How do yall feel about going to clubs? I know its one of the few places gays can meet and be "social".
Do you go out often or at all?
If you do, do you enjoy it?
I go out every now again
Definitely slowed down the older I get
I prefer a house party with wine and food tbh
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
Quote from: 9! on December 04, 2018, 10:50:12 AM
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
!!!
I only go when I'm out of town usually but yeah I'm more of a bar gorl myself
Quote from: Young on December 04, 2018, 10:45:09 AM
I prefer a house party with wine and food tbh
:ohwow:
Quote from: Zanny on December 04, 2018, 10:53:34 AM
Quote from: 9! on December 04, 2018, 10:50:12 AM
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
!!!
I only go when I'm out of town usually but yeah I'm more of a bar gorl myself
What's the difference between a bar and a club?
Quote from: i rep New Yawk like the statue of liberty. on December 04, 2018, 10:49:33 AM
When I was much younger it was everything
My bestie and I would do it up every weekend . Not so much now.
I prefer a nice lounge mess.
Went out with my cousins Thanksgiving night - had drinks, bopped a bit to the chunez, smoked some hookah and called it a night.
All that extra stuff is too much for me.
Especially gay clubs - all the fighting, mess, etc.
Last time I went to a club like that the cops ended up outside to address people throwing bottles outside.
Am good
Fighting? What kinda gay club were you at ?
Never reallly experienced that tbh except at certain types of gay clubs lolz
Quote from: Kurama on December 04, 2018, 11:03:25 AM
Quote from: Zanny on December 04, 2018, 10:53:34 AM
Quote from: 9! on December 04, 2018, 10:50:12 AM
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
!!!
I only go when I'm out of town usually but yeah I'm more of a bar gorl myself
What's the difference between a bar and a club?
A bar doesn't have a dance floor just a bar and that's really it maybe a lounge area
A club had a dance floor
I have noticed I do like to go to bars over clubs lately but I don't go as much. When I went to Vegas last month the gay club drink prices were crazy!! 15 for a rum and coke without tip.. most their gay bars were empty or filled with old ass men who can afford those prices
Literally like once a year
Can't stand crowds
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 11:04:40 AM
Quote from: Kurama on December 04, 2018, 11:03:25 AM
Quote from: Zanny on December 04, 2018, 10:53:34 AM
Quote from: 9! on December 04, 2018, 10:50:12 AM
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
!!!
I only go when I'm out of town usually but yeah I'm more of a bar gorl myself
What's the difference between a bar and a club?
A bar doesn't have a dance floor just a bar and that's really it maybe a lounge area
A club had a dance floor
Oh damn I thought it all was the same, thx luv
some bars do have a lil' dancing area but the main focus usually the bar and/or a lounge area like nick said
but honestly staying home >>>
I still do because I love to dance. And I do love a nice lounge.
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 11:04:04 AM
Quote from: i rep New Yawk like the statue of liberty. on December 04, 2018, 10:49:33 AM
When I was much younger it was everything
My bestie and I would do it up every weekend . Not so much now.
I prefer a nice lounge mess.
Went out with my cousins Thanksgiving night - had drinks, bopped a bit to the chunez, smoked some hookah and called it a night.
All that extra stuff is too much for me.
Especially gay clubs - all the fighting, mess, etc.
Last time I went to a club like that the cops ended up outside to address people throwing bottles outside.
Am good
Fighting? What kinda gay club were you at ?
Never reallly experienced that tbh except at certain types of gay clubs lolz
What types of gay clubs Nick?
I hate the games you have to play in club spaces too. Kickbacks are more my speed.
The non-messy gay ones.
Quote from: Kalifornia on December 04, 2018, 11:16:26 AM
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 11:04:04 AM
Quote from: i rep New Yawk like the statue of liberty. on December 04, 2018, 10:49:33 AM
When I was much younger it was everything
My bestie and I would do it up every weekend . Not so much now.
I prefer a nice lounge mess.
