QuoteIn same gender loving relationships we often find ourselves falling into or fighting against heteronormative views and stances on relationships. I remember a few years back talking to my straight friends about dating another guy and the first they would ask was "so who is the man in the relationship?" I had to explain to them that we were both men and no one had a specific role. But thats not always the case. Whether we want to or not we often mold our relationships to into molds created by the straight relationships we've seen. Sometimes based off who is dominant and who is submissive, who is top and who is bottom, who is masculine and who is feminine. While this may not hold true for all, I know for myself and many of my friends, we had no gay references to guide us on how same gender relationships worked. Most of us are mimicking what we've seen our parents do.
I believe in taking care of my house and my partner but not based on our sexual roles but more about how I was raised. A man should take care of his home. What are your thoughts?
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http://www.aazios.com/articles/my-bottom-will-not-pay-rent-tops-says-he-handles-finances-his-relationship#.XSqnBCUpDDs
This is really damn ridiculous
it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY.. :uhh:
:plzstop:
the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing
Gosh.. we are fucked
m
Stay @ home wife!
boy get real
This is idiotic
This is that shit Afro is talking about....
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 15, 2019, 05:44:04 PM
Stay @ home wife!
boy get real
ssssssssssssssss
NOW do yawl get what Baph & I be saying
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Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 05:57:02 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 15, 2019, 05:44:04 PM
Stay @ home wife!
boy get real
ssssssssssssssss
NOW do yawl get what Baph & I be saying
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Now don't get me WRONG i have no issue with someone paying all my bills.
Just dont think im some bitch or something.
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v
Fag we're going half and half
A lot of the time when we go out for food or drinks one of us just covers it since it's a small bill but home stuff, yeah, we splitting
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 05:42:41 PM
This is really damn ridiculous
it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY.. :uhh:
:plzstop:
the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing
Gosh.. we are fucked
dggghhjjj
literally all of this
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 15, 2019, 06:03:38 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 05:42:41 PM
This is really damn ridiculous
it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY.. :uhh:
:plzstop:
the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing
Gosh.. we are fucked
dggghhjjj
literally all of this
Its honestly just black gays that are like this. Tbh
I just wanna SHAKE these people
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 15, 2019, 06:03:38 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 05:42:41 PM
This is really damn ridiculous
it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY.. :uhh:
:plzstop:
the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing
Gosh.. we are fucked
dggghhjjj
literally all of this
Yeah it's 50/50 for me. Ain't paying for no bottoms bills sor'
Quote from: Darius. on July 15, 2019, 06:06:52 PM
Its honestly just black gays that are like this. Tbh
I just wanna SHAKE these people
xb xbxbccb
Baph BYE
I know you mess but a portion of ALL shades of gay think this
I mean, whites are the majority and most of them emulate us, but more particularly black women. You think they aren't going "OH NO, YOU THE TOP YOU GOTTA PAY" :kii:
Cause I have a white friend who is a fag hag and all her white fags think they're black
i hate people
I'm cringing @ "my bottom"
yall so fuckin extra
Quote from: Darius. on July 15, 2019, 06:06:52 PM
Its honestly just black gays that are like this. Tbh
I just wanna SHAKE these people
g
Did you take a poll or something?
There's stupidity in every demographic
Wow
now this is ignorance.
When are these faggots gonna realize that they're not straight couples?
You don't have to live up to their tired ass gender roles.
:udontlookok:
Nothing wrong with having a lil sponsor tho lolz
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:13:35 PM
Nothing wrong with having a lil sponsor tho lolz
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
lolz yeah..
If a nigga wanna ba ba buy buy
.. me stuff..
Gone head then LMFAO
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 07:18:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:13:35 PM
Nothing wrong with having a lil sponsor tho lolz
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
lolz yeah..
If a nigga wanna ba ba buy buy
.. me stuff..
Gone head then LMFAO
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
I mean, why spend mines when I can spend yours? LOL!
:jetbeauty:
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:26:37 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 07:18:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:13:35 PM
Nothing wrong with having a lil sponsor tho lolz
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
lolz yeah..
If a nigga wanna ba ba buy buy
.. me stuff..
Gone head then LMFAO
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
I mean, why spend mines when I can spend yours? LOL!
:jetbeauty:
LMFAO basically
:freewilly:
This is some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 07:19:05 PM
I'm CRYING
I was just gonna ask what Tea Tea song this was
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
outrage! anger!
fuck that
this sounds amazing to me.
I'll bottom for ya
Quote from: EXPENSIVE BUSSY on July 15, 2019, 08:04:58 PM
outrage! anger!
fuck that
this sounds amazing to me.
I'll bottom for ya
ffff
I mean if he has it and he's offering to ....why fucking not?! And if he's attractive as Well?
