I met a guy who was really into providing for his boyfriends and it just seemed weird to me. I felt like I would be erasing my manhood. Would you guys allow your man to deposit money into your account just because, or pay your bills?
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Long as I got my own place, own lease in my name.....
why spend mine, when I can spend urs lolz.
Moving in with a man is a different story. No one should ever be in a position that if the man were to leave the next day, they'd be stranded. Especially not in this community.
How would that erase your manhood Straight niggas be living off of their girls all the time and nobody questioning theirs. Oh NORM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on December 05, 2015, 11:43:09 PM
How would that erase your manhood Straight niggas be living off of their girls all the time and nobody questioning theirs. Oh NORM
It is all dependent on who's defining
manhood.
Everyone has their own definition, which is largely dependent on cultural differences, or standards set within our families.
I mean.....yea
pamper me a bit
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If you wanna pay my bills and always pick up the check while I continue to stack my paper until I eventually dump your ass then sure!
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What does being a top or a bottom have to do with supporting someone financially ?
Quote from: Ntwadumela on December 06, 2015, 12:24:05 AM
What does being a top or a bottom have to do with supporting someone financially ?
Usually the Top takes on the more protective role unless its a sugar daddy kinda deal.
Girl
Why have you always been so 1920s
I wouldnt mind as long as we are equal and he doesnt try to use that over me as a control factor.