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Title: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 10:01:17 AM
Let?s chat.
:ohwow:

What happened?
Why couldn?t u connect?
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 21, 2018, 10:03:20 AM
yh im gay
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Drogon on September 21, 2018, 10:07:37 AM
I have plenty of times and it's so awkward bc youd think you can be comfortable around your own ppl
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:09:33 AM
 Yea, If it was ever too ghetto
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on September 21, 2018, 10:11:55 AM
Yeah. This board is too niggery sometimes too :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on September 21, 2018, 10:19:19 AM
Quote from: Blindian on September 21, 2018, 10:14:56 AM
Not really.

Actually grateful for the Black people at my job. Not many of us but we can have our little inside jokes and mess.

I love to get a little hood sometimes and I only feel comfortable doing it around other Black folk.

Sometimes when people point out stuff that they feel is different about you it can make you feel a little out of place or awkward. But I usually cozy right on in with my brothers and sisters.

:scrumptious:

n
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Scott. on September 21, 2018, 10:19:28 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:09:33 AM
Yea, If it was ever too ghetto

Then you should?ve been right at home
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 21, 2018, 10:19:44 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 21, 2018, 10:19:28 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:09:33 AM
Yea, If it was ever too ghetto

Then you should?ve been right at home
:guys:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 21, 2018, 10:19:57 AM
this impending shoot-out
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 21, 2018, 10:20:04 AM
Only back home (Trinidad) cause I wasn't raised there my cousins would kiki at my accent.
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: CHOKE on September 21, 2018, 10:22:47 AM
My entire life King

If I see a group of them I still get a bit nervous and will find a way to avoid them
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on September 21, 2018, 10:24:43 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on September 21, 2018, 10:20:04 AM
my cousins would kiki at my accent.

Rightfully so
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Rxxf on September 21, 2018, 10:25:12 AM
Not really.

Maybe only for being gay (earlier in my life), amongst my culture: negative talk about an 'anti man', etc. But that's more culture, than them being black, IMO.
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Young on September 21, 2018, 10:26:14 AM
not really tbh.
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Rxxf on September 21, 2018, 10:28:28 AM
Quote from: Blindian on September 21, 2018, 10:14:56 AM
Not really.

Actually grateful for the Black people at my job. Not many of us but we can have our little inside jokes and mess.

I love to get a little hood sometimes and I only feel comfortable doing it around other Black folk.

Sometimes when people point out stuff that they feel is different about you it can make you feel a little out of place or awkward. But I usually cozy right on in with my brothers and sisters.

:scrumptious:

We tend to congregate (professionally, of course, lol) at my job, especially when we are out of state for work.
I know the white people be fuming. Kii.
:blessed:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:36:47 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 21, 2018, 10:19:28 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:09:33 AM
Yea, If it was ever too ghetto

Then you should?ve been right at home
Im not u coon
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks
I just can?t really fake the funk or get in
I?m not broke or anything but just seeing a fag shuck and jive.. it does something to me and it really turns me off
I feel unsafe and I feel that they are out to get me.. or get US.

Hmph.

And the way they speak
It makes me itch a bit..
I don?t like no white washed BLACK
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 21, 2018, 10:55:58 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks
I just can?t really fake the funk or get in
I?m not broke or anything but just seeing a fag shuck and jive.. it does something to me and it really turns me off
I feel unsafe and I feel that they are out to get me.. or get US.

Hmph.

And the way they speak
It makes me itch a bit..
I don?t like no white washed BLACK
What about blacks with a British accent?
:guys:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: emzen on September 21, 2018, 11:00:36 AM
I don?t do too well with straight black guys. We don?t have much to talk about.  :damselindistress:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 11:01:44 AM
Quote from: Blindian on September 21, 2018, 10:52:04 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks
I just can?t really fake the funk or get in
I?m not broke or anything but just seeing a fag shuck and jive.. it does something to me and it really turns me off
I feel unsafe and I feel that they are out to get me.. or get US.

Hmph.

And the way they speak
It makes me itch a bit..
I don?t like no white washed BLACK
I work with a lot of Black people who'd you probably assume are "uppity" because of the way they talk, etc.

But many of them speak very "proper" because that's what their surroundings were.

I was raised by a very southern Black womuh in Southside Queens. So I'm actually someone who had to learn how to speak more "properly" tbh.

Making sure I learn to enunciate the "-ing" at the end of my words,, saying "ask" instead of "ax" :omf:

But am mean, no one should get it twisted because my Southside is still VERY much alive and well. It's just a matter of survival and playing the game.