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 05:42:41 PM
This is really damn ridiculous
it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY.. :uhh:
:plzstop:
the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing
Gosh.. we are fucked
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:26:37 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 15, 2019, 07:18:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on July 15, 2019, 07:13:35 PM
Nothing wrong with having a lil sponsor tho lolz
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
lolz yeah..
If a nigga wanna ba ba buy buy
.. me stuff..
Gone head then LMFAO
(http://i43.tinypic.com/14uizw5.jpg)
I mean, why spend mines when I can spend yours? LOL!
:jetbeauty:
https://youtu.be/2EzzJw-aGW4
:heythere:
If that's what he wants to do then go for it
it's definitely not mandatory, I don't even think it should be mandatory in heterosexual relationships
Quote from: BigDawg on July 15, 2019, 07:34:47 PM
This is some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
bxbdjdjdjdjdjddjdjdjjdkd
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
I wouldn't mind being taken care off while I stashed my earnings away.
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:42:26 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:57:19 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:42:26 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
Quote from: Twitter User on July 15, 2019, 05:55:17 PM
And he mentioned a recent bump he got in his salary. I was legit sitting there like :rudone:
Offended as fuck. Like do I look like a fucking gold digger, chicken head or something?
I literally called my best friend that night almost in tears, asking her what kinda tea do I give off?
Cuz he was so damn SURE that shit would knock my socks off.
Af why did you take it personally? Just asking a question.
He may have his own insecurities and thought the money and status would make him look better in your eyes. I get what your say though.
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 09:04:02 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:57:19 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:42:26 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
you know it's not easy huh
So that clearly tells me that you've ... dealt with drug dealers before
as sponsors. Cool.
What's the most a man has dropped on you bro
Half a rack?
This boy is confused.
I agree.
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 09:16:59 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 09:04:02 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:57:19 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:42:26 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
you know it's not easy huh
So that clearly tells me that you've ... dealt with drug dealers before
as sponsors. Cool.
What's the most a man has dropped on you bro
Half a rack?
My cousin paying a stripper to give me a lapdance doesn't really count as him being my sponsor IMO
How much have you been finessed out of Mr business owner?
Sounds like the guys have you splurging
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 09:38:09 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 09:16:59 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 09:04:02 PM
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Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:42:26 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:37:07 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:26:38 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:22:23 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 08:11:24 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 08:02:20 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 07:57:46 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on July 15, 2019, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
you know it's not easy huh
So that clearly tells me that you've ... dealt with drug dealers before
as sponsors. Cool.
What's the most a man has dropped on you bro
Half a rack?
My cousin paying a stripper to give me a lapdance doesn't really count as him being my sponsor IMO
How much have you been finessed out of Mr business owner?
Sounds like the guys have you splurging
ssss "a stripper" huh
well hopefully he gave a great dance, and your "cousin" sounds dope tbh
Hmm you keep hinting at me splurging on men, as if you're tryna ... suggest something
just ask boy, the worst I can say is no to ya 😝
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Quote from: 89 on July 15, 2019, 06:30:21 PM
Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
you know it's not easy huh
So that clearly tells me that you've ... dealt with drug dealers before
as sponsors. Cool.
What's the most a man has dropped on you bro
Half a rack?
My cousin paying a stripper to give me a lapdance doesn't really count as him being my sponsor IMO
How much have you been finessed out of Mr business owner?
Sounds like the guys have you splurging
ssss "a stripper" huh
well hopefully he gave a great dance, and your "cousin" sounds dope tbh
Hmm you keep hinting at me splurging on men, as if you're tryna ... suggest something
just ask boy, the worst I can say is no to ya 😝
he paid for her to do her thing and she did, it was fun
and you said no already when I was trying to help you get a job, and off unemployment but ok
offer still stands, dont be too proud to beg :usuresis:
Afro Banks...
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And he mentioned a recent bump he got in his salary. I was legit sitting there like :rudone:
Offended as fuck. Like do I look like a fucking gold digger, chicken head or something?
I literally called my best friend that night almost in tears, asking her what kinda tea do I give off?
Cuz he was so damn SURE that shit would knock my socks off.
Af why did you take it personally? Just asking a question.
He may have his own insecurities and thought the money and status would make him look better in your eyes. I get what your say though.
I think it's just a respect thing. I felt disrespected because I work very hard and pride myself on being self sufficient.
But once I talked to my bestie about it , it made more sense to me. She kinda came at it from the same angle you are. And I calmed down and forgave him obviously cuz we ended up dating. fsfsfsffsf But I literally was in tears after that moment with him.
I just needed him to know that I don't need any of your money.
Don't talk to me about your salary. It felt demeaning.
