I would.
You never know who your soul mate might be.
It?d def have to be the one though.
And undetectable.
Thoughts?
Fuck no
No.
Nope
No
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
Nope.
It depends on the guy.
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:22:54 PM
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
oh ok that?s understandable.
I mean shit happens.
Ppl are still human.
But there?s a whole lotta precautions that u have to go through.
That person would def have to be worth it.
And undetectable.
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:22:54 PM
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
:diddraispoot:
Quote from: BigDawg on July 03, 2018, 04:25:42 PM
It depends on the guy.
it really does depend on the person.
Hell to the no
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 04:26:13 PM
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:22:54 PM
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
:diddraispoot:
ghjjjbggj
I mean I be the same too.
I?d have to take precautions before I do anything.
why the fuck would I wanna do that
Honestly
Plenty of nice, unaided gentlemen out here!
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 03, 2018, 04:28:43 PM
why the fuck would I wanna do that
Honestly
Plenty of nice, unaided gentlemen out here!
hcjhcjhchj
Honestly. Let the aided be with the aided.
And die together.
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 04:26:13 PM
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:22:54 PM
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
:diddraispoot:
What didn?t you get?
We dated. We weren?t in a relationship
:omgwatshappening:
It's pretty ignorant I guess, but I would prefer not to. Even people who already have HIV, can get a HIV superinfection by contracting a second strain of the virus through someone. So let's assume you're dating someone who is undetectable, he sleeps around and contracts the superinfection. He could then probably pass that on to you before he finds out about that second infection.
Maybe I should study medicine because this shit is scary af.
And maybe you?ve done things with somebody aided n didn?t even know.
Not everyone is honest about their status.
Nope. We can be cool though.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 04:31:45 PM
It's pretty ignorant I guess, but I would prefer not to. Even people who already have HIV, can get a HIV superinfection by contracting a second strain of the virus through someone. So let's assume you're dating someone who is undetectable, he sleeps around and contracts the superinfection. He could then probably pass that on to you before he finds out about that second infection.
Maybe I should study medicine because this shit is scary af.
youre right.
That?s why u really gotta know and trust who u dealing with.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:25:59 PM
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:22:54 PM
I?ve dated a guy that was positive. I didn?t judge him but it just didn?t work out. Not because he was positive but because he was a lying whore. We never got physical tho
oh ok that?s understandable.
I mean shit happens.
Ppl are still human.
But there?s a whole lotta precautions that u have to go through.
That person would def have to be worth it.
And undetectable.
Exactly.
I was talking to this guy from Philly and we really connected. We were supposed to connect but found out we were better off as friends. He?s my bestie tho, he?s pos but undetectable. I used to be one to say, ?never?, but I he has educated me on a lot. He?s a great guy and looks identical to Daniel from Insecure, I have learned not to rule it out but it would definitely depend on the guy.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:31:56 PM
And maybe you?ve done things with somebody aided n didn?t even know.
Not everyone is honest about their status.
the guy I dated, he told that he was after like the third time we hung out.
I was shocked but l didn?t want to be an asshole and write him off because of it. But we never went past hanging out and going on dates cause he was a liar and with him being positive as well, i didn?t trust him.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:33:07 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 04:31:45 PM
It's pretty ignorant I guess, but I would prefer not to. Even people who already have HIV, can get a HIV superinfection by contracting a second strain of the virus through someone. So let's assume you're dating someone who is undetectable, he sleeps around and contracts the superinfection. He could then probably pass that on to you before he finds out about that second infection.
Maybe I should study medicine because this shit is scary af.
youre right.
That?s why u really gotta know and trust who u dealing with.
I think that's the most important thing.
I?ve kissed somebody with HIV before.
I didn?t know until after the fact though.
Somebody I liked and still like.
Was I kinda iffy when I found out?
Hell yes.
But we cool.
And we have kissed again even after the fact.
We?re just friends though and if things were to get serious I?d take every precaution necessary.
Quote from: Scott. on July 03, 2018, 04:34:21 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:31:56 PM
And maybe you?ve done things with somebody aided n didn?t even know.
Not everyone is honest about their status.
the guy I dated, he told that he was after like the third time we hung out.
I was shocked but l didn?t want to be an asshole and write him off because of it. But we never went past hanging out and going on dates cause he was a liar and with him being positive as well, i didn?t trust him.
yea if u didnt trust him that?s a no go.
Quote from: redskin. on July 03, 2018, 04:37:01 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:21:43 PM
I would.
