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Title: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:18:01 PM
How do you go about fixing it?
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Scott. on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:21:17 PM
I told you I'd never forgive you luv, let it go
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:22:32 PM
Not deep discussion
H

Acknowledging your wrongdoing is the first and biggest step.
Make no excuses for your behavior. The word"because" should be nowhere near the conversation.

If possible , attempt to reverse what's wrong.  And don't let it fucking hAppen again
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:23:03 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:21:17 PM
I told you I'd never forgive you luv, let it go

Bitch I could fuckin care less. Toddles  :kii:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: MelMel on October 26, 2015, 05:23:13 PM
stop being a slut
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: yummy on October 26, 2015, 05:23:43 PM
Give a genuine apology (not some "am sorry you took it that way" mess) and work on not letting it happen again.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on October 26, 2015, 05:24:03 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

If you tried to reach out and they dont want to talk. Well... Fuck'em.  :overit:


and this title has me kicking.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:24:04 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:22:32 PM
Not deep discussion
H

Acknowledging your wrongdoing is the first and biggest step.
Make no excuses for your behavior. The word"because" should be nowhere near the conversation.

If possible , attempt to reverse what's wrong.  And don't let it fucking hAppen again

Lol it is deep. Certain people go about it a different way. Sending gifts, flowers. Just wanna you know, prove how sorry you really are
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Scott. on October 26, 2015, 05:24:18 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

That's all you can do. They'll eventually come around
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Oh this is about cheating. well..ummm. There's really no apology on earth that can make up for it. tbh lol
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: yummy on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

Did you piss off your man?

Might as well tell us exactly what you did so we can fully help.

:nowgorl:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:25:23 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Oh this is about cheating. well..ummm. There's really no apology on earth that can make up for it. tbh lol

It really ain't.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: ∧ ∨ ∩ ∪ on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault and just do better next time.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:26:01 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

Did you piss off your man?

Might as well tell us exactly what you did so we can fully help.

:nowgorl:

When I post these things it's not always about me okay?  :hmph:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on October 26, 2015, 05:26:25 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:23 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Oh this is about cheating. well..ummm. There's really no apology on earth that can make up for it. tbh lol

It really ain't.

Then what did you do?  :everythingok:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: SUPREME on October 26, 2015, 05:26:51 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

Did you piss off your man?

Might as well tell us exactly what you did so we can fully help.

:nowgorl:
!

:nowgorl:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:26:54 PM
girl stop beating around the bush, what did you do
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: yummy on October 26, 2015, 05:26:59 PM
Quote from: M ? R G ? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault

:hmph:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:26:59 PM
Quote from: M ? R G ? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault and just do better next time.

Lol what if there's no if and and but and you were in the wrong. I personally have no problem saying sorry and meaning it, especially if I was wrong.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:27:16 PM
s

have a friend!
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: SUPREME on October 26, 2015, 05:27:32 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:26:01 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:25:01 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:22:35 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 26, 2015, 05:20:06 PM
It's simple.

Reach out and talk about it

But what if you did, and they just want their space because they're still upset Scotty? Do you just give them that?

Did you piss off your man?

Might as well tell us exactly what you did so we can fully help.

:nowgorl:

When I post these things it's not always about me okay?  :hmph:
:nowgorl:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:27:49 PM

n
Not about me! Shit!
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:28:28 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:24:04 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:22:32 PM
Not deep discussion
H

Acknowledging your wrongdoing is the first and biggest step.
Make no excuses for your behavior. The word"because" should be nowhere near the conversation.

If possible , attempt to reverse what's wrong.  And don't let it fucking hAppen again

Lol it is deep. Certain people go about it a different way. Sending gifts, flowers. Just wanna you know, prove how sorry you really are
well u have to do what u feel is necessary for ur given situation
We can sit and give ideas all day but there is no one size fits all solution

Proper rectification of the issue is based on ur history with the person, the action in itself and the personality of both urself and the significant other.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:28:43 PM
and yes if they want space then give it to him :uhh:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:28:49 PM
them*
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Nine on October 26, 2015, 05:29:01 PM
Ideally, you reach out and apologize.

But it usually never works that way most of the time.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:29:34 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:28:28 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:24:04 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:22:32 PM
Not deep discussion
H

Acknowledging your wrongdoing is the first and biggest step.
Make no excuses for your behavior. The word"because" should be nowhere near the conversation.

If possible , attempt to reverse what's wrong.  And don't let it fucking hAppen again

Lol it is deep. Certain people go about it a different way. Sending gifts, flowers. Just wanna you know, prove how sorry you really are
well u have to do what u feel is necessary for ur given situation
We can sit and give ideas all day but there is no one size fits all solution

Proper rectification of the issue is based on ur history with the person, the action in itself and the personality of both urself and the significant other.

Thanks Herbie. I'll
Let Brandon know this info.  :stressed:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: yummy on October 26, 2015, 05:30:00 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:26:59 PM
Quote from: M ? R G ? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault and just do better next time.

