How Important Is Sex In A Relationship To You?

Started by D.I.E.G.O., June 30, 2016, 05:04:22 PM

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Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:53:36 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on June 30, 2016, 05:51:56 PM
Intimacy is an integral part of a relationship, but if you have great chemistry/connection with someone...won't that make the sex better in the long run?

I've always believe the emotions tied to love make for better sex.

Quote from: imani on June 30, 2016, 05:48:54 PM
It's not important to me at all. I learned that you can have crazy sexual chemistry with someone and it'll just become a fleeting feeling eventually. You become an object of their desire and the feeling of lust will fade. I would take genuine love and passion over that!

both of these posts >

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:23:00 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on June 30, 2016, 05:19:49 PM
Honestly I would take a good solid relationship over great sex anyday. I was in a relationship where the sex was crazy good but the dude had no communication skills so it was reduced to a fwb situation, then just a hit and run.
Just sounds like u need to make a move :dead:
I can't take y'all with this one or the other.  Its needs to be ATLEAST a bit of both or ur getting served papers tbfh
oh no doubt :dead: I thought we were just discussing lack of fulfillment to an EXTENT sssssd not a complete carcass in bed. No way

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Quote from: BENTLEY! on June 30, 2016, 05:30:13 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.

Like... the passion alone  :dead:
and that feeling when somebody you love does something NASTY and shocks the shit outta you


"Babe.... I ... I can't believe you did that?"


"Do it again"
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downtownbrown

Unless you're just not compatible sexual role wise (I believe that CAN'T be changed), then good sex can be taught.

I didn't believe that until I was seeing this guy earlier this year. Sweet and handsome all the way around, the first time we had sex... HORRIBLE! The thing that was cool is that he asked me how it was and I let him down easy by saying, it was ok, but could be a lot better. I gave him my thoughts and I guess he took mental notes because the next time was ABSOLUTE FIRE! Whew! Ddy knocked it out the fucking PARK! We would still be together if I didn't move. I think about that sick and stroke quite often... :'(

So yes. It is important. unless they are just stubborn, or incompatible to you (in that case you don't need to be with them anyway), teach and get your life Prof. Cack!

Jon


leftout

Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:20:58 PM
But yea,  i need to feel chemistry with someone.  I like that hot n heavy kinda stuff. I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied,  sorry.  Im an all or nothing guy tho. Like those guys who will date an "ugly" because fat ass so HEY. Nah, i need to be fully into u. U couldnt even suck me off if im not IN, pass. So there will be no discounting shit in an effort to make some shit work. Certain things are negotiable, sexual chemistry aint one of em
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you're never gettin any cuddy

Real

Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:20:58 PM
I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied,  sorry. 

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BAPHOMET.



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Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on June 30, 2016, 05:45:14 PM
If you put it down right, like the way I want it, play ya cards right - maybe we can fall in love. Lol!
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Lol!

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Quote from: downtownbrown on June 30, 2016, 07:27:38 PM
Unless you're just not compatible sexual role wise (I believe that CAN'T be changed), then good sex can be taught.



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Quote from: Drais. on June 30, 2016, 06:48:43 PM
Yeah

And I've had bad partners that turned into a great partners with a bit of training. They just have to learn your body and what stimulates you.
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What's great for you, may not be shit to anyone else


SouravMay

Sexual chemistry is a strong indicator of romantic compatibility to me.
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BigDawg

Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on June 30, 2016, 09:23:38 PM
It's not that important. As long as they treat me right, that's all I care about.
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Exactly, because lets say you are with a great person and the sex is poppin but something happens that leaves them unable to perform...an illness, disablity or disfigurement, then what? If you are only in it for the sex and that is taken out of the equation, what are you left with?