You never know who your soul mate might be.
It?d def have to be the one though.
And undetectable.
Thoughts?
:guys:
Ya'll really on one today, huh
would u fro?
:nowgorl:
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:36:54 PM
I?ve kissed somebody with HIV before.
I didn?t know until after the fact though.
Somebody I liked and still like.
Was I kinda iffy when I found out?
Hell yes.
But we cool.
And we have kissed again even after the fact.
We?re just friends though and if things were to get serious I?d take every precaution necessary.
You can't contract via kissing love
Naw
Quote from: Kurama on July 03, 2018, 04:40:22 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 04:36:54 PM
I?ve kissed somebody with HIV before.
I didn?t know until after the fact though.
Somebody I liked and still like.
Was I kinda iffy when I found out?
Hell yes.
But we cool.
And we have kissed again even after the fact.
We?re just friends though and if things were to get serious I?d take every precaution necessary.
You can't contract via kissing love
u can if both parties have open cuts but it?s near to impossible.
Bitch u still ain?t ansa di damn question.
:ummwhat:
Quote from: redskin. on July 03, 2018, 04:42:39 PM
I think the entire stigma of it all is slowly dissipating - largely in part to all of these conversations about Prep, etc.
People on those sex apps seem to just treat it as normal conversation now.
"Yeah I'm on prep, what about you? Got the bug? Circle yes or no", etc.
It's a good thing
:dead:
Most of you probably have already
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 05:00:03 PM
Most of you probably have already
right cause most of these niggas aren?t honest or they think they don?t need to let u know unless y?all getting serious.
Y?all dont ask about testing before fucking/sucking :udontlookok: ? They taught that in school
And clearly we meant KNOWINGLY.
probably HAVE
We aint doing it, get over it :dead:
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:06:07 PM
Y?all dont ask about testing before fucking/sucking :udontlookok: ? They taught that in school
they could still lie though.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:09:55 PM
And clearly we meant KNOWINGLY.
probably HAVE
We aint doing it, get over it :dead:
as if I was forcing anybody to say they would.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:11:04 PM
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:06:07 PM
Y?all dont ask about testing before fucking/sucking :udontlookok: ? They taught that in school
they could still lie though.
I meant like someone showing you their recent check up?
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:11:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:09:55 PM
And clearly we meant KNOWINGLY.
probably HAVE
We aint doing it, get over it :dead:
as if I was forcing anybody to say they would.
Lowkey taking issue when someone says they won't is just that. Move, fag
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
Carey is getting lashed in here. Beautiful :scrumptious:
:unsure:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:13:04 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:11:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:09:55 PM
And clearly we meant KNOWINGLY.
probably HAVE
We aint doing it, get over it :dead:
as if I was forcing anybody to say they would.
Lowkey taking issue when someone says they won't is just that. Move, fag
calm down ma?am if I say I?m not then I?m not.
Everybody is entitled to whatever.
U stay trynna argue with somebody.
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:14:21 PM
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
the funny thing is sometimes the aided ones be doing this to throw u off.
Ghhjjk
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:20:24 PM
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:14:21 PM
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
the funny thing is sometimes the aided ones be doing this to throw u off.
Ghhjjk
Yea no. We went and got tested for everything together.
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:22:33 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:20:24 PM
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:14:21 PM
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
the funny thing is sometimes the aided ones be doing this to throw u off.
Ghhjjk
Yea no. We went and got tested for everything together.
smart king.
Quote from: redskin. on July 03, 2018, 04:42:39 PM
I think the entire stigma of it all is slowly dissipating - largely in part due to all of these conversations about Prep, etc.
People on those sex apps seem to just treat it as normal conversation now.
"Yeah I'm on prep, what about you? Got the bug? Circle yes or no", etc.
It's a good thing
!!
Bareback sluts are now bareback sluts on prep. Good for them.
I would. But he or she is going to have to be some type of amazing for me.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:19:24 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:13:04 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:11:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 03, 2018, 05:09:55 PM
And clearly we meant KNOWINGLY.
probably HAVE
We aint doing it, get over it :dead:
as if I was forcing anybody to say they would.
Lowkey taking issue when someone says they won't is just that. Move, fag
calm down ma?am if I say I?m not then I?m not.
Everybody is entitled to whatever.
U stay trynna argue with somebody.
