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Title: Guys....
Post by: Good Morning Gorgeous on February 10, 2020, 09:41:31 PM
I'm praying for a mature discussion here, but I've been single for two weeks and I have no idea what I should be doing now. I've been in my previous relationship for almost a decade so I'm feeling all out of touch with reality!!!

What the fuck am I going to do? Dating is out of the question because I'm nowhere close to being over my ex and probably won't be for an unforeseen timeframe. I'm already in the gym multiple days a week, and going out with friends will just be a constant reminder of the circumstances. I don't drink or have causal sexual encounters.  :'( This shit feels so awkward and lonely. I'm so sad guys. :unsure:

I know you guys don't care but I needed to vent to someone outside of my friends.
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on February 10, 2020, 09:44:21 PM
:disgusted:
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on February 10, 2020, 09:46:25 PM
Sorry to hear about your relationship! That's got to be hard. But like Jayden said you need a hobby or several 
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Good Morning Gorgeous on February 10, 2020, 09:47:40 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest

Good point. I'll need to figure out what that could possible be now. I've made the mistake over the years of introducing my hobbies to my ex, which morphed into things we started doing together.
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 09:49:32 PM
Quote from: Son Little on February 10, 2020, 09:47:40 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest

Good point. I'll need to figure out what that could possible be now. I've made the mistake over the years of introducing my hobbies to my ex, which morphed into things we started doing together.
Nope.
Everyone needs something for them and only them.
It'll bring you comfort and anchor you in times were you feel you're about to fly away
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 09:50:06 PM
Ok that's enough niceties before Mistress Naomi see's
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on February 10, 2020, 09:54:24 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:49:32 PM
Quote from: Son Little on February 10, 2020, 09:47:40 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest

Good point. I'll need to figure out what that could possible be now. I've made the mistake over the years of introducing my hobbies to my ex, which morphed into things we started doing together.
Nope.
Everyone needs something for them and only them.
It'll bring you comfort and anchor you in times were you feel you're about to fly away
:hmph:

We're gonna do everything together

Wth you need personal hobbies for
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 09:55:37 PM
Quote from: ton on February 10, 2020, 09:54:24 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:49:32 PM
Quote from: Son Little on February 10, 2020, 09:47:40 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest

Good point. I'll need to figure out what that could possible be now. I've made the mistake over the years of introducing my hobbies to my ex, which morphed into things we started doing together.
Nope.
Everyone needs something for them and only them.
It'll bring you comfort and anchor you in times were you feel you're about to fly away
:hmph:

We're gonna do everything together

Wth you need personal hobbies for
faggot you can't be in my face 24/7 or else I'll kill you
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on February 10, 2020, 09:56:33 PM
Anywho  :hmph:

You'll be fine. I've never been with anyone a decade but I imagine it's really tough ending something after you've built a life together

It's just super fresh. Eventually you'll feel better. Or maybe you won't. Like mentioned before, just focus on yourself and do things that you like. It'll be healthy in the long run. It gets better.  :wub:
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on February 10, 2020, 09:57:24 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:55:37 PM
Quote from: ton on February 10, 2020, 09:54:24 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:49:32 PM
Quote from: Son Little on February 10, 2020, 09:47:40 PM
Quote from: Jaydas Ghost on February 10, 2020, 09:42:40 PM
You need a hobby, something you're interested in that keeps you going
Something for YOU and no one else, a productive selfish interest

Good point. I'll need to figure out what that could possible be now. I've made the mistake over the years of introducing my hobbies to my ex, which morphed into things we started doing together.
Nope.
Everyone needs something for them and only them.
It'll bring you comfort and anchor you in times were you feel you're about to fly away
:hmph:

We're gonna do everything together

Wth you need personal hobbies for
faggot you can't be in my face 24/7 or else I'll kill you
:omgwatshappening:



:jarvwhereru:  :enchantress: :heyddy: :wellheythere:
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 09:58:07 PM
 :wakemeupinsidebby:
This greencard is gonna be worth it huh
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on February 10, 2020, 10:00:18 PM
Seems like it

:wakemeupinsidebby:

Although Glock is jealous of us
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on February 10, 2020, 10:04:22 PM
Glock needs to stick with Huga and leave us alone
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on February 10, 2020, 10:06:15 PM
:disgusted: df/l.kdf,.kfd.,kfd.kljfdkjjkdfgkjjklfd 

did Mylos prayers not get answered? this isnt the discussion he prayed for guys.... 
Title: Re: Guys....
Post by: GLOCK on February 10, 2020, 10:13:31 PM
:guys: