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Title: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 11:04:41 AM
So I have a friend that I have been clicking with for almost 5 years but the only problem is this. Ok so for example, he is an attractive person (no we never did anything cause I'm not attractive to hood guys) so ppl are a magnum to him. Like every time I bring him around someone new, they come on to him and he sneak and talk to them behind my back. It's not jealousy or anything but I just don't like that being in my circle because it brings awkwardness when I try to bring everyone together for maybe a bday dinner or etc. Like it's a million men in the world but you choose to do this. I'm sure he has notice I've been very distance and hanging out with my other friends thur social media. It just gets annoying and I feel disrespected so I just wanted opinions on this and from ppl who don't know us. Am I tripping or not?
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: 🦚 on August 17, 2019, 11:12:35 AM
Not you trying to police who fuck who.

Get you some business and let them hoes fight.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 11:14:45 AM
You sound jealous.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:35:38 AM
Not a magnum to him :dead:
Lemme continue
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:37:06 AM
I have definitely ended a friendship for this. I'm not introducing u to my group of friends for u to knock them off one by one. I think this is extremely messy and inconsiderate
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Navyman on August 17, 2019, 11:40:49 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:35:38 AM
Not a magnum to him :dead:
Lemme continue
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Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 11:44:07 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:35:38 AM
Not a magnum to him :dead:
Lemme continue

You caught that metaphor. Smart self
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 11:51:09 AM
Quote from: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 11:14:45 AM
You sound jealous.

How so?
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Sinpool on August 17, 2019, 11:52:47 AM
Why r u mad at him for getting his dick wet wtf
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 11:58:29 AM
Are you guys reading this or just stop reading at a certain point? 
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 12:07:58 PM
Quote from: Luka Sabbat on August 17, 2019, 11:52:47 AM
Why r u mad at him for getting his dick wet wtf
Summa y'all are so damn dense :dead:
U really think it's cool for someone to come and go thru ur friend's circle fckn everyone? First of all, i care for my friends so i have an issue with someone  trying to take advantage of my friends. Also, ur putting me in a situation because i introduced ur messy ass to the group so when shit goes down, I'm low-key in the middle. It's very fckn inconsiderate. It's different if u have a genuine connection with one of my people but if ur going around fckn my friends for shits and giggles, it's wack asf. Like he said, it's too many randos out here if all ur looking to do is fuck
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Amazing on August 17, 2019, 12:50:13 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 12:07:58 PM
Quote from: Luka Sabbat on August 17, 2019, 11:52:47 AM
Why r u mad at him for getting his dick wet wtf
Summa y'all are so damn dense :dead:
U really think it's cool for someone to come and go thru ur friend's circle fckn everyone? First of all, i care for my friends so i have an issue with someone  trying to take advantage of my friends. Also, ur putting me in a situation because i introduced ur messy ass to the group so when shit goes down, I'm low-key in the middle. It's very fckn inconsiderate. It's different if u have a genuine connection with one of my people but if ur going around fckn my friends for shits and giggles, it's wack asf. Like he said, it's too many randos out here if all ur looking to do is fuck

Right. It's messy as fuck and too much drama. Friends and sex need to be separate imo.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: DrewBabyLove on August 17, 2019, 01:04:02 PM
Taking advantage of your friends? We all grown as hell. If you're friend getting taking advantage of at this point in their life, then somethings wrong. 

I personally let grown people do what they want to do. If it don't involve me then I don't involve myself with it...  But If you are uncomfortable with what he is doing then say something but don't be mad and not express your feelings to him/them.  
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 01:16:21 PM
Quote from: yourMajesty on August 17, 2019, 11:51:09 AM
Quote from: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 11:14:45 AM
You sound jealous.

How so?

You should be happy for your friends. I don't care who my friends fuck...as long as it's not one of my exes. :cmerefag:
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: LOONA. on August 17, 2019, 01:19:56 PM
Your friend is a ho and weird for fucking everybody you introduce him to.   
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: GLOCK on August 17, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
I would keep this friend to myself..
I have friends that I prefer to not have around everyone .. 

whether its me knowing their vibes will clash, they are hoeish like this or just not a person that knows how to get along with everyone 

every friend ain't for every friend of yours.. if that makes sense 
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 01:30:45 PM
Quote from: SAME OL' G on August 17, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
I would keep this friend to myself..
I have friends that I prefer to not have around everyone ..

whether its me knowing their vibes will clash, they are hoeish like this or just not a person that knows how to get along with everyone

every friend ain't for every friend of yours.. if that makes sense

I've introduced him to friends that I thought he wouldn't be attractive to but it didn't work. I don't think the nigga have a type. One of his friends said a long time ago when we was becoming cool that he would fuck anything with two legs. I thought it was a joke but I see it wasn't. Like when we first met, he would tell me how he couldn't keep close friends because they was always jealous of him or think it's a  competition. It's a lot of other shady things I realize too but let's just say I'm tf woke. I see it for what it really is.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: GLOCK on August 17, 2019, 01:34:36 PM
Quote from: yourMajesty on August 17, 2019, 01:30:45 PM
Quote from: SAME OL' G on August 17, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
I would keep this friend to myself..
I have friends that I prefer to not have around everyone ..

whether its me knowing their vibes will clash, they are hoeish like this or just not a person that knows how to get along with everyone

every friend ain't for every friend of yours.. if that makes sense

I've introduced him to friends that I thought he wouldn't be attractive to but it didn't work. I don't think the nigga have a type. One of his friends said a long time ago when we was becoming cool that he would fuck anything with two legs. I thought it was a joke but I see it wasn't. Like when we first met, he would tell me how he couldn't keep close friends because they was always jealous of him or think it's a  competition. It's a lot of other shady things I realize too but let's just say I'm tf woke. I see it for what it really is.
oh yeah bby
It's time to let him go honestly ..
When u know u know.. he seems a bit messy and damaged
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: CHOKE on August 17, 2019, 01:37:09 PM
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I don't understand the issue if you're not attracted to him


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Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: 'ology on August 17, 2019, 01:37:52 PM
Quote from: GODlli's bitch 🔥 on August 17, 2019, 01:07:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:35:38 AM
Not a magnum to him :dead:
Lemme continue
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Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 01:38:12 PM
Quote from: The Mad Choke on August 17, 2019, 01:37:09 PM
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I don't understand the issue if you're not attracted to him


:dead:

Again bby, read the entire post. I promise I explain all of it in it.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: MelMel on August 17, 2019, 01:39:47 PM
Quote from: SAME OL' G on August 17, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
I would keep this friend to myself..
I have friends that I prefer to not have around everyone ..

whether its me knowing their vibes will clash, they are hoeish like this or just not a person that knows how to get along with everyone

every friend ain't for every friend of yours.. if that makes sense
!!!!!!
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Good Morning Gorgeous on August 17, 2019, 02:02:53 PM
I am allergic to past, present and future drama on any level. Life is too short to surround yourself with messy ass people.

My motto has always been to keep your friends close to you but separate to others, which is why I've always stayed away from 'circle friendships'. I don't have one friend that is close to another.
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 02:06:18 PM
Quote from: SAME OL' G on August 17, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
I would keep this friend to myself..
I have friends that I prefer to not have around everyone ..

whether its me knowing their vibes will clash, they are hoeish like this or just not a person that knows how to get along with everyone

every friend ain't for every friend of yours.. if that makes sense
EXACTLY! I have friends like this as well.  I only intermingle if i feel the potential for friends to get along. Most of my friends are like minded tho, hence us connecting anyway
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 02:10:01 PM
Quote from: mylogistics on August 17, 2019, 02:02:53 PM
I am allergic to past, present and future drama on any level. Life is too short to surround yourself with messy ass people.

My motto has always been to keep your friends close to you but separate to others, which is why I've always stayed away from 'circle friendships'. I don't have one friend that is close to another.
Damn this sounds terrible.  I have friends that I've known for decades and trust wholeheartedly and we're very aware of how each other moves. I'd low-key be offended if a friend didn't wanna introduce me to other friends. It's like ur questioning my actions or the content of my character
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Good Morning Gorgeous on August 17, 2019, 02:50:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 02:10:01 PM
Quote from: mylogistics on August 17, 2019, 02:02:53 PM
I am allergic to past, present and future drama on any level. Life is too short to surround yourself with messy ass people.

My motto has always been to keep your friends close to you but separate to others, which is why I've always stayed away from 'circle friendships'. I don't have one friend that is close to another.
Damn this sounds terrible.  I have friends that I've known for decades and trust wholeheartedly and we're very aware of how each other moves. I'd low-key be offended if a friend didn't wanna introduce me to other friends. It's like ur questioning my actions or the content of my character

Oh no...my friends are all aware of one another. We have all been in the same events, etc. Mingle and socializing with each other is all that happens. I have no issue with all of my friends coexisting because it happens all the time. They are just not friends. As an example, Johan can't tell you anything about Christian besides his name.  :dead:
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Blackpantha on August 17, 2019, 03:31:06 PM
I've ended a couple friendships for this.... I'm not running a hit off one after they other inn. It can become messy and I can be a very jealous man. 
Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: reekz on August 17, 2019, 04:07:47 PM
Quote from: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 01:16:21 PM
Quote from: yourMajesty on August 17, 2019, 11:51:09 AM
Quote from: Blamblam on August 17, 2019, 11:14:45 AM
You sound jealous.

How so?

You should be happy for your friends. I don't care who my friends fuck...as long as it's not one of my exes. :cmerefag:

Why would I congratulate someone for being a hoe?


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Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: Nine on August 17, 2019, 04:10:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:35:38 AM
Not a magnum to him :dead:
Lemme continue
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Title: Re: Have you ever end a friendship over something like this?
Post by: b7 on August 17, 2019, 05:14:46 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 17, 2019, 11:37:06 AM
I have definitely ended a friendship for this. I'm not introducing u to my group of friends for u to knock them off one by one. I think this is extremely messy and inconsiderate
yea it can get very messy

That ain't cute. If ur interested in someone, fine. But that seems sneaky and weird to be going down the damn line of friends ssdddd

I've messed with people that i found out were friends after the fact but that's different