How was it?
Let?s chat
What's a family
Yep. My 1st and a my 2nd (who I'm still cool with nd want to get back with....kinda)
Ion think you should out take everyone around your family.
Quote from: Baph. on August 24, 2018, 07:05:05 PM
Yep. My 1st and a my 2nd (who I'm still cool with nd want to get back with....kinda)
Ion think you should out take everyone around your family.
are u gonna get back with the 2nd?
I know have a lot invested in each other
I feel like my mom really wants to meet a nigger now that she knows what?s good..
I?m like
:udontlookok:
Can u stop
I?m just super private and a super Capricorn..
I?m sorta gonna be shook letting her meet a nigger I?m dating (when I get there)
I?m sorta scared of it
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
HELL NAWWWWW!!!!
Not yet.
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
Awww.
I've only taken a guy around my homies but NEVER to my family house and i don't think i will :dead:
I'm in the beginning stages of something new we will see
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:15:50 PM
Quote from: Glenda on August 24, 2018, 07:15:15 PM
Not yet.
u afraid ? :'(
A little. :plzstop:
My family does NOT play. Especially my dad's side of the family. I know they're gonna ask him 10,000 questions.
:stressed:
I won't bring anyone around them unless I know I'm REALLY serious about them, though.
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:13:46 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
Yeah, all my gay friends are about 4 years older than me/ in their 30s...when I told them they were like ?WTF, this is so new age?. :uhh: More so shocked about my Dad and him getting along and us sleeping in the same room.
Now when my Mum told my Dad we were coming for the weekend, he did say to her, ?Where is he sleeping...I don?t want no funny business under my roof?. Fffff but we slept in my room, we didn?t have sex...just head. :tistheseas:
sdfvvvv
Well olright then
:tistheseas:
Your dad is awesome. Especially considering he's Caribbean.
yh all of them apart from the 3rd one, the 4th one my current one, knew my dads family before I we got together.
My dad doesn't care for it but he's old and doesn't care and my mum takes them all as her sons
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:13:46 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
Yeah, all my gay friends are about 4 years older than me/ in their 30s...when I told them they were like ?WTF, this is so new age?. :uhh: More so shocked about my Dad and him getting along and us sleeping in the same room.
Now when my Mum told my Dad we were coming for the weekend, he did say to her, ?Where is he sleeping...I don?t want no funny business under my roof?. Fffff but we slept in my room, we didn?t have sex...just head. :tistheseas:
Whew chil
In the South you can't sleep in the same room. Gay, bi , or straight
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 24, 2018, 07:20:40 PM
yh all of them apart from the 3rd one, the 4th one my current one, knew my dads family before I we got together.
My dad doesn't care for it but he's old and doesn't care and my mum takes them all as her sons
ack
My ex was basically a family friend before we even got together so I never really had to do that.
You have to mean something to me in order for me to bring you around my family. So twice
Quote from: LOONA. on August 24, 2018, 07:24:23 PM
My ex was basically a family friend before we even got together so I never really had to do that.
n
Not you riding your bvysitter
The IRS still riding Toni
Quote from: FM on August 24, 2018, 07:21:13 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:13:46 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
Yeah, all my gay friends are about 4 years older than me/ in their 30s...when I told them they were like ?WTF, this is so new age?. :uhh: More so shocked about my Dad and him getting along and us sleeping in the same room.
Now when my Mum told my Dad we were coming for the weekend, he did say to her, ?Where is he sleeping...I don?t want no funny business under my roof?. Fffff but we slept in my room, we didn?t have sex...just head. :tistheseas:
Whew chil
In the South you can't sleep in the same room. Gay, bi , or straight
!!!!!!!
My cousin brought his PREGNANT girlfriend home once and his grandfather had them sleeping in separate rooms :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
You black Americans are really progressive I see. Most black parents in the UK don't play those games AT ALL.
Quote from: LOONA. on August 24, 2018, 07:25:49 PM
The IRS still riding Toni
snnd
And 'fas still ridin' through Atlanta looking for Jay.
