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Title: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: HUGO on August 21, 2018, 11:01:01 PM
If there are any...

:stressed:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Mariah4ever on August 21, 2018, 11:02:23 PM
gorl ....play wit yoself
works for me err' week
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: GLOCK on August 21, 2018, 11:02:39 PM
Time
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Harlem on August 21, 2018, 11:07:59 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 21, 2018, 11:02:39 PM
Time

Facts, this one right here!!!
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Bulldagger on August 21, 2018, 11:08:16 PM
Date and hang out with friends.

ETA: Also, writing down the pros and cons of your last relationship. They?ll give you a better perspective on the reality of the relationship VS the highlights you?ll play over and over again in your head.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: HUGO on August 21, 2018, 11:09:57 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 21, 2018, 11:02:39 PM
Time

I know but I honestly just want this dude erased from my memory. I?ve never had anyone play games with me like this and it?s got my mind so messed up

:stressed:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:11:56 PM
lol
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 21, 2018, 11:13:16 PM
Did he find out you're catfish luv?
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Killaxmt on August 21, 2018, 11:13:38 PM
Be a slut!  :takeallofme:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Mariah4ever on August 21, 2018, 11:13:48 PM
gsfccsd

o shit
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:16:34 PM
Quote from: Red Skin (4givenessIZoverrated) on August 21, 2018, 11:12:16 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:11:56 PM
lol
You're a mess lol.
Ddd

I just dont...ugh, whatever.

I empathize with anyone being stuck on someone and wanting to be unstuck tho. Idk Hug'. It really is a time thing. You're not gonna forget them but eventually what they meant to you will fade. Just live life. And try not doing things that are directly related to them. If that makes sense
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 21, 2018, 11:22:03 PM
Quote from: my lil' mutha fckin poneh, bitch on August 21, 2018, 11:02:23 PM
gorl ....play wit yoself
works for me err' week
:udontlookok:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:24:58 PM
Quote from: Red Skin on August 21, 2018, 11:20:02 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:16:34 PM
Quote from: Red Skin (4givenessIZoverrated) on August 21, 2018, 11:12:16 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:11:56 PM
lol
You're a mess lol.
Ddd

I just dont...ugh, whatever.

I empathize with anyone being stuck on someone and wanting to be unstuck tho. Idk Hug'. It really is a time thing. You're not gonna forget them but eventually what they meant to you will fade. Just live life. And try not doing things that are directly related to them. If that makes sense
That makes sense.

And you're trash hun.

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Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 21, 2018, 11:26:56 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy
Are you Taylor Swift?
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:27:30 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 21, 2018, 11:26:56 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy
Are you Taylor Swift?

I?m Scotty. Who are you dear?
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: HUGO on August 21, 2018, 11:28:35 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:16:34 PM
Quote from: Red Skin (4givenessIZoverrated) on August 21, 2018, 11:12:16 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 21, 2018, 11:11:56 PM
lol
You're a mess lol.
Ddd

I just dont...ugh, whatever.

I empathize with anyone being stuck on someone and wanting to be unstuck tho. Idk Hug'. It really is a time thing. You're not gonna forget them but eventually what they meant to you will fade. Just live life. And try not doing things that are directly related to them. If that makes sense

n

Thanks. Dude and I were not together or official. I just gotta stop having expectations because These niggas really will feed you some fuckin lies.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: HUGO on August 21, 2018, 11:29:17 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy

It worked??
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Mariah4ever on August 21, 2018, 11:31:28 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:27:30 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 21, 2018, 11:26:56 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy
Are you Taylor Swift?

I?m Scotty. Who are you dear?
Jvggfd

[youtube autoplay=1]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yn8owgLDELw[/youtube]

Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Mariah4ever on August 21, 2018, 11:31:52 PM
bowd's bod' was chopped up n tossed into popeyes chickens batter n served to lew up in here
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on August 21, 2018, 11:40:33 PM
 :holdupguys:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Mariah4ever on August 21, 2018, 11:41:10 PM
rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrvw
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Scott. on August 22, 2018, 12:06:44 AM
Quote from: HUGO on August 21, 2018, 11:29:17 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 21, 2018, 11:24:35 PM
Write songs about them tbh. I use my artistry as therapy

It worked??

