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Title: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 07:48:25 AM
https://youtube.com/watch?v=zY5fZKSHdAs
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 08:05:27 AM
I Agree but the problem is it seems this is all based on her need for validation from a man.

My daddy said don't go out side with nappy hair and chipped nails, my husband said if u look good you feel good, ladies how u gonna get a man lookin like a mammy?

Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:26:05 AM
Was becoming obese a part of the "keep yourself together" package her daddy instilled in her. 
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:27:47 AM
Speaking of daddy, the fact that she refers to her husband as "daddy" and they way they both seemingly pressure her to cross her fkn T's speaks loudly. 
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 08:30:15 AM
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 08:30:28 AM
The more I think bout it the more am interested in why this is acceptable for niggas but not Black women.

I really do feel for them. They gotta be the backbone of their community AND deal with this mess
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 08:31:03 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:27:47 AM
Speaking of daddy, the fact that she refers to her husband as "daddy" and they way they both seemingly pressure her to cross her fkn T's speaks loudly.

What are you implying?
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: klappa. on May 27, 2021, 08:34:18 AM
this dumb ass gor ruined her career by being an ignorant, angry bitch.

imagine taking any sort of advice from ha  :dead:

rock ur bonnets quees
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Edge gorl on May 27, 2021, 08:35:34 AM
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Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 08:35:56 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:26:05 AM
Was becoming obese a part of the "keep yourself together" package her daddy instilled in her.
i was def thinking one could argue that it def falls under the umbrella of "self care" and "letting urself go"

There's definitely a tinge of misogyny under these statements she's making ... especially with her referencing how a male figure in her life told her how to present herself as a woman

And I'm honestly surprised she's talking about her father in this light because from what I remember her saying, she calls her husband "daddy" because her real father wasn't there . And that he He was her first solid father figure

I'm confused goddess
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 08:46:08 AM
And I wonder if she's taken time to address young black men and their appearances as well

Cuz everything she's saying is based on some "a man will NEVER want u or approach u if you lookin like that!" mess that she's pushing

Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on May 27, 2021, 08:51:35 AM
Who in 2021, listens to Monique.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 08:53:52 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on May 27, 2021, 08:51:35 AM
Who in 2021, listens to Monique.

Hey Sis, see how that BLM lady got shot by her black Kangs?

:damselindistress:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:57:19 AM
Quote from: ring off on May 27, 2021, 08:35:56 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 08:26:05 AM
Was becoming obese a part of the "keep yourself together" package her daddy instilled in her.
i was def thinking one could argue that it def falls under the umbrella of "self care" and "letting urself go"

There's definitely a tinge of misogyny under these statements she's making ... especially with her referencing how a male figure in her life told her how to present herself as a woman

And I'm honestly surprised she's talking about her father in this light because from what I remember her saying, she calls her husband "daddy" because her real father wasn't there . And that he He was her first solid father figure

I'm confused goddess

SHIT
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on May 27, 2021, 09:41:55 AM
Quote from: Banana Powder🦋 on May 27, 2021, 08:53:52 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on May 27, 2021, 08:51:35 AM
Who in 2021, listens to Monique.

Hey Sis, see how that BLM lady got shot by her black Kangs?

:damselindistress:
Hey Ngyuen, you never replied to my post showing that cracker attacking those police officers and still getting coming away unarmed
:helloimangie:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 09:53:34 AM
Change the subject then

:gotchafag:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: yummy on May 27, 2021, 09:58:45 AM
"My husband says, my daddy says, this brotha said"

Girl shut tf up. Every woman doesn't live her life around validation from men. 
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Nine on May 27, 2021, 10:00:15 AM
This is giving big "pick me" energy.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 10:02:15 AM
She lost some weight, and now she feel like she can give advice to everybody

Fro did the same thing
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Plastic. on May 27, 2021, 10:18:54 AM
fro, just slap that bitch.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 10:23:48 AM
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Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 10:24:39 AM
I couldn't careless about what everyone else is doing tbh

long as my personal mess and bag are together

The gorls can be walking around to work with shower caps on... none of my business

Let black women do what they want
"If I was ur supervisor..."

Ur not tho.


Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Marilyn on May 27, 2021, 11:23:32 AM
Monique better sit her fat unemployed ass down. I personally would never and prefer a cute top knot knot turban or hat but I don't judge the next woman who do. Mind the business that pays you.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Justaway_ on May 27, 2021, 11:25:42 AM
Quote from: Banana Powder🦋 on May 27, 2021, 10:02:15 AM
She lost some weight, and now she feel like she can give advice to everybody

Fro did the same thing

Wtf
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 11:31:05 AM
Quote from: Marilyn on May 27, 2021, 11:23:32 AMMind the business that pays you.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 11:33:08 AM
Period.

for some reason it's always open season on telling black women what to do :disgusted:

mo'niqye is completely clueless about the mess she's participating in
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: CHOKE on May 27, 2021, 12:29:18 PM
I can see both sides
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: JCJ on May 27, 2021, 01:55:15 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on May 27, 2021, 09:41:55 AM
Quote from: Banana Powder🦋 on May 27, 2021, 08:53:52 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on May 27, 2021, 08:51:35 AM
Who in 2021, listens to Monique.

Hey Sis, see how that BLM lady got shot by her black Kangs?

:damselindistress:
Hey Ngyuen, you never replied to my post showing that cracker attacking those police officers and still getting coming away unarmed
:helloimangie:

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Kalifornia. on May 27, 2021, 02:02:10 PM
I hate seeing those damn bonnets out in public.

I wear one for my hair when I go to bed, but I'd never leave the house in that shit.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 02:36:22 PM
Yea it does look foolish but I would never tell someone not to do it. I'd just wish they wouldn't  :justabit:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: 'ology on May 27, 2021, 02:39:33 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 02:36:22 PM
Yea it does look foolish but I would never tell someone not to do it. I'd just wish they wouldn't  :justabit:
!!!!!
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 02:41:37 PM
!!!

I got bigger fish to fry than worryin about what the next ho got on ha head 
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Edge gorl on May 27, 2021, 02:41:43 PM
Quote from: Justaway_ on May 27, 2021, 11:25:42 AM
Quote from: Banana Powder🦋 on May 27, 2021, 10:02:15 AM
She lost some weight, and now she feel like she can give advice to everybody

Fro did the same thing

Wtf
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Oh alanna! City gorl!
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 02:44:46 PM
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im def not one of the girls who drop a few pounds then morph into some health expert

giving out unsolicited advice and giving an "ewww! Omf do u know how many calories that has?" Mess owt as if they weren't just chomping on 5 cheeseburgers at once a few months ago

even when ppl proactively ask me what I did to drop it so quickly I keep it simple. I cut back on food and got my ass outside for a little exercise

and that's the truth. I'm not a health nut and don't pretend to be :omf:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: 'ology on May 27, 2021, 02:46:50 PM
Quote from: ring off on May 27, 2021, 02:44:46 PM
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im def not one of the girls who drop a few pounds then morph into some health expert

giving out unsolicited advice and giving an "ewww! Omf do u know how many calories that has?" Mess owt as if they weren't just chomping on 5 cheeseburgers at once a few months ago

even when ppl proactively ask me what I did to drop it so quickly I keep it simple. I cut back on food and got my ass outside for a little exercise

and that's the truth. I'm not a health nut and don't pretend to be :omf:

Z
Morph that mouth in a closed formation.
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Kalifornia. on May 27, 2021, 02:47:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 27, 2021, 02:36:22 PM
Yea it does look foolish but I would never tell someone not to do it. I'd just wish they wouldn't  :justabit:

This
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 27, 2021, 03:02:00 PM
Quote from: 'ology on May 27, 2021, 02:46:50 PM
Quote from: ring off on May 27, 2021, 02:44:46 PM
Hdbrnfnfnfncnnf

im def not one of the girls who drop a few pounds then morph into some health expert

giving out unsolicited advice and giving an "ewww! Omf do u know how many calories that has?" Mess owt as if they weren't just chomping on 5 cheeseburgers at once a few months ago

even when ppl proactively ask me what I did to drop it so quickly I keep it simple. I cut back on food and got my ass outside for a little exercise

and that's the truth. I'm not a health nut and don't pretend to be :omf:

Z
Morph that mouth in a closed formation.
no :trannyjblige:
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Rxxf on May 27, 2021, 03:33:00 PM
If my mother or sisters want to wear a bonnet, that's what the fuck they'll do.
Fuck all this. 
Title: Re: Mo’nique to Black women: “Stop wearing bonnets in public ! “
Post by: Freemala Harris on May 27, 2021, 04:30:58 PM
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