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Title: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 06:47:20 PM
generally when I meet other black people, I just always feel a general sense of >>><<< with them.

I know a lot of us feel that. U know what I mean. Just so much goes without being said . We are family .

I call them my sister . King. I don't have an issue with giving a little PDA to my people . And it comes from the heart . I love us so fucking much.

So it's heartbreaking for me to find someone who I feel connected with In that manner just openly sharing opinions that flirt with and even tongue kiss anti-blackness on YouTube .

I came across the mess because their little rant happened to go viral on YouTube. I couldn't believe it. This is someone I know in real life.  A bunch of mess that can be easily be explained as "just my opinion" if I were to to question them about it .

But I'm choosing not to approach her about it. I'm just very disappointed. You hear that "all skinfolk ain't kinfolk" mess all the time but when it hits home, it kinda hurts your feelings.

I'm all for black people having their own opinions . We are not a monolith. But I can tell when someone is purposely And strategically separating themselves from blackness . And looking down on it.

And she's actually proud of the mess going viral , saying "thank you" in a pinned comment to the person who put her rant in their content for thousands. She's super proud of this mess being spread around.

I think she can feel I'm treating her differently but I don't feel connected with her anymore. She's been reaching out but I have been very distant .  I love her but I'm so disappointed . And it actually makes me feel sad. And even betrayed?

If I could compare her appearance to someone, I'd say Heather Headley. To give you an idea of why I felt why we were >>><<< from the jump. But all skinfolk ain't kinfolk.
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: Freemala Harris on February 04, 2021, 06:50:41 PM
[youtube autoplay=1 start=32 end=41]https://youtu.be/j2CdzhUJDsE[/youtube]
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 07:07:33 PM
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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: CHOKE on February 04, 2021, 07:09:17 PM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 06:47:20 PM
generally when I meet other black people, I just always feel a general sense of >>><<< with them.

I know a lot of us feel that. U know what I mean. Just so much goes without being said . We are family .


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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 07:19:42 PM
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 04, 2021, 07:09:17 PM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 06:47:20 PM
generally when I meet other black people, I just always feel a general sense of >>><<< with them.

I know a lot of us feel that. U know what I mean. Just so much goes without being said . We are family .


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Except u . Knew u were straight up trash from the jump :trannyjblige:
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: CHOKE on February 04, 2021, 07:26:17 PM
Cut this woke act and let's go shopping girl 
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: CHOKE on February 04, 2021, 07:27:36 PM
https://youtu.be/BRJtEJNy-4U

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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 07:29:51 PM
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 04, 2021, 07:26:17 PM
Cut this woke act and let's go shopping girl
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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 07:32:00 PM
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 04, 2021, 07:27:36 PM
https://youtu.be/BRJtEJNy-4U

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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: CHOKE on February 04, 2021, 07:37:21 PM
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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 04, 2021, 09:27:58 PM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on February 04, 2021, 06:50:41 PM
[youtube autoplay=1 start=32 end=41]https://youtu.be/j2CdzhUJDsE[/youtube]

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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 09:52:08 PM
what was the subject?

Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 09:52:21 PM
i mean post it, yall aint friends no more
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 10:03:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 09:52:21 PM
i mean post it, yall aint friends no more
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i haven't split with her completely

just a lot more distant with her.

and i almost feel bad cuz she has no idea i have seen the video (it didn't go SUPER viral in the millions, it just so happens that I actually keep up with a lot of these YouTubers who do social commentary, so it came on my feed)

what she said wasn't super disrespectful to the point where it was absolutely crazy but it was definitely an eye opener for me.

but i should have seen it coming....i definitely recall a moment when a friend of ours had their baby, named him "harris", and she made a comment about how "nice and professional" the name was. it was def a moment where i side eyed her a bit...and it was weird to me cuz her own name is actually very ethnic/black.

like everything about this woman is undeniably black. this is def the epitome of all skinfolk aint kinfolk.
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 10:15:02 PM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:03:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 09:52:21 PM
i mean post it, yall aint friends no more
it just so happens that I actually keep up with a lot of these YouTubers who do social commentary, so it came on my feed)



thanks for the clue
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 10:18:18 PM
is the vlogger female and carribean
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 10:18:25 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 10:15:02 PM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 10:03:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 09:52:21 PM
i mean post it, yall aint friends no more
it just so happens that I actually keep up with a lot of these YouTubers who do social commentary, so it came on my feed)



thanks for the clue
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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on February 04, 2021, 10:19:48 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 04, 2021, 10:18:18 PM
is the vlogger female and carribean
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Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 04, 2021, 11:53:35 PM
Yes I think its so disheartening when blacks express such disdain for other blacks and try to go against them its like do you see the climate were in we really could use you not  being an open enemy to us so many other groups feel they can easily come in our circle and divide us and they can 

but on the other side I refuse to continue toxic patterns within our community as well and that can be taken as being anti black coon or sell out or wanting to be white

and the very last thing on earth i want is to be white or have whites feel im on their side but there are times i cant continue to the generational curses

but yeah 
Title: Re: all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk
Post by: JCJ on February 05, 2021, 01:31:08 AM
Quote from: Cherokee Negro 🦅 on February 04, 2021, 06:47:20 PM
generally when I meet other black people, I just always feel a general sense of >>><<< with them.

I know a lot of us feel that. U know what I mean. Just so much goes without being said . We are family .

I call them my sister . King. I don't have an issue with giving a little PDA to my people . And it comes from the heart . I love us so fucking much.

So it's heartbreaking for me to find someone who I feel connected with In that manner just openly sharing opinions that flirt with and even tongue kiss anti-blackness on YouTube .

I came across the mess because their little rant happened to go viral on YouTube. I couldn't believe it. This is someone I know in real life.  A bunch of mess that can be easily be explained as "just my opinion" if I were to to question them about it .

But I'm choosing not to approach her about it. I'm just very disappointed. You hear that "all skinfolk ain't kinfolk" mess all the time but when it hits home, it kinda hurts your feelings.

I'm all for black people having their own opinions . We are not a monolith. But I can tell when someone is purposely And strategically separating themselves from blackness . And looking down on it.

And she's actually proud of the mess going viral , saying "thank you" in a pinned comment to the person who put her rant in their content for thousands. She's super proud of this mess being spread around.

I think she can feel I'm treating her differently but I don't feel connected with her anymore. She's been reaching out but I have been very distant .  I love her but I'm so disappointed . And it actually makes me feel sad. And even betrayed?

If I could compare her appearance to someone, I'd say Heather Headley. To give you an idea of why I felt why we were >>><<< from the jump. But all skinfolk ain't kinfolk.


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