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Title: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM
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Seems as though there's always some type of outing of a man who messes with guys, and he's labeled as a Gay DL homo thug despite his established relationships with women. Even when the scenario was playing out with Miles and Amber, Black twitter kept referring to him as gay and not bi.  Oddly enough Gay people are just as guilty of this which is very strange because the majority of gay guys have had sex with Bisexual men. 

You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY! 

Bisexual black men do exist, but why do you guys think they're not allowed to live in their truth?
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: AIDS! on October 28, 2015, 07:04:46 AM
Adrian
Shut up
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Plank on October 28, 2015, 07:07:02 AM
r u callin' jans a man

Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Boomz on October 28, 2015, 07:10:53 AM
 :uhh:
Quote from: Plankesha on October 28, 2015, 07:07:02 AM
r u callin' jans a man

Thats wha I got from this

Cars' ur owtta ordah!

:holdupguys:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 07:12:32 AM
Quote from: Boomer on October 28, 2015, 07:10:53 AM
:uhh:
Quote from: Plankesha on October 28, 2015, 07:07:02 AM
r u callin' jans a man

Thats wha I got from this

Cars' ur owtta ordah!

:holdupguys:
:plzstop: lnlkdbnlk;vnad
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Hugo on October 28, 2015, 08:18:05 AM
Quote from: Boomer on October 28, 2015, 07:10:53 AM
:uhh:
Quote from: Plankesha on October 28, 2015, 07:07:02 AM
r u callin' jans a man

Thats wha I got from this

Cars' ur owtta ordah!

:holdupguys:


Ommmm
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on October 28, 2015, 08:21:43 AM
No man wants to be seen as vulnerable or weak
And i guess admitting they too need the touch and intimacy of a man somehow removes thir own masculinity so even admitting this partially (bisexual) i guess is too much snd its either all or nothin with some
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Herb. on October 28, 2015, 08:25:43 AM
I rarely see white men running around claiming to be bisexual tbh.
They're either straight or gay
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Purple Moon on October 28, 2015, 08:33:26 AM
Quote from: Herbie on October 28, 2015, 08:25:43 AM
I rarely see white men running around claiming to be bisexual tbh.
They're either straight or gay

is this a jab at frank ocean? i've seen lots of bi whites.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Herb. on October 28, 2015, 08:39:13 AM
Many people use bisexuality of some sort of "stepping stone" to their truth.
They go from claiming heterosexuality......to kinda riding the fence out of nervousness.
Only to then fully proclaim their truth once they feel the coast is clear.

And often times people simply do not want to be associated with the trials and stereotypes associated with the gay community. And will do practically anything to distance themselves from it. Especially in the black community.

But I do believe
bisexuality exists.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Herb. on October 28, 2015, 08:40:48 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on October 28, 2015, 08:33:26 AM
Quote from: Herbie on October 28, 2015, 08:25:43 AM
I rarely see white men running around claiming to be bisexual tbh.
They're either straight or gay

is this a jab at frank ocean? i've seen lots of bi whites.
Frank never confirmed or denied conclusions drawn about his sexuality based on an open letter he wrote. So no it wouldn't be a jab at him.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Purple Moon on October 28, 2015, 08:41:09 AM
Quote from: Herbie on October 28, 2015, 08:39:13 AM
Many people use bisexuality of some sort of "stepping stone" to their truth.
They go from claiming heterosexuality......to kinda riding the fence out of nervousness.
Only to then fully proclaim their truth once they feel the coast is clear.

And often times people simply do not want to be associated with the trials and stereotypes associated with the gay community. And will do practically anything to distance themselves from it. Especially in the black community.

But I do believe
bisexuality exists.

did u jus come out as transracial
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: SUPREME on October 28, 2015, 08:57:19 AM
I'm bi

:udontlookok:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Aalonso. on October 28, 2015, 11:16:10 AM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM


You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY!

not true. If he's truly "bisexual" leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a man would be the same as him leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a woman.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Boomz on October 28, 2015, 11:20:03 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 28, 2015, 08:57:19 AM
I'm bi

:udontlookok:

d

   :helloimangie:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Bentley! on October 28, 2015, 11:27:50 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 28, 2015, 11:16:10 AM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM


You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY!

not true. If he's truly "bisexual" leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a man would be the same as him leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a woman.
ssssss
Right, I read that part like  :hmph:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: ... on October 28, 2015, 11:54:32 AM
If a bisexual female can exist so can a bisexual male.


