As men and especially African American Men
Physical intimacy among men is not something anyone is used to
sometimes ppul use sex because it gives the illusion of intimacy but in and of itself its not true intimacy
Do you cuddle with your friend?
DO you lie on their chest watching a movie?
Does your friend hold you tight when you are upset?
Do you snuggle up together when you are in each others spaces?
Have you slept in the same bed together.
What are your thoughts?
I don?t see the issue with it. I?m pretty tactile with one of my male friends, to the point where people used to think were together.
I?m not lying on his chest though, that?s tew much.
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
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why were all the examples the same thing? Cuddle! Snuggle! Hold tight!
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
a touch! a kiss! just friends!
gorl...
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
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I think intimacy amongst Blk men is a beautiful thing and pretty rare. Im pretty close to all of my best friends so outside of sexual stuff everything really is cool if one of us has a need.
Never really been the cuddling type. Im also not sure why we would be laying on each others chest unless we are having some breakdown. Everything else is welcome.
I think the non-physical intimacy is a lot more meaningful tho, but niggas don't really know how to do much if it doesn't involve touching.
Quote from: bitch on November 19, 2018, 09:11:28 AM
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
H
Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
fffff
I have male friends that I hug. And 99.9 percent of my male friends are straight ....
but cuddle?
:diddraispoot:
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
!!!!
And what straight men are doing this mess?
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
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Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
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Lew is pure mess
But yes it?s beautiful
me and my brother by friendship and I are suuuuuper close
Definitely a culture mess though
The whites mexicans and koreans at my job are touchy as fuck.
Some of the black men are too though
:enchantress:
and I'm twisting that wig of yours into knots
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For me intimacy is being jealous and threatening to kill me if I ever cheated and choking me a bit if I get out of line
I would lose respect for king a bit if he ever tried to cuddle :uhh:
Ion know what I would do
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 19, 2018, 09:16:11 AM
Quote from: Trey on November 19, 2018, 09:10:53 AM
H
Who?s really lying on chest or cuddling with a ?friend??
I?m sorry, but the gays are always trying to push a damn envelope.
a touch! a kiss! just friends!
gorl...
:plzstop:
Quote from: Choke on November 19, 2018, 11:06:32 PM
For me intimacy is being jealous and threatening to kill me if I ever cheated and choking me a bit if I get out of line
I would lose respect for king a bit if he ever tried to cuddle :uhh:
Ion know what I would do
ackkkkk :stressed:
Da hell is goin on
There is just a double standard i dont appreciate cause wpmen get to do it all the time without this being awkward
Remember in tlc when chili got preggers and said her leg needs to be touchin somebody lol
But u guys associate it with sex and romance for guy
Kiissing is cool as well not a make out tea but a pech here and there y know
So many men are longing for this type of connection and get shot down in macho culture and homophobia its sad
Many male friends I kiss on the cheek or would lay my head on their shoulder. But not everyone, depends on the dynamic.