Yall let ppl borrow money or borrow money?
Ever had to chase someone down or get chased down?
Nope I avoid it at all costs
And when some asks me for money I usually just give it to them without ever expecting it back to avoid any potential drama.
Quote from: LOONA. on May 23, 2019, 12:56:06 PM
Nope I avoid it at all costs
And when some asks me for me I usually just give it to them without ever expecting it back to avoid any potential drama.
Quote from: Kurama on May 23, 2019, 12:54:00 PM
Yall let ppl borrow money or borrow money?
Ever had to chase someone down or get chased down?
I've loaned out coins and gifted
Thankfully no one has done me dirty
BUT if they go out of their way to mention how they're gonna pay it back and then time flies by and I see them spending coin on bullshit they will never get another dime from me.
I nvr espect it back
no unless family and depending on the family member honestly. It would have to be my mother or grandmother or perhaps my sisters.
As far as getting the money back I would give it not expecting them to pay me back. If I NEEDED the money I wouldn't let anyone "borrow" any.
Quote from: Omi on May 23, 2019, 12:56:48 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on May 23, 2019, 12:56:06 PM
Nope I avoid it at all costs
And when some asks me for me I usually just give it to them without ever expecting it back to avoid any potential drama.
Quote from: LOONA. on May 23, 2019, 12:56:06 PM
when some asks me for money I usually just give it to them without ever expecting it back to avoid any potential drama.
Or usually tell em no. Learning how to day that word has been a lifesaver
This might sound elitist but it surely saves me a lot of bullshit drama and thats to not befriend broke people or people that are financially irresponsible
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 01:03:13 PM
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
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I never ask for money
and no no one has ever asked me for an outlandish amount so...I haven't had any issues yet
Documentation is everything. Do no such thing without a notarized promissory note.
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 01:03:13 PM
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
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a very good friend of mine (tonio) asked me to pay his rent last year.
did u
nope
damn was gonna ask if could pay mine
what are you going to do for me?
what do you want :)
r you rich lol
I only borrow to my siblings and I borrow it with no conditions
The obvious part being that if they don't pay it back or act funny the cash register closes for good.
I don't let people borrow money.
I only give money.
And I never give money away that I can't afford.
Doing anything else will lead to headache, IMO.
And I NEVER borrow money. I'd rather suffer and do without, and make it work.
:mmyulost: i just let a co- worker borrow $40.00 saturday... the slut was supposed to pay me back this past tuesday... i have a feeling she is trying to wait until we get paid next week... chile...
Quote from: Young on May 23, 2019, 12:56:56 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 23, 2019, 12:54:00 PM
Yall let ppl borrow money or borrow money?
Ever had to chase someone down or get chased down?
Thankfully no one has done me dirty
Wish I can say the same
:fuming:
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 01:03:13 PM
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
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I've only done a contract mess when it was a large some of money.
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 01:06:54 PM
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 01:03:13 PM
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
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Quote from: Rxxf on May 23, 2019, 01:16:32 PM
I don't let people borrow money.
I only give money.
And I never give money away that I can't afford.
Doing anything else will lead to headache, IMO.
And I NEVER borrow money. I'd rather suffer and do without, and make it work.
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This is exactly my position. It still irks me though when I give you with no intention of getting it back, but you INSIST that you'll pay me back but never do so. That avenue is definitely closed to you in the future.
So I have no issues loaning money out to ppl I truly fuck with. I think (or I thought) I am pretty cautious. No money for crackheads, no family members I never met, no crackhead family members or friends etc. Plus if a person is in a tight spot Ill let them borrow up to $200 before I say I cant loan anymore.
So my childhood friend hits me up talking about how she was defending my name against some niggas in our hometown. We checking in, recapping, giggling n har har'ing n this shit. Im drunk so she was telling me how things have been on a downside for her after he baby.
I naively offer to help if she was in a jam. She hits me with a can I borrow 350 Im like eh...yeah no problem.
The deadline to pay me passes but she let me know something came up so she will pay me the next check. Cool, her bday comes up before then. I hit her up no response about her bday, hit her up again no response, she aint responded in a whole goddamn year.
Now Im pissed thinking about it cuz im moving and this shit is pricey af. This bish on my goddamn facebook liking statuses and shit. Im tempted to air her shit out and snatch any support that her baby is getting.
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Quote from: Kurama on May 23, 2019, 01:51:14 PM
So I have no issues loaning money out to ppl I truly fuck with. I think (or I thought) I am pretty cautious. No money for crackheads, no family members I never met, no crackhead family members or friends etc. Plus if a person is in a tight spot Ill let them borrow up to $200 before I say I cant loan anymore.
So my childhood friend hits me up talking about how she was defending my name against some niggas in our hometown. We checking in, recapping, giggling n har har'ing n this shit. Im drunk so she was telling me how things have been on a downside for her after he baby.
I naively offer to help if she was in a jam. She hits me with a can I borrow 350 Im like eh...yeah no problem.
The deadline to pay me passes but she let me know something came up so she will pay me the next check. Cool, her bday comes up before then. I hit her up no response about her bday, hit her up again no response, she aint responded in a whole goddamn year.
Now Im pissed thinking about it cuz im moving and this shit is pricey af. This bish on my goddamn facebook liking statuses and shit. Im tempted to air her shit out and snatch any support that her baby is getting.
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she's disgusting!
take her fckin COURT
not a damn year. She needs her ass kicked
djkkd
Does it bother anybody else when someone who makes more money than you asks for coin?
Like..it should be the other way around. I know we all fall on hard times but I can't stand financially irresponsible people.
If I do loan something out, I usually don't expect to get it back
And we're only talking about a couple hundred at the most :dead: anything above that...you need to take your ass to the bank and ask for a loan
Quote from: Kurama on May 23, 2019, 01:51:14 PM
So I have no issues loaning money out to ppl I truly fuck with. I think (or I thought) I am pretty cautious. No money for crackheads, no family members I never met, no crackhead family members or friends etc. Plus if a person is in a tight spot Ill let them borrow up to $200 before I say I cant loan anymore.
So my childhood friend hits me up talking about how she was defending my name against some niggas in our hometown. We checking in, recapping, giggling n har har'ing n this shit. Im drunk so she was telling me how things have been on a downside for her after he baby.
I naively offer to help if she was in a jam. She hits me with a can I borrow 350 Im like eh...yeah no problem.
The deadline to pay me passes but she let me know something came up so she will pay me the next check. Cool, her bday comes up before then. I hit her up no response about her bday, hit her up again no response, she aint responded in a whole goddamn year.
Now Im pissed thinking about it cuz im moving and this shit is pricey af. This bish on my goddamn facebook liking statuses and shit. Im tempted to air her shit out and snatch any support that her baby is getting.
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It sounds like she played you tbh
If she can't gather around $300 extra in a year that shows you how irresponsible she is. Aint no telling how mnay ppl she's done it to.
Quote from: animmai. on May 23, 2019, 01:56:28 PM
If I do loan something out, I usually don't expect to get it back
And we're only talking about a couple hundred at the most :dead: anything above that...you need to take your ass to the bank and ask for a loan
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and if the bank won't give you one there's a good fckin reason so I'm not either
Her mom hit me up checkin in on me n shit.
Tell ur fuckin daughter to run me my damn money love or the baby is getting a visit from CPS
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Yall are fucking ghetto.
Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities
Just say no next time. Lol
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 01:59:24 PM
Yall are fucking ghetto.
Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities
Just say no next time. Lol
b
Not it being ghetto to request your funds back
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 01:03:13 PM
I've sent friends and family a letter of intent to sue and garnish wages before because I haven't received my coin back.
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Thanks guys. Hate n lash her with me.
:stressed:
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 02:02:31 PM
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 01:59:24 PM
Yall are fucking ghetto.
Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities
Just say no next time. Lol
b
Not it being ghetto to request your funds back
U ok bbydll. I didnt say anything about requesting it back.
The letters tho...
Quote from: The Firm on May 23, 2019, 02:01:00 PM
And it's really fucking disgusting and upsetting to even read. With all the evil and hatred in this world, and people who just don't give a shit about the next person...someone does right by you...And you don't even care about them and their wellbeing in return.
What a trashy bitch. I'd take it as a loss, keep it pushing. The stress is only an additional cost to you that you won't get back.
!!!!!!
So damn tacky
Some people will put themselves in a tough spot to help someone else and shes's owt here doing this foolishness.
Hey guys, for clarity im just venting. Im good and didnt plan on popping shit online. Not my style.
:omf:
Quote from: The Firm on May 23, 2019, 02:08:57 PM
Don't waste your time airing her out on Facebook and mess. Don't go that low for some funds you won't get back.
And don't subject your friends and family to seeing you out of your character like that on their timelines because of her.
You're not getting that money back. She's complete trash, but it's a lesson learned.
At least you got to vent a bit. But you're gonna have to just breathe and let it go. I know it's extra hard because you're in the process of moving and could really use the extra hundred dollars. I mean that's a utility bill covered for a month or two. So I get it.
But just breathe, exhale, let it go. Take a few minutes to lock yourself in a room and curse her out if you need to. But after that, let it go.
When shit like that happens to me I just try to remember that some lessons in life are free, and some are more expensive. You paid for your mess already in full. So keep it pushing King.
Fuck ha :cheerup:
Skdjjd
Damns yeah. Thx Herb! :wub:
fuck what herb said Bre. Roll up on that bitch. lemme know if you need assistance
You ever have someone repay you, then ask for more money days later.Like stuck in a loop.I really don't feel like I'm being repaid..just holding on to it for a couple of days.
I likes ta fight
I only give money to my mom. That's it. My dad doesn't like to take money from us so we just give it to mom. Sometimes we slip somethin' in a card for him without him knowing. :plzstop: i recently borrowed money from someone, and the person was getting annoying about it. I was like, I'm working on it now! :uhh: i hated to borrow it, but it was needed. I try my best not to borrow ish! If i dont have the money, oh well! :-D
Quote from: The Firm on May 23, 2019, 01:33:00 PM
I usually just gift it.
The most someone's asked me for was when a friend asked me to cover their rent for the month, AFTER they had just gotten a new job. And I did it only because I was happy to see them trying to get back on their feet. If someone's been between jobs for a while and had to get new clothes, transportation, etc. it was understandable how it was eating into their money a bit and making things extra tight. So I was happy to help because they were trying to help themselves.
Their request was for it to be a loan, but I didn't want a dollar amount hanging over our friendship. So I told them to just keep it.
If your finances are that tight it's obviously gonna be a while before you can pay me back in full. I don't want someone to have that in the back of their mind every time we chat on the phone, or they see a text from me thinking I'm checking up to collect the mess, etc.
But I've always been a giver. So it's easy for me to do that without expecting anything in return. I never loan people money.
omgggg, this is so sweet! :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 02:14:50 PM
fuck what herb said Bre. Roll up on that bitch. lemme know if you need assistance
!!! Vonc jus texted me asking for the address to her child's school
Ok, so for the ones who lend out or borrow, fo you want the initial amount back/pay back initial amount or pay interest?
A good point was made, when you borrow someone else money it could been used for that person in other ways to make money on it but they tied it up with you. So do you?
:ohwow:
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 01:07:24 PM
a very good friend of mine (tonio) asked me to pay his rent last year.
cvvvvvvvvbhhhh
Quote from: Kurama on May 23, 2019, 02:12:43 PM
Quote from: The Firm on May 23, 2019, 02:08:57 PM
Don't waste your time airing her out on Facebook and mess. Don't go that low for some funds you won't get back.
And don't subject your friends and family to seeing you out of your character like that on their timelines because of her.
You're not getting that money back. She's complete trash, but it's a lesson learned.
At least you got to vent a bit. But you're gonna have to just breathe and let it go. I know it's extra hard because you're in the process of moving and could really use the extra hundred dollars. I mean that's a utility bill covered for a month or two. So I get it.
But just breathe, exhale, let it go. Take a few minutes to lock yourself in a room and curse her out if you need to. But after that, let it go.
When shit like that happens to me I just try to remember that some lessons in life are free, and some are more expensive. You paid for your mess already in full. So keep it pushing King.
Fuck ha :cheerup:
Skdjjd
Damns yeah. Thx Herb! :wub:
Omg, that's Afro? Ugh, such wisdom! :'(
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 02:04:32 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 02:02:31 PM
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 01:59:24 PM
Yall are fucking ghetto.
Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities
Just say no next time. Lol
b
Not it being ghetto to request your funds back
U ok bbydll. I didnt say anything about requesting it back.
The letters tho...
n
How is that ghetto faggot? If I didn't hesitate to loan you my money why should there be hesitation to give it back? Had they gotten a loan the bank would have done the same thing.
I've even gotten my home girl car towed until she paid me my money. I'm the one who paid the down payment on a whim that I was gonna he my money back and sis thought shit was sweet.
Quote from: QUÉÉN. on May 23, 2019, 03:00:07 PM
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 02:04:32 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on May 23, 2019, 02:02:31 PM
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 01:59:24 PM
Yall are fucking ghetto.
Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities
Just say no next time. Lol
b
Not it being ghetto to request your funds back
U ok bbydll. I didnt say anything about requesting it back.
The letters tho...
n
How is that ghetto faggot? If I didn't hesitate to loan you my money why should there be hesitation to give it back? Had they gotten a loan the bank would have done the same thing.
I've even gotten my home girl car towed until she paid me my money. I'm the one who paid the down payment on a whim that I was gonna he my money back and sis thought shit was sweet.
Its all very ghetto. Couldn't catch me going back n forth with anyone over a few red cents.
Its a test of character and they failed...move on.
Thats why yall be 20 looking 45. All this damn stress.
Put the cape down and say no sometimes... especially if it's this damn deep.
slAIDS is so elitist
No
Sars... fuck u.
Boy zip it!
I let people borrow it and just charge it to the game cause l know I'm not getting it bk
Quote from: .:::Slæ -AKA- NO ME JODAS:::. on May 23, 2019, 01:13:25 PM
I only borrow to my siblings and I borrow it with no conditions
The obvious part being that if they don't pay it back or act funny the cash register closes for good.
I'm done letting my siblings borrow money. Fuck them.
My youngest brother and sister are the only two that l will continue to help and they are 18 and 19
I've given everyone so much over the years now I'm just done.
I just don't lend ppl money. I have a couple times before in the past, but never again. I did get my money back, but they just took much longer than agreed to. So now I just come up with the best excuse. Best one is I just gave all my money to my mom, so don't got it.
And I've never borrowed money before from anyone since I've been an adult. I have always had savings.
if i want it back I dont lend it
I've never given out more than $100 to friend, a bitch ain't getting any more than that from me.