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Oh Lord, what are y'all thoughts?
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She needs to leave Queen outta her mess
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on February 12, 2021, 11:47:41 PM
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She needs to leave Queen outta her mess
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She just wants a viral moment
well they are both lighter skinned and of a biracial background
She was just identifying with her IMO. Many people gravitate to those who look more like them and maybe share a similar ethnic makeup, she was just putting that into words .
Pretty sure someone like Amber idolized Mariah growing up.
And the "hoe" part was just her making fun of herself and not taking herself too seriously.
I see nothing wrong with what she said..
I wanna know why it's celebrated to jump up and down about being dark but other girls can't do the same
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 13, 2021, 02:41:36 AM
I wanna know why it's celebrated to jump up and down about being dark but other girls can't do the same
well lighter skinned people and people who are obviously of mixed heritage are often elevated in the community , many times at the expense of their darker skinned, unambiguously Black counterparts
So although I feel everyone has a right to identify with whom they'd like and celebrate who they are, I can understand why certain things may trigger people.
Some people think far enough to realize how their comments may be interpreted or may make people who don't look like them feel. They take extra time to care about things like that. Some people don't . And it's not "wrong" to not take that extra time , but I get it.
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 13, 2021, 02:41:36 AM
I wanna know why it's celebrated to jump up and down about being dark but other girls can't do the same
This tbh.
Seems like a double standard.
Did you guys see the second screen cap they posted?
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There are a LOT of "fully Black" people out there who are not on edge or lashing out at the mere mention of someone being mixed or light skinned
sfsffsfs
A LOT of them out there will actually PUSH and encourage someone who they perceive to be mixed to identify with the "other" part of them.
Well, you SAY you're Black but....are you sure you're completely Black hun? :unsure:
Yeah yeah yeah, I know if you get pulled over by the cops they'll just see a nigger, blah blah blah 🙄
But anyway, as I was saying. Where are ur parents and grandparents from? Help me make sense of what I'm seeing here. 🤔
And this all goes back to
A) We are not a monolith - we don't all think the same and
B) People's experiences can sometimes have an effect on their reactions. Maybe the people reacting a certain way have had very bad experiences.
Damn, she dragged Mariah.
m didn't they drag her about this when she posted it a year or two ago already? Not them coming back for a second serving of mess
anyway, yea... I don't see the problem with the post. Shes light skin and shes multiracial. So is Mariah so what. Get over it jiggaboos
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yella bone what he whan
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:06 AM
m didn't they drag her about this when she posted it a year or two ago already? Not them coming back for a second serving of mess
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Black Twitter is a mess
I don't see anything wrong with what Amber said. Btw, it makes me cringe when Mariah is included in black stuff.
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She's literally calling herself an untalented white and the girls are still complaining. Like shut up sometimes.
Ok now this was not bad. The DaniLeigh thing must have ppl on edge but this is completely different.
who cares lol
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Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 08:41:35 AM
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this talented light bright, multiracial goddess
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What's wrong with this?
you guys are great for just seeing the post for what it is and not blowing it out of proportion
you are all able to think clearly and reasonably. that's good.
but i don't think we should simplify it too much.
we can't ignore that some people may associate mixedness and light skinned-ness with privilege
and the truth is that they aren't just imagining something that isn't there.
people experience real pain, real discrimination and face real life consequences all because they are dark skinned and/or unambiguously Black. especially women.
i think there should be a certain level of compassion as to why this stuff triggers them. and where that comes from. there is real pain in our community.
it won't trigger EVERYONE, but i want to hug those who are triggered. because many times, there may be something deeper there.
Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 08:55:33 AM
you guys are great for just seeing the post for what it is and not blowing it out of proportion
you are all able to think clearly and reasonably. that's good.
but i don't think we should simplify it too much.
we can't ignore that some people may associate mixedness and light skinned-ness with privilege
and the truth is that they aren't just imagining something that isn't there.
people experience real pain, real discrimination and face real life consequences all because they are dark skinned and/or unambiguously Black. especially women.
i think there should be a certain level of compassion as to why this stuff triggers them. and where that comes from. there is real pain in our community.
it won't trigger EVERYONE, but i want to hug those who are triggered. because many times, there may be something deeper there.
I'd never tell a Black person that they shouldn't be offended if that's how they really feel. I just don't undertsand the outrage when the girls already picked her wig/scalp apart for this YEARS ago and the joke was made to poke fun of herself NOT to revel in her lightskin priveledge.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 13, 2021, 09:07:56 AM
Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 08:55:33 AM
you guys are great for just seeing the post for what it is and not blowing it out of proportion
you are all able to think clearly and reasonably. that's good.
but i don't think we should simplify it too much.
we can't ignore that some people may associate mixedness and light skinned-ness with privilege
and the truth is that they aren't just imagining something that isn't there.
people experience real pain, real discrimination and face real life consequences all because they are dark skinned and/or unambiguously Black. especially women.
i think there should be a certain level of compassion as to why this stuff triggers them. and where that comes from. there is real pain in our community.
it won't trigger EVERYONE, but i want to hug those who are triggered. because many times, there may be something deeper there.
I'd never tell a Black person that they shouldn't be offended if that's how they really feel. I just don't undertsand the outrage when the girls already picked her wig/scalp apart for this YEARS ago and the joke was made to poke fun of herself NOT to revel in her lightskin priveledge.
i honestly see why some people don't get it.
there's nothing wrong with what ur saying , like at all.
it's just not so much about Amber IMO. it's just the whole "look at us! we're both mixed and light skinned lolz !" that can trigger people.
especially women. there are so many messages out there telling dark skinned, unambiguously Black women that they aren't beautiful.
I just see why stuff like this can trigger some .
but i also see why others are like "ummm whats the issue?"
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i honestly see both sides.
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came out the bank, bye teller
give a bum money, hi fella
bad lil hoe, high yella
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Quote from: Banana Powder on February 13, 2021, 09:45:47 AM
Light skin girl, skin jus like pearls. The best thing in the world
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paint with ALL the colors of the wind.
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Quote from: Banana Powder on February 13, 2021, 09:45:47 AM
Light skin girl, skin jus like pearls. The best thing in the world
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Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
did u just call me tar baby
Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 09:59:38 AM
paint with ALL the colors of the wind.
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Quote from: yummy on February 13, 2021, 10:52:48 AM
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jdjdjdjdj she was praying for no more nigger shoots
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i honestly want him tf BEATEN :uhh:
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yeah.
This just shows that the girls shouting
loving my melanin! the loudest are mad insecure.
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Quote from: Cartierline on February 13, 2021, 11:50:37 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yeah.
This just shows that the girls shouting loving my melanin! the loudest are mad insecure.
how do we know that those who are offended by this are the same ones shouting that, though?
we can't conclude that this "shows" that without...knowing that.
this user (from the OP) with the afro in her avatar and the word "Black" in her username is actually saying she's OK with it.
and actually seems happy to see it.
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Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 11:59:36 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on February 13, 2021, 11:50:37 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yeah.
This just shows that the girls shouting loving my melanin! the loudest are mad insecure.
how do we know that those who are offended by this are the same ones shouting that, though?
we can't conclude that this "shows" that without...knowing that.
I'm 99% sure the girls offended at this wouldn't bat an eyelash at 'melanated, dark skin goddess' or something of the sort.
But like someone already said, Amber was looking for a rise out of the same girls so she got what she wanted I guess.
i just think we should be more careful with the language we use when it comes to Black women and their "insecurities"
if a dark skinned, unambiguously black woman is insecure about her Blackness in America, is it really something we can blame her for? or low key shame her for?
think about it.
i just will be happy to see the day where we all ... "all" meaning everyone under the Black umbrella...will truly see each other.
the day where there will be more compassion for black women, their plight, and how it contributes to their reactions to certain things
and where mixed people will no longer get a "boo hoo poor mixed bvy. crying about ur 'struggle' huh? :uhh: " tea.
cuz yes, their unique experiences are often ignored as well because many ignorantly assume they should be happy just cuz they're mixed.
we all just need to see and understand one another. have compassion. try to see where one another is coming from.
I see nothing wrong with this
Quote from: Cartierline on February 13, 2021, 04:27:57 AM
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 13, 2021, 02:41:36 AM
I wanna know why it's celebrated to jump up and down about being dark but other girls can't do the same
This tbh.
Seems like a double standard.
If ur light skinned just stfu and enjoy the privilege on silence apparently :omf:
Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 13, 2021, 11:59:36 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on February 13, 2021, 11:50:37 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yeah.
This just shows that the girls shouting loving my melanin! the loudest are mad insecure.
how do we know that those who are offended by this are the same ones shouting that, though?
we can't conclude that this "shows" that without...knowing that.
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fuck is up :plea:
I just noticed she mentioned being light and bright twice
Kinda weird
This washed up d list skank ass bald ho
she posted this a year ago, lock this damn thread
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This washed up d list skank ass bald ho
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kinda sounds like mya right?
bald?
yeah faggot
faggot?
wheres da issue
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on February 13, 2021, 08:31:02 AM
She's literally calling herself an untalented white WHORE and the girls are still complaining. Like shut up sometimes.
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!!! People are so triggered.
Quote from: DopeSoul. on February 13, 2021, 05:39:44 PM
This washed up d list skank ass bald ho
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Quote from: DopeSoul. on February 13, 2021, 06:34:32 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on February 13, 2021, 06:15:44 PM
Quote from: DopeSoul. on February 13, 2021, 06:10:25 PM
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Quote from: DopeSoul. on February 13, 2021, 05:39:44 PM
This washed up d list skank ass bald ho
n
kinda sounds like mya right?
bald?
yeah faggot
faggot?
you shocked?
Quote from: Cartierline on February 13, 2021, 11:50:37 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on February 13, 2021, 08:26:29 AM
Everything isn't colorist. Sorry. :udontlookok:
Yeah.
This just shows that the girls shouting loving my melanin! the loudest are mad insecure.
That's what u got from this?
:-/
It's actually simple.
If u love the skin ur in, Black Goddess magic and all that. Then some girl factually calling herself a light skinned hoe shouldn't phase u, at all.
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 14, 2021, 02:54:31 AM
It's actually simple.
If u love the skin ur in, Black Goddess magic and all that. Then some girl factually calling herself a light skinned hoe shouldn't phase u, at all.
The way you kinda just... get it.
The way people shame Black women for their "insecurities" regarding their Blackness is pretty disgusting to me.
It completely negates the fact that they are thrown messages everyday which tell them they aren't beautiful. They have to constantly fight these forces, which is a big reason why we have all of the " I love my melanin! I love my natural kinky hair!" campaigns.
Of COURSE there are some of them out there screaming those phrases who still aren't completely secure in themselves. Why? Cuz there are definitely Black women out there who are TRYING to LEARN how to love themselves . How to fight those forces coming against them.
So you think you're spitting logic, but you're not. You actually need to catch up.
The level of insensitivity and borderline disrespect is something I'd expect from people who have no Black women in their family at all.
Fucking yikes. I challenge you to think further.
Amber is being attacked for calling herself a light skinned hoe. Where the sensitivity for her?
Where the sensitivity for the girls who aren't considered beautiful by their white side of the family OR the dark side of the family?
Sor, am tired of babying these girls. They ain't the only ones that need to be uplifted sometime
:melmel:
This whole thread :dead:
Quote from: Banana Powder on February 14, 2021, 08:58:16 AM
Amber is being attacked for calling herself a light skinned hoe. Where the sensitivity for her?
Where the sensitivity for the girls who aren't considered beautiful by their white side of the family OR the dark side of the family?
Sor, am tired of babying these girls. They ain't the only ones that need to be uplifted sometime
:melmel:
we ALL need compassion and understanding
Which is why I sorta gave Keke Wyatt a pass for her mess Once I took into consideration her biracial upbringing with a crazy, racially insensitive White mother who called her nigga
and why I always say "wait let's not be so quick to dismiss the 'mixed struggle' guys cuz it's a different experience . It's not all peaches and cream just cuz someone has lighter skin and curly hair."
So don't play that card with me hun. I'm here for EVERYONE that is under the Black umbrella. I urge us to have understanding for all of us and what we go through individually . But I will ESPECIALLY slice n fuckin dice for Black women .
Passed my first woke exam
Exclusivity and Gucci for all
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i foresee u getting pistol whipped before today ends
this faux outrage era kills me
Quote from: Niggahontas 🦅 on February 14, 2021, 09:25:47 AM
i foresee u getting pistol whipped before today ends
U whip, I shoot
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It's not that deep
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Colorist!
shut the fuck up
did u just call me soot