I listened to a clip of myself speaking years ago and was like wow. I sounded so much different. Literally a fag plucked RIGHT off the streets of Jamaica Queens. sdsdsdss

I would say get to know someone before you assume. A lot of my Black coworkers come from very different backgrounds than I do. I'm the most "ghetto" one there tbh. But they are all so pro-Black that it ain't funny. The type of gorls that have "been woke". It's clearly evident as you scroll their Facebook post history mess.
jjjj
That?s actually true
Because I recently met this Zambian girl
She lives in Nebraska and she speaks so damn white
I dead ass thought she was some white washed nigger girl
But as our conversation progressed
She was so damn in tune with her black side and desire to make a difference for blacks
Wtf :omf:
Sis is about to go to Spelman
She got in Harvard but she insists on a full black experience
And she wants to be around black men so that she can marry black as there aren?t many blacks in ?bresk?
So you are correct
It?s just a feeling that I get around some girls ya know..
they aren?t fighting for the same team and I just can?t get in

I need some damn flavor in my SPACE :hmph:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 11:07:23 AM
Quote from: FuckCrackers,Chinks&Spics on September 21, 2018, 10:55:58 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks
I just can?t really fake the funk or get in
I?m not broke or anything but just seeing a fag shuck and jive.. it does something to me and it really turns me off
I feel unsafe and I feel that they are out to get me.. or get US.

Hmph.

And the way they speak
It makes me itch a bit..
I don?t like no white washed BLACK
What about blacks with a British accent?
:guys:
no that?s hot  :ohwow:
And most of the ones I met are black as fuck
They don?t come off as tryna mesh with whites
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Nine on September 21, 2018, 11:29:58 AM
Yeah.

When I'm around the dumb, basic and/or ignorant ones.
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on September 21, 2018, 12:23:29 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks

!!!!!!!

I just wanna SHAKE em

I can deal with everyone else though
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 12:37:41 PM
Quote from: tontonton on September 21, 2018, 12:23:29 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks

!!!!!!!

I just wanna SHAKE em

I can deal with everyone else though
hell yeah.
Our lost souls smfh

I met this guy the other day
So damn white and rinsed in KKK

Nigga didn?t even know what ?get it popping? meant
Fucking eww
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on September 21, 2018, 12:58:15 PM
No there's a difference between a girl who knows her language and gives pure white

The latter I can't stand
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Navyman on September 21, 2018, 01:03:04 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 12:37:41 PM
Quote from: tontonton on September 21, 2018, 12:23:29 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks

!!!!!!!

I just wanna SHAKE em

I can deal with everyone else though
hell yeah.
Our lost souls smfh

I met this guy the other day
So damn white and rinsed in KKK

Nigga didn?t even know what ?get it popping? meant
Fucking eww
You still say get it popping?
:ummwhat:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Kurama on September 21, 2018, 01:05:00 PM
Yeah, im gay and weird.

:hmph:

At this stage in my life I feel outta place around most of the bougie, professional, academic Blks.

I need a nice balanced group who knows how to wear different hats. Especially knowing when to take that professional pc hat the hell off and have a good time.
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GLOCK on September 21, 2018, 01:08:10 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on September 21, 2018, 01:03:04 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 12:37:41 PM
Quote from: tontonton on September 21, 2018, 12:23:29 PM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks

!!!!!!!

I just wanna SHAKE em

I can deal with everyone else though
hell yeah.
Our lost souls smfh

I met this guy the other day
So damn white and rinsed in KKK

Nigga didn?t even know what ?get it popping? meant
Fucking eww
You still say get it popping?
:ummwhat:
No
This nigga asked me wtf it meant  :uhh:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on September 21, 2018, 01:10:52 PM
I also can't stand the girls that try to pretend they don't know black things to appear less black

WHAT'S A GRILL LOL? 0_o
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 01:17:38 PM
Quote from: Kurama on September 21, 2018, 01:05:00 PM


I need a nice balanced group who knows how to wear different hats. Especially knowing when to take that professional pc hat the hell off and have a good time.
!!!!!!!!!! I love my friends tho because mostly everyone is educated and gainfully employed but still BLACK!
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 02:54:57 PM
No, but not because they were black. I don't walk into a room and be like "oh my god another blk person!"

As long as the energy is good race is irrelevant.   

Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: fedswatchin on September 21, 2018, 03:01:40 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 10:09:33 AM
Yea, If it was ever too ghetto
:uhh:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on September 21, 2018, 05:36:40 PM
Quote from: Xavier on September 21, 2018, 05:30:34 PM
All the damn time. My brother and I were raised differently than most of my family. My parents made sure we knew how to speak proper English, use our "inside voices" and actually express our emotions. Basically, I wasn't brought up "the ghetto way". My mom would always get criticized for how she brought us up. "You're raising them to become sissies! Are you trying to make them gay or something?!" And all that bullshit.