Theo & I live in the U.K
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Scott. on August 24, 2018, 07:24:34 PM
You have to mean something to me in order for me to bring you around my family. So twice
Like I'm not about to put my business out there for these nothing ass niggas
Quote from: FM on August 24, 2018, 07:27:00 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 24, 2018, 07:24:34 PM
You have to mean something to me in order for me to bring you around my family. So twice
Like I'm not avout to put my business out there for these nothing ass niggas
Well you're a nothing ass nigger yourself
(https://78.media.tumblr.com/9cf290eaa49b42108d2be9ac8919a62c/tumblr_pdzo7xN8p31qfrpiko1_1280.png)
'mlznollol knn'xn'
lx
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nx
nx
nx
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Soon
:stressed:
Quote from: NewNu on August 24, 2018, 07:26:01 PM
Quote from: FM on August 24, 2018, 07:21:13 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:13:46 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
Yeah, all my gay friends are about 4 years older than me/ in their 30s...when I told them they were like ?WTF, this is so new age?. :uhh: More so shocked about my Dad and him getting along and us sleeping in the same room.
Now when my Mum told my Dad we were coming for the weekend, he did say to her, ?Where is he sleeping...I don?t want no funny business under my roof?. Fffff but we slept in my room, we didn?t have sex...just head. :tistheseas:
Whew chil
In the South you can't sleep in the same room. Gay, bi , or straight
!!!!!!!
My cousin brought his PREGNANT girlfriend home once and his grandfather had them sleeping in separate rooms :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
They aint having IT
Quote from: Girl from "Clueless" and select episodes of "The Game" on August 24, 2018, 07:30:56 PM
Quote from: FM on August 24, 2018, 07:27:00 PM
Quote from: Scott. on August 24, 2018, 07:24:34 PM
You have to mean something to me in order for me to bring you around my family. So twice
Like I'm not avout to put my business out there for these nothing ass niggas
Well you're a nothing ass nigger yourself
Fuck you Mable
my family knows nothing about my personal life so no.
If I do I'll just introduce him as a friend and move on.
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 24, 2018, 07:26:51 PM
Theo & I live in the U.K
:udontlookok:
fklmnklddddddddddddddddd
Quote from: Sinyonc? on August 24, 2018, 08:35:26 PM
my family knows nothing about my personal life so no.
If I do I'll just introduce him as a friend and move on.
I don't see the need to tell them.
My ex was around for 10 yrs on and off. There was never an official introduce mess tho. I didn?t find it necessary. Plus Caribbean families are weird. You can kinda grow up with the rule that you can only ever introduce 1 person. I?ve seen them be shady boots to follow up introductions.
No.
damn you must have been hiding alot of mens.
Quote from: CardiVENOM on August 24, 2018, 08:41:59 PM
My ex was around for 10 yrs on and off. There was never an official introduce mess tho. I didn?t find it necessary. Plus Caribbean families are weird. You can kinda grow up with the rule that you can only ever introduce 1 person. I?ve seen them be shady boots to follow up introductions.
Caribbean families be grilling the shit out ur date especially after they've meet ur 1st and like dem. My pops quiet but I don't know how he would take it
:plzstop:
:omf:
My very first boyfriend accidentally ran into my parents when I was trying to keep him hid. That fag randomly showed up at my house without notice. Everything changed after that, and they knew once and for all that I was gay. What a nightmare. I hate people being in my business. Especially family members. They are treacherous. Worse than some of you on here. So if my own family attacks me wtf would y'all do to me? Kill me?
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 24, 2018, 09:31:54 PM
My very first boyfriend accidentally ran into my parents when I was trying to keep him hid. That fag randomly showed up at my house without notice. Everything changed after that, and they knew once and for all that I was gay. What a nightmare. I hate people being in my business. Especially family members. They are treacherous. Worse than some of you on here. So if my own family attacks me wtf would y'all do to me? Kill me?
Girl this drama. Are you high?
Very
I'm also kidding .. You can't take a joke? Did I strike a nerve? I didn't mention you did I? . but if the shoe fits wear it fag!
Feisty! Spiced up! Re?2go!
Marquetta plea.
