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Title: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: herbie on July 25, 2019, 08:38:16 AM
I think many (not all) of us tend to see a baby as an extension of ourselves, as opposed to an entirely separate and unique human being.

Yes, they'll have half of you genetically but it's not as if you're making a "mini version" of yourself. I honestly think many of us see it that way sometimes.

I believe that the more people realize that although a child is reliant on you in their earlier years, they're still their own person. Not a potential mini-me..They'll acknowledge that this is a complete human being. One who will eventually adopt their own personality, ideas, and opinions.

Again, not all people think this way...But I think that more people would see the seriousness of having kids before treating it as something "cute" to do and solely thinking of potential photoshoots and mess.

Happy pre-Friday :howfestive:


Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 25, 2019, 10:20:40 AM
Quote from: Chandelier on July 25, 2019, 08:38:16 AM
I think many (not all) of us tend to see a baby as an extension of ourselves, as opposed to an entirely separate and unique human being.

Yes, they'll have half of you genetically but it's not as if you're making a "mini version" of yourself. I honestly think many of us see it that way sometimes.

I believe that the more people realize that although a child is reliant on you in their earlier years, they're still their own person. Not a potential mini-me..They'll acknowledge that this is a complete human being. One who will eventually adopt their own personality, ideas, and opinions.

Again, not all people think this way...But I think that more people would see the seriousness of having kids before treating it as something "cute" to do and solely thinking of potential photoshoots and mess.

Happy pre-Friday :howfestive:
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Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 25, 2019, 10:21:32 AM
sssssss

Jk  :-P

Yea I think phaggs need to really think before they have kids

I've noticed a lot of gays and even str8 women treat children like designer handbags
Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: CHOKE on July 25, 2019, 10:56:43 AM
I read and see where you're coming from

But my bby will be an extension of me until he/ she is old enough to not to want to be anymore

Matching fits, photo shoots, ect

I had to be my mother's dress up doll for 12 years so will my bby sor
Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 25, 2019, 11:34:24 AM
ok
Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: Amazing on July 25, 2019, 12:39:08 PM
People only have to look to their own parents to see that no one is truly exactly like their parents. You will have some similar characteristics for sure but we are all individuals so I don't know how anyone could expect their own child to be an extension of them.
Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 25, 2019, 12:49:41 PM
I was a cute ass bby and ive posted pics in that bby thread a while back. 

:butwait!: i have no worries and cant wait for my mini me.  I have STRONG genes i think
Title: Re: When we fantasize about having kids...
Post by: CHOKE on July 25, 2019, 12:53:54 PM
Am every bit my mother

Right down to the type of man I like