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Title: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Rxxf on July 21, 2019, 01:53:46 PM
Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on July 21, 2019, 02:02:44 PM
Quote from: i'll get banned 4 Fox on July 21, 2019, 01:59:16 PM
Not at all but I know someone who's dealing with that. It's more of a cultural thing - he's Indian (the curry type).

Within the past two years he's attending weddings of all four of his closest friends and he def feels the pressure from people surrounding him.

His goal right now is literally just to get married and have a family. Like, that has to suck. It's like actual love is an afterthought...priority is getting those things off the check list ASAP.

Is he straight? 

If he is then tell him to suck it up. :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2019, 02:20:10 PM
no because everyone knows I hate kids/marriage
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: HUGO on July 21, 2019, 02:27:58 PM
Yes. My mom has been pressuring my sister and I to have a child. I think she sees all her having grandkids and she feels some type of way. I have a close friend who's pregnancy and she thought it was mine  :hmph:


I'm actually not even speaking to her right now because as absurd as the idea is, instead of her coming to me to ask me first, as her son, she called my friend's mom to ask her to ask my friend if it was mine.  I was fucking pissed.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year 
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 21, 2019, 02:34:32 PM
Quote from: Hugo on July 21, 2019, 02:27:58 PM
Yes. My mom has been pressuring my sister and I to have a child. I think she sees all her having grandkids and she feels some type of way. I have a close friend who's pregnancy and she thought it was mine  :hmph:


I'm actually not even speaking to her right now because as absurd as the idea is, instead of her coming to me to ask me first, as her son, she called my friend's mom to ask her to ask my friend if it was mine.  I was fucking pissed.
ssssssssss

Why would she do that?

Unless she thought your friend could get preggo through the ass
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2019, 02:41:27 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
I was coming to say the same thing :kii:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Hatsumomo on July 21, 2019, 02:46:51 PM
Not really. But I def think they have conversations behind my back about it.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 21, 2019, 02:47:40 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
The pressure is increased each year, not that you'd know. No one will ever wife your bitch ass up.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:34 PM
I have 12 brothers and sisters, I think my parents are good on grandchildren :dead:
I'm def 'having 1/2 for myself though.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2019, 02:49:41 PM
:uhh:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:58 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 21, 2019, 02:47:40 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
The pressure is increased each year, not that you'd know. No one will ever wife your bitch ass up.
but he already is wifed up, are you? lol
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 21, 2019, 02:51:08 PM
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:58 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 21, 2019, 02:47:40 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
The pressure is increased each year, not that you'd know. No one will ever wife your bitch ass up.
but he already is wifed up, are you? lol
v

That boy got the fuck DUMPED a few weeks ago.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:51:12 PM
no
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on July 21, 2019, 03:09:25 PM
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:58 PM
Quote from: BowDown on July 21, 2019, 02:47:40 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
The pressure is increased each year, not that you'd know. No one will ever wife your bitch ass up.
but he already is wifed up, are you? lol


Dddcc

I don't even pay it any mind

Hate kids though
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Amazing on July 21, 2019, 05:36:36 PM
Yeah chile. I'ma pop out twin boys next year.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: CHOKE on July 21, 2019, 06:23:30 PM
My daddy actually told King he didn't think he was financially ready to support me yet 

Jealous self lol
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 21, 2019, 07:27:30 PM
Quote from: The Mad Choke on July 21, 2019, 06:23:30 PM
My daddy actually told King he didn't think he was financially ready to support me yet

Jealous self lol
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on July 21, 2019, 07:44:07 PM
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:34 PM
I have 12 brothers and sisters, I think my parents are good on grandchildren :dead:
I'm def 'having 1/2 for myself though.
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Jesus. I bet holidays are fun though.
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 07:45:19 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 21, 2019, 07:44:07 PM
Quote from: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2019, 02:49:34 PM
I have 12 brothers and sisters, I think my parents are good on grandchildren :dead:
I'm def 'having 1/2 for myself though.
CCCC BBBBNBNNNNNNCCCCVBBBN

Jesus. I bet holidays are fun though.
dddd we all have the same dad but different mothers, he's been married 5 times :dead:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on July 21, 2019, 08:53:54 PM
Yes my dad is very old school but he has learned by now I do wtf I want but doesn't stop him from asking when
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on July 22, 2019, 01:48:38 AM
My dad doesn't care, but my mom...
Her main point is that she doesn't want me to die alone. I always tell her ,,guess what, we all die alone" :dead: 
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Amazing on July 22, 2019, 05:43:08 AM
Quote from: squid on July 22, 2019, 01:48:38 AM
My dad doesn't care, but my mom...
Her main point is that she doesn't want me to die alone. I always tell her ,,guess what, we all die alone" :dead:

(https://66.media.tumblr.com/fa6918086870ce6a80d0742f513ce5e5/tumblr_pubtakuGwL1r9j7a6o1_250.gif)
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Rxxf on July 22, 2019, 09:54:12 AM
Quote from: squid on July 22, 2019, 01:48:38 AM
My dad doesn't care, but my mom...
Her main point is that she doesn't want me to die alone. I always tell her ,,guess what, we all die alone" :dead:

I mean!!

(https://66.media.tumblr.com/fa6918086870ce6a80d0742f513ce5e5/tumblr_pubtakuGwL1r9j7a6o1_250.gif)
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 22, 2019, 10:37:11 AM
Ralf you and your guy can always adopt tho!

Or they want you to have biological kids?
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: LOONA. on July 22, 2019, 11:49:13 AM
Nope

And I'm glad more people from my generation are starting to realize you don't need to get married or have kids to feel complete

Also 


https://twitter.com/InStyle/status/1152774134054739968

:scrumptious:
Title: Re: Do You Feel Pressured by Family/Friends to Have Kids & Get Married?
Post by: b7 on July 22, 2019, 07:44:40 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2019, 02:41:27 PM
Quote from: MoonPrismPower on July 21, 2019, 02:32:36 PM
I swear you make this thread once a year
I was coming to say the same thing :kii:
ddffffffffggg

My parents know better tho. Ch