How would you feel
I'd feel like it was none of my business..
I wouldn't care tbh
There wouldn't be anything for me to "feel" because it's not my cigarette or bvy.
But didn't women drink and smoke while pregnant years ago? I feel like those kids turned out okay..
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Well if you'd feel like it's none of your business, what initial feeling would cause you to remind yourself of that? surely we don't look at everything and say "that's none of my business" to ourselves. There's an initial thought or reaction, then we usually remind ourselves after the fact that we are to mind our own affairs.
So what would your initial reaction be?
I feel like a few members had mothers who divulged in nicotine or CRACK during pregnancy
As long as it wasn't one of my family members bby. idc really.
Are you trying to reveal something about Yummy's conception?
I've smoked with one before lol.
I'd feel sorry for the baby, that even though it's proven through research that smoking has a harmful effect on unborn children (and these facts have been pushed to the point where its become common knowledge), and I'm sure any doctor with a degree from an accredited university would strongly advise against it, that the mother still prefers her habit in place of the safety of her child.
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:09:49 PM
Well if you'd feel like it's none of your business, what initial feeling would cause you to remind yourself of that? surely we don't look at everything and say "that's none of my business" to ourselves. There's an initial thought or reaction, then we usually remind ourselves after the fact that we are to mind our own affairs.
So what would your initial reaction be?
i would think ..
Look at that dumb ass bitch smoking while pregnant .. SMHthen say
YES can i get a number 1 no pickles add bacon with a sweet tea light ice and a large fryyy...
Quote from: Baphomet. on October 30, 2015, 05:12:03 PM
As long as it wasn't one of my family members bby. idc really.
basically......
1) you dont know the person so it's disrespectful as fuck
2) it's not affecting you or any member of your family so why go through the trouble of basically calling someone an unfit mother and ruining their whole day
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:14:21 PM
I'd feel sorry for the baby, that even though it's proven through research that smoking has a harmful effect on unborn children (and these facts have been pushed to the point where its become common knowledge), and I'm sure any doctor with a degree from an accredited university would strongly advise against it, that the mother still prefers her habit in place of the safety of her child.
its very difficult to break a habit....overeating, undereating, smoking, etc.
its not that she 'prefers' her habit but in her mind she's thinking why go through the stress and withdrawal of quitting.....she's just going to take her chances and hope the baby doesnt turn out retarded
Quote from: Stewie on October 30, 2015, 05:26:25 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:14:21 PM
I'd feel sorry for the baby, that even though it's proven through research that smoking has a harmful effect on unborn children (and these facts have been pushed to the point where its become common knowledge), and I'm sure any doctor with a degree from an accredited university would strongly advise against it, that the mother still prefers her habit in place of the safety of her child.
its very difficult to break a habit....overeating, undereating, smoking, etc.
its not that she 'prefers' her habit but in her mind she's thinking why go through the stress and withdrawal of quitting.....she's just going to take her chances and hope the baby doesnt turn out retarded
Not a trial & error pregnancy!!
:plzstop:
If it's someone I know, I'd slap it out her mouth.
If she was white I wouldn't be surprised
Ask her if she had an extra cigarette
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on October 30, 2015, 05:20:28 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:09:49 PM
Well if you'd feel like it's none of your business, what initial feeling would cause you to remind yourself of that? surely we don't look at everything and say "that's none of my business" to ourselves. There's an initial thought or reaction, then we usually remind ourselves after the fact that we are to mind our own affairs.
So what would your initial reaction be?
i would think ..
Look at that dumb ass bitch smoking while pregnant .. SMH
then say
YES can i get a number 1 no pickles add bacon with a sweet tea light ice and a large fryyy...
n
thank you.
So you'd feel that her actions are dumb.
That's what I was looking for "its none of my business" isn't a feeling. It's a statement
Quote from: NexTae on October 30, 2015, 05:13:32 PM
I've smoked with one before lol.
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Quote from: Stewie on October 30, 2015, 05:23:56 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on October 30, 2015, 05:12:03 PM
As long as it wasn't one of my family members bby. idc really.
basically......
1) you dont know the person so it's disrespectful as fuck
2) it's not affecting you or any member of your family so why go through the trouble of basically calling someone an unfit mother and ruining their whole day
the question wasn't addressing what you would do
I asked what would you feel.
There's a difference.
And I don't see the "disrespect" in having a feeling towards something. Its how you choose to act on your feelings that can come off as rude or disrespectful.
