Is it odd for a 34 year old man to be friendless? My friend's fiancé is unable to fill out his side of the wedding party and she is truly in her feelings about it.
Odd...
So what about his family?
Some people are just loners and prefer their own company. Nothing wrong with it.
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:12:25 PM
So what about his family?
I think they are discussing the family angle now. He is the only child so it'll have to come down to his cousins.
what's a friend?
Quote from: African Queen 2.0 on October 08, 2019, 05:13:52 PM
Some people are just loners and prefer their own company. Nothing wrong with it.
I concur. I'm an introvert, but I still have a handful of friends. It seems very lonely.
Quote from: Ntwadumela on October 08, 2019, 05:15:15 PM
what's a friend?
Good question.
"A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations."
Quote from: MYLO on October 08, 2019, 05:14:35 PM
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:12:25 PM
So what about his family?
I think they are discussing the family angle now. He is the only child so it'll have to come down to his cousins.
Just put her non family ppl on his side people. I mean it shouldn't be that hard to make the seating look even when they get the final count.
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:20:09 PM
Quote from: MYLO on October 08, 2019, 05:14:35 PM
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:12:25 PM
So what about his family?
I think they are discussing the family angle now. He is the only child so it'll have to come down to his cousins.
Just put her non family ppl on his side people. I mean it shouldn't be that hard to make the seating look even when they get the final count.
I mean this should be the least of her worries. :dead:
Oh but to answer your question, I would date someone with no friends. No friends is better than a lot of friends. 9/10 most people don't like their mates friend.
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:21:59 PM
Oh but to answer your question, I would date someone with no friends. No friends is better than a lot of friends. 9/10 most people don't like their mates friend.
And when it comes to fags, if he has 10 friends, he's fucked or experimented with at least 3 or 4.
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 08, 2019, 05:24:05 PM
Quote from: R. on October 08, 2019, 05:21:59 PM
Oh but to answer your question, I would date someone with no friends. No friends is better than a lot of friends. 9/10 most people don't like their mates friend.
And when it comes to fags, if he has 10 friends, he's fucked or experimented with at least 3 or 4.
Exactly
Eh. That's kinda tricky especially being gay. I have some good "friends" but they don't know im gay and i try not too mix the too right now. So when i do gay shit it's usually alone lol if that makes sense.
One day I'll come out to them like i did my family, but I don't know who will still be their doesn't have anything to do with me if i were to become friendless
Quote from: Tonkaman on October 08, 2019, 05:30:43 PM
Eh. That's kinda tricky especially being gay. I have some good "friends" but they don't know im gay and i try not too mix the too right now. So when i do gay shit it's usually alone lol if that makes sense.
One day I'll come out to them like i did my family, but I don't know who will still be their doesn't have anything to do with me if i were to become friendless
awwww
There's nothing odd about that. Some people are not very sociable. Not everyone believes in having a shit ton of friends.
If he doesn't have a lot of people to fill his side then just axe the idea.
Place the parents up front and have everyone else just sit together.
It doesn't have to be sides for each.
There's nothing wrong with that. The man likes his own company. She should consider that as a blessing.
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:39:42 PM
If he doesn't have a lot of people to fill his side then just axe the idea.
Place the parents up front and have everyone else just sit together.
It doesn't have to be sides for each.
Good solution right here.
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I actually prefer a guy that's more low-key over someone who's friends with every damn body.
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:41:37 PM
!!!
I actually prefer a guy that's more low-key over someone who's friends with every damn body.
Exactly! I want my man at home under my bossom. And not in the clubs while I'm at home worrying.
idk, not one friend?
You don't have to be Monica, but I at least need you to have one damn friend.
Quote from: Blackpantha on October 08, 2019, 05:39:58 PM
There's nothing wrong with that. The man likes his own company. She should consider that as a blessing.
Quote from: Nine. on October 08, 2019, 06:06:23 PM
idk, not one friend?
You don't have to be Monica, but I at least need you to have one damn friend.
And when that friend betrays you then what?
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:41:37 PM
!!!
I actually prefer a guy that's more low-key over someone who's friends with every damn body.