Yes. I go back and listen to my demos and be like Oh God, I had it bad
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 22, 2018, 12:08:50 AM
Fuck his best friend
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Pearls Khan on August 22, 2018, 12:13:02 AM
e
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on August 22, 2018, 10:41:50 AM
Find someone like them
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 10:45:54 AM
Get back to the things and people you genuinely enjoy
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 22, 2018, 10:54:39 AM
Time is amazing. The way we are created, time has a way of healing the most devastating emotional wounds. Just allow yourself to feel all of the sadness and pain head on. I find that's the best way, because you come out of it stronger and learning to love yourself more in the process. And please don't rush into anything else until you know you're ready. And if that's never, that's fine too. It's all about being stronger.  Remember that at the end of the day, all you have is yourself, and all you can trust is yourself and a higher power, if you believe in it. So the best relationship to cultivate is the one with yourself, because people will hurt you, disappoint you, and leave you all the time.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Navyman on August 22, 2018, 11:09:28 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
!!!!!!!!!!!
Have you, as an Empath studied how we attract people with NPD and personality disorders(pretty much takers)?
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 22, 2018, 11:11:06 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 22, 2018, 11:09:28 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
!!!!!!!!!!!
Have you, as an Empath studied how we attract people with NPD and personality disorders(pretty much takers)?

Do you know how many narcissists I've dated? I could write a book :kii:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 22, 2018, 11:13:09 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
:'(
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Pearls Khan on August 22, 2018, 11:14:23 AM
What wrong Jayda?
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Young on August 22, 2018, 11:15:44 AM
Time, Prayer and other loved ones/friends
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Navyman on August 22, 2018, 11:20:47 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:11:06 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 22, 2018, 11:09:28 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
!!!!!!!!!!!
Have you, as an Empath studied how we attract people with NPD and personality disorders(pretty much takers)?

Do you know how many narcissists I've dated? I could write a book :kii:
:kii: :kii: I see em coming a mile away now. Still getting it together from the last one.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on August 22, 2018, 11:22:13 AM
Just keep yourself booked n busy. It?ll eventually go away with time anyway. In the meantime, the busier you are, the less time your mind has to ponder.

Best of luck.

:traciandchelle:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 22, 2018, 11:24:15 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 22, 2018, 11:20:47 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:11:06 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 22, 2018, 11:09:28 AM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 11:02:12 AM
That's why I'm so unbothered by relationships and being single and alone, while others will do just about anything to say they aren't single just to say they have someone. But I find relationships to be dangerous, especially for empaths and really sensitive people. Too painful...so I'm like fuck that shit I'm staying single :kii:
!!!!!!!!!!!
Have you, as an Empath studied how we attract people with NPD and personality disorders(pretty much takers)?

Do you know how many narcissists I've dated? I could write a book :kii:
:kii: :kii: I see em coming a mile away now. Still getting it together from the last one.

why are they all fine tho..ugh
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 22, 2018, 11:25:16 AM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on August 22, 2018, 11:14:23 AM
What wrong Jayda?
I feel what Ntwad' is saying
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: LOONA. on August 22, 2018, 11:39:33 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 21, 2018, 11:02:39 PM
Time

Yeah

Trying to force yourself over someone seems counterproductive.     

Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: African Queen on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: CHOKE on August 22, 2018, 03:04:37 PM
Sleep with their best friend or relative
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: FRANCE on August 22, 2018, 03:06:53 PM
Get under someone else.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially us Blk gays.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Hatsumomo on August 22, 2018, 03:55:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially us Blk gays.

Yep. He is reinforcing stereotypes and that's important for him NOT to do.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 22, 2018, 03:58:43 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially Blk gays.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Navyman on August 22, 2018, 03:59:33 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially us Blk gays.
!!!
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Monika on August 22, 2018, 04:05:43 PM
Quote from: my lil' mutha fckin poneh, bitch on August 21, 2018, 11:02:23 PM
gorl ....play wit yoself
works for me err' week
lmaooooooo  :dead:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 22, 2018, 04:07:56 PM
Quote from: Baph. on August 22, 2018, 03:58:43 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially Blk gays.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: African Queen on August 22, 2018, 07:53:03 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 03:55:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 22, 2018, 03:54:29 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 01:45:54 PM
To get over one man you need to lie under multiple others.

I really do dislike that perspective (no disrespect to you). I really think that's why so many ppl are fucked up in relationships. Especially us Blk gays.

Yep. He is reinforcing stereotypes and that's important for him NOT to do.

GTFOH. I only represent myself on this earth. And I said what I said.