Went out with my cousins Thanksgiving night - had drinks, bopped a bit to the chunez, smoked some hookah and called it a night.
All that extra stuff is too much for me.
Especially gay clubs - all the fighting, mess, etc.
Last time I went to a club like that the cops ended up outside to address people throwing bottles outside.
Am good
Fighting? What kinda gay club were you at ?
Never reallly experienced that tbh except at certain types of gay clubs lolz
What types of gay clubs Nick?
The kind you don't go to hun.
We know you stay perched in a daddy leather bear bar
I prefer house parties. More intimate and a lot cheaper.
And my house parties are always lit :blessed:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 04, 2018, 11:20:30 AM
I prefer house parties. More intimate and a lot cheaper.
And my house parties are always lit :blessed:
can we have a bsource mess
Yeah house parties are more intimate and fun
And like I said the food alone >>>
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you were wrong in here hun
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=65024.0
I don't go out period. Especially to any gay gatherings or clubs. Gays tend to be caddy, obnoxious and rude. And I tend to be straight forward. So we all know where this is going.
I only go out once in a blue moon anyways
Quote from: MelMel on December 04, 2018, 11:36:38 AM
I only go out once in a blue moon anyways
Lemme ask Trey cause I don't believe ya
Quote from: Kurama on December 04, 2018, 11:38:29 AM
Quote from: MelMel on December 04, 2018, 11:36:38 AM
I only go out once in a blue moon anyways
Lemme ask Trey cause I don't believe ya
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
I'll outdrink that fag every single time though! :feelinmyself:
Quote from: Zanny on December 04, 2018, 11:35:55 AM
you were wrong in here hun
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=65024.0
someone hit this boy
The only time I go to a club is when there's a concert or a show.
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
Quote from: Blackpantha on December 04, 2018, 11:36:20 AM
I don't go out period. Especially to any gay gatherings or clubs. Gays tend to be caddy, obnoxious and rude. And I tend to be straight forward. So we all know where this is going.
what about the sex parties?
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
I can see this, personally.
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 04, 2018, 11:55:18 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on December 04, 2018, 11:36:20 AM
I don't go out period. Especially to any gay gatherings or clubs. Gays tend to be caddy, obnoxious and rude. And I tend to be straight forward. So we all know where this is going.
what about the sex parties?
That crowd is private and controlled by me.
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
Hmm ok. I think it depends on the type of club tbh
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 12:11:24 PM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
Hmm ok. I think it depends on the type of club tbh
Very true.
Completely over it. I'm at that age where going to a club and seeing the gorls doing Circus Soleil acrobatics on the dance floor is definitely not my thing. And if I'm being honest, it probably never was. Always preferred a small gathering of close friends to clubs.
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
I dunno I think it's different for gays imo
I don't see the issue of going out to bars or clubs with your friends if you want too if you're over 30.. you deserve to have fun just like every one else and go out for drinks and socialize and mess a bit
Honestly I?ve only enjoyed a gay club and that was when l was out of town on a guys trip.
But as far as a gay club here where I?m from, i never enjoy it. I feel out of place like I?m not supposed and the people that be in there don?t make it better.
But these days, I?d rather go to a Bar
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 12:21:00 PM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
I dunno I think it's different for gays imo
I don't see the issue of going out to bars or clubs with your friends if you want too if you're over 30.. you deserve to have fun just like every one else and go out for drinks and socialize and mess a bit
You may be right. I?m also biased because I?ve never been a club person.
Ive seen more fights in straight clubs honestly
Not a huge fan. I enjoyed it more as a teen when i wasn?t supposed to be in there :dead:
It?s just nothing special anymore unless I?m experiencing it in a completely new environment
Quote from: 1RIG on December 04, 2018, 06:12:01 PM
Not a huge fan. I enjoyed it more as a teen when i wasn?t supposed to be in there :dead:
It?s just nothing special anymore unless I?m experiencing it in a completely new environment
So you was one of those gay boys sneaking into the gay clubs and on the chat line pretending to be 22 when you was 15 sis ? Lol
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on December 04, 2018, 12:18:37 PM
seeing the gorls doing Circus Soleil acrobatics on the dance floor is definitely not my thing
Wtf kinda clubs do you guys go to?
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 06:27:56 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on December 04, 2018, 06:12:01 PM
Not a huge fan. I enjoyed it more as a teen when i wasn?t supposed to be in there :dead:
It?s just nothing special anymore unless I?m experiencing it in a completely new environment
So you was one of those gay boys sneaking into the gay clubs and on the chat line pretending to be 22 when you was 15 sis ? Lol
dead! No
I didn?t do gay clubs back then
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 12:21:00 PM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
I dunno I think it's different for gays imo
I don't see the issue of going out to bars or clubs with your friends if you want too if you're over 30.. you deserve to have fun just like every one else and go out for drinks and socialize and mess a bit
!!!!
As you mature you change the TYPES of clubs you go to but the idea of clubbing in general should not have an age limit and people really shouldnt look down on people who like to go out as if staying home or giving spades with friends is higher than....
Eww no
I do love going to a bar
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And water is wet
Quote from: Glock on December 04, 2018, 06:47:36 PM
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And water is wet
And apparently never touches your body :x
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on December 04, 2018, 06:52:43 PM
Quote from: Glock on December 04, 2018, 06:47:36 PM
d
And water is wet
And apparently never touches your body :x
shuAPE..
Did I call for u.. ? maid services aren?t scheduled until thursdays
Come back then
Quote from: Glock on December 04, 2018, 06:58:49 PM
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on December 04, 2018, 06:52:43 PM
Quote from: Glock on December 04, 2018, 06:47:36 PM
d
And water is wet
And apparently never touches your body :x
shuAPE..
Did I call for u.. ? maid serves aren?t scheduled until thursdays
Come back then
Ummm...what :damselindistress:
Quote from: Glock on December 04, 2018, 06:47:36 PM
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And water is wet
your ass is about to be sore from this ass kicking ho
:cmerefag:
Bruv :guys:
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 06:33:30 PM
Quote from: Nick'Challa on December 04, 2018, 12:21:00 PM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 12:00:50 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on December 04, 2018, 11:53:43 AM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on December 04, 2018, 11:49:55 AM
If you?re over 30, give it up.
Wait what!? Why?
I'm not over 30 but wondering why you feel someone 30 and over should stop going out to clubs.....
I find it odd for people 31+ to be hanging at clubs (specifically, clubs frequented by 21- to 25-year-old folk,) it seems judgmental, but I think they should let the young people have their own spaces and moments.
I dunno I think it's different for gays imo
I don't see the issue of going out to bars or clubs with your friends if you want too if you're over 30.. you deserve to have fun just like every one else and go out for drinks and socialize and mess a bit
!!!!
As you mature you change the TYPES of clubs you go to but the idea of clubbing in general should not have an age limit and people really shouldnt look down on people who like to go out as if staying home or giving spades with friends is higher than....
True. There are also alternatives to clubbing or staying in, no matter what age you are. There is a vast gray area there. And people should feel entitled/empowered to do whatever they choose.
Quote from: 9! on December 04, 2018, 10:50:12 AM
I've only gone a handful of times and each time I hated it.
The loud music, close quarters, overpriced everything. No ma'am.
A bar or lounge mess are more my speed.
Bars >>>>
I feel like they encourage people to actually socialize and get to know each other.
Clubs are just loud and gross. Plus the people just dress to impress and get white wasted so they can hook up.
:udontlookok:
Indifferent tbh. I enjoy fellowship with friends moreso than the idea of "clubbing". You follow?
Am past my going out every night club phase
I still like to get dresses up every now and again and go out if King lets me
I don?t do the whole clubbing thing anymore. I go to bars more often but I prefer to drink at home. That way I can get completely drunk without the hassle of dealing with an rude Uber driver or possibly getting a DUI because I have a clean driving record and prefer to keep it that way.