Naw i don't need a nigga under me 24/7 that's unhealthy he needs his own circle of friends. 3 - 4 is cool, not a nigga who is know all round town. Nah.
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:39:42 PM
If he doesn't have a lot of people to fill his side then just axe the idea.
Place the parents up front and have everyone else just sit together.
It doesn't have to be sides for each.
She really wants her sisters to be in the wedding: however, she is realizing that it was all a dream. It will probably not come to fruition and they'll just have no wedding party.
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:37:56 PM
There's nothing odd about that. Some people are not very sociable. Not everyone believes in having a shit ton of friends.
It's odd to not have ONE friend? I agree about not having a lot of friends because I'm the same way...very very small individual friendships. He is socially awkward.
Nah I'm really big on friends!
I can't imagine my partner not having anyone to vent to about the self absorbed ass shit I have a tendency to put people through
Everyone should have at least a few friends. I'm somewhat an introvert, but I still would have at least 10 friends that I would be able to invite to a wedding. If he has 0, that's really awkward. What does he do? Talk to himself all day?
Quote from: COIS on October 08, 2019, 08:19:20 PM
Everyone should have at least a few friends. I'm somewhat an introvert, but I still would have at least 10 friends that I would be able to invite to a wedding. If he has 0, that's really awkward. What does he do? Talk to himself all day?
10?
:mmyulost:
I'm a total introvert . INFP all day baby.. Yall my only friends.. Well.. some of ya... and I live.. Best friends ever keep me cackling and forgetting my worries and I never even have to meet ya.. 10s accross the board
Quote from: MYLO on October 08, 2019, 05:11:41 PM
Is it odd for a 34 year old man to be friendless? My friend's fiancé is unable to fill out his side of the wedding party and she is truly in her feelings about it.
Odd...
Or just tell ppl to sit on either side .......................
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:41:37 PM
!!!
I actually prefer a guy that's more low-key over someone who's friends with every damn body.
watch out for those people
They're the most useless, yet the most greedy and fail to realize how the desperation to talk to everyone makes them look pathetic
Quote from: COIS on October 08, 2019, 08:19:20 PM
Everyone should have at least a few friends. I'm somewhat an introvert, but I still would have at least 10 friends that I would be able to invite to a wedding. If he has 0, that's really awkward. What does he do? Talk to himself all day?
did any of those "friends" tell you how off key you sounded when you charged for that recording studio babe?
I can weigh in on rhis ......yes lol
Typically ppul that have a small circle or even alone
Usually have realized they dont need to reach for connections outside of themselves
So inauthentic associatuons fall away
Over time one or 2 good friends come or.return into ur life
So u meet someone u vibe with and wanna be close to itas going to be a good vibe cause they arent clingy
The ppul who surround themselves with ppu at all times are the clingy ones
I prefer it
I like all the attention, LMAO
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You can be a loner and still have friends - or at least someone (or some people) that you have deep connections with.
Quote from: COIS on October 08, 2019, 08:19:20 PM
Everyone should have at least a few friends. I'm somewhat an introvert, but I still would have at least 10 friends that I would be able to invite to a wedding. If he has 0, that's really awkward. What does he do? Talk to himself all day?
Umm what? U talk too some of your friends every damn day? :uhh:
I actually prefer someone with no friends ndnfnfnf
I mean yea
Im dating the man not his damn friends who I would most likely not talk to anyway
And more attention for me
:justabit:
Quote from: Abuse of Power on October 08, 2019, 10:01:55 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia on October 08, 2019, 05:41:37 PM
!!!
I actually prefer a guy that's more low-key over someone who's friends with every damn body.
watch out for those people
They're the most useless, yet the most greedy and fail to realize how the desperation to talk to everyone makes them look pathetic
damnz!
As long as that doesn't make them super clingy to me or it doesn't seem to be that way because of a crappy personality flaw, I'd be fine with it. I don't really care for humans either. I love people but hate their human nature. So I'd totally understand.
Thing is...you should know all of that about the person BEFORE you get serious into dating and damn sure before marrying them.
Weren't all those BBW girls friends at some point and look how they turned on each other and treat each other.