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So mom took Jordan with her and left me the little 3. Now I don't let the boys sleep in the bed with me because they are too old for all that in my eyes as the girls will be to one day as well. With that said I've learned more and more that a 6 year old is just a big toddler. Jo liked watching all the same stuff as Zendaya and he even prefers to play with her toys. So when I put them down for a nap he kept peaking into the room. Here's are convo
Me: Boy what do you want?
Jo: Nothing I'm just kind of bored.
Me: Well you can go watch TV or Read a book. The girls have to take a nap.
Jo: Well I like naps too sometimes.
It was at this moment I had to understand he was just 6 and didn't want to be in the livingroom alone so I let him lay on the bed with us. Now I don't cuddle the boys at this age that's just not my role for them that's moms job but he kept looking over at the girls cuddled under me sleep. I can only imagine what he might have been thinking because before the girls were born and he was the youngest he was the one who got to sleep in the bed and we would nap together. So I looked over at him and said I know the girls take up alot of space and attention but there's always space for you buddy. You cant lay on me (because his sister was already there) but you can lay with us. He cuddled up closer to his sister and I put my arm over and rubbed his back and he went to sleep. I sometimes am too hard when it comes to the boys because I want them to be strong men. What Jo always makes me remember is every strong man was just a little boy wanting to feel loved. I love the boys. I don't show it like I do with the girls but we have these moments where I get to make sure they feel it.
I read this waiting for the happy ending but he still told a damns 6 year old he can't cuddle but the little boy had to sit and watch as his two little sisters sat there all hugged up on their daddy..
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They still gun down the wrong damn girls
QuoteIt was at this moment I had to understand he was just 6 and didn't want to be in the living room alone
QuoteNow I don't cuddle the boys at this age
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i wish a nigga would make my fckin bby sit by himself
niggers r so damns...whew!
yea niggas really thinks this translates to "toughening them up" but it fucking DOESN'T. the lessons that you teach your sons about the world and the example that you set for them is what does that this shit just gives them issues with affection when they get older. sad.
this isn't just a black thing btw. like, AT ALL.
Like lowkey I had to get over my disdain for older black men because they always treated me so cold, still kinda haven't.
Black Guys my age and younger I get along with now since they have adapted, but older black men I fcking side eye.
because they are trash?
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I don't see anything wrong with what he wrote. People are so fucking sensitive. It was a happy story after all.
shut up
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You cant lay on me (because his sister was already there) but you can lay with us. He cuddled up closer to his sister and I put my arm over and rubbed his back and he went to sleep. I sometimes am too hard when it comes to the boys because I want them to be strong men. What Jo always makes me remember is every strong man was just a little boy wanting to feel loved. I love the boys. I don't show it like I do with the girls but we have these moments where I get to make sure they feel it.
Did you guys read the full post? This was a positive story and he realizes he needs to show his son more affection. :uhh:
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on March 08, 2019, 01:28:25 AM
I don't see anything wrong with what he wrote. People are so fucking sensitive. It was a happy story after all.
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We got enough sissies in the black community as is!
Straight Black men are obsessed with homosexuality
tough men! strong!
praying these boys will be gay
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this is the edited version of the post posted after getting lashed guys
Quote from: black boys bedwench too on March 08, 2019, 01:37:33 AM
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on March 08, 2019, 01:28:25 AM
I don't see anything wrong with what he wrote. People are so fucking sensitive. It was a happy story after all.
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We got enough sissies in the black community as is!
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Quote from: Kalifornia on March 08, 2019, 01:37:39 AM
Straight Black men are obsessed with homosexuality
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i think cuz alotta blck men are bi or pansexual
they often end up wit women onl' to cheat on em
they onl' get wit females for society show off purpose !
blck men are sexually tha most wild n energetic but tha most oppressed !!
Hmmmm i think this is better than what ive seen
Part of the problem is men assume creating a strong man means u treat them tough violent and cold and like he says ur mom gives u the gentle love Both parents need to be balanced
That only creates someone looking looking for the love and affection by the way of cold tough violence that they were taught
Showing them love and affection will actually make them strong
Especially when u develop their strength in the proper channels and build their self esteem
Black men are just scared to love
Quote from: Inkling on March 08, 2019, 01:40:04 AM
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this is the edited version of the post posted after getting lashed guys
What did it say before and why didn't you include
that post? :unsure:
Quote from: black boys bedwench too on March 08, 2019, 01:37:33 AM
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on March 08, 2019, 01:28:25 AM
I don't see anything wrong with what he wrote. People are so fucking sensitive. It was a happy story after all.
