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Title: So how should l go about this?
Post by: Scott. on March 25, 2019, 09:23:55 AM
So me and this guy have been dating for like a little over a month and l really like him. Haven't liked anyone like this in a long time. So after not telling my friends about it for over a month, i decide to tell one of my friends about it about three days ago. He tells me that the guy used to talk to our other friend. I'm annoyed because me and this friend have a love/hate relationship (well he IS a Scorpio). I'm told that l shouldn't feel guilty about it because l didn't go into this knowing that the guy once dealt with my friend and on top of that, the friend supposedly said he never liked him. I know l have to have a conversation with him because he's so damn extra and over the top. I just don't know how to go about it
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: Young on March 25, 2019, 09:26:27 AM
" Hey Girl, I been talking to _____ . Did you guys use to talk ? Just letting you know we may get serious and things may develop between us."
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: African Queen on March 25, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Tell him you're dating him and that is that. :nowgorl:


I would choose the man over a friend like that.
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: Scott. on March 25, 2019, 09:30:52 AM
Quote from: Young on March 25, 2019, 09:26:27 AM
" Hey Girl, I been talking to _____ . Did you guys use to talk ? Just letting you know we may get serious and things may develop between us."

He's gonna throw so much salt and that's why l don't want to talk to him but i know l have to.

And he talked to a guy l dealt with before. Difference is he knew and didn't give a fuck
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: oph. on March 25, 2019, 12:39:06 PM
Quote from: Young on March 25, 2019, 09:26:27 AM
" Hey Girl, I been talking to _____ . Did you guys use to talk ? Just letting you know we may get serious and things may develop between us."

this is perfect. u not asking his permission on shit, just letting him know what tf us WHAT.

he sounds draining as a friend anyway, so with any luck he'll freak out and stop talking to you and you won't have to deal with him. or if he's a real friend he will get tf over it. this is actually a great opportunity to see what sort of friend he truly is.
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: MelMel on March 25, 2019, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: Scott. on March 25, 2019, 09:30:52 AM
Quote from: Young on March 25, 2019, 09:26:27 AM
" Hey Girl, I been talking to _____ . Did you guys use to talk ? Just letting you know we may get serious and things may develop between us."

He's gonna throw so much salt and that's why l don't want to talk to him but i know l have to.

And he talked to a guy l dealt with before. Difference is he knew and didn't give a fuck
well fuck that ho bby
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: CHOKE on March 25, 2019, 12:43:24 PM
I stopped reading after "love-hate relationship"

sor but she would just have to hate me for a bit.
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on March 25, 2019, 12:44:44 PM
Does the guy you're dating know y'all friends? Because..
Title: Re: So how should l go about this?
Post by: Scott. on March 25, 2019, 12:48:12 PM
Quote from: Trey on March 25, 2019, 12:44:44 PM
Does the guy you're dating know y'all friends? Because..

I don't think he does cause the only friend he knows is the one that introduced us and that friend isnt affiliated with the one we're talking about.

And I'm not out on the scene like that so it's easy not to know but the friend is