Being straightforward with people

Started by Herb., March 20, 2016, 06:59:41 PM

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Herb.

March 20, 2016, 06:59:41 PM Last Edit: March 20, 2016, 06:59:58 PM by Herbie
How do you guys feel about it?

I'm learning that getting straight to the point is more effective than beating around the bush. Saying your piece, being clear with it, and keeping it moving along.

Rxxf

BRANDY

Herb.

March 20, 2016, 07:03:29 PM #2 Last Edit: March 20, 2016, 07:03:56 PM by Herbie
I've learned that its also a regional thing.

In NYC, people are known for getting straight to the mess, no chaser. :dead: it's really the NYC attitude. it's so fast paced that no one has time to slow down and be extra cautious I suppose.
but here in the south, people are so much more easy on things. they beat around the bush, they're a lot more shady with their mess.

BranLover

Yea, I agree. Kelly Rice is fckin fat and needs to lose weight...FAST!

Herb.

Quote from: NexTae on March 20, 2016, 07:15:08 PM
Yea, I agree. Kelly Rice is fckin fat and needs to lose weight...FAST!
ssnsdsndn

that towing company was pretty str84ward with tbull

BranLover

sssssssssxxdd


So was that surgeon when Jelly thought she could just get the fat sucked out without losing some of it on her own.

downtownbrown

Yes. But never do it with ill intentions. Always with love.

Unless the point is to drag cause they had it coming or something.

RekeRig

I've definitely been learning that in my day to day as well. Saves the confusion :dead: you can agree or disagree, but I associate beating around the bush with passive aggressiveness and that just won't DO

Can't fucking stand it or respect it

RekeRig

You can be tactful and still get your point across, but don't sugarcoat

King82

Quote from: Herbie on March 20, 2016, 07:03:29 PM
I've learned that its also a regional thing.

In NYC, people are known for getting straight to the mess, no chaser. :dead: it's really the NYC attitude. it's so fast paced that no one has time to slow down and be extra cautious I suppose.
but here in the south, people are so much more easy on things. they beat around the bush, they're a lot more shady with their mess.

I've noticed this a lot living down south. People here can be very passive aggressive and feel as though it's more respectful to not say anything at all. It's phony.

Herb.

Quote from: NexTae on March 20, 2016, 07:22:02 PM
sssssssssxxdd


So was that surgeon when Jelly thought she could just get the fat sucked out without losing some of it on her own.
fuck u.

Angel In Disguise

I'm always straightforward with people.

I don't have any friends, but my family loves me.   :letsmessfag:

RekeRig

Quote from: Angel In Disguise on March 20, 2016, 08:48:19 PM
I'm always straightforward with people.

I don't have any friends, but my family loves me.   :letsmessfag:
:omgwatshappening: