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Title: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Rxxf on November 21, 2015, 10:35:39 PM
And finally meet your wits end?!
:uhh:

I am fucking through.
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Bentley! on November 21, 2015, 10:37:19 PM
Well ... what's toxic about it?
Abuse?
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Rxxf on November 21, 2015, 10:40:38 PM
Whatever that "toxic" is for the situation.
Drama, physical abuse, mental abuse... whatever is just not right.

And have to deal with them venting to you about it whenever possible.
And you try to be patient, help ease their way out of their situation, BUT STILL...

I just cannot fucking can't anymore.

You can only be helped if you want to help yourself.
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Hatsumomo on November 21, 2015, 10:52:59 PM
The individual can only leave a toxic relationship once they've made the decision themselves to leave . No one can help them . They have to initiate the " no contact " rule and severe those ties . It won't be easy and hurts like hell . But so rewarding once youve given yourself the gift of having no contact with a person who's destroying your life .
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Code Red: itsMista on November 21, 2015, 10:56:10 PM
Give your advise and move on. Don't even try because if that person is really done, there actions will make that very clear.
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: RekeRig on November 22, 2015, 12:05:51 AM
yup, with my mom. everyone has their own breaking point, so you just have to endure it until they finally fucking GET it :dead: heartbreaking to be around, but there are only so many pep talks you can give.

Just distance ur self for a while to recharge.
Title: Re: Have You Ever Tried To Help Someone Out Of A Toxic Relationship?
Post by: Code Red: itsMista on November 22, 2015, 12:23:24 AM
Plays Mariah Heartbreaker