It's crazy how gay men are always accused of being "superificial" when men are generally that way as a whole. It's women who will seek out mates based on things that transcend appearance -- mainly they look for men who will be able to provide for them and their (future) children as well. Look at Beyonce. Many people wonder(ed) "Girl, you coulda had any trade in the world, why him?"
Also, look at Janet and Jermain Dupri. You guys dog her out on here, but her name has always been synonomous with sex appeal. This is why people were quite dumbfounded when she ended up with someone who doesn't quite have the same allure. LOL
Men, however, base a lot of their decisions on appearance. This is why we see many wealthy, successful men who date and marry these beautiful women who usually have nothing to their resume or life besides being pretty. LOL. History tells us that this is really all you need to grab you a balla.
So to pinpoint one community and accuse us of being excessively visual makes absolutely no sense. It makes perfect sense that a community which is exclusively comprised of such visual creatures as men would be very "shallow".
I dunno
I call everyone fat.. Well FAT.
I can see why.
Plus men are visually appeased.
Yes it is known fact that men are visually driven
This is actually what raised my question
Why are gays so often singled out for it when it's innate ... Irrespective of sexual preference
We're singled out for aids and being promiscuous too even though the stats show something else.
I think it's because the world hates is currently. Same way black people are always associated with negative qualities.
the stats for AIDs are correct....
its highest in gay men....
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Quote from: Stewie on October 27, 2015, 05:02:52 PM
the stats for AIDs are correct....
its highest in gay men....
that's not what I was referring to
Quote from: Stewie on October 27, 2015, 05:02:52 PM
the stats for AIDs are correct....
its highest in gay men....
i was gonna say that but didn't want it to be taken incorrectly
But yes. The association with that std actually has statistical basis
Although some people say really ignorant and inaccurate things regarding its presence in our community
Because with gay men the expectation for beauty is Doubled... with heterosexuals the "vanity" is on one party.. with gay men.. both parties must be stimulated visually.
It really leaves gay men that are physically challenged out of the loop.
Thats why in the gay world being physically attractive seems to carry twice the amount of power.
Women dont care about hot beautiful a man is. (for the most part)
( all my opinion of course )
I guess I should've been specific but my examples weren't supposed to be anything other than.
I was referring to women having higher new case rates due to "heterosexual" contact
But gays are unfortunately the face of stds and hiv
And being vain
And making god cry
Gay men are more superficial, there are plenty of straight men who will eventually settle down with a "good woman", no matter how she looks.
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