(https://i.gifer.com/AeFi.gif)
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: 🦚 on August 22, 2018, 07:57:09 PM
Never had this issue. Once I?m over someone it?s like they never fucking existed.  :cheerup:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: African Queen on August 22, 2018, 08:28:54 PM
I've never really split from an ex.

The First one I still fuck from time to time cos he literally live 2 minutes away from my parents home in London. Now that was convenient. He is sexy, nice size dick, earns a good living, has a gorgeous apartment. He wasn't really looking for a commitment and I was still deep in the closet. We just fucked every single day for about two years. I was such a slut though cos he was a top only so I would get fucked by him then go straight online afterwards looking for a bottom.

The second one he moved back to Argentina where he came from with his wife. He only told me about her about a year and half after we started fucking. He messaged me the other day and I sent him a couple videos of me getting fucked by a FB as well my Egyptian ex.

The Iranian was more of FB than a lover. He had a black girlfriend he was trying to impregnate so he never would cum while we were having sex. He said he was saving it for making the baby.

With the Egyptian one I moved to another country. He still sends me messages saying he loves me. He is married with kids though, which he told me about eight months. His family are back in Egypt but the bitch would call sometimes while we were fucking. He was the sexiest, 10 inches, could fuck for 5 hours nonstop. The Argentine guy fucked for hours, he was about 8.5 inches, the other two were about 7.5 inches.

I think the Egyptian was my fave but I didn't trust him because I was robbed by another Egyptian guy the year before I met him. He was so sweet and never gave me reason not to trust him but I didn't anyway. Egyptians have a terrible reputation when it comes to lying and stealing.

I forgot about the Lebanese bottom. He had the most beautiful eyes. Now he was a stalker and did cocaine. I had to cut him off.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: yummy on August 22, 2018, 08:32:33 PM
Quote from: my lil' mutha fckin poneh, bitch on August 21, 2018, 11:31:52 PM
bowd's bod' was chopped up n tossed into popeyes chickens batter n served to lew up in here

vghkdbchuijchuiofkmcv,vmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Glenda on August 22, 2018, 09:14:23 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 22, 2018, 10:54:39 AM
Time is amazing. The way we are created, time has a way of healing the most devastating emotional wounds. Just allow yourself to feel all of the sadness and pain head on. I find that's the best way, because you come out of it stronger and learning to love yourself more in the process. And please don't rush into anything else until you know you're ready. And if that's never, that's fine too. It's all about being stronger.  Remember that at the end of the day, all you have is yourself, and all you can trust is yourself and a higher power, if you believe in it. So the best relationship to cultivate is the one with yourself, because people will hurt you, disappoint you, and leave you all the time.
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Navyman on August 22, 2018, 09:18:31 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 22, 2018, 08:28:54 PM
I've never really split from an ex.

The First one I still fuck from time to time cos he literally live 2 minutes away from my parents home in London. Now that was convenient. He is sexy, nice size dick, earns a good living, has a gorgeous apartment. He wasn't really looking for a commitment and I was still deep in the closet. We just fucked every single day for about two years. I was such a slut though cos he was a top only so I would get fucked by him then go straight online afterwards looking for a bottom.

The second one he moved back to Argentina where he came from with his wife. He only told me about her about a year and half after we started fucking. He messaged me the other day and I sent him a couple videos of me getting fucked by a FB as well my Egyptian ex.

The Iranian was more of FB than a lover. He had a black girlfriend he was trying to impregnate so he never would cum while we were having sex. He said he was saving it for making the baby.

With the Egyptian one I moved to another country. He still sends me messages saying he loves me. He is married with kids though, which he told me about eight months. His family are back in Egypt but the bitch would call sometimes while we were fucking. He was the sexiest, 10 inches, could fuck for 5 hours nonstop. The Argentine guy fucked for hours, he was about 8.5 inches, the other two were about 7.5 inches.

I think the Egyptian was my fave but I didn't trust him because I was robbed by another Egyptian guy the year before I met him. He was so sweet and never gave me reason not to trust him but I didn't anyway. Egyptians have a terrible reputation when it comes to lying and stealing.

I forgot about the Lebanese bottom. He had the most beautiful eyes. Now he was a stalker and did cocaine. I had to cut him off.
Boy
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: What are some things to do to get over someone?
Post by: Drogon on August 22, 2018, 09:25:33 PM
Delete ALL contact info and msgs so im not urged to text or call