I'd be disgusted tbh, but I would punch on about my day
Being pregnant is stressful
Quote from: Stewie on October 30, 2015, 05:26:25 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:14:21 PM
I'd feel sorry for the baby, that even though it's proven through research that smoking has a harmful effect on unborn children (and these facts have been pushed to the point where its become common knowledge), and I'm sure any doctor with a degree from an accredited university would strongly advise against it, that the mother still prefers her habit in place of the safety of her child.
its very difficult to break a habit....overeating, undereating, smoking, etc.
its not that she 'prefers' her habit but in her mind she's thinking why go through the stress and withdrawal of quitting.....she's just going to take her chances and hope the baby doesnt turn out retarded
i agree that the word "prefer" shouldn't have been used.
I read that you can actually drink, in moderation, while pregnant and your baby will come out fine. so I'm sure it's possible to smoke and it not effect your child, but to me it's like.... Why would you risk it?
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Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 30, 2015, 05:04:22 PM
I'd feel like it was none of my business..
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Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 06:08:24 PM
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on October 30, 2015, 05:20:28 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:09:49 PM
Well if you'd feel like it's none of your business, what initial feeling would cause you to remind yourself of that? surely we don't look at everything and say "that's none of my business" to ourselves. There's an initial thought or reaction, then we usually remind ourselves after the fact that we are to mind our own affairs.
So what would your initial reaction be?
i would think ..
Look at that dumb ass bitch smoking while pregnant .. SMH
then say
YES can i get a number 1 no pickles add bacon with a sweet tea light ice and a large fryyy...
n
thank you.
So you'd feel that her actions are dumb.
That's what I was looking for "its none of my business" isn't a feeling. It's a statement
So you was looking for someone to agree with you? Oh okay.
My auntie smoked while she was preg with my lil cousin. He's now 8 with asthma. He's had a couple asthma attacks severe enough where he had to be rushed to the hospital from school. When he plays with the other kids at family gatherings he gets winded quickly and starts wheezing.
We all know why he's like this but nobody in the family really talks about it. :-/
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
vx
If you see your neighbor slappin up his wife, of course it's none of your business...but y'all would be disgusted and concerned right?
:uhh:
Quote from: LiiVE on October 30, 2015, 06:17:48 PM
I read that you can actually drink, in moderation, while pregnant and your baby will come out fine. so I'm sure it's possible to smoke and it not effect your child, but to me it's like.... Why would you risk it?
n
:omgwatshappening:
Well alcohol is "natural"
Not sure if the fcking rat poison and acid in cigarettes are safe for anyone
Quote from: Bentley! on October 30, 2015, 06:35:02 PM
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
How would any of this help? Sounds like more harm. :dead:
Quote from: Bentley! on October 30, 2015, 06:35:02 PM
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
b
and you kicking her in the stomach would be....
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 30, 2015, 06:38:50 PM
Quote from: Bentley! on October 30, 2015, 06:35:02 PM
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
b
and you kicking her in the stomach would be....
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 30, 2015, 06:30:23 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 06:08:24 PM
Quote from: Nicholas_Styles on October 30, 2015, 05:20:28 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 30, 2015, 05:09:49 PM
Well if you'd feel like it's none of your business, what initial feeling would cause you to remind yourself of that? surely we don't look at everything and say "that's none of my business" to ourselves. There's an initial thought or reaction, then we usually remind ourselves after the fact that we are to mind our own affairs.
So what would your initial reaction be?
i would think ..
Look at that dumb ass bitch smoking while pregnant .. SMH
then say
YES can i get a number 1 no pickles add bacon with a sweet tea light ice and a large fryyy...
n
thank you.
So you'd feel that her actions are dumb.
That's what I was looking for "its none of my business" isn't a feeling. It's a statement
So you was looking for someone to agree with you? Oh okay.
I was looking for a feeling.
Someone could have said "I would feel indifferent" and I would have accepted that.
But saying "I would feel like it's none of my business", to be honest it makes no sense. You're not addressing the feeling, you're simply stating the obvious. And it almost seems like more of a "smart remark" than a genuine reply to me.
And me and Nick aren't on the same page btw. He said that he would feel that the woman is dumb, whereas I would feel SORRY for the unborn baby. His feelings are more judgmental toward the mother whereas mine are connected with the child. So where exactly would our feelings align with one another?
Where do we "agree"?
:omgwatshappening:
Afro's so articulate :stressed:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 30, 2015, 06:38:50 PM
Quote from: Bentley! on October 30, 2015, 06:35:02 PM
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
b
and you kicking her in the stomach would be....
fjffjgg
And honestly, if I were simply looking for people to agree with me, I would have started the thread with my opinion, and waited on a co-sign, as opposed to asking everyone for their thoughts.