Lol what if there's no if and and but and you were in the wrong. I personally have no problem saying sorry and meaning it, especially if I was wrong.

well if you...whoops lolz...I mean your "friend" knows that they're dead wrong, they need to own up to it and confess their wrongdoings.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:30:51 PM
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:31:34 PM
Brandin ... :udontlookok:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:32:06 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:30:00 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:26:59 PM
Quote from: M ? R G ? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault and just do better next time.

Lol what if there's no if and and but and you were in the wrong. I personally have no problem saying sorry and meaning it, especially if I was wrong.

well if you...whoops lolz...I mean your "friend" knows that they're dead wrong, they need to own up to it and confess their wrongdoings.


Brandon told me he did. But the person said it wasn't the first
Time this has happened and they don't know what to do anymore. They may need some space.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:32:54 PM
girl stop saying I name in this mess :uhh:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:33:03 PM
Guys lets all try to give Brandom some advice. He was too proud to come
On here and ask for help. I wanted to be a great sis and help out
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:33:36 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:32:54 PM
girl stop saying I name in this mess :uhh:

It's okay Hun. We got you! Just stop going through his stuff!
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:34:13 PM
Awwww brandkn bvy wats wrong :stressed: I'm here 4 u
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Plank on October 26, 2015, 05:34:37 PM
say srry lols
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
wtf  :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:34:51 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:34:13 PM
Awwww brandkn bvy wats wrong :stressed: I'm here 4 u

:stressed:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Plank on October 26, 2015, 05:36:08 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Cartierline on October 26, 2015, 05:36:32 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 26, 2015, 05:34:37 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
wtf  :omgwatshappening:


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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:36:50 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 26, 2015, 05:36:08 PM

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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 05:37:01 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 26, 2015, 05:36:08 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Nine on October 26, 2015, 05:37:06 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 26, 2015, 05:36:08 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: RekeRig on October 26, 2015, 05:51:03 PM
Reach out as often as possible and send as many messages as you can, being as honest and sincere as you can. Make sure the apology is as heart felt as possible and make sure to take FULL responsibility

never start it off with "If i hurt you ..."  because you already know you hurt them. Once you've done all you can in that regard, the only thing that can fix it is time. Give them their space and let time go by. It isn't on you anymore in terms of the pressure to fix it.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: SUPREME on October 26, 2015, 05:51:57 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 26, 2015, 05:36:08 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 05:52:18 PM
Quote from: RIG on October 26, 2015, 05:51:03 PM
Reach out as often as possible and send as many messages as you can, being as honest and sincere as you can. Make sure the apology is as heart felt as possible and make sure to take FULL responsibility

never start it off with "If i hurt you ..."  because you already know you hurt them. Once you've done all you can in that regard, the only thing that can fix it is time. Give them their space and let time go by. It isn't on you anymore in terms of the pressure to fix it.

Brandon you hear this?! Omg Rig this is perfect advice. Love you bby
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:52:34 PM
girl shut up
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: The Brandy Barbie on October 26, 2015, 10:13:58 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:23:43 PM
Give a genuine apology (not some "am sorry you took it that way" mess) and work on not letting it happen again.


Ooo, that's a pet peeve of mine. I can't stand people who do that. My feelings are not what's wrong here. I don't need an apology for my feelings. You DID something that was wrong, that hurt someone else, that you need to apologize for ...
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: FINE. on October 26, 2015, 10:15:37 PM
Sincerely acknowledge my wrong doing and never blame the other person
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: iman on October 26, 2015, 10:18:14 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:18:01 PM
How do you go about fixing it?

say sorry
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: The Brandy Barbie on October 26, 2015, 10:19:31 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 26, 2015, 05:30:00 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 26, 2015, 05:26:59 PM
Quote from: M ? R G ? on October 26, 2015, 05:25:41 PM
Never admit fault and just do better next time.

Lol what if there's no if and and but and you were in the wrong. I personally have no problem saying sorry and meaning it, especially if I was wrong.

well if you...whoops lolz...I mean your "friend" knows that they're dead wrong, they need to own up to it and confess their wrongdoings.

Lol
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: The Brandy Barbie on October 26, 2015, 10:22:38 PM
What is this about?
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Herb. on October 26, 2015, 10:25:16 PM
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Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: LOONA. on October 26, 2015, 10:40:08 PM
Quote from: Zankou. on October 26, 2015, 05:33:56 PM
why can't you please your man

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Woah there

:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: LOONA. on October 26, 2015, 10:41:25 PM
I think Hugo is a cheating whore.
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: Hugo on October 26, 2015, 10:45:27 PM
Quote from: Drais. on October 26, 2015, 10:41:25 PM
I think Hugo is a cheating whore.


:uhh:
Title: Re: Deep Discussion: If youve hurt someone....
Post by: LOONA. on October 26, 2015, 10:58:57 PM
Well?