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We got enough sissies in the black community as is!
assffsssd
bby no. if this boy don't get affection from his father, he'll end up seeking it from his DADDY
:youready:
Quote from: BowDown on March 08, 2019, 02:09:49 AM
Quote from: Inkling on March 08, 2019, 01:40:04 AM
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this is the edited version of the post posted after getting lashed guys
What did it say before and why didn't you include that post? :unsure:
fck u
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He really thought he was on to something with that stupid ass post.
Quote from: BowDown on March 08, 2019, 01:37:06 AM
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You cant lay on me (because his sister was already there) but you can lay with us. He cuddled up closer to his sister and I put my arm over and rubbed his back and he went to sleep. I sometimes am too hard when it comes to the boys because I want them to be strong men. What Jo always makes me remember is every strong man was just a little boy wanting to feel loved. I love the boys. I don't show it like I do with the girls but we have these moments where I get to make sure they feel it.
Did you guys read the full post? This was a positive story and he realizes he needs to show his son more affection. :uhh:
Even the text you quoted was contradictory. Sure, he acknowledged that he made him feel like shit. But he ended his post by saying "I love the boys. I don't show it like I do with the girls but we have these moments where I ensure they feel it." The point is, how will they feel it if you don't show it? I would have been more encouraged if he had said he learned that he needs to hug his sons more. Or show his sons love just like he does his daughters. Kudos to him for acknowledging he has work to do, but I'm not clapping until he steps up and do the work. Hug his boys and tell them he loves them so that they wouldn't go seeking love and affection elsewhere and fall in with the wrong crowd :uhh:
I'm glad my dad was never unable to show me and my other male siblings that he loved up. Never once not took an opportunity to say "I love you" "I'm proud of you" young boys need to know they're loved. They need more than that type of affection just from their mother.
I use to lay up under my daddy all the time
i slept in the same room with my parents until I was 10 and slept in the middle
:ummwhat:
:damselindistress:
My Dad has only said "I love you" once.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 08, 2019, 08:55:54 AM
My Dad has only said "I love you" once.
omg
Well at least you have a dad I guess, some girls don't even have that
I was cold hearted child. I would reject my dad whenever he tried to give me hugs and kisses.
I was not with the shit. :nowgorl:
Probably one of the reasons why he doesn't like me lolz.
Quote from: Chokeme Politely on March 08, 2019, 08:57:10 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 08, 2019, 08:55:54 AM
My Dad has only said "I love you" once.
omg
Well at least you have a dad I guess, some girls don't even have that
Both pretty gloomy😔
Quote from: Chokeme Politely on March 08, 2019, 06:30:32 AM
I use to lay up under my daddy all the time
i slept in the same room with my parents until I was 10 and slept in the middle
:damselindistress:
scrolling through his pics you really only see photos of him with his daughters :unsure:
Because they're trash
But I was shown plenty affection throughout my childhood but still ended up completely emotionally unavailable fff
So I guess it depends on the child.
What they think is creating a "strong man" is actually just making him emotionally withdrawn and possibly aggresive.
Quote from: Michelle Williams on March 08, 2019, 08:59:38 AM
I was cold hearted child. I would reject my dad whenever he tried to give me hugs and kisses.
I was not with the shit. :nowgorl:
Probably one of the reasons why he doesn't like me lolz.
its very possible your roles were switched in another life where u were the parent and your dad was the child
and to have you experience the other side of things
happens all the time
freaky friday
Quote from: My Little 'Mones on March 08, 2019, 01:43:47 AM
Quote from: black boys bedwench too on March 08, 2019, 01:37:33 AM
Quote from: Happily Unhappy on March 08, 2019, 01:28:25 AM
I don't see anything wrong with what he wrote. People are so fucking sensitive. It was a happy story after all.
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We got enough sissies in the black community as is!
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Are your parents polygamists?
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on March 09, 2019, 04:03:13 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on March 08, 2019, 08:59:38 AM
I was cold hearted child. I would reject my dad whenever he tried to give me hugs and kisses.
I was not with the shit. :nowgorl:
Probably one of the reasons why he doesn't like me lolz.
its very possible your roles were switched in another life where u were the parent and your dad was the child
and to have you experience the other side of things
happens all the time
freaky friday
You are scaring the shit out of me. :plzstop:
Quote from: Michelle Williams on March 09, 2019, 04:21:55 PM
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on March 09, 2019, 04:03:13 PM
Quote from: Michelle Williams on March 08, 2019, 08:59:38 AM
I was cold hearted child. I would reject my dad whenever he tried to give me hugs and kisses.
I was not with the shit. :nowgorl:
Probably one of the reasons why he doesn't like me lolz.
its very possible your roles were switched in another life where u were the parent and your dad was the child
and to have you experience the other side of things
happens all the time
freaky friday
You are scaring the shit out of me. :plzstop:
Past life karma isnt anything to be scared about
Your experience wasnt scary it just what it was lol