Thank God things have gotten somewhat better nowadays, but I still feel like an outcast around people of my own race.
xnxnncncncnnn

Your parents sound problematic King
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Monika on September 21, 2018, 05:57:29 PM
I love when I'm around other black people. I don't like to be in a room with lots of whites. I like to see people that are like me, lol. I be like, damn where the black fok at???  :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Monika on September 21, 2018, 06:06:14 PM
Quote from: Blindian on September 21, 2018, 10:52:04 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on September 21, 2018, 10:44:24 AM
I sorta always feel home around all blacks ... BUT uppity White acting blacks
I just can?t really fake the funk or get in
I?m not broke or anything but just seeing a fag shuck and jive.. it does something to me and it really turns me off
I feel unsafe and I feel that they are out to get me.. or get US.

Hmph.

And the way they speak
It makes me itch a bit..
I don?t like no white washed BLACK
I work with a lot of Black people who'd you probably assume are "uppity" because of the way they talk, etc.

But many of them speak very "proper" because that's what their surroundings were.

I was raised by a very southern Black womuh in Southside Queens. So I'm actually someone who had to learn how to speak more "properly" tbh.

Making sure I learn to enunciate the "-ing" at the end of my words,, saying "ask" instead of "ax" :omf:

But am mean, no one should get it twisted because my Southside is still VERY much alive and well. It's just a matter of survival and playing the game.

I listened to a clip of myself speaking years ago and was like wow. I sounded so much different. Literally a fag plucked RIGHT off the streets of Jamaica Queens. sdsdsdss

I would say get to know someone before you assume. A lot of my Black coworkers come from very different backgrounds than I do. I'm the most "ghetto" one there tbh. But they are all so pro-Black that it ain't funny. The type of gorls that have "been woke". It's clearly evident as you scroll their Facebook post history mess.
yeah, I don't like stuck up blacks. I see that shit in many whites. I don't need it from you, lol. The nerve of it all, really. I know where you came from. I grow up with your ass. Sorry, I experience stuff like this. Lol
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Monika on September 21, 2018, 06:12:43 PM
Quote from: Blindian on September 21, 2018, 06:02:28 PM
Quote from: M on September 21, 2018, 05:57:29 PM
I love when I'm around other black people. I don't like to be in a room with lots of whites. I like to see people that are like me, lol. I be like, damn where the black fok at???  :dead: :dead: :dead:
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lmaoooo
I also hate to walk in to restaurants full of whites, and they all look back at you. That shit happened to me, and sone friends in Louisiana. I was with other black and whites girls. Chyle, we got the hell up out of there!  :dead:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: fedswatchin on September 21, 2018, 06:16:28 PM
Quote from: Xavier on September 21, 2018, 05:30:34 PM
All the damn time. My brother and I were raised differently than most of my family. My parents made sure we knew how to speak proper English, use our "inside voices" and actually express our emotions. Basically, I wasn't brought up "the ghetto way".
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Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 06:33:29 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 02:54:57 PM
No, but not because they were black. I don't walk into a room and be like "oh my god another blk person!"

Im still like this.  Whenever i see someone of "My kind" I'm more at ease.  I think that's natural for anyone tho.  Of any race, culture, etc
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 06:34:14 PM
Quote from: M on September 21, 2018, 05:57:29 PM
I love when I'm around other black people. I don't like to be in a room with lots of whites. I like to see people that are like me, lol. I be like, damn where the black fok at???  :dead: :dead: :dead:
Sorry but i agree
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: African Queen on September 21, 2018, 06:34:57 PM
The black workers at my new job have already started calling me white boy and saying they revoked my black card after only three weeks. They don't know I don't give a fuck. :letsmessfag:

There is something about me that makes black people MAD. I think it is my happy go lucky, relaxed, don't give a fuck attitude. After my brother's murder I have decided not to sweat the small stuff. But this no fucks given attitude is rubbing people off the wrong way. :wellheythere:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 06:44:03 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 06:33:29 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 02:54:57 PM
No, but not because they were black. I don't walk into a room and be like "oh my god another blk person!"

Im still like this.  Whenever i see someone of "My kind" I'm more at ease.  I think that's natural for anyone tho.  Of any race, culture, etc

I'm at ease when I see some fat cakes     

:wellheythere:
Title: Re: GD: Have you ever been around blacks and felt like you didn?t fit in?
Post by: African Queen on September 21, 2018, 06:48:00 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 06:44:03 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 21, 2018, 06:33:29 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on September 21, 2018, 02:54:57 PM
No, but not because they were black. I don't walk into a room and be like "oh my god another blk person!"

Im still like this.  Whenever i see someone of "My kind" I'm more at ease.  I think that's natural for anyone tho.  Of any race, culture, etc

I'm at ease when I see some fat cakes     

:wellheythere:

:ohwow: