Yea; when everyone was saying he needs to come out...he then found out. He threw me under the bus with mutual friends to turn the spotlight off him. I later found that out after we reconciled.
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Post by: Cuban0 on March 04, 2018, 08:05:57 PM
Oh yeah a couple......a married mechanic guy & latin king being some of them.
Title: Re: Ever fell in love with a Str8?
Post by: realbrandyfan on March 04, 2018, 09:20:09 PM
Now, I?m just distancing my self from him and the other mutual Str8 friends. I?m not sure if I?m doing the right thing. What do you all think?
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Post by: Stewie on March 04, 2018, 09:31:43 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on March 04, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
Yup, agreed. Would never do that to myself again. That's why I like when y'all actually post gay men in those threads, I don't even crush on Straight guys lie that anymore. I need to at least know I got a chance.
Omff
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