Here's my take on the situation: You just turned 24, would you rather your friend feel uncomfortable in an environment that she shouldn't be in or would you try to plan something for the two of you to do together to celebrate your birthday? Think about that. You need to be considerate of other people's feelings as well. It shouldn't be a ME, ME, ME situation. That's incredibly narcissistic behavior that you're displaying. You want it to be all about you, sorry hun, that doesn't work in the real world. K? And then writing her off because she didn't want to be in an uncomfortable situation. You're being a bitch about it. Simple as that. If I were that friend I'd come up to your fucking face and tell your ass to fuck off and fuck your fucking life.