But since I love you ill ignore you Lol
D
No. I can barely bring a group of FRIENDS together without an anxiety attack. The THOUGHT of bringing a man around my parents.... it?s something I?d have to ease BOTH parties into.. Dudes are already weirded out by my closeness to my parents. And my parents never see it for ANYBODY I bring around (mainly just the males). The people my mother actually uses, I?m like..
(http://i66.tinypic.com/2hwlp90.png)
They don?t mean harm by it.. My parents are the sweetest people, but I just know when they won?t use. I don?t even bother.
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:18:41 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 24, 2018, 07:13:46 PM
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 24, 2018, 07:11:38 PM
Yeah, I brought my ex home with me to meet my family.
My Mum and Sister loved/still love him. :uhh:
My Dad even got on with him. I woke up the next morning to an empty bed, went downstairs and my Dad and ex were chit-chatting in the kitchen. Then we had dinner with my Grandparents ffffffff Didn't introduce him to them as my boyfriend, but I'm sure they knew the tea...this nigga was squeezing my thigh under the table, I coulda smacked him.
But yeah, real cool. Fuck him.
This sounds so perfect and tv like
Ack
Damn I wonder how my mom and step dad gone act
:udontlookok:
Probably ghetto but nice
Idk
I can?t believe that I?m gonna do this one day
I?m really gay gay
Yeah, all my gay friends are about 4 years older than me/ in their 30s...when I told them they were like ?WTF, this is so new age?. :uhh: More so shocked about my Dad and him getting along and us sleeping in the same room.
Now when my Mum told my Dad we were coming for the weekend, he did say to her, ?Where is he sleeping...I don?t want no funny business under my roof?. Fffff but we slept in my room, we didn?t have sex...just head. :tistheseas:
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Not technically but my ex came to my graduation. Basically met most of my family
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 24, 2018, 07:26:51 PM
Theo & I live in the U.K
:udontlookok:
You have Caribbean/African parents who let you carry on like that? WOW!
Both groups are highly homophobic so I don't know why you acting brand new. Like most black people of a certain age just don't accept gays. PERIOD. Even the young ones are homophobic to be honest, especially Caribbeans. They are very vocal about it too. At least Africans try to just sweep it under the rug and not speak on it too much.
Quote from: Trey on August 24, 2018, 10:51:36 PM
The people my mother actually uses, I?m like..
(http://i66.tinypic.com/2hwlp90.png)
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No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 25, 2018, 05:11:57 AM
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 24, 2018, 07:26:51 PM
Theo & I live in the U.K
:udontlookok:
You have Caribbean/African parents who let you carry on like that? WOW!
Both groups are highly homophobic so I don't know why you acting brand new. Like most black people of a certain age just don't accept gays. PERIOD. Even the young ones are homophobic to be honest, especially Caribbeans. They are very vocal about it too. At least Africans try to just sweep it under the rug and not speak on it too much.
yh
we?re black...we know
:udontlookok:
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 25, 2018, 05:49:56 AM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on August 25, 2018, 05:11:57 AM
Quote from: Boys Don't Cry on August 24, 2018, 07:26:51 PM
Theo & I live in the U.K
:udontlookok:
You have Caribbean/African parents who let you carry on like that? WOW!
Both groups are highly homophobic so I don't know why you acting brand new. Like most black people of a certain age just don't accept gays. PERIOD. Even the young ones are homophobic to be honest, especially Caribbeans. They are very vocal about it too. At least Africans try to just sweep it under the rug and not speak on it too much.
yh we?re black...we know
:udontlookok:
So why you acting like what I said don't make sense bitch! :fuming:
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
>>><<<
When I brought my separate groups of friends together for my bday, I almost had a damn anxiety attack. They were already RUMBLING in the goddam group chat. Sdddddddddddd
Quote from: Trey on August 25, 2018, 01:54:06 PM
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
>>><<<
When I brought my separate groups of friends together for my bday, I almost had a damn anxiety attack. They were already RUMBLING in the goddam group chat. Sdddddddddddd
!!!
2 of my best friends are females
They were shading each other at my birthday dinner
Never again :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 01:55:26 PM
Quote from: Trey on August 25, 2018, 01:54:06 PM
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
>>><<<
When I brought my separate groups of friends together for my bday, I almost had a damn anxiety attack. They were already RUMBLING in the goddam group chat. Sdddddddddddd
!!!