Look Queer, the comment u made says otherwise. FURTHERMORE u quoted me in a huff not the other way around so make it make sense. U havent been lashed properly since Garlic blacked out on yo ass. Are u due for another? Lemme know
damn and vonc says I'm mean?
:guys:
Today is so craze
This hot weather got yall aggy
Yes. As long as they were honest about their diagnosis early on and were taking care of themselves.
Yeah, maybe
Chances are most of us have already dated or had sex with an hiv positive person anyway
No, I'm not willing to knowingly risk my health like that. What if he gets depressed and decides to poke a hole in the condom? Misery loves company...
Quote from: AlmondEyes on July 03, 2018, 06:16:04 PM
No, I'm not willing to knowingly risk my health like that. What if he gets depressed and decides to poke a hole in the condom? Misery loves company...
n
U do have a point here.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 03, 2018, 06:07:32 PM
Yeah, maybe
Chances are most of us have already dated or had sex with an hiv positive person anyway
right cause it ain?t like u can look at a person and know if they fit it or not.
Xhvgdjghdjd
I really hate this site
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
:holdupguys:
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
:plzstop:
HHDHHDHHDBHX
just when I think you can?t out edge yourself
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
:shannonsmissing:
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
:dead:
It?s getting quite infected in here.
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
hhjjvvvg
:nowgorl:
if they're rich n undetectable
Hughkkfddfhjjfdfgjjngfgbjkkhffch
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:38:43 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
how old were u?
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 08:41:10 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:38:43 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
how old were u?
10 But I looked 14
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:38:43 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
how old were they and how old were you? sounds like rape tbh.
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:20:24 PM
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:14:21 PM
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
the funny thing is sometimes the aided ones be doing this to throw u off.
Ghhjjk
cant be thrown off by actual proof
Taking someones word for it is where the gays and everyone else go wrong. ?Welp! He looks clean and giiiilrl he fine?
ch
If I don't find a man by the age of 35 then fuck it. Expand my pool
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on July 03, 2018, 09:14:49 PM
If I don't find a man by the age of 35 then fuck it. Expand my pool
:guys: :guys: :guys:
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:20:24 PM
Quote from: In Baph Feelings. on July 03, 2018, 05:14:21 PM
I remember my last boyfriend (who I?m still cool with) asked about testing in one of our first conversations about sex. For some reason that turned me on.
the funny thing is sometimes the aided ones be doing this to throw u off.
Ghhjjk
Not going to the clinic, its his turn to see his results, comes out the room and tells you he's neg
:omgwatshappening: This aint POSE bae, where's your envelope? pull up that myChart
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:47:12 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 08:41:10 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:38:43 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
how old were u?
10 But I looked 14
oh thats ok then. once ur dad's friend thought u were 14 instead of 10.
omg fff
No.
Quote from: Drop on July 03, 2018, 09:35:39 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:47:12 PM
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 08:41:10 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 08:38:43 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on July 03, 2018, 06:57:16 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 06:42:45 PM
When I first found out about AIDS in 5th grade I just knew I probably had it
Because at that time I had already sucked my my cousins dick a few times and had sex with dads friend
But when I finally got tested I was surprised I was neg
did you report this sexual abuse?
No it was consensual
I was the one sitting on his lap and mess
I knew what I was doing
how old were u?
10 But I looked 14
oh thats ok then. once ur dad's friend thought u were 14 instead of 10.
!!!!!!!!!
And like I said it was consensual
Choke, there's so much to unpack... :damselindistress:
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 06:19:24 PM
Quote from: AlmondEyes on July 03, 2018, 06:16:04 PM
No, I'm not willing to knowingly risk my health like that. What if he gets depressed and decides to poke a hole in the condom? Misery loves company...
n
U do have a point here.
guys, really? :dead: pretty sure if someone?s that off mentally, you have no business being in a relationship with them in the first place. that judgement and discernment is on you
How would you possibly ever let it get to that point? depression is running rampant for all sorts of situations, btw, and certainly doesn?t discriminate.
Trauma in the gay community is common for obvious reasons, and that is what can lead into a certain level of depression. HIV ain?t hardly the only thing to be worried about
Quote from: ChunLi. on July 03, 2018, 05:01:46 PM
Quote from: Choke on July 03, 2018, 05:00:03 PM
Most of you probably have already
right cause most of these niggas aren?t honest or they think they don?t need to let u know unless y?all getting serious.
I make it a priority to see test results...
furthermore, we go to the damn clinic together
i ain't fuckin' wit that
:dead: