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Title: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 04:45:36 AM
 :holdupguys:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 12, 2018, 04:51:22 AM
i dont

if youre coming to my house and youre not a mailman

ill leave your ass there

but thats only happened literally once
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: 🦚 on August 12, 2018, 05:01:15 AM
Ppl know better. Even deactivated the doorbell. If I?m not expecting you ...you gon? be perched outside meet and greeting the intercom.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 05:01:36 AM
My boyfriend let them in and went back to bed
didn't know I was a fucking HOST as well as the cook/cleaner/laundryperson
I'm pissed
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: 🦚 on August 12, 2018, 05:02:11 AM
Hey Mimi
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: 🦚 on August 12, 2018, 05:03:05 AM
And who comes to someone?s house before noon. That?s plain rude. I don?t even like ppl talking to me before 12 pm.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 05:04:53 AM
Quote from: Sl?iz Richie on August 12, 2018, 05:03:05 AM
And who comes to someone?s house before noon. That?s plain rude. I don?t even like ppl talking to me before 12 pm.
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they've been here since 9am and I'm pissed
I haven't even brushed my teeth yet and Idgafai it's sunday so it's my day
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: 🦚 on August 12, 2018, 05:05:42 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 05:04:53 AM
Quote from: Sl?iz Richie on August 12, 2018, 05:03:05 AM
And who comes to someone?s house before noon. That?s plain rude. I don?t even like ppl talking to me before 12 pm.
fffgsdgsdgrt
they've been here since 9am and I'm pissed
I haven't even brushed my teeth yet and Idgafai it's sunday so it's my day

Not trying to NINE them out the door. I see you.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 12, 2018, 06:07:36 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 05:01:36 AM
My boyfriend let them in and went back to bed
didn't know I was a fucking HOST as well as the cook/cleaner/laundryperson
I'm pissed
what kind of slave shit  :shannonsmissing:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: 🦚 on August 12, 2018, 06:08:49 AM
Quote from: Vision of Baph. on August 12, 2018, 06:07:36 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 05:01:36 AM
My boyfriend let them in and went back to bed
didn't know I was a fucking HOST as well as the cook/cleaner/laundryperson
I'm pissed
what kind of slave shit  :shannonsmissing:

This mentality is why hollins won?t marry you.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Blackpantha on August 12, 2018, 06:12:46 AM
I just pretend like I heard nothing and continue going about what I was doing. I'll even open up the windows to breeze my place out.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 06:13:08 AM
hdsfsf he's just a MAN so he's lazy & I'm OTT with the house shit
love that faggot
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 06:13:24 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on August 12, 2018, 06:12:46 AM
I just pretend like I heard nothing and continue going about what I was doing. I'll even open up the windows to breeze my place out.
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Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 12, 2018, 06:29:33 AM
Don't let them in .. Simple
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Freemala Harris on August 12, 2018, 06:30:38 AM
Don't  :woohoo:

Popping up out of nowhere is a no-go.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:21:38 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 05:01:36 AM
My boyfriend let them in and went back to bed
didn't know I was a fucking HOST as well as the cook/cleaner/laundryperson
I'm pissed
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Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 07:22:32 AM
Yh I know you can't relate
you're homeless and single
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:23:55 AM
Bitch, you?re a whole slave.

:ummwhat:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 07:24:41 AM
with a roof over my head and dick every night
you can't relate
:scrumptious:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 07:25:17 AM
bitch get out my thread
no one visits you
YOUR the unexpected house guest
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:25:26 AM
As far as unwanted guests: I grab my car keys, throw on some shoes and let them know I was on my way out.

:woohoo:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:25:42 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 07:25:17 AM
bitch get out my thread
no one visits you
YOUR the unexpected house guest
*you?re
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:26:05 AM
And I?m not going anywhere.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 07:26:33 AM
*OUT
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 12, 2018, 07:27:26 AM
 :woohoo:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on August 12, 2018, 07:40:57 AM
If I don?t know you?re coming for a visit, you?ll be knocking on my door without an answer. Even my parents don?t show up unannounced. I think it?s rude.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Gilgamesh. on August 12, 2018, 08:46:33 AM
I don't...
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Lazarus on August 12, 2018, 08:50:35 AM
Tell them you're about run somewhere or step out in a few.

Make up some type of lie.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: #Mu7 on August 12, 2018, 08:50:53 AM
I leave the door unanswered and f/u with the following text message:

"Can I help you?"

:uhh:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 08:55:03 AM
Yh despite all the Naomi stanning I?m very polite in life real
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 08:58:16 AM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 12, 2018, 08:31:24 AM
Fffffffff

Are you Guinean kin giving you a headache?
bensjs they asked if I speak their language I said no and they started talking amongst themselves
:guys:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Cartierline on August 12, 2018, 09:15:30 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 08:58:16 AM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 12, 2018, 08:31:24 AM
Fffffffff

Are you Guinean kin giving you a headache?
bensjs they asked if I speak their language I said no and they started talking amongst themselves
:guys:


skdjskjds they're shading you downe babe
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on August 12, 2018, 10:45:37 AM
This is something I always had to deal with growing up.... and it?s kinda why I am the way I am now. :dead: My dad is very social and southern, so he just LOVES to entertain and always have guests over.

So he has this one frat brother that will pop up at the house EVERY weekend unannounced for dinner... and brings his family. One Christmas break during undergrad, all the lights were on, garage open, like we?re clearly home (my parents were at the store.)... these niggers popped up and rang the doorbell.. I walked right past the door and didn?t fucking ANSWER it. They got the goddam message that day.

So to answer the question, how do I deal with it? By not DEALING with it. You have to teach people your boundaries.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 12, 2018, 10:48:18 AM
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Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 12, 2018, 10:52:48 AM
Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 12, 2018, 07:22:32 AM
Yh I know you can't relate
you're homeless and single
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Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GLOCK on August 12, 2018, 10:55:27 AM
Quote from: Sl?iz Richie on August 12, 2018, 05:03:05 AM
And who comes to someone?s house before noon. That?s plain rude. I don?t even like ppl talking to me before 12 pm.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GLOCK on August 12, 2018, 10:56:11 AM
No dice
It wouldn?t happen to me
I?d even leave my moms outside for some mess like that (though she wouldn?t do that because she wouldn?t want me doing it to her)
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 12, 2018, 11:07:52 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 12, 2018, 10:56:11 AM
No dice
It wouldn?t happen to me
I?d even leave my moms outside for some mess like that (though she wouldn?t do that because she wouldn?t want me doing it to her)
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You are demonic

If I popped up at my mom's house at 4am I'd throw A FIT if she didn't answer

She'd expect the same from me though  :dead:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Cartierline on August 12, 2018, 11:09:01 AM
Ch, I just pretend like I'm not tf in.

But no one I know would show up un-announced anyway.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: fedswatchin on August 12, 2018, 11:09:04 AM
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Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on August 12, 2018, 11:15:24 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 12, 2018, 10:55:27 AM
Quote from: Sl?iz Richie on August 12, 2018, 05:03:05 AM
And who comes to someone?s house before noon. That?s plain rude. I don?t even like ppl talking to me before 12 pm.
comimg over unannounced period is just so disrespectful imo. It just shows that you have no respect for other people?s time and privacy. I?ve had this convo with my dad several times and he just can?t see it like that... maybe personality plays a role in how you view/operate these circumstances. I?m pretty introverted, but I notice with big extroverts, this kinda behavior doesn?t seem to bother them or stress them out. I like to be PREPARED to be social... I?m no good unless Im a good 85% socially CHARGED. But with extroverts, it?s no big deal.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Harlem on August 12, 2018, 11:23:15 AM
Rarely happens to me since I?m out most of the time but people would usually ask me if I?m around before popping up....

I do remember I had a nigga in my Crib and someone rang my doorbell and I?m like who the fuck is this and my heart was shook lol but it was my fine ass super to make sure my water was working properly... I was like nigga don?t be fuckin poppin up like this unless he wanted to join
:welllol:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: ssw4919 on August 12, 2018, 11:24:25 AM
Don?t answer the door. :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Kaeli. on August 12, 2018, 11:50:53 AM
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I will play sleep too fucking quick
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Nine on August 12, 2018, 12:06:57 PM
This is the rudest thing to me.

How do you just DROP by someone's place and not even ask or tell them.
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Rxxf on August 12, 2018, 01:52:05 PM
I don't answer my door.
:udontlookok:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 12, 2018, 01:54:33 PM
Quote from: ton&zankou on August 12, 2018, 04:51:22 AM
i dont

if youre coming to my house and youre not a mailman

ill leave your ass there

but thats only happened literally once
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: como la whore on August 12, 2018, 02:08:05 PM
I just act really bitchy until they get the hint and leave  :letsmessfag:

Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 12, 2018, 02:11:20 PM
I?ve left my sister on the doorstep knocking ?????
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 12, 2018, 02:15:53 PM
Quote from: ton&zankou on August 12, 2018, 02:11:20 PM
I?ve left my sister on the doorstep knocking ?????
!!!!!!!
:plzstop:
Title: Re: How do you deal with unexpected guests
Post by: African Queen on August 12, 2018, 02:36:07 PM
You sound like a doormat. :roflmao: