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Title: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM
https://www.brides.com/story/how-long-should-you-be-engaged-before-marriage

Alot of this stuff they're saying is true.

I know for ME ... if a man puts a ring on my finger he's not gonna have me waiting YEARS
like ... 3 years for example ... just a random number out of the air.

but anyways, just something i was researching today for no reason.

Happy Monday everybody, all love, all positivity!
love you guys!
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on April 05, 2021, 11:38:12 AM
You're so rude
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 11:38:29 AM
sddddssdddddffddddffddddddfffdssddfff
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Plastic. on April 05, 2021, 11:44:27 AM
you're such a mess  :kii:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Nine on April 05, 2021, 11:48:45 AM
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 11:51:07 AM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM

I know for ME ... if a man puts a ring on my finger
n
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 11:52:23 AM
ahem, I mean Im sure you will find love and be swept off your feet in no time Bent
:popeyes:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:54:23 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 11:51:07 AM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM

I know for ME ... if a man puts a ring on my finger
n
:guys:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 11:57:55 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 11:51:07 AM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM

I know for ME ... if a man puts a ring on my finger
n
sddddfffffddfggg
:ummwhat:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM
I'll have you know, Raymond, that I can have a man..

Lots of men want me!

however .... i'm a strong indepen' cis pan dom masc top male!

and honestly I'm intimidating. So right now I'm just too focused for a MAN

I'm independent so I'm just not ready to run to an altar for man ... tbh

kudos to your ... significant other ... for waiting but ... nah
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on April 05, 2021, 12:04:19 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 11:57:55 AM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 11:51:07 AM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM

I know for ME ... if a man puts a ring on my finger
n
sddddfffffddfggg
:ummwhat:
mmsmxmdmxmdd
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on April 05, 2021, 12:04:32 PM
Ndnxndjd these two are comedy
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:09:30 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM
I'll have you know, Raymond, that I can have a man..

Lots of men want me!

however .... i'm a strong indepen' cis pan dom masc top male!

and honestly I'm intimidating. So right now I'm just too focused for a MAN

I'm independent so I'm just not ready to run to an altar for man ... tbh

kudos to your ... significant other ... for waiting but ... nah
ok...
Im sure this is all true :raycharles2urmess:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:11:34 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Cartierline on April 05, 2021, 12:18:18 PM
xvchjxchxcjvh

Bent is just MESS personified
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 12:24:30 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:11:34 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
wth

.... what's going on ... what day is it?!
(https://media.tenor.com/images/025dc8e62d4818299002f2fd73355fe2/tenor.gif)
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Kaeli. on April 05, 2021, 12:37:55 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:36:40 AM
like ... 3 years for example ... just a random number out of the air.
CCCCCCVCGHGHZHZHZ

Alright lemme go find the thread that prompted this
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:55:48 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 12:24:30 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:11:34 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
wth

.... what's going on ... what day is it?!
(https://media.tenor.com/images/025dc8e62d4818299002f2fd73355fe2/tenor.gif)
OPPOSITE day apparently  :nowgorl:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:02:00 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:55:48 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 12:24:30 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:11:34 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
wth

.... what's going on ... what day is it?!
(https://media.tenor.com/images/025dc8e62d4818299002f2fd73355fe2/tenor.gif)
OPPOSITE day apparently  :nowgorl:
sssssss

well you know questioning pronouns is grounds to be canceled these days right
i'm triggered!
and I would hate to see you walking into work one day and they stop you for hate speech
:trannyjblige:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 05, 2021, 01:19:23 PM
if u like it den u shoulda put ah ring awn eht

oh oh oooh oh oh oh oooh oh oh
oh oh oh. :trannyjblige:
oh oh ohhhh oh oh Ohhh ohh oh oh ohh
oh oh oh. :plea:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:24:02 PM
Quote from: ATL Shawty on April 05, 2021, 01:19:23 PM
if u like it den u shoulda put ah ring awn eht

oh oh oooh oh oh oh oooh oh oh
oh oh oh. :trannyjblige:
oh oh ohhhh oh oh Ohhh ohh oh oh ohh
oh oh oh. :plea:
I remember once upon a time
When, when I
Would never ever
Do anything
To hurt you, oh yeah
But tonight I'm gonna
Tonight I'm gonna yeah
I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do

(https://media1.giphy.com/media/lL20ZCkHV511xPNCSp/200.gif)
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 05, 2021, 01:24:38 PM
Fnnfnfnfnf


WOO!
jea! :trannyjblige:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:07 PM
ds;jfh;dskfase;klfksdlfjl;adsfj;skdfjs;dkfjs

these lyrics

I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do

Oh man
Don't tell nobody, oh
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody
Don't tell nobody
I remember once upon a time
When, when I
I would never ever
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
And I'm so sorry baby
But tonight I'm gonna
I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

Go the FCK AWF TAMAR, WANDA, AND TRINA!!!!!!!  :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:47 PM
I can't at Toni using her sisters for clean backs and then adding the coos  :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:32:31 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:07 PM
ds;jfh;dskfase;klfksdlfjl;adsfj;skdfjs;dkfjs

these lyrics

I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do

Oh man
Don't tell nobody, oh
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody
Don't tell nobody
I remember once upon a time
When, when I
I would never ever
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
And I'm so sorry baby
But tonight I'm gonna
I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

Go the FCK AWF TAMAR, WANDA, AND TRINA!!!!!!!  :kii: :kii: :kii:
OMG this just took me back

Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you


GO TF AWF Tamar .... FCK!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UXVBzSBLM_c

crazy suicidal BALD ho
:stressed: :stressed: :stressed: :stressed: :stressed:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: CHOKE on April 05, 2021, 01:53:44 PM
Well King waited for me 

He actually proposed when I was junior we didn't actually tie the knot until 2018
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Hatsumomo on April 05, 2021, 01:54:33 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:07 PM
ds;jfh;dskfase;klfksdlfjl;adsfj;skdfjs;dkfjs

these lyrics

I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do

Oh man
Don't tell nobody, oh
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody, yeah
Don't tell nobody
Don't tell nobody
I remember once upon a time
When, when I
I would never ever
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
Do anything
To hurt you
And I'm so sorry baby
But tonight I'm gonna
I'mma take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my finger
Take this ring off
Take this ring off my, my left hand
Get my thing off
Get my thing all the way off yeah
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do
That's what I'mma do


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

Go the FCK AWF TAMAR, WANDA, AND TRINA!!!!!!!  :kii: :kii: :kii:

They ATE that song alive
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: L0NZ. on April 05, 2021, 02:15:49 PM
Long.

assss you know.


that.

I can have any man I want to baby that Actual. And Factual. 
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 05, 2021, 02:17:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:47 PM
I can't at Toni using her sisters for clean backs and then adding the coos  :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
'[lfkmplejo[nikpbafw'bipnwoiwbfpauv'yiwfubiwnwfibpuofwvwfbifwfwuwfwf

she was lazy af and i lived

a GOD-lo mess owt
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 05, 2021, 02:17:54 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 05, 2021, 02:15:49 PM
Long.

assss you know.


that.

I can have any man I want to baby that Actual. And Factual.
;,'mlonk;ibjuv :woohoo:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 02:27:49 PM
ssssssssssssss

really so sad how they made Chil' wait until the song was almost over to say a few thangs .... so sad
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 05, 2021, 02:39:08 PM
For couples that are the real deal  the time doesn't matter Ppul honestly jump in early because if they wait they know they are less likely to want it when all sides of the person come out 
3 to 4 years is a healthy length of time to experience all you need to  to know if you still wanna ride with them 
because real  connections deepen after that time 

so its a bit subjective but we are trained and coaxed to marry when you have a baby and marry when you want to fuck and marry when you want to live together
when really you should experience alot of these things as part of the process of do you want to marry not a permission slip to enjoy your relationship 

more bible shit
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: JCJ on April 05, 2021, 03:12:45 PM
n


If you're at the point of engagement you already know you want to be married
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 03:36:05 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 05, 2021, 03:12:45 PM
n


If you're at the point of engagement you already know you want to be married
(https://media.tenor.com/images/347757f8138589031dcd0a48f96f2346/tenor.gif)

say it! .... cause I'm not gonna be waiting in the wings for a fairytale! you gotta show me

TBH ... I lowkey think Ray needs to push it to THIS year, but ... I keep my friend advice to myself
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: JCJ on April 05, 2021, 04:12:28 PM
Smnfngmh



:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Amazing on April 05, 2021, 06:43:58 PM
Quote from: ATL Shawty on April 05, 2021, 02:17:00 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 01:25:47 PM
I can't at Toni using her sisters for clean backs and then adding the coos  :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
'[lfkmplejo[nikpbafw'bipnwoiwbfpauv'yiwfubiwnwfibpuofwvwfbifwfwuwfwf

she was lazy af and i lived

a GOD-lo mess owt

On their show she said many times that she ain't got the damn to do no damn do wop pops
:plea:

That is what four younger less successful sisters are for.
:plea:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Hotfuzz07 on April 05, 2021, 09:08:22 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 12:24:30 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 05, 2021, 12:11:34 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 05, 2021, 12:10:03 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 11:58:47 AM

however .... i'm a dom masc top male!

:usuresis:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
s
wth

.... what's going on ... what day is it?!
(https://media.tenor.com/images/025dc8e62d4818299002f2fd73355fe2/tenor.gif)

Whitney was such a kii with her facial expressions during these award shows.  :kii:  What happened ?
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: b7 on April 06, 2021, 12:16:56 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on April 05, 2021, 12:04:32 PM
Ndnxndjd these two are comedy
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Amazing on April 06, 2021, 02:16:43 AM
I don't wanna be tied down.
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on April 06, 2021, 11:23:48 AM
dw, no would want to be in bondage with you
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Amazing on April 06, 2021, 12:57:46 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on April 06, 2021, 11:23:48 AM
dw, no would want to be in bondage with you

Except you my stalker. ❤️
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Kalifornia. on April 06, 2021, 08:04:02 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on April 05, 2021, 12:04:32 PM
Ndnxndjd these two are comedy

!!! Rfgggtgghhuujbb

Their back & forths crack me up
Title: Re: Experts are reporting longer engagements, mean shorter marriages
Post by: Kalifornia. on April 06, 2021, 08:10:16 PM
Quote from: Bentley. HARRIS! on April 05, 2021, 02:27:49 PM
ssssssssssssss

really so sad how they made Chil' wait until the song was almost over to say a few thangs .... so sad
Fvvbbbbbhhh

Hoooooo baybeh!