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Title: How do you guys feel about your parents getting older?
Post by: Kalifornia. on January 04, 2020, 12:15:11 AM
I'm in Houston visiting my mom right now, and I can't stop thinking about it. It scares the shit out of me. She's good health wise, but I can see her aging.

My aunt (her sister) passed unexpectedly a couple of weeks ago. So death has been heavy on my mind. I don't even want to go back home to Cali on Sunday. I don't wanna leave her.
Title: Re: How do you guys feel about your parents getting older?
Post by: MelMel on January 04, 2020, 01:27:56 AM
it's scary

and I don't know what I would do without my mom. She's my rock :gorlonfire:
Title: Re: How do you guys feel about your parents getting older?
Post by: ssw4919 on January 04, 2020, 02:15:01 AM
It's apart of life.  But still terrifying.
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Post by: RatherBe on January 04, 2020, 02:26:32 AM
whew just the thought is literally overwhelming. ill pray for your strength and peace to get through this moment. sometimes this moment hits me hard at random times.
Title: Re: How do you guys feel about your parents getting older?
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on January 04, 2020, 04:18:28 AM
Both of mine still run around like this they're 35 çcccc

I haven't thought about it

But if they go, I'll be that girl saying TAKE ME WITH HER
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Post by: Blackpantha on January 04, 2020, 05:10:48 AM
I think about it everyday and it scares me 
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Post by: Moon on January 04, 2020, 05:18:34 AM
I go through phases where I worry about it

usually during / after a visit. It's horrible
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Post by: Hatsumomo on January 04, 2020, 05:50:46 AM
You guys have to understand that we simply weren't created  to die that's why it hurts so much. Aging, sickness and death is what we were cursed with because of the devil's actions. I remember saying this on the board a while ago and being called "crazy" but it's really the truth. Mankind is doomed, clearly but we are all in a dying state. Any one of us can drop dead right now for no reason. I just try to be happy my mom got a chance to live her years and enjoy life. It's the memories that keep us going guys. 
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Post by: Hatsumomo on January 04, 2020, 05:54:27 AM
Nothing could ever prepare you for death. It is beyond frightening and the most devastating thing one can go through. There is no magic cure. It comes like a thief in the night.
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Post by: Barbie Dangerous on January 04, 2020, 06:45:30 AM
Quote from: ton on January 04, 2020, 04:18:28 AM
Both of mine still run around like this they're 35 çcccc

I haven't thought about it

But if they go, I'll be that girl saying TAKE ME WITH HER
You're gonna go WELL BEFORE her at the rate your living so you shouldn't be worried.
:ruaided:
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Post by: oph. on January 04, 2020, 06:47:21 AM
my mother will live forever

mods close this now

:stressed:
Title: Re: How do you guys feel about your parents getting older?
Post by: Rxxf on January 04, 2020, 06:58:54 AM
It scares me.
But I am aware of it - and appreciate the time I have now. 
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Post by: CHOKE on January 04, 2020, 08:36:06 AM
Neither my parents have wrinkles and my dad is still a total DILF  so it ain't really hit me yet