Toni and Tamar are very similar to Ray J & Brandy in the sense that, when the older one listens to the younger one, things tend to work out. Maybe not always, but its interesting that when the older sibling finally concedes that they don't know everything (none of us on Earth do) and take time to actually hear a fresh take and perspective, it's not always a bad thing
Tamar convinced Toni to participate in this reality show and it was the best thing she could have done. A lot of them are genuinely happy now and moving in the right direction
TD Jakes was a big help with that. Ray J had been telling Brandy for years that it didn't make sense for her to keep signing one year deals with these major labels and crooks, and she wasn't listening until recently
