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Title: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 10:36:47 AM
Evryday right ?
Cmon yall..tell me im not craz!
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: oph. on March 04, 2019, 10:39:14 AM
everytime i close my eyes.

non-existent ass BITCH

:melmel:
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: CHOKE on March 04, 2019, 10:54:51 AM
Everyday? Ewww

Do I need to teach another class?

Give him time to miss you!

If anything ignore him!

Then when he comes over banging on the door wondering why you haven't texted him back

Answer the door naked

Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Vonc2002 on March 04, 2019, 10:57:39 AM
Everyday?  Not necessarily. 
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 10:59:48 AM
Quote from: Chokeme Politely on March 04, 2019, 10:54:51 AM
Everyday? Ewww

Do I need to teach another class?

Give him time to miss you!

If anything ignore him!

Then when he comes over banging on the door wondering why you haven't texted him back

Answer the door naked

Its hard...i adore him 😭
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 11:01:25 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on March 04, 2019, 10:57:39 AM
Everyday?  Not necessarily.
u nevr came to see me wen we were a thing so ➡️🚫🚮
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Hatsumomo on March 04, 2019, 11:35:16 AM
in my dreams
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on March 04, 2019, 12:04:42 PM
Everyday? I'd get anxiety. NYC is different. It takes extreme effort for that. It's unrealistic and sets an expectation that I can't stick to.  

Two to three times a week is honestly more than enough for me. cccvggg I get overwhelmed easily. 
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 12:08:29 PM
Quote from: Trey on March 04, 2019, 12:04:42 PM
Everyday? I'd get anxiety. NYC is different. It takes extreme effort for that. It's unrealistic and sets an expectation that I can't stick to. 

Two to three times a week is honestly more than enough for me. cccvggg I get overwhelmed easily.
2 times a week seems rational
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:25:59 PM
At least 2-3 times a week is enough, more than that is overkill
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Rxxf on March 04, 2019, 12:38:58 PM
If you live together... you see each other every day.
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Vonc2002 on March 04, 2019, 12:39:56 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:25:59 PM
At least 2-3 times a week is enough, more than that is overkill
Depends on the week. Some weeks I'd definitely need more and some weeks could be even less
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Rxxf on March 04, 2019, 12:40:25 PM
I would prefer 2-3x a week.
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: African Queen on March 04, 2019, 12:42:14 PM
Once or twice a week sounds about right.
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on March 04, 2019, 12:53:00 PM
Quote from: Rxxf on March 04, 2019, 12:38:58 PM
If you live together... you see each other every day.
hmmm that stems another convo. Living with your "boyfriend". What are y'all thoughts?

For it? Against it? When is it time?
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: 🦚 on March 04, 2019, 12:54:22 PM
Whenever it's payday  :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 12:54:36 PM
Im not rdy to live wit my nigga
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Rxxf on March 04, 2019, 12:56:57 PM
Living together is a major commitment, IMO.
I like my own space, so that's a challenge within itself. 

Financial stability and responsibility is important to me, before living with someone. I don't care how much I like or love you. 
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:57:31 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on March 04, 2019, 12:39:56 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:25:59 PM
At least 2-3 times a week is enough, more than that is overkill
Depends on the week. Some weeks I'd definitely need more and some weeks could be even less
That's very true and reasonable. I just can't handle it, if my significant other is my shadow.   :dead:
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:58:22 PM
I rather shack up than get married ttttttt
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: 🦚 on March 04, 2019, 01:00:32 PM
I don't know how y'all do the living together mess. I don't need that kinda drama in my life. I'm very booked and busy and sometimes don't see my own house for weeks.
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on March 04, 2019, 01:04:09 PM
Personally... I ain't with the shacking up shit. :dead: and I'm sure a major part of it is how I was raised and the influence of my parents. But I  feel this way because it creates a level of comfort that's hard to grow from and makes it less urgent to get to the next stage; marriage. We already live together, we're happy, we're comfortable... what's the motivation?
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ...my little hiatus on March 04, 2019, 02:00:43 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on March 04, 2019, 12:58:22 PM
I rather shack up than get married ttttttt
tht IS like gettin marry fgbhfc
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: MelMel on March 04, 2019, 02:04:17 PM
Quote from: LetMeHearYouSæ...G R A MM Y on March 04, 2019, 01:00:32 PM
I don't know how y'all do the living together mess. I don't need that kinda drama in my life. I'm very booked and busy and sometimes don't see my own house for weeks.
Travel! Globetrotter! Carmen Sandiego!

HUSH
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: 🦚 on March 04, 2019, 02:46:22 PM
Quote from: MelMel on March 04, 2019, 02:04:17 PM
Quote from: LetMeHearYouSæ...G R A MM Y on March 04, 2019, 01:00:32 PM
I don't know how y'all do the living together mess. I don't need that kinda drama in my life. I'm very booked and busy and sometimes don't see my own house for weeks.
Travel! Globetrotter! Carmen Sandiego!

HUSH

Can you even spell Prague?
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: Justaway_ on March 04, 2019, 03:38:13 PM
been living together for almost 10 years and it's still as good as it was in the beginning for me 
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: fedswatchin on March 04, 2019, 04:22:40 PM
I see Big Sean on the reg tbh
Title: Re: How often should u see ur gf/bf
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on March 04, 2019, 04:49:54 PM
Twice a week is good enough for me. I NEED my space and lots of it...