being bored as hell pays off a bit...
I finally figured it where its coming from, it's actually coming my
father's side of the family.

I was bored as hell tonight just randomly checking my DNA cousin matches, and Every one of my paternal DNA matches have SouthEastern Bantu as one of their main heritages on ancestryDNA. This is intriguing because it's very rare for AA's to score "SE Bantu" as a main part of their DNA makeup, most of us were pulled from West Africa for slavery, and that is usually reflected in every part of our main African DNA results.
I've been assuming that any different/unique thing about my results just had to be from my
mother's side but I need to remember it's half/half. Regardless of which side I am more connected with.

Who the fuck is in my father's family tree from that part of Africa?

this is actually creepy as fuck cuz its so consistent.
I'm looking for any evidence of South/East Africans being pulled over here into slavery but I can't find it. I'm contacting every one of my paternal matches now. I want to find this ancestor. whoever it is, they're pretty close to me...it's 13% of my mess.
which means wherever its coming from, it's only 2 generations away.