2 of my best friends are females
They were shading each other at my birthday dinner
Never again :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
DNDJJDJDJDJXJDJDDJJDJDJDJJDDJJDNDDJDDJDJDJDNJDJDJDJXJJCJDJDJDNNDJDMFNDNCNX
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And idk y, but I always attract friends with strong personalities... that?s why I keep them the fuck SEPERATE. I have one friend that just rubs EVERYBODY the fuck WRONG. I was so anxious. MelMel had to fucking CONSOLE me!! I just knew my bday was gonna end in BLOWS. :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Trey on August 25, 2018, 02:01:50 PM
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 01:55:26 PM
Quote from: Trey on August 25, 2018, 01:54:06 PM
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
>>><<<
When I brought my separate groups of friends together for my bday, I almost had a damn anxiety attack. They were already RUMBLING in the goddam group chat. Sdddddddddddd
!!!
2 of my best friends are females
They were shading each other at my birthday dinner
Never again :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
DNDJJDJDJDJXJDJDDJJDJDJDJJDDJJDNDDJDDJDJDJDNJDJDJDJXJJCJDJDJDNNDJDMFNDNCNX
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And idk y, but I always attract friends with strong personalities... that?s why I keep them the fuck SEPERATE. I have one friend that just rubs EVERYBODY the fuck WRONG. I was so anxious. MelMel had to fucking CONSOLE me!! I just knew my bday was gonna end in BLOWS. :plzstop: :plzstop:
yeah they're both feisty
And one was black and one was white
I just...
My black bestie who I'm closer with read her to bits after we left :plzstop:
I was like huh? What shade sis lol! Thats just how she jokes LMAO!!!!
Quote from: ton on August 25, 2018, 05:42:41 AM
No
I don't like mixing groups cxxccc
I don't mix friends, family, or lovers
I mean, they can know about him and meet him by coincidence but that's it
bjjjj
We are similar in that regard :dead:
Yeah, all 3 of them.
The first two were introduced as friends. My mom definitely knew but she let me go through that process. I also used to sneak my first bf in, my sister got wind( :unsure:) of that and made sure to put me on blast in front of my fam. My 2nd boyfriend was my "roomie" until we broke up. Told my mom everything and she helped a lot with the process.
My current was introduced as my boyfriend. He and my mom clique. My mom generally liked all of my dudes.
I've always really liked linking my loved ones with one another. Sometimes it flops, usually with friends.
Quote from: Kurama on August 27, 2018, 11:20:31 AM
Yeah, all 3 of them.
The first two were introduced as friends. My mom definitely knew but she let me go through that process. I also used to sneak my first bf in, my sister got wind( :unsure:) of that and made sure to put me on blast in front of my fam. My 2nd boyfriend was my "roomie" until we broke up. Told my mom everything and she helped a lot with the process.
My current was introduced as my boyfriend. He and my mom clique. My mom generally liked all of my dudes.
I've always really liked linking my loved ones with one another. Sometimes it flops, usually with friends.
:ohwow:
I wonder
Quote from: Kurama on August 27, 2018, 11:20:31 AM
Yeah, all 3 of them.
The first two were introduced as friends. My mom definitely knew but she let me go through that process. I also used to sneak my first bf in, my sister got wind( :unsure:) of that and made sure to put me on blast in front of my fam. My 2nd boyfriend was my "roomie" until we broke up. Told my mom everything and she helped a lot with the process.
My current was introduced as my boyfriend. He and my mom clique. My mom generally liked all of my dudes.
I've always really liked linking my loved ones with one another. Sometimes it flops, usually with friends.
Your sister is a mess for that
But siblings are annoying and trashy like that
I?m glad to hear that it wasn?t a total disaster with your family tho
I can see why friends and lovers wouldn?t mix
I try to keep my lovers to myself but I know that shit is probably not the best
but friends can ruin the hell owt of your love life
Not mine of course but u know what I mean..
some folks tell their friends way too much
I try not to vent to my friends about serious serious stuff unless I?m certain we are DONE