Sexuality is a spectrum not a box
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Phantom on October 28, 2015, 12:01:23 PM
I've never known a truly bisexual man. They were all just fags that dated girls back in high school latching on for filth.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Miranda on October 28, 2015, 12:26:31 PM
As a man you have no choice. So eventhough you might want to live as a bisexual men, the moment you put drop of oil (man) in your water it's spoiled for the women. Even if I wanted to mess with a woman I would give myself the side eye. It's stupid but true. Many straight probably feel vice verse.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 02:06:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 28, 2015, 11:16:10 AM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM


You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY!

not true. If he's truly "bisexual" leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a man would be the same as him leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a woman.
well no, he's not leaving her for him because he'd be denied access to go back to the lady pond, so he just dates women because its socially acceptable
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: ... on October 28, 2015, 02:10:22 PM
I literally know people who are bisexual.   A kid i went to college went dated a dude in college and right now is it a committed relationship with a girl.   She knows he is bisexual and they just had their first kid
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 02:14:19 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 28, 2015, 08:25:43 AM
I rarely see white men running around claiming to be bisexual tbh.
They're either straight or gay
They don't have to claim it, because we see them all over the net slobbing on black cacks while their wives are holding the camera
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: FINE. on October 28, 2015, 02:16:01 PM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM
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Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: SUPREME on October 28, 2015, 02:32:16 PM
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Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Aalonso. on October 28, 2015, 02:34:14 PM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM
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Seems as though there's always some type of outing of a man who messes with guys, and he's labeled as a Gay DL homo thug despite his established relationships with women. Even when the scenario was playing out with Miles and Amber, Black twitter kept referring to him as gay and not bi.  Oddly enough Gay people are just as guilty of this which is very strange because the majority of gay guys have had sex with Bisexual men. 

You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY! 

Bisexual black men do exist, but why do you guys think they're not allowed to live in their truth?

Still not true.

He can be secretive in dating the man, then afterwards deceitful in dating a woman.....but hes back in the lady pond.

or he could end up with a sexually open minded woman who accepts that hes been with men, thereby still being accepted into the lady pool.

Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: LOONA. on October 28, 2015, 04:44:18 PM
IDK where some ppl get the idea that we have to constantly sleep w/ both sexes in order to be bisexual.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: iman on October 28, 2015, 04:47:48 PM
When did Miles say he was bi :usuresis: He's gay.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: iman on October 28, 2015, 04:50:02 PM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 02:06:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 28, 2015, 11:16:10 AM
Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 28, 2015, 06:49:33 AM


You know the guy you hooked up with.... but he's never going to leave his wife/girlfriend/babymama to be in a relationship with you. Because he's NOT GAY!

not true. If he's truly "bisexual" leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a man would be the same as him leaving his wife/gf/babymomma for a woman.
well no, he's not leaving her for him because he'd be denied access to go back to the lady pond, so he just dates women because its socially acceptable

And you think that's a bisexual man? :everythingok: that's a gay man living a lie.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: iman on October 28, 2015, 04:52:26 PM
Quote from: Miranda on October 28, 2015, 12:26:31 PM
As a man you have no choice. So eventhough you might want to live as a bisexual men, the moment you put drop of oil (man) in your water it's spoiled for the women. Even if I wanted to mess with a woman I would give myself the side eye. It's stupid but true. Many straight probably feel vice verse.

This is somewhat true, I noticed this with pornstars who openly say they refuse to do scenes with bisexual men. But there are some open minded women I'm sure.
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: CHOKE on October 28, 2015, 04:56:10 PM
Because they're WEAK they want the hood status but still like to dick to bovi holes.






























But I still use  :justabit:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: Jon on October 28, 2015, 05:25:00 PM
other black people and patriarchy
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: pCj on October 28, 2015, 05:33:27 PM
Hypermasculinity, I guess...
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: pCj on October 28, 2015, 05:37:45 PM
I'm truly screaming at the influx of " Hot Topic! Intellectual convo! For Mensa members only! " threads by this gorl and 'dagger :dead:
Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: LOONA. on October 28, 2015, 05:39:53 PM
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Title: Re: Why aren't Black men allowed to be Bi?
Post by: SUPREME on October 29, 2015, 09:40:25 AM
Quote from: VILLAIN on October 28, 2015, 05:37:45 PM
I'm truly screaming at the influx of " Hot Topic! Intellectual convo! For Mensa members only! " threads by this gorl and 'dagger :dead:
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