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Title: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Rxxf on December 20, 2018, 11:30:43 PM
And you didn't love them back in THAT way?
And they decided to walk away from the friendship?
:stressed:
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: GYNandTONIC on December 20, 2018, 11:32:19 PM
Yeah, it kinda made me sad too cause it?s hard for me to find like minded people.
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: emzen on December 20, 2018, 11:33:17 PM
Other way around for me roflmao!
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Rxxf on December 20, 2018, 11:33:28 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 20, 2018, 11:32:19 PM
Yeah, it kinda made me sad too cause it?s hard for me to find like minded people.

It's hurtful!
Especially since the vibe/energy was so good.
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Nine on December 20, 2018, 11:38:44 PM
Story of my life lmao
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Harlem on December 20, 2018, 11:42:17 PM
Yup! And the crazy part about it is that this nigga is lowkey starting to glow up like hit the gym, get his look right and I feel like I?m going to have eggs in my face in the next year or so for curving it originally... but we gon see
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: LOONA. on December 20, 2018, 11:52:16 PM
No

I had feelings for one of my friends but buried them away though.     

Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: LOONA. on December 20, 2018, 11:59:22 PM
Then again IDK

My situation is kinda complicated   
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Rxxf on December 21, 2018, 12:18:33 AM
Most gay men always end up liking me instead of just being friends.
It's frustrating.
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Rxxf on December 21, 2018, 12:18:58 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on December 20, 2018, 11:59:22 PM
Then again IDK

My situation is kinda complicated   


Explain.
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: LOONA. on December 21, 2018, 12:27:25 AM
Quote from: Rxxf on December 21, 2018, 12:18:58 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on December 20, 2018, 11:59:22 PM
Then again IDK

My situation is kinda complicated   


Explain.

I wouldn't even know where  to start but I'll try

Met this guy a little over two years ago. We immediately starting hanging out on campus every single day..like literally every single day. The friendship was always strictly platonic though. There were times he'd say things about my body or rub on my legs while we in the car but I didn't make anything out of it.

But like I said we were hanging out everyday. Going out to eat, to the movies, pool, hottub, working out together at the park blah blah. Starting spending the night at each others place every now and then too.

Eventually he ended up moving away for a few months to work on some career opportunities but came back to finish school. So we ended up getting into an argument one day and he's going off in text about how he came back down here for me and put his dreams on hold to make me happy and I'm confused like...are we talking about a friendship or....? I didn't really address it at the time but I thought about it later and it sounded weird. Almost like a lowkey love confession or something.

But anyway he ended up moving to California and now we only talk every now and then. I miss him like crazy tbh even though he got on my nerves when he was here.       

Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on December 21, 2018, 12:29:40 AM
I?m extremely guarded and an introvert so I tend to come off as stand-offish and mostly keep to myself. I low key hate being social and kind of hate people. So I?ve never had that problem. Don?t let people get that close to me as soon as I get an inkling of any type of feelings from someone, I disappear.
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Admin on December 21, 2018, 03:08:53 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on December 21, 2018, 12:27:25 AM
Quote from: Rxxf on December 21, 2018, 12:18:58 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on December 20, 2018, 11:59:22 PM
Then again IDK

My situation is kinda complicated   


Explain.

I wouldn't even know where  to start but I'll try

Met this guy a little over two years ago. We immediately starting hanging out on campus every single day..like literally every single day. The friendship was always strictly platonic though. There were times he'd say things about my body or rub on my legs while we in the car but I didn't make anything out of it.

But like I said we were hanging out everyday. Going out to eat, to the movies, pool, hottub, working out together at the park blah blah. Starting spending the night at each others place every now and then too.

Eventually he ended up moving away for a few months to work on some career opportunities but came back to finish school. So we ended up getting into an argument one day and he's going off in text about how he came back down here for me and put his dreams on hold to make me happy and I'm confused like...are we talking about a friendship or....? I didn't really address it at the time but I thought about it later and it sounded weird. Almost like a lowkey love confession or something.

But anyway he ended up moving to California and now we only talk every now and then. I miss him like crazy tbh even though he got on my nerves when he was here.       

Aww
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on December 21, 2018, 05:57:36 AM
lol we dont really discuss this type of stuff here so i will say I discovered that i have found my twin flame

hes married with a kid and at first i felt that if he cant be with me romantically then all is lost

but the point is to connect and grow together and a romantic relationship isnt needed for that

I love him
he loves me

we are going to be in each others lives

and thats that lol
Title: Re: You Ever Lost a Friend Because They Fell in Love with You?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on December 21, 2018, 05:59:02 AM
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on December 21, 2018, 12:29:40 AM
I?m extremely guarded and an introvert so I tend to come off as stand-offish and mostly keep to myself. I low key hate being social and kind of hate people. So I?ve never had that problem. Don?t let people get that close to me as soon as I get an inkling of any type of feelings from someone, I disappear.

awwww baby  :'(

I want to hug you