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Title: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 07, 2019, 12:21:12 AM
.................  :uhh:  I dont want to make it this weird thing and be like STOP doing that and hold a lil intervention but come the fuck ON tho

Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 07, 2019, 12:23:58 AM
Like... they'll GIVE YOU a compliment but as soon as you return it they shade themselves  :rudone:

and im like....  :udontlookok: you could've just said thanks
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on August 07, 2019, 12:26:33 AM
I usually endorse this kinda mess and be like "yes you're very fat lol" and then they give me this shook stare lol
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: MelMel on August 07, 2019, 12:28:54 AM
why are you reading me
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 01:01:00 AM
i mean.... why does that bother you

this should be an easy thing to address
"bruh... TAKE this compliment lolz"

n then u can segue into a deeper mess, if yall REALLY cool

"but fr, why you be doing that? u always puttin yourself down. wassup?"

and then CHAT a bit wit ur friend. but as far as complaining/getting irritated by it instead...


:uhh:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 07, 2019, 01:02:50 AM
Quote from: squid on August 07, 2019, 12:26:33 AM
I usually endorse this kinda mess and be like "yes you're very fat lol" and then they give me this shook stare lol
:udontlookok: i think im going to do this next time.
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: Sinpool on August 07, 2019, 01:06:32 AM
Quote from: squid on August 07, 2019, 12:26:33 AM
I usually endorse this kinda mess and be like "yes you're very fat lol" and then they give me this shook stare lol

This seems more like what Baph would do and this wholethread is a lie because Baph can't be nice!

:cheerup:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: 🦚 on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 01:16:12 AM
the problem is...

these ain't yall FRIENDS

:uhh:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: BAPHOMET. on August 07, 2019, 01:18:26 AM
Quote from: Sleī Gets ACTĪVE on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
!!!!!!!!!!

I definitely need to drop these 2 people. They can take it to a therapist.
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 01:23:24 AM
Quote from: Labyrinth. on August 07, 2019, 01:18:26 AM
Quote from: Sleī Gets ACTĪVE on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
!!!!!!!!!!

I definitely need to drop these 2 people. They can take it to a therapist.

eek

seem like the type to have this kind of attitude, then when u find yourself in a position of need, look around, and wonder why nobody is there for you. this lack of empathy... lol yikes. but u get what u give so DEW!

:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: Navyman on August 07, 2019, 01:23:30 AM
Why does it have to be a thing?  I think this would make you a great friend and bringing it up to them and asking why...of course respectfully and how well you know this person. The sad thing is they may not be aware they're doing it because they have done it so long
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 01:24:23 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 07, 2019, 01:23:30 AM
Why does it have to be a thing?  I think this would make you a great friend and bringing it up to them and asking why...of course respectfully and how well you know this person. The sad thing is they may not be aware they're doing it because they have done it so long

!!!!!

:uhh:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: Navyman on August 07, 2019, 01:25:31 AM
Quote from: the ophelia edition on August 07, 2019, 01:23:24 AM
Quote from: Labyrinth. on August 07, 2019, 01:18:26 AM
Quote from: Sleī Gets ACTĪVE on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
!!!!!!!!!!

I definitely need to drop these 2 people. They can take it to a therapist.

eek

seem like the type to have this kind of attitude, then when u find yourself in a position of need, look around, and wonder why nobody is there for you. this lack of empathy... lol yikes. but u get what u give so DEW!

:letsmessfag:
This is essentially majority of society today. People acting so entitled and the world revolves around them.
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 01:28:31 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 07, 2019, 01:25:31 AM
Quote from: the ophelia edition on August 07, 2019, 01:23:24 AM
Quote from: Labyrinth. on August 07, 2019, 01:18:26 AM
Quote from: Sleī Gets ACTĪVE on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
!!!!!!!!!!

I definitely need to drop these 2 people. They can take it to a therapist.

eek

seem like the type to have this kind of attitude, then when u find yourself in a position of need, look around, and wonder why nobody is there for you. this lack of empathy... lol yikes. but u get what u give so DEW!

:letsmessfag:
This is essentially majority of society today. People acting so entitled and the world revolves around them.

king u just kinda GET it, it seems

:ohwow:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: Naomi Hit Me on August 07, 2019, 03:12:38 AM
Are you sure this is a friend lol
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: b7 on August 07, 2019, 03:22:16 AM
Sounds like depression or a big time confidence issue. I'd just discuss it with them or point it out 

i usually tell them to take the compliment and don't argue with me 
:fuming: 
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: b7 on August 07, 2019, 03:55:55 AM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on August 07, 2019, 03:28:37 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on August 07, 2019, 03:22:16 AM
Sounds like depression or a big time confidence issue. I'd just discuss it with them or point it out

i usually tell them to take the compliment and don't argue with me
:fuming:

stop telling my business ersdgvaw
gccccccccccc
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: CHOKE on August 07, 2019, 07:11:49 AM
I do this only to appear humble and down to earth 

but secretly we know our worth King 
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on August 07, 2019, 08:49:04 AM
Quote from: squid on August 07, 2019, 12:26:33 AM
I usually endorse this kinda mess and be like "yes you're very fat lol" and then they give me this shook stare lol
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 07, 2019, 08:52:51 AM
Quote from: Sleī Gets ACTĪVE on August 07, 2019, 01:07:41 AM
This is why i only befriend ppl that are just like me.

I don't have time to cater to your insecurities and character flaws.

No tit 4 tat over here.
:plzstop:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: oph. on August 07, 2019, 12:05:30 PM
Quote from: Omi on August 07, 2019, 03:12:38 AM
Are you sure this is a friend lol

sggghhhhh IM SAYIN

:uhh:
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: fedswatchin on August 07, 2019, 03:44:21 PM
Oph wants war in here
Title: Re: friends that put themselves down for humor & dont know how to take a compliment
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on August 07, 2019, 03:52:07 PM
Everyone has an insecurity

Just address it once and see if you can talk to them on why they respond that way. After that, who cares.