I would feel like she doesn't give a fuck 'bout that bby.
Everybody knows how dangerous it could be for the unborn child.
However, I was once friends with someone whose mother kept smoking during the pregancy, cause the doctors apparently told her to not change her habits abruptly. :uhh: I still doubt that's true though.
are u making this thread about you
:ohwow:
r u
Quote from: squid on October 30, 2015, 07:11:38 PM
However, I was once friends with someone whose mother kept smoking during the pregancy, cause the doctors apparently told her to not change her habits abruptly. :uhh: I still doubt that's true though.
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u kno wha!
She was def lyin
Id give a swift (http://i58.tinypic.com/o5wbol.gif) and tip onward with my day..
Quote from: Marilyn on October 30, 2015, 06:59:00 PM
Afro's so articulate :stressed:
And comprehensive. Love that boy
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 30, 2015, 05:04:22 PM
I'd feel like it was none of my business..
not the first post :dead:
I wouldn't give a fuck lol! :letsmessfag:
My mom smoked weed with me. Apparently because she couldn't handle the "nausea and sickness" should have just kept your fucking legs closed then.
:overit:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 30, 2015, 06:38:50 PM
Quote from: Bentley! on October 30, 2015, 06:35:02 PM
I'd start beating her ass, punching her, kicking her in the stomach
She's endangering that lil baby by smoking
b
and you kicking her in the stomach would be....
:dead:
Quote from: Pearls on October 30, 2015, 07:24:48 PM
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kmnmnmnnm this clown looking bitch
Quote from: iman on October 30, 2015, 07:41:45 PM
I wouldn't give a fuck lol! :letsmessfag:
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lil sis :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: LiiVE on October 30, 2015, 06:12:44 PM
I'd be disgusted tbh, but I would punch on about my day
I don't understand the whole "it's none of my business" mess. Why do so many people only care about mess that affects them directly? That's kinda the problem with America now.
I just think it was a smart remark, since it didn't even properly answer my question.
Almost implying that I should just mind my business, when I hadn't even posted my thoughts yet. Unnecessary. :dead:
And others of course piggy backed off of it. Not even realizing they were co-signing an empty response. :plzstop:
Quote from: Herbie on October 31, 2015, 04:14:52 PM
I just think it was a smart remark, since it didn't even properly answer my question.
Almost implying that I should just mind my business, when I hadn't even posted my thoughts yet. Unnecessary. :dead:
And others of course piggy backed off of it. Not even realizing they were co-signing an empty response. :plzstop:
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I think you're looking a tad bit too deep into it.
Expressing carelessness towards something isn't exactly a empty response.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 31, 2015, 04:20:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on October 31, 2015, 04:14:52 PM
I just think it was a smart remark, since it didn't even properly answer my question.
Almost implying that I should just mind my business, when I hadn't even posted my thoughts yet. Unnecessary. :dead:
And others of course piggy backed off of it. Not even realizing they were co-signing an empty response. :plzstop:
v
I think you're looking a tad bit too deep into it.
Expressing carelessness towards something isn't exactly a empty response.
I'm not looking very deeply at all. I asked a question and got a reply which didn't answer it, so in my opinion, it's an empty response. Which could easily be regarded as a smart remark. Which I am pretty sure it was. lol.
Nothing very "deep" about that, tbh.
Pretty sure your op said how would I feel, not what would I do. I'd FEEL like, "well I don't know ha and don't care" :dead: and yes, you're taking it too deep. But now that you have you're other co-sign I hope we can move on; i'm done with it. lol.
Fck u
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 30, 2015, 05:32:15 PM
Ask her if she had an extra cigarette
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The fact that I can act' picture you doing that
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 31, 2015, 04:27:48 PM
Pretty sure your op said how would I feel, not what would I do. I'd FEEL like, "well I don't know ha and don't care" :dead: and yes, you're taking it too deep. But now that you have you're other co-sign I hope we can move on; i'm done with it. lol.
No one in here co-signed with anything I said.
Am I reading the wrong thread?
And looking for a co-sign usually begins with starting a thread with your opinion , or thorough rhetoric or some sort, and waiting for someone to touch and agree with you. Not welcoming an open discussion. You're making an unfair and quite illogical assumption that I had an MO of producing groupthinking of some sort. I have no problem with anyone being indifferent to any situation. I've expressed that on many occasions -- including my thoughts on those who could careless about DNA testing, etc.
You're rushing to make statements about me without any evidence to support it. That's where I take a bit of an issue. So it is best that we just move on before this gets any more unpleasant.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 30, 2015, 05:32:15 PM
Ask her if she had an extra cigarette
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