I owe my grandmother an apology...

Started by Herb., September 12, 2015, 11:05:47 AM

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Herb.

September 12, 2015, 11:05:47 AM Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 01:03:53 PM by Herb.
When I originally got my ancestryDNA results I called her up like ummm Granny there's no readings of Native American in my blood, not even a trace.  :uhh: I remember her telling me that her mother was partly NA, so it confused me as to why a trace of it wouldn't come up in my test. I mean that's my great grandmother, not my super duper 20th great grandmother from prehistoric times. :plzstop: But there is a trace of Native American in the test, I think I was so focused on the African and European contents of the test -- because they were the strongest traces --- that I didn't pay attention to anything else that popped up.

It may not be as strong as my grandmother's trace would be, but it shows that she wasn't talking under an assumption. DNA shows that it is in my bloodline. I was initially kind of disappointed because I felt like my grandmother was too educated on her family not to know where our bloodline stems from, but at the same time, DNA is so sporadic and unpredictable in its distribution that I didn't want to flat out tell her that it doesn't exist in our family simply based off of my individual test..... it may not have shown up for me since I am one generation separated from her.

She's gonna lash the hell out of me.  :plzstop:  :plzstop:

BigDawg


Plank


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BRANDY

Herb.

Quote from: BigDawg on September 12, 2015, 11:10:50 AM
Grams should drag you luv


:stressed: I was so disappointed because I almost felt as if my grandmother could have been one of the many blacks who claim Native American blood but don't really have it in them. Which I feel is ignorance. I think that struck me harder than anything....like nooo not my Granny :stressed: she has no reason to lie.......

"oh yeah! cherokee! melting pot! woo hoo! :cheerup: "


BigDawg

Quote from: Herb. on September 12, 2015, 11:15:34 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 12, 2015, 11:10:50 AM
Grams should drag you luv


:stressed: I was so disappointed because I almost felt as if my grandmother could have been one of the many blacks who claim Native American blood but don't really have it in them. Which I feel is ignorance. I think that struck me harder than anything....like nooo not my Granny :stressed: she has no reason to lie.......

"oh yeah! cherokee! melting pot! woo hoo! :cheerup: "

H

I feel you tho...my great grandmother Mariah said she was full Lumbee... I just said I belie yew gurl



Herb.

Quote from: BigDawg on September 12, 2015, 11:21:48 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 12, 2015, 11:15:34 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 12, 2015, 11:10:50 AM
Grams should drag you luv


:stressed: I was so disappointed because I almost felt as if my grandmother could have been one of the many blacks who claim Native American blood but don't really have it in them. Which I feel is ignorance. I think that struck me harder than anything....like nooo not my Granny :stressed: she has no reason to lie.......

"oh yeah! cherokee! melting pot! woo hoo! :cheerup: "

H

I feel you tho...my great grandmother Mariah said she was full Lumbee... I just said I belie yew gurl


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:plzstop: i was tryna justify it at first . like "oh u know....there weren't as many tools as we have now to really get the tea on ur heritage." but in the back of my mind i still was kinda like  :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:


sdsdsd :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: i feel horrible.

BigDawg


Herb.

September 12, 2015, 11:46:47 AM #9 Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 11:51:09 AM by Herb.
The test also showed I'm part Polynesian. I think these are the things I should have been paying the most attention to, since almost all Black Americans have some sort of European ancestry due to the slave trade. Many of our ancestors were raped and bore the children of their masters. And European blood is so impotent when it comes to features, that even half white/half black kids can come out with the kinkiest hair and darker skin tones.

But at least I don't feel stupid anymore. I felt so dumb for repeating what my grandmother had told me, when people questioned my heritage.  :plzstop: And kind of embarrassed; too many of us are walking around claiming things we're not. That was the whole point of me doing a DNA test. I want to know facts, not stories.

Herb.

September 12, 2015, 12:43:20 PM #10 Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 01:08:48 PM by Herb.
Quote from: Ralf on September 12, 2015, 11:12:22 AM
Gramz is about to GO IN!
dvy :stressed: :stressed:

I just called her, she was on her way to church.  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
diva on the go! leave a message! :cheerup:

sssss :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

luv this woman :stressed: beautiful/adorable self



Herb.

September 12, 2015, 02:35:34 PM #13 Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 02:36:49 PM by Herb.
just talked with her

she was on the phone like :udontlookok:
like ok i know wat i said
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I mean I should have known better. Her mother's name first name was "Chief" for crying out loud :dead:
but I explained to her why i took the test. i don't want to be a black person claiming blood that isn't in them at all. i'm too old for that. i told her i didn't think she was lying but as an adult i need to find out on my own.