Yes I most definitely agree. I'm the type of person that as of right now I don't see me turning over all of my power to another man(living under him in his crib, etc) it just doesn't feel right. So I get it, but most of the time people be having their own internal shit they battling which is why compatibility is >>>>>>>>
Quote from: Twitter User on July 15, 2019, 11:05:07 PM
And it didn't help that he is White on top of that. sdssssdsd
I already had concerns, and would have never proactively sought a relationship with a White man ...although I find a lot of them to be very handsome.
So what could have been a little "side eye" moment turned into a full fledged fume out.
But I was legit in love with that nigga after a while.
(https://66.media.tumblr.com/7578168dde79cdf37e8b0167f3fd7447/tumblr_na58xiK05R1rn2pfqo3_250.gif)
And he stepped to me at a time when I guess I really needed someone. My grandfather had just passed away and it kinda tore me to shreds.
But ultimately I just couldn't do it. Once I learned about his father who loves watching people of color get arrested on COPS and mess...
And own his personal alignment with Trump....I'm like no. I am not gonna be that Black person dating a White Trump supporter with a racist father.
Smiling up in pictures at the cookouts looking like their slave. dsnfndfdfnsndfnsdfdnsdfnsdn
Once he got REAL comfy with me is when I started finding out what I needed to know.
It just wasn't very realistic.
(https://media.tenor.com/images/915531fee9d751c27eb5bd33a8d34b0c/tenor.gif)
But we're still friends. I'm glad it ended OK because we still have to see or interact with each other on a regular basis.
Wait.. was this in 2015/2016? I thought this was when you were in your late teens/early 20s sksjjsjdj :dead:
Glad you ended things and knew your worth :dead: I can't stand men (especially white men) like that
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Quote from: Darius. on July 15, 2019, 06:06:52 PM
Its honestly just black gays that are like this. Tbh
I just wanna SHAKE these people
Well Black gays are hit the hardest economically
Lack of employment, etc.
I think they're just more likely to engage in this mess because of that but I wouldn't say it's completely a Black gay thing.
Heteronormative teas are everywhere - even down to that traditional wedding ceremony with the "bride" walking down the aisle.
This is because despite gender god is still putting a man and a woman together this is why gay mariage has evolved
U may see two men or two women but know that one is energetically the man and one the woman despite gender and they will often fall into tge hetero normative pattern and feel the same things as heter couples
U guys view it. As trying to be like str8
Its truly gods natural order of things it just trancends gender because its well of god
God would never put two men together energetically and make it work thats not balance
But still be man and woman as well both embodying masculine energy
Or female embodying masculine energy and her man the feminine
God puts men and women together regardless of gender
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Wow
now this is ignorance.
sssssssssssssss
You tell em bruv
You don't need nobody paying your bills
Independent self
you're independent too right bro?
Or are you out here supporting another grown able bodied man
yea I am
wait ... are you ... asking me to be your sponsor bro?
:diddraispoot:
I thought you just said I didn't need one
Just making sure you not out here getting taken advantage of
Rich, alpha male masculine self lolz
well i thought you didn't
until you started tryna hot girl me
"rich! muscular! alpha!"
do we need to finish this convo in pm bro?
That was after you asked if I needed you
When I thought we were in the same boat
as independent, are you feeling ok today?
oh ok
so you weren't hitting on me tryna get a bill paid?
Cause that's what I got from it
and I'm good. You went to work today bro?
yep I went to work, I can put in a referral for an entry level position at my company if you need bro. Don't be ashamed to admit that you're in between jobs
don't bother
and ashamed? I'm a business owner, I be happy to stay between jobs ... and bags lolz
I mean you did just say I was rich when you were hitting on me tryna get a bill paid bro. And that's ok
oh so you didn't ask if my job was hiring because you're trying to put in your resumé? That's what I got from that but ok
Well I'll pray that your business doesn't stay in the red on the financial side
I know it's not easy selling drugs
you know it's not easy huh
So that clearly tells me that you've ... dealt with drug dealers before
as sponsors. Cool.
What's the most a man has dropped on you bro
Half a rack?
My cousin paying a stripper to give me a lapdance doesn't really count as him being my sponsor IMO
How much have you been finessed out of Mr business owner?
Sounds like the guys have you splurging
ssss "a stripper" huh
well hopefully he gave a great dance, and your "cousin" sounds dope tbh
Hmm you keep hinting at me splurging on men, as if you're tryna ... suggest something
just ask boy, the worst I can say is no to ya 😝
he paid for her to do her thing and she did, it was fun
and you said no already when I was trying to help you get a job, and off unemployment but ok
offer still stands, dont be too proud to beg :usuresis:
s
so you were sittin in a strip club, uninterested in the women, for... whatever reason
and your cousin basically made the girl come dance on you, cool
boy I would need to talk to your company's CEO, but you only have entry level connects
why are you still scared to come right out and ask me? is it because we're not in PM ... ki
I don't believe his views cause I take care of myself....but I wouldn't taking his number and being his bttm :ohwow: