Good morning everybody!
Well ... the whole non-binary movement and Marc fiasco and even Hugo's situations have shed light on how some of you girls are out here dealing with men.
It's a lot of new age feminista/dyke "Tyler Perry" mess going on
So .. as always I'm going to help you guys out tryna snag that MAN that you want.
We'll be taking short quizzes and going over different scenarios so that you guys can be confident dealing with the plethora of guys available out there.
It's not gonna be easy, I'm gonna be tough. But it's gonna help a lot of you out.
Ok Day 1 Scenario: Learning how to say "Ok Babe"
QuoteYou've been talking and dating a guy for a month. You really like him and you guys talk everyday, are somewhat in sync, but there are small differences of opinions, clashing.
You wake to this text:
Manly Man: Hey, I'm having a dinner tomorrow night for my bday, last minute but you're coming 😜
Manly Man: Also, my ex is still cool with my friends, so I'm going to invite her. Cool?
Alright ... this is a complex situation. You guys can edit your responses, I'll come around noon to grade everyone. Please don't copy anybody else answer, just quote them and add on to it.
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Oh and this is the man. And he's a banker who's trying to get funding for his own banking app.
Go!
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Quote from: L0NZ. on March 03, 2020, 11:06:21 AM
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This is the advanced course
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A lot at stake
What you replying with bby?
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but my reply... lolz ok ddy
he acknowledged it was last minute and TOLD me i was coming
i just.... WHEW :oof:
my next text would probably be sumn like MUST you invite her tho? cuz it dont matter who ya friends are cool wit, this dinner is for YOU :uhh: i still appreciate him giving me a heads up, so if he insisted i would just make sure i kept my hand on his dick all night.... put on a lil show for sis. however, i would be keeping an eye on his and her interaction. i'm not gonna make a big deal about it, but sumn about u inviting your ex cuz she cool wit ur FRIENDS is a lil sus to me. just a lil sumn to keep in the back of my mind.
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I would just say ok and go. Kinda put off by him wanting to invite an ex but that's a good opportunity to meet them and see what kinda vibe they have. But he said he invited her because she's cool with the friends but she's actually cool with HIM obviously, to be inviting her to a party. Inviting her because she's cool with the friends doesn't even make sense. So I'm side eyeing the way he worded that and side eyeing them just to see what's what.
I would just be like 'Ok, sounds good to me'.
I wouldn't feel particularly threatened (if at all) until I met the ex and picked up on what kind of vibe exists between them.
I'd go and make sure I have at least one conversation with the ex to ascertain how close they still are (obviously close enough to invite her).
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 03, 2020, 12:40:37 PM
I would just say ok and go. Kinda put off by him wanting to invite an ex but that's a good opportunity to meet them and see what kinda vibe they have. But he said he invited her because she's cool with the friends but she's actually cool with HIM obviously, to be inviting her to a party. Inviting her because she's cool with the friends doesn't even make sense. So I'm side eyeing the way he worded that and side eyeing them just to see what's what.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on March 03, 2020, 12:54:49 PM
I'd go and make sure I have at least one conversation with the ex to ascertain how close they still are (obviously close enough to invite her).
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Even tho ppl that let their ex linger into new situations annoy me :dead:
I've never had good luck pressing the ex situations. I've actually had more luck by encouraging it. They usually get tired of it and cut contact naturally, at which point I give a
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Quote from: ophelia on March 03, 2020, 11:26:27 AM
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but my reply... lolz ok ddy
he acknowledged it was last minute and TOLD me i was coming
i just.... WHEW :oof:
my next text would probably be sumn like MUST you invite her tho? cuz it dont matter who ya friends are cool wit, this dinner is for YOU :uhh: i still appreciate him giving me a heads up, so if he insisted i would just make sure i kept my hand on his dick all night.... put on a lil show for sis. however, i would be keeping an eye on his and her interaction. i'm not gonna make a big deal about it, but sumn about u inviting your ex cuz she cool wit ur FRIENDS is a lil sus to me. just a lil sumn to keep in the back of my mind.
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oh she's definitely getting watched and possibly bad mouthed to the friends who don't care for her too much.
But also a good chance to be fake and build a fake friendship with her. She's definitely not getting a leg up on me.
Idk bent I feel like Imma fail if I say what I feel. Let me go back and dig into the details a bit.
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Quote from: AJ on March 03, 2020, 01:09:32 PM
Idk bent I feel like Imma fail if I say what I feel. Let me go back and dig into the details a bit.
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no judgements, let it out a bit bby ckes
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Hey guys ... welcome to week two ... this week is more of a field trip type thing.
I was recently in Houston for a short stay, and ... I was in the areas with less "blk" ppl. But the variety of MEN that I was running into was just ... I was entertained. So if you're in the market for BLK, and you don't have access to the type of black guys you wanna catch. Here are some options.
1. Indian
Pros: Very compatible with blk men. Extremely handsome and clean cut men. They're usually going to be rich; having some type of inherited coin or business, or profession.
Cons: Apparently being gay is still really taboo and they get really uncomfy being hit on. Not always a guarantee they will have a black man's body.
2. Mexican or Columbian
Pros: Basically black guys but they offer the most variety of colors and look combinations. Down to Earth. They can be very fluid or open for new mess.
Cons: Language barrier. Usually travel in groups, hard to get alone.
3. Arabian
Pros: Extremely sexy, arrogant, controlling, and abrasive. Naturally big penises.
Cons: Extremely sexy, arrogant, controlling, and abrasive.
4. Blasian
Pros: When done right, blasians will have the best stubby thick bodies, stacked with chest and cake and a thin waist. Very sexy and compatible with blk guys.
